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Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Abimloaded(m): 6:04pm On Jun 29, 2015
MuhdG:
Alhamdulillah.

If she wants to practice islam allow her and support her if you truly love her.

She must have seen the light in Islam.. so why don't you ask her to show it to you.

And she sighted Darkness in Christianity right

You Muslims are always self centred trying to make everything work in your own way and stylishly criticise the other religion. yet, you claim we serve the same God.

Why not tell her to Change to Xtianity if she truly loves him

Don't be one sided, Be Real!!!

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Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by salam1(m): 6:05pm On Jun 29, 2015
SamConquer:
There is something I Will just say....Any Religion in the world that doe not recognises CHRIST JESUS in all what he is is an empty Religion.and there are doing what somebody calls SALVATION BY IMAGINATION.if they like they pray Five times daily,Fast 20 or 30 days Go to all hajj,all this without Christ in it is Useless.


DIE WIT UR BELEIVE U CANT FORCE ANY1 2 AGREE WITH U, AND WHICH MUMU TEL U SAY MUSLIM DONT RECOGNISE PROPHET ISAH MAY PEACE B ON HIM. D DIFFRENCE IS WE DONT BELEIVE HES GOD HES A PROPHET DAZ OUR STANDS AND IF U CALL HIM D SUN OF GOD because OF HIS MIRACULOUS BIRTH, WAT DO U V 2 SAY ABOUT D FIRST MAN GOD CREATED. PLS USE UR HEAD NOT because U PRACTICE XTIANITY U SEE EVRY1 AS SINNERS

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Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by SamConquer(m): 6:05pm On Jun 29, 2015
Bakrabas:
.you ve made a blantant mistake,the boko haram and all other terrorist are not muslims because "islam" peace and total submission to God of mankind.i cant see that you lack history Zionist and Irgun Extremist are terrorist 4rm the christendom.islam is still the fastest growing religion in the world.the religion wit one language,one God without mediator b4 u cn reach Him,no trinity and prophet muhammad(saw) was d messanger not smal god
"Fastest growing religion"You can never see this phrase attach to christianity because it is an already established religion, it is left for the likes of Islam,Buddhism,Hindu and the likes to meet up to standard...Have you ever seen the economy of UK referred to as "Fastest growing economy"?cause it is already established.but that of countries like Nigeria is refered to as "Fastest growing economy"cause it is yet to reach the peak.

Run along and think about this simple analogy.

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Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Abimloaded(m): 6:07pm On Jun 29, 2015
Minet16:
Lol from islam to Christianity and back to islam again. OP she has tested the two and has made a choice, you either break up or you marry her like that. BTW why must men sacriface? woman no de sacriface? she should give up islam if she loves you.


#@MINET16

@ the bolded, #FACT!!!
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Abimloaded(m): 6:10pm On Jun 29, 2015
salam1:
DIE WIT UR BELEIVE U CANT FORCE ANY1 2 AGREE WITH U, AND WHICH MUMU TEL U SAY MUSLIM DONT RECOGNISE PROPHET ISAH MAY PEACE B ON HIM. D DIFFRENCE IS WE DONT BELEIVE HES GOD HES A PROPHET DAZ OUR STANDS AND IF U CALL HIM D SUN OF GOD because OF HIS MIRACULOUS BIRTH, WAT DO U V 2 SAY ABOUT D FIRST MAN GOD CREATED. PLS USE UR HEAD NOT because U PRACTICE XTIANITY U SEE EVRY1 AS SINNERS


Do you believe the Bible ? Yes / No
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by kimond101: 6:12pm On Jun 29, 2015
Abimloaded:



Do you believe the Bible ? Yes / No

We believe in the pure gospel revealed to Jesus not the bible.

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Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Nobody: 6:12pm On Jun 29, 2015
Abimloaded:


And she sighted Darkness in Christianity right

You Muslims are always self centred trying to make everything work in your own way and stylishly criticise the other religion. yet, you claim we serve the same God.

Muslims worship Allah (S.W.T) christians worship Allah's prophet, Prophet Isah (A.S)

Why not tell her to Change to Xtianity if she truly loves him

Don't be one sided, Be Real!!!
Simple!

Because Islam is the only true religion!

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Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Rilwayne001: 6:13pm On Jun 29, 2015
Missyetty:
]Excuse me, you sound sobinsensitive,

NO. I replied the OP based on what he wrote. A pachydermatous that he is. I expect you direct this post to him and not me.

is that what Islam teaches you?

According to the OP the relationship cannot work , contrary to your own thought below. While his fiance is not even disturbed about their faith difference, he is not satisfied with it. So, what do you expect me to say aside from what I have said

I am a muslim and i understand love can be found anywhere.

Okay, lemme now re-direct your question to you, as a muslimah, is the above what Islam teaches you? that you can marry a non-muslim?

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Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by murmee: 6:15pm On Jun 29, 2015
efilefun:
Fashola is a Muslim and his wife is a devoted Christian and they lived happily so I doubt that's a reason to end the relationship or force your religion on her
Fashola, Tinubu, Amosun etc are political muslims. They are actually Christians at heart!

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Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by salam1(m): 6:35pm On Jun 29, 2015
Abimloaded:



Do you believe the Bible ? Yes / No
i beleive in d old testament not d varios version u v nw a days
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by salam1(m): 6:43pm On Jun 29, 2015
Rilwayne001:


NO. I replied the OP based on what he wrote. A pachydermatous that he is. I expect you direct this post to him and not me.



According to the OP the relationship cannot work , contrary to your own thought below. While his fiance is not even disturbed about their faith difference, he is not satisfied with it. So, what do you expect me to say aside from what I have said



Okay, lemme now re-direct your question to you, as a muslimah, is the above what Islam teaches you? that you can marry a non-muslim?
yea u can marry a non muslim d people of d book not idol worshipers. A MUSLIM CAN MARRY A CHRISTIAN
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Rilwayne001: 6:47pm On Jun 29, 2015
salam1:
yea u can marry a non muslim d people of d book not idol worshipers. A MUSLIM CAN MARRY A CHRISTIAN

I was reffering to a muslimah. Do you know who a muslimah is?
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by otosa(m): 6:50pm On Jun 29, 2015
denedene:
it's no problem bro but watch her carefully make she no leave u go syria
you are talking from experience

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Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by nyabinghi(m): 6:53pm On Jun 29, 2015
oplbycar:
THERE WILL BE PROBLEM. ISLAM NEVER PERMITS A MUSLIM LADY TO MARRY A CHRISTAIN MAN. A STAUNCH CHRISTAIN AND A STAUNCH MUSLIM CANNOT COHABIT SUCCESSFULLY UNDER THE SAME ROOF. PEACE AND VIOLENCE CAN NEVER ATTRACTS.



ITS NOT ALL CRISES THAT CAN BE SOLVED DIPLOMATICALLY. YOU MAKE USE OF FORCE WHERE NECESSARY.


A MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY, AUTOMATICALLY HIS RELIGION SHOULD BE THE FAMILY RELIGION.



THIS IS THE ADVICE I CAN GIVE YOU.
hypocrite does your religion allow muslim men marry your babes
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by tdayof(m): 6:57pm On Jun 29, 2015
SAVEDBABA:
HEHE........................r u saying d god that ask for human blood is d same as d one asking for praises?......waiting ur reply
So their religion asks for blood?
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Danja: 6:59pm On Jun 29, 2015
Congrats to ur babe. Pls stay steer frm her as her new religion forbides her to merry christians
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Nobody: 7:13pm On Jun 29, 2015
nyabinghi:
hypocrite does your religion allow muslim men marry your babes


DO YOU KNOW THE MEANING OF HYPOCRITE? I'M BELIEVING THAT YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT ISLAMIC FAMILY LAW, BECAUSE IF YOU DO YOU WON'T ASK ME SUCH A QUESTION
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Abimloaded(m): 7:14pm On Jun 29, 2015
MuhdG:

Muslims worship Allah (S.W.T) christians worship Allah's prophet, Prophet Isah (A.S)


Simple!

Because Islam is the only true religion!

Mind you, Jesus himself mentioned it in John 14:6
" Jesus answered, "I am the way and the
truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me"

Notice the bolded, he didn't say "Boss, Lord" because that's the believe of you Muslims that Jesus ( the one you call Isah) is a servant of God.

We don't worship him, we only ask through him as he has said that no one gets to the "Father" except through him.

John 14:16 Reads; " And I will ask the Father, and he
will give you another advocate to
help you and be with you forever"

That's where you see the Trinity. The one you people used to describe as serving three Gods.

Father - God

Son- Jesus Christ ( The Lord)

Comforter ( The Holy Spirit)

He is the son of God, He is the way, the truth and the life... If you don't have him, you are not on the way, you are on a falsehood place and you at lifeless without him and that proves your "
Because Islam is the only true religion" Wrong!!!

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Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Abimloaded(m): 7:16pm On Jun 29, 2015
salam1:
i beleive in d old testament not d varios version u v nw a days

Question. it answered yet. The Old testament is in the Bible...!
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by efilefun(m): 7:19pm On Jun 29, 2015
murmee:
Fashola, Tinubu, Amosun etc are political muslims. They are actually Christians at heart!
Nope I don't know about others but I know Fashola way before he became the governor personally and he's a devoted Muslim
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by limamintruth: 7:29pm On Jun 29, 2015
Yomieluv:
My fiance called me on thursday that she's converting to a moslem.

Actually,she was a muslim,but when the mum was going through financial difficulties while growing up,she and her brother went to stay at her uncle's place,who happens to practice christian,which made her practice the family's religion.

She has gone back this year to her mum's place,because her place of industrial attachment is very close to her mum's place.

I thought she was joking,till she came to my side yesterday,and observed her prayer the muslim way.

I haven't made any comment,or taken any decision on that,but my fear is that

1. This is a lady I want t get married to in few months' time.

2. I practise christianity,and I know the importance of uniformity of religion to married couple,and children.

3. I have been worried since,am I over reacting to it?

4. Has anybody been in this situation before,whereby hubby,and wife practise different religion?

5. Should I be worried,or I insist on her to practice christianity?

I need contribution,and advice on how to handle the difference in religion,if eventually we get married.

CC: lalasticlala.


It seems like she is only trying to please her mom(whom i suppose is a muslim) considering that she now stays with the mom.

Anyways, the final decision is yours to make @OP but i'd advise that you discuss with her about your worries & find out from her why she seeks to return to islam once more. Also ask her if she still loves you and will marry you & practise your religion with you.

Nevertheless, i strongly believe she seeks to go back to islam solely out of fear for her life or what her family would say. Hence, do not give up on her yet if truly you love her. I bet she knows all what she'l lose if she decides to marry a non-christian ( cool
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by piagetskinner(m): 7:33pm On Jun 29, 2015
Can two walk together except they be agreed?Amos 3:3
Do not be unequally yoked with unbelivers
2cor 6:14




If u are a christain as u claim to be, u wouldn't be asking those questions...it is clearly and boldly written in the scriptures#may God help u as u decide...because marriage isn't a jamboree, it is a life time affair--a life time contract!once u put ur leg u cannot take it out oo. Choose wisely bro
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by limamintruth: 7:38pm On Jun 29, 2015
nyabinghi:
hypocrite does your religion allow muslim men marry your babes


And if the O.P's fiancee goes ahead & marries him still, what will you do about it? undecided

Remember not every muslim is a fanatic like you. If the O.P's fiancee was like you, she wont even had dated the O.P in the first place or even ever consider converting to christianity.
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by koolsnoop2(m): 7:40pm On Jun 29, 2015
The truth of the matter is that she has gotten one Alhaji to marry already n the only way to get you off her back is to bring religion issue. A Muslim lady will never n I say never marry a Christian. You should stand your ground brother. talk to her if she will change her mind. 2Corinthians 6:14-16 this is the test of your faith brother.
read the scripture over and over n u'll understand the message am trying to pass.
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by kaybee88(m): 7:44pm On Jun 29, 2015
am I suppose to advice you! no I won't. I will advice her rather, the best thing for her is if you can't accept her faith then she should leave you for another guy. simple
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by xtervaganza(m): 8:29pm On Jun 29, 2015
Why anybody would follow anything related to islam is still beyond me
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by jjaku2012: 8:33pm On Jun 29, 2015
things i don't wish my son to be are gay , robber and Muslim. even though my wife who is pregnant is a staunch Muslim.
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by mutter(f): 8:45pm On Jun 29, 2015
My husband is a practicing moslem and a very staunch one as that.
I have to be sincere I have also gone quite deep into Islam once but somewhere along the line I had the deep desire to revert to the religion of my childhood.
Religion is an issue in our family but certainly not a problem.
My children are practicing moslems because we agreed on this before we married. At that stage I did not place so much emphasis on religion. Today I do not think I might agree to such a compromise.
Not because I think one religion is better than the other but because I am very active in the church and my kid`s are then not by my side.
Occasionally the come to church like when there is a function. My husband also comes with them and even goes into the church.
My husband believes his religion is the true religion but I guess we all do somehow.
However he does not stop me from practicing my religion but even encourages me.
I am also very proud of my husband being a moslem because I just love the way he is so devoted to his prayers and he really has faith.
Despite the huddles I think it is also a vast enrichment for our children. They have learnt how to practice their religion and yet respect all other religions. At the end of the day, we all serve the same God.

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Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by refreshrate: 8:56pm On Jun 29, 2015
oplbycar:



ISLAM NEVER PERMITS A MUSLIM LADY TO MARRY CHRISTAIN. ITS ONLY A MUSLIM GUY THAT IS PERMITTED TO MARRY A CHRISTAIN. SO WHICH LIGHT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT HERE?

touchlight

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Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by bimp08: 8:56pm On Jun 29, 2015
christian family could really strip u of ur religion when u want something from them.i have a muslim sister dat went to a christian family member for help, with time she cudnt pray anymore and she had to follow them to their churches in fact she had to join d choir.this same uncle told me dat he wnt come for my wedding if i should get married to a knowledgeable muslim. but why are christian families like dis. so i dnt blame her i think she alwats wanted to be a muslim
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Bloomingbud(f): 9:22pm On Jun 29, 2015
bimp08:
christian family could really strip u of ur religion when u want something from them.i have a muslim sister dat went to a christian family member for help, with time she cudnt pray anymore and she had to follow them to their churches in fact she had to join d choir.this same uncle told me dat he wnt come for my wedding if i should get married to a knowledgeable muslim. but why are christian families like dis. so i dnt blame her i think she alwats wanted to be a muslim

If it were to be viceversal this is what Muslim families too do. Just do what ever you believe in and let peace reign.
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by refreshrate: 9:23pm On Jun 29, 2015
OP 3 things

1. Everyone here saying anything in support of Islam and those saying things because of Christianity only say these things cos they were born into the various religions they support.
Technically more of sentiments than wisdom

2. Muslims marry muslims doesnt guarantee a happy home, islam gives permission for divorce if this wasnt the case and muslim marrying muslim would guarantee a happy home, divorce for no show up at all inside religious teaching
Christians marry Christians and divorces still happen in some 'christain' homes abi i lie?
Muslims marry Christians and they also divorce (just so youd know)

Now what this tells me is that all this theories about being of the same religion things will be ok blah blah blah...fa fa fa faaa foul!

Now comes the third part.

If you really love this girl, and you know you want this relationship, you cant make an omelette without breaking a few eggs o. If you truly know you love this girl, smash am well well, give am belle.
Fold hands cross leg dey wait for she and that her mother to come and ask "Is this the boy?" After that they will arrange wedding between you two weather mosque or church all join, na one day ceremony.
One fried meat no dey spoil fast.
If dem say na nikkah dem want grant dem as long as afterwards shes moving to your house and you continue with your lives.

The important thing here is what is important to you?

The girls religion or the girl?

Like i said if you really love the girl ni o.

Overtime ground go level everybody go sabi where dem stand.

All this talk about Christianity this islam that, which one are we really sure is the correct one?

Guy do wetin you wan do, as long as youre fair to all men, respect and acknowledge the existence of God everything else na jara.

Before they come and convince you that smashing is a sin, remember God forgives its men who make things difficult

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