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Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 11:14pm On Jun 30, 2015
LadyBoss1:
[i]Hey peeps
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!



Please lol how is that unclassy
. . . . . Well, looking at it from another angle, if you actually said those 2 words up there 'bloody and wasted' to his face, perhaps that could be what he was referring to as in him thinking you were classy, but you aren't. He might not even be referring to the fact of you taking or not taking wine. No classy girl will used those words in a guy's presence. Just thinking outta the box! Think about it also Lady!!

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by Toks2008(m): 11:15pm On Jun 30, 2015
LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.


Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys



The endangered life of a lady in a cruel
world of men...a fact file for the women
folk.

I honestly feel great empathy for the ladies because of their vunulrability in this cruel and merciless world of men.

A lady is usually engulfed with the euphoria of been approached by many men yet a woman can recieve love advances from 10men in one week yet all these 10 may have one singular intention of just sleeping with her and dumping her.

While some are kind enough to let her go as soon as they have their way,some men are so wicked that they let her waste many years with them just to latter dump her.

A lady may even have many men ask for her hand in marriage and all these men might just want to marry her for the wrong reasons,some may want her as a sex partner,house maid,baby mama with not even one of them wanting her for what marriage truly stands for.

The most astonishing part is that these men will give no clue about their intentions as some of them will practically beg for your love just to have you open your legs and latter show their true self.

If you are a lady enjoying attention from
many men please slow down and pray to God to prevent men of crazy intent from
approaching you but only let men of pure
intent see you.

GOD HELP OUR LADIES

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by bettercreature(m): 11:16pm On Jun 30, 2015
Ah!!! lala247 bado! The guy should have got you beer lol

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by echo2(m): 11:19pm On Jun 30, 2015
But seriously this story get as he be ooo....I think the op is trying to advertise herself ni ooo....cos I just checked her profile and I noticed she uploaded d pics before creating the post....I think she is seeking guys to woo her ni...

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by Toks2008(m): 11:23pm On Jun 30, 2015
echo2:
But seriously this story get as he be ooo....I think the op is trying to advertise herself ni ooo....cos I just checked her profile and I noticed she uploaded d pics before creating the post....I think she is seeking guys to woo her ni...

Whatever the case maybe i believe she has the right to and as hot as she is,she must have some form of intelligence to "advertise herself" in this polished manner

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jun 30, 2015
Andrew114:
da guy wan dull you,u wil get drunk then he wil take advantage of u.

first Date and even in afternoon ?

Guys desperate sha

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by Batolee: 11:24pm On Jun 30, 2015
LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.


Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys



Oya ladyboss, let's do that lunch again smiley.
We'd be doing mama-put though.
Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jun 30, 2015
I'm here @gurgle
Re: Lunch Date Experience by echo2(m): 11:26pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toks2008:


Whatever the case maybe i believe she has the right to and as hot as she is,she must have some form of intelligence to "advertise herself" in this polished manner

smh

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 11:26pm On Jun 30, 2015
undecided undecided undecided
Toks2008:


The endangered life of a lady in a cruel
world of men...a fact file for the women
folk.

I honestly feel great empathy for the ladies because of their vunulrability in this cruel and merciless world of men.

A lady is usually engulfed with the euphoria of been approached by many men yet a woman can recieve love advances from 10men in one week yet all these 10 may have one singular intention of just sleeping with her and dumping her.

While some are kind enough to let her go as soon as they have their way,some men are so wicked that they let her waste many years with them just to latter dump her.

A lady may even have many men ask for her hand in marriage and all these men might just want to marry her for the wrong reasons,some may want her as a sex partner,house maid,baby mama with not even one of them wanting her for what marriage truly stands for.

The most astonishing part is that these men will give no clue about their intentions as some of them will practically beg for your love just to have you open your legs and latter show their true self.

If you are a lady enjoying attention from
many men please slow down and pray to God to prevent men of crazy intent from
approaching you but only let men of pure
intent see you.

GOD HELP OUR LADIES
Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toks2008:


Whatever the case maybe i believe she has the right to and as hot as she is,she must have some form of intelligence to "advertise herself" in this polished manner


Muh niggur, muh niggur!!!!! cool cool

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jun 30, 2015
@ op u sure he isn't a secondary school leaver with that kind of attitude?... I mean even if the guy is dry & uninteresting why would he be emphasizing on the wine drinking well, u never liked him from the onset & i guess u made the convo stiff for the poor kid so he kept trying to make u high hoping u would loosen up not knowing u where secretly praying for the date to end ASAP go for part 2...half a bread is better than none..its just dating nobody says it has to lead anywhere & be more accommodating na time the guy dey spend minus the owo involved wink

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by NemzySeries(m): 11:31pm On Jun 30, 2015
robinicule:
niggas can be so unromantic....why would u think drinking to stupor on a date is classy...mehn that guys I.Q is 'sub-zero'
Dat means hiz gonna feature in d nxt mortal combat abi grin
Re: Lunch Date Experience by chaxking(m): 11:31pm On Jun 30, 2015
piicity:
Thank God he enjoys wine and you left him,he will have been dragging you to his side but anyways,is he a whiteman?
dumb Bleep
Re: Lunch Date Experience by chaxking(m): 11:31pm On Jun 30, 2015
redgem:
Ladyboss1 You didn't over react besides the guy had other plans and since you failed his plans, he decided to use mind games on you
clap for ursef mind reader
Re: Lunch Date Experience by Toks2008(m): 11:33pm On Jun 30, 2015
oseod:

Muh niggur, muh niggur!!!!! cool cool
lol
Re: Lunch Date Experience by chaxking(m): 11:34pm On Jun 30, 2015
prettythicksme:
See thinking undecided what if d guy just love gurls who drink?there are some guys like dat.
but dat doesn't give him the right to judge her personality as not been classy some shit re not meant to be said out loud
Re: Lunch Date Experience by fyxboss(m): 11:35pm On Jun 30, 2015
LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.


Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys


wassup

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by chaxking(m): 11:37pm On Jun 30, 2015
Ode yeye
demmy0325:
Goin by his reactions.. He only wants ur body..


U are wastin Ur time going on a Date with a nigerian living abroad.... They are all fake.. undecided



You shud date oyibo man.. Or no oyibo man has ever approach u b4.. undecided undecided
Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 11:38pm On Jun 30, 2015
Andrew114:
da guy wan dull you,u wil get drunk then he wil take advantage of u.

Lets stop and think for a moment,
What if the wine was expensive and he didn't want it to go to waste

Can any of you go to your bosses house for a dinner, be offered food and say you don't want
it doesn't seem polite... it must have taken time and effort to make the dinner perfect for your sake since you are a guest...its only polite to pretend to enjoy the food and show you appreciate the effort.



This is just a speculation, it might not be the guys real intention
Its also possible its he's first time of seeing a girl who doesn't drink wine..

Or he feels girls who don't like wine are "unclassy" and he's ego was too big to keep it to himself..
We can't just assume he wanted to have sex with ladybird

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by guseman(m): 11:41pm On Jun 30, 2015
This is why a lot of ladies out there are still single. You are drawing a conclusion just because of the guy's statement and I am sure he will say it in yoruba 'ase oti e le'.
Most of our ladies has over watched American, Indian and all these love season film where the guy will be acting according to the script of the film.

Our parents don 't have eateries during their time, most of them meet at the stream or under one mango tree. And am not sure the guy will be acting in a natural way.

Am sure a lady like you will say because the guy didn't come down to open his car door for you, you can't date such an unromantic person.

Babe forget o. Back in the days guys do memorise the lines to use and rehearse your moves. These days with what is happening around. Omo na see and buy oo

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 11:43pm On Jun 30, 2015
Guys be using same old bush trick to lure ladies to their bed in broad day light. Bush negro.

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by MrCork: 11:49pm On Jun 30, 2015
LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.


Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys




....ok...so u took a guy to canteen...u order food, wine & convo....& then u get angry coz they guy didn't pay wit his hard earn moiney ?.........serrrrriously....am good back to bed. GOOD NITE! (No ofeeeense) angry

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by pbs4real(m): 11:49pm On Jun 30, 2015
prettythicksme:
See thinking undecided what if d guy just love gurls who drink?there are some guys like dat.
dozn't make senseundecided
Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 11:50pm On Jun 30, 2015
grin grin grin i guess he is clueless!

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 11:50pm On Jun 30, 2015
modelmike7:
. . . . . Well, looking at it from another angle, if you actually said those 2 words up there 'bloody and wasted' to his face, perhaps that could be what he was referring to as in him thinking you were classy, but you aren't. He might not even be referring to the fact of you taking or not taking wine. No [b]classy girl [/b]will used those words in a guy's presence. Just thinking outta the box! Think about it also Lady!!

Are you serious or are you just kidding?
Re: Lunch Date Experience by modelly: 11:51pm On Jun 30, 2015
Babe if u like him, do not judge him with his first impression, tho dat they say last longer, but tins done change, he might just b a nice guy that u might eventually fall for. Give him some more time. I am talkin from experience pls
Re: Lunch Date Experience by sule5727: 11:51pm On Jun 30, 2015
LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.


Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys


chai like seriously see advantage God safe u o!! Eh for go down on u

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 11:53pm On Jun 30, 2015
guseman:
This is why a lot of ladies out there are still single. You are drawing a conclusion just because of the guy's statement and I am sure he will say it in yoruba 'ase oti e le'.
Most of our ladies has over watched American, Indian and all these love season film where the guy will be acting according to the script of the film.

Our parents don 't have eateries during their time, most of them meet at the stream or under one mango tree. And am not sure the guy will be acting in a natural way.

Am sure a lady like you will say because the guy didn't come down to open his car door for you, you can't date such an unromantic person.

Babe forget o. Back in the days guys do memorise the lines to use and rehearse your moves. These days with what is happening around. Omo na see and buy oo

Abi oo...dating and being romantic is not something taught in schools and its not something as natural as eating.

We come across tips and tricks here and there from time to time
So you can't blame the guy for being unromantic

No need to draw conclusions

The guy was rude but the guy who isn't rude might be a womanizer
The guy who isn't a womanizer might be insecure
The guy who isn't insecure might be stingy


............wormsayin cool

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by 9jatatafo(m): 11:53pm On Jun 30, 2015
That guy's statement that he thought you were a classy chic means the guy is confirmed OTONDO. Flee from him and place him where he belongs. That kind of guy could get you drunk and take advantage of you.

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 11:54pm On Jun 30, 2015
Insidous:


Are you serious or are you just kidding?
. . . . SERIOUSLY. . . . . . kidding
Re: Lunch Date Experience by beyoncausme: 11:54pm On Jun 30, 2015
the guy sense of reason is v low....

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