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Re: Lunch Date Experience by Goldmaxx(f): 3:35am On Jul 01, 2015

LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.

Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys

LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.

Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys

are you advertizing ur single status,expect loads of pm from our sex starved niggars.
And besides your backside is a killer.

Re: Lunch Date Experience by dotlanre(m): 3:51am On Jul 01, 2015

guseman:
You don't even know how many days it took the guy to save up for that outing. Now you are wasting his resources.

I am talking from experience. It was during my NYSC days, there is this baby I have been trying to ask out but I knew she is expensive. I saved my allawee and on a faithful Saturday we went to an eatery. I got there an hour before the time to ask for all the prices of items against my budget cos I have once trekked home during my university days and I don't want a repeat of such.

When she came, I just went to bring what I can afford but she said she wanted something else and I told her to manage since I have already paid for them. After the lunch we started gisting till it was getting dark then we took Okada to her place.

When we go to her house, what did she offer me CAPRISONE and biscuits. I felt so disappointed and this is the same girl complaining about what I offered her with my last card. The worst thing is she doesn't even know how to cook.

That was in 2008,she is still single till now. So my dear, in my case I can't even allow you to waste my money. If I meet a girl that is forming,I will say abeg carry go. Many are called but few are chosen.

Lastly, during my active days as for me o. Na Beer parlour I dey go to eat fresh fish and nkwobi. If you are interested, let's go there and I don't need to tell you that am not a gentleman but can be very lovely.

This is my own opinion. Shikena

gaskiya

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 4:17am On Jul 01, 2015

But you're taking it too seriously ! See the kine epistle you wrote about the incident, even put it on nairaland to show the world...I suspect you're a drama actress...the guy self come realize sey you're not worth squat take style invite you out in order to insult you....E be like sey the thing pain you die....na this kine girl go write 18 page treatise because guy no call am for 2 days...easy o, sister, hypertension dey kill

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by Ligxy(f): 4:39am On Jul 01, 2015

seedord247:
Lmaooooo All these villages chicks wont seems to amaze me..

If he wants to F you.. He wwould have asked to come and meet him at the hotel or a bar....

Not all wine are alcoholic and a shot of wine wont get you high

It's 'cease' to amaze me, not 'seems' to amaze me. City man. tongue

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by denisbath(m): 4:44am On Jul 01, 2015

;Dleave the guy and follow me,you will be my classy chic. ;Dleave the guy and follow me,you will be my classy chic.

Re: Lunch Date Experience by Aystarz: 4:45am On Jul 01, 2015

Gurgle:

yeah its good you refused. who knows what the man's problem is.

chai what kind of sad story have you graced me with this evening

SMH FOR SOME MEN O

Sad story kwa? Like this had anything to do with u .You should face front sometimes... Smh.
Op I think u over-reacted there and are now 'paraing' down here because u're simply not into that Yoruba dude.

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by Gurgle(f): 4:46am On Jul 01, 2015

Aystarz:

Sad story kwa? Like this had anything to do with u .You should face front sometimes... Smh.
Op I think u over-reacted there and are now 'paraing' down here because u're simply not into that Yoruba dude.

hahaha but why does my post disturb you. you self why don't you face front

Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 4:47am On Jul 01, 2015

Ligxy:

It's 'cease' to amaze me, not 'seems' to amaze me. City man.

Right. Nne u no de sleep?

Re: Lunch Date Experience by Ligxy(f): 4:52am On Jul 01, 2015

blueseacats:
Right. Nne u no de sleep?

Re: Lunch Date Experience by seedord247(m): 5:05am On Jul 01, 2015

Ligxy:

It's 'cease' to amaze me, not 'seems' to amaze me. City man.

Stop catfish wink

Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 5:38am On Jul 01, 2015

seedord247:

Stop catfish

Yes boss?

Re: Lunch Date Experience by Nobody: 5:40am On Jul 01, 2015

LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.

Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys

He wanted you to be drunk so he could drive you to a nearby motel and take advantage of you. He's the manipulative type. Before you know it he will tell you that smoking hemp and cooking with it is classy. He can even tell you it's classy to practice anal sex, 3x sex, group sex. You are lucky he showed you his true colour from the beginning, not after you must have fallen in love with him. Think of Whitney Houston and Bobby Brown.

Re: Lunch Date Experience by overlord77: 5:50am On Jul 01, 2015

Tomfrench:
if you're really into that niqqa...even if he brings whisky you will enjoy it

Are the youths of these days losing their priorities, what's the big idea of getting a lady wasted on wine during lunch time, while she is at work.
Not cool one bit if you ask me.

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by ArabianPrince: 5:51am On Jul 01, 2015

@chubhie . FYI....I rarely do dates and the last thing on my mind is to attempt impressing a lady on a date.
If by chance I go on a date, it has to be the ladies idea not mine and most probably she will be paying for herself, while I pay mine.Most often times they pay for the dates not me. I don't pay for nobody. Not my thing. No Investment.....
Asking someone to have more wine is not out of place. By the way is it alcoholic or non alcoholic?. As long as he is not forcing it down her throat. And I guess it was only a suggestion. If the hungry chick had taken more wine and requested for more, probably if the guy couldn't afford....she will still come here to rant.
Who goes on a date with someone you got no interest in.? Only hungry chicks. If she had paid for herself....she would have earned more respect, less chances of him talking silly and simply she could have walked away if offended by his statement. But she couldn't. Guess what? A classy chick knows when she has been insulted...but this lady despite been insulted still sat there eating and drinking only to come here whinging. So what is classy in this shandamaya?
Ladies never suggest dates and if you going for one...pay your bills or both. Until then expect more unclassy comments.
Guys stop trying to.impress ladies on dates....dates don't have to be about eating and drinking. Until then.continue to waste your money on hungry chicks like the Op.

Re: Lunch Date Experience by claremont(m): 5:54am On Jul 01, 2015

I think it's normal to have a meal in a restaurant with a glass of wine regardless of what time of the day it is. The view that the guy in question just wanted to get the OP drunk in order to take advantage of her is not tenable, if he wanted to do that, he wouldn't have took her to a public place for lunch in the heat of the afternoon.

Meanwhile, I don't like the idea of coming online to 'diss' a guy who went out of his way to take a girl out for a meal. This is the reason why girls should always pay (or at least volunteer to pay) for their own half of a date, then you can 'diss' all you want. It's childish for a girl to happily indulge in the free food and drinks on a date with a guy, and then go behind his back to run him down.

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Re: Lunch Date Experience by abtmaviz(m): 5:57am On Jul 01, 2015

robinicule:
niggas can be so unromantic....why would u think drinking to stupor on a date is classy...mehn that guys I.Q is sub zero.

Sub zero

Wtf gets wasted at lunch

Re: Lunch Date Experience by topeorekoy(m): 6:02am On Jul 01, 2015

Ladyboss1, the guy see fine babe n wanted to get her high. But come to think of it, what was he gonna do wen he gets u high on a lunch date?

Btw, u set no be small.

You will find ur man

Re: Lunch Date Experience by wordbank(m): 6:12am On Jul 01, 2015

A sign that he's trouble

Re: Lunch Date Experience by dwayni: 6:13am On Jul 01, 2015

You sound just as annoying as your date. Lolz, , ok, so , ok, ok o, ok ok oh. WTF?

Re: Lunch Date Experience by seedord247(m): 6:24am On Jul 01, 2015

Lmaoooo all these local naija men say he want to F her....

They are used to cabin biscuit and zobo drink dateeee

Re: Lunch Date Experience by wordbank(m): 6:24am On Jul 01, 2015

claremont:

Meanwhile, I don't like the idea of coming online to 'diss' a guy who went out of his way to take a girl out for a meal. [s]This is the reason why girls should always pay (or at least volunteer to pay) for their own half of a date, then you can 'diss' all you want.[/s] It's childish for a girl to happily indulge in the free food and drinks on a date with a guy, and then go behind his back to run him down.

It's my date so it's all on me
Be smart on a first date
I talk cool/cocky when need be

Re: Lunch Date Experience by tenajtek(f): 6:24am On Jul 01, 2015

Ladyboss1 Even if your date is ~~jobless~~ unemployed, he should have tried to uphold work ethics.

Re: Lunch Date Experience by Chubhie: 6:25am On Jul 01, 2015

ArabianPrince:
@chubhie . FYI....I rarely do dates and the last thing on my mind is to attempt impressing a lady on a date.
If by chance I go on a date, it has to be the ladies idea not mine and most probably she will be paying for herself, while I pay mine.Most often times they pay for the dates not me. I don't pay for nobody. Not my thing. No Investment.....
Asking someone to have more wine is not out of place. By the way is it alcoholic or non alcoholic?. As long as he is not forcing it down her throat. And I guess it was only a suggestion. If the hungry chick had taken more wine and requested for more, probably if the guy couldn't afford....she will still come here to rant.
Who goes on a date with someone you got no interest in.? Only hungry chicks. If she had paid for herself....she would have earned more respect, less chances of him talking silly and simply she could have walked away if offended by his statement. But she couldn't. Guess what? A classy chick knows when she has been insulted...but this lady despite been insulted still sat there eating and drinking only to come here whinging. So what is classy in this shandamaya?
Ladies never suggest dates and if you going for one...pay your bills or both. Until then expect more unclassy comments.
Guys stop trying to.impress ladies on dates....dates don't have to be about eating and drinking. Until then.continue to waste your money on hungry chicks like the Op.

You've got a point ArabPrince. I don't support going on a date with someone you have no interest in talkless of sharing a meal. She could have other concealed intentions tho.

I don't like the idea of you calling her hungry cos she declined to drink some more wine. Maybe, the wine is not quality enough and not her brand-poor research from the guy. Or perhaps, the lady would have felt more at home with some freshly tapped palm wine in her front.

About not paying for a ladies bills and letting her pick up the bills.....hmmm, this is alien to nigeria where the larger % of the population survives on less than minimum wage. You would be surprised to learn that down here, just making a good impression is all you need to be handed keys to her paradise. Yes it is that cheap and easy. A nice treat added with shopping is always a clincher.

It is never my business what anyone does to stay afloat as long as it doesn't get in the way of my interests. I don't blame anyone but the economic situation of the country.

Me and dates? Hmmm! I'm very old school and an old soul. I'm not into gamesmanship. Retired.

Re: Lunch Date Experience by great664(m): 6:34am On Jul 01, 2015

Gurgle:

....SMH IN CHINESE...

#teamsingle You guys will burst our brains here with Laughter.... How does Chinese people shake head ?

Following closely to see the text or voice note the suppose classy guy will send...

Re: Lunch Date Experience by Gurgle(f): 6:35am On Jul 01, 2015

great664:
#teamsingle You guys will burst our brains here with Laughter.... How does Chinese people shake head ?

Following closely to see the text or voice note the suppose classy guy will send...

with their own style na grin

Re: Lunch Date Experience by adusco(m): 6:54am On Jul 01, 2015

LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.

Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys

chisos!!! so you carry our story come nairaland, Nna mehn hah thon thie!!!!!

Na Joke me I dey o

Re: Lunch Date Experience by fairygeh(f): 6:57am On Jul 01, 2015

The guy is hella annoying

Re: Lunch Date Experience by missbehave247(m): 6:57am On Jul 01, 2015

U were awake all night because of this. Smh

Gurgle:

hahaha but why does my post disturb you. you self why don't you face front

Re: Lunch Date Experience by Gurgle(f): 6:59am On Jul 01, 2015

missbehave247:
U were awaka all night because of this. Smh

LOL no. is it for you to say why somebody was awake undecided

Re: Lunch Date Experience by daresimon(m): 7:01am On Jul 01, 2015

robinicule:
niggas can be so unromantic....why would u think drinking to stupor on a date is classy...mehn that guys I.Q is sub zero.

U r mean and "weekhead" jare. How can sombody I.Q be sub zero.

I don't like it.

Han han

Re: Lunch Date Experience by ajalaolanr(m): 7:02am On Jul 01, 2015

LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.

Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys

The guy wanted to have you high so he would shine your congo!!

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