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Re: Girls night out discussions by 5minsmadness: 9:11am On Aug 04, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:Make me! |
Re: Girls night out discussions by 5minsmadness: 9:12am On Aug 04, 2015 |
tearoses:What? Hmmm. Maybe I'll watch from the sidelines afterall.... |
Re: Girls night out discussions by SAMBARRY: 9:15am On Aug 04, 2015 |
5minsmadness:ok let me start calling them cococandy EfemenaXY Chillisauce tearoses Idowuogbo bukatyne KanwuliaJara come and drive this man away from here this is girls night out |
Re: Girls night out discussions by damiso(f): 9:15am On Aug 04, 2015 |
and I have both i.e An iPhone and a Samsung. I just feel better writing am old fashioned that way . I have a Kindle but I will still be buying books. I just don't think the E-reader gives that turning pages experience. I have Zillions of Bible Apps etc but I still take my Bible to church. That bible is as battered as anything with coat of many colours markings inside but I can cry if lose it. Kimoni:; 1 Like |
Re: Girls night out discussions by SAMBARRY: 9:17am On Aug 04, 2015 |
tearoses:hope you are not in any way encouraging pedophilia |
Re: Girls night out discussions by wisdomiskey(m): 10:01am On Aug 04, 2015 |
yuh guyz shud invite francistony 2 yuh girlz chitchat afterall, gossipin' wit bissshes iz his forte! 1 Like |
Re: Girls night out discussions by freecocoa(f): 10:27am On Aug 04, 2015 |
moca:Lol, thank you. Everyone that knows me keep saying that, Since better late than never, I just might try my luck with law. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by wisdomiskey(m): 10:28am On Aug 04, 2015 |
freecocoa: nah, try yuh luck at getting nd keeping a man. itz d main thing yuh struggle wit in lyf 1 Like |
Re: Girls night out discussions by freecocoa(f): 11:29am On Aug 04, 2015 |
tearoses:I am so interested in this topic. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by Askseek(f): 11:53am On Aug 04, 2015 |
cococandy: I have been itching to ask this question and am afraid I have to one up u here. My friend is married like me for about 15 yrs and we have been friends for about 12 yrs. husbands met through us, we r actually a group of 4 friends that turned into family friends. We are practically neighbors. As in if rice finish in her house she will take from mine. The story started like play until it snowballed into something else. And for the longest I thought her husband was a jerk until forced intervention happened. See story, found out she had never been honest about the issues they were having, I mean she was wrong. Not holding brief for d man but she was more on d wrong. Now they r heading for divorce and it has torn our close group apart. We were the closest and I chose not to take a side but it affected me cos if we did not talk in a day then that day was incomplete. I have been so sad over it, the only choice I see is for the friendship to dry up. How does one handle this other than mind your business. There r some relationships that r so intertwined their business is ur business. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by cococandy(f): 3:26pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
That's probably the only thing left to do. Let the friendship die a natural death. E dey pain sha. Askseek: |
Re: Girls night out discussions by Nobody: 7:36pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Askseek: Thats life dear A very close friend of mine got divorced and after the divorce, it was like suddenly she was set free and her set of friends changed and she would spend weekends out of town etc and in the end we just gradually drifted. When I think of it, it is painful because we were really close Sometimes its really hard, but its just something that one has to accept in life. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by bukatyne(f): 10:03pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
freecocoa: I guessed as much. That's why I hate that 'stay for the kids' advice with So much passion It is going to be So So hard for you to get through to her. She's probably seeing her dad in her guy and.If her mommy can stay with .the dad, why can't she? Sad. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by bukatyne(f): 10:06pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
tearoses: True true. Sometimes I cook in stages If I am going to be busy weekends. I go to market on day A, boil the stock same day or day b and mix the soup on fire day c @Naijababe: How do you store your vegetables? |
Re: Girls night out discussions by bukatyne(f): 10:18pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
moca: Lols It was the boy's thread created for a purpose So we can't blame them from sending us away If we were derailing. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by bukatyne(f): 10:21pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: More like Penis Worshipper You know I say it as I see it @Askseek: Are they willing to try again? |
Re: Girls night out discussions by Nobody: 10:24pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
bukatyne: Okra I cook and portion up and freeze, I buy frozen spinach but kale and other naija type green veggies, I blanch and store in sandwich bags and freeze. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by bukatyne(f): 10:25pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
naijababe: Wetin be Blanch? |
Re: Girls night out discussions by Nobody: 10:27pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Re: Girls night out discussions by SAMBARRY: 10:35pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
bukatyne:you've given yourself perfect name befitting of you. Thank God it came out of your hands yourself. So bukky back to the girls night out discussion. What is the agenda for this today |
Re: Girls night out discussions by Askseek(f): 11:05pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
cococandy:Yes but as a dear friend of mine told me many years ago "we meet to part, we part to meet". It's just sometimes I feel I betrayed her but my head knows that it's time to let go. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by Askseek(f): 11:12pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
tearoses: Yes the partying, I didn't mention. Partying every weekend. It's almost like I don't know her anymore, but u r right. That's life and we move on. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by Nobody: 5:04am On Aug 05, 2015 |
@tearoses, all of us have differences in taste actually. I may like a younger guy but u will not. I learnt that some ladies who marry older guys do that to fill d vacuum of father figure in their lives(not sure if this is true anyway) Personally,i love guys between my age bracket so I won't be compelled to daddy and sir u. A big turn off even when dating anytime a person way older than me approaches me. Don't know why sha |
Re: Girls night out discussions by tollu: 8:41am On Aug 05, 2015 |
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Re: Girls night out discussions by jaybee3(m): 8:57am On Aug 05, 2015 |
I'm here to observe (Gbeborun things) |
Re: Girls night out discussions by innervoice(m): 11:11am On Aug 05, 2015 |
tollu: |
Re: Girls night out discussions by innervoice(m): 11:11am On Aug 05, 2015 |
Re: Girls night out discussions by bukatyne(f): 12:22pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
@Peeps Came across a funny quote.. 'Marriage is a bribe to make the housekeeper think she's a householder'.... Thornton Wilder 'Marrying an old bachelor is like buying second-hand furniture.'.... H. Jackson Brown, Jr. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by Nobody: 12:49pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
This tollu na real badt girl o, kai!!! Small kini I dated an older man and mehn it was no picnic o jare, all his siblings were older than me and expected me to call 'em 'aunty kinikan' Playing with him outside was a no no and don't even get me started on his friends who warned him many times that I lacked respect and was rather arrogant because I always spoke English to me I got asked out by a guy two years younger during my uni days, I told him pointedly that I do not date younger men ni. My oga is almost 4 yrs older and thst is just perfect in my books. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by cococandy(f): 3:34pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Any Man below 5 years older than I am is too young for me. I knew that right from when I still dey belle. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by damiso(f): 3:41pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Had this conversation with someone and just thought to get your thoughts Ladies. Are you totally averse to the idea of living apart from your spouse for long periods? Now I would or have always thought I could not stomach the idea. We have to be together all the time. Especially now that we have little children that could be handful for one person. I always used to say I will never be a married single mother we must be in it together. But as I grow a bit in age and marriage I am beginning to think I am not now totally averse to the idea. The conversation sprung up from a couple I know who live in Canada but the husband took a multinational Job that took him to certain countries in East Africa. The wife said he took the job so they could pay off their mortgage, pay to put their kids though college without taking out a student loan and also to save a bit more for their retirement. Their children are 16 and 13 respectively. They both shuttle between Kenya and Canada but probably see each other every 3 months. I used to think what kind of marriage is that where one person lives somewhere and the other person lives somewhere else but now I think though not ideal ,its not totally the end of the world or the marriage depending on the couple involved and what stage of marriage they are at. Sometimes certain sacrifices have to be made to accomplish certain things and for some people being separated from their spouse for a while( note I used the world a while) might be how they could attain some level of Financial security as a family. I am not too sure if I would be as adamant as before if hubby gets a job that would take him abroad for 2/3 years that could mean we could pay off our mortgage and do some other certain investments within that 2/3 year period. If I got a job that would take me abroad as well I don't know if I would have the heart to leave my kids behind though but unlike before I think I would consider it . I would hate it especially now but I am now a bit more practical to know that children get older they get more expensive. I might not take the job and even be reluctant for hubby to take it but I would not totally reject the idea like I used to. I don't think I would not even consider it a couple of years down the line when my children are the ages of the couple I mentioned. The person I was chatting with was a bit judgemental towards the arrangement saying everything is not money and that being apart gives room for temptations to occur( which I agree might be true and is a valid argument) My argument was we cant totally judge them for their decisions and I understand and can see why they might have agreed to that arrangement. I commented on a thread with the lady who was not happy that she could not join her husband in Europe but I think that case is different as it was a young marriage with no definite end to the separation in sight. So I think both arguments in favour and against are valid BUT something I think could work and not totally ruin a marriage depending on those involved. what are your thoughts? |
Re: Girls night out discussions by freecocoa(f): 3:46pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Okay ladies, so when does it become "expecting too much" in a man? I should give a synopsis for better understanding. Ok so you were in a relationship for say 2 years or more and it was okay, you both were in love but usually argue about things, not like in a quarrelsome way, just tend to see things differently a lot and are both very passionate about your views which kinda makes it get personal most times, but along the line, you noticed he's tilted a whole lot to your side, while still holding unto some of his. He tends to get really angry when he gets angry and doesn't really give people second chances and that's something you don't like, as you on the other hand can give chances die and you wish he was taller than he is, funnier and act in what you believe is a "more civilised" way, he's not bush or anything, you just believe there's still room for refinement. But are you sure this guy loves you? You can say a resounding yes and he does it with a passion that can literally be felt, sometimes you even fear if this is just love, he is extremely proud of you, all his friends place you on a pedestal, you are sure he'd defend you even if they say something not pleasant about you, in plain words, he adores you. Yet somehow, you can't get to look past the things listed, as you keep feeling like if he doesn't meet up to those expectations, you'd never really be happy with him, you realise you love him but just can't seem to admire him. Do you think those things are too trivial a thing to look out for in a man and hold onto? Or is she stuck in lalaland? Cc Bukatyne edwife Cococandy Babygirl naijababe Tollu Mizmycoli( I no trust this spelling) Standd Tearoses Moca Etc etc Eventhough I had my issues with how babyosisi handles some cases, she does give good advice on this kinda topics, I miss her small. |
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