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Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Sowl(m): 9:26am On Aug 09, 2015 |
oreos:I hardly ever comment but I think you need a lil enlightenment from a guys perspective so I would make this an exception ,ask a guy that has had the privilege of deflowering a girl about his experience and he would tell u it wasn't a rosy one coz so much energy is invested in the act so he doesn't hurt the girl in the process simply because she might want to restrain him somehow during the act,now that's for a a woman willing,aside from virgins even the sexually active women also needs effort when its been a while she indulged in the act. Check rape cases that were successfully carried out by the guys involved , you would observe that its either the guy is far older and bigger than the girl in question or the rape was done under duress by the guy with the girl with the use of a weapon, or it was a gang rape by a bunch of guys. No guy in the same age bracket and similar physical features with a lady can successfully carry out rape just like the op and other lady's on the thread have testified to. I am in no way justifying rape coz I believe a lady as the final say on what happens to her body.... But I would advice instead of crying foul every now and then by most of the female populace just make use of the principle "prevention is beta than curing". If you have no emotional or romantic attraction to a guy don't bother visiting him, unless its for a business purpose and that should be done in public places. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by misspicy(f): 9:26am On Aug 09, 2015 |
otiigba1:Yes solved for me,wch I want it to be solved for every lady out there especially teenagers and young adults... Abeg dnt forget to create dat thread o |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:26am On Aug 09, 2015 |
tpiander: Don't mind the shrieking dolt. Just coming up with asinine and unbackable percentages to bolster a false and weak position. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Brugo(m): 9:30am On Aug 09, 2015 |
sonofananimal: Thank you very much. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Mcowubaba: 9:33am On Aug 09, 2015 |
classicB:flawed logic.....there is nothing like you attract ur type ... If we should go by ur logic..then those ur 3 male friends u visited who turned out to be rapist/molesters -are the ur 'type' ??..bcuz the wia ur friends nd the wia attracted to u.. @ topic..this issue will last till eternity- all men are dogs?? Or all nigerian girls are cheats, gold diggers, sluts...all men are the same..bla bla bla.... U hav decided not to visit any male in his house, that's ur opnion nd ur stand....but u won't/can't prevent jenifer from visiting me today by 15.00 .. Ps..all unrepentant rapist will go to hell...rape is evil nd bad!! |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by lepacious: 9:35am On Aug 09, 2015 |
The issue is educating men that a lady's no is no. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Chommieblaq(f): 9:35am On Aug 09, 2015 |
I get your points op, and buh it also depends on the circle of friends n d way one carries herself... I just graduated not quite long, while in school most of my closest pals are guys, ma bestie sef na guy. They respects mi, always in awe of mi, I visits em wella they visits me too, no one of them have ever tried taking advantage of me. A grown up lady is suppose to carry herself with respect, know d kind of play n joke about u play wit d opposite sex, limit the kind of discussion u have wit ur male frnds... Imagine a scenario where a girl discuss even sex wit a frnd that is not ur bofrnd, joke nasty jokes haba the fear God naaa. still not an excuse for rape buh seriously some of us ain't helping matters too. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:36am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Sowl: Hello sir! A guy of the same age as a lady is by far stronger than her and therefore can rape her without the use of weapon. I have four brothers, they are all in their teens. I cannot win a fist fight with my third brother. He is just 15 years old. Now can you please imagine me fighting with my immediate brother or the second guy When it comes to rape, there is no perspective. It is wrong. It is cruel and the perpetrator is to be blamed 100%, be it a man or a woman therefore never in your life should give those stupid points of yours to argue against a RAPE. It is beyond sickening. 3 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by otiigba1(m): 9:36am On Aug 09, 2015 |
misspicy:i will be creating no thread (for more insults and unproven conclusions), as i mentioned earlier nigerians ( both women and men) are not READY to confront this ugly issue RATIONALLY, Rather they are more interested in exchanging insults 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by misspicy(f): 9:37am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Sowl:The bolded is exactly what the Op and several girls are tryinh to bring out frm experience,no woman should visit any male friend in a private place except for reasons stated@boldes buh some guys here are still insisting that good guys exist so we should visit them,mu question to them is,how do I identify a rapist? 4 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by misspicy(f): 9:47am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Chommieblaq:Ma am sorry to say buh I guess you are just lucky buh all wat you typed doz not stop a rapist.....bet me rapist have a very contorted mind set,i know a guy dat brags about having raped all his female friends in his word,he use rape to subdue them. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:48am On Aug 09, 2015 |
ClassicB(OP), much as i accept visiting guys is a primacy of the rape-induced situation, i roundly don't think you expect me to believe stowing such visits is the only sure fire-way to smother the crime.. There are other places where rape can occur some of which are quite co-equal to an extent with the one you posited. Rape doesn't only occur on a visit to a guy's house. It occurs in a car, in the bush, in the church, in parties and suprisedly, of all places, in the apartments of the ladies. History is replete of rape stories where girls were gang-raped in their own apartments by snarky used lovers in concert with their friends. So, what piece of advice do you have to curtail rape in those other places? Should ladies stop riding cars alone with guys in the case of car rape? Should ladies no longer have an apartment of their own in the case of rape in a ladies' apartments? Will really fancy your view on it? Don't you think there is more to r.ape than the places where it often occurs? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by yetseyi(f): 9:50am On Aug 09, 2015 |
SirShymexx: I am very fine thank you. To a reasonable extent I may agree with the 1st paragraph but you do get comfortable with someone you never expect to hurt you. What if he doesnt show signs of uneasyness or the girl doesn't catch the vibe like that 18yr old UNILAG aspirant. A more mature lady might have been suspicious when he began to show some signs of restlessness and on guard but she just didnt know. 2nd paragraph- are there ladies that do that? Now about guarding yourself, a lot of ladies will resort to the OP's suggestion. The issue now is parents and guardians are taking measures which may look extreme some years back. I am spending the weekend with my cousin and his wife told me yesterday while discussing this matter that she can never leave her 15 yr old girl in care of any male except her father not even her own mums brothers and I was like seriously? She made it clear that she does not trust any body with her daughter not even her own brothers. I used to visit big cousins as a teenager without any fear whatsoever. Everybody is now a "potential rapist " Little girls are now being told dont go to uncle xyz's room. Its almost a risk to stay in a house alone with a stronger male. Yesterday I was alone someone who came to do some repairs. I was just unnecessarily at alert just because he was a stronger male. 3rd paragraph - are they really rare? How can they do better. fight harder?, scream harder? break his head.... do what exactly. 4 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by wordbank(m): 9:54am On Aug 09, 2015 |
osewanu:Freedom is life. Tie girls down and watch hell break loose. I wish no wrong and inflict no harm! |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Chommieblaq(f): 9:56am On Aug 09, 2015 |
misspicy:hun that d more reason we should choose our frnds, that allow em choose u, I know nothing I said will stop a rapist, blve mi it goes a long way to help curb these rape issue. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 9:56am On Aug 09, 2015 |
dfrost: I said "most". Dear, I didn't generalise. Sorry about any misconceptions but truly, many home based guys needs proper orientation. They think and behave like lower animals. 3 Likes |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by DonaldGenes(m): 9:56am On Aug 09, 2015 |
opeaceo: iLike this qirl 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 10:02am On Aug 09, 2015 |
misspicy: Please visit nobody excerpt the man you are dating. Visit also when you know it that you need sex, so at this point it becomes consensual. Come to think of it, boyfriends now rape their girlfriends 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 10:03am On Aug 09, 2015 |
hmuhammad: Ode! |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by ebuka440: 10:04am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Classicb, I think that you are wrong about a guy taking you to an eatery. Is it after enjoying the things that he bought for you, then you will look at him so stupid not to have sex with you. I bet you that you are very much wrong. The way its painful for him spending his money for you is the same way he will enjoy making love to you by force. Am I wrong? So, go and sit down |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by misspicy(f): 10:06am On Aug 09, 2015 |
EggovinMma:Boyfriends from hell....lol They be like,why are u collecting my money n u dnt want sex 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by dinachi(m): 10:09am On Aug 09, 2015 |
It is not rape if the lady was scantily dressed, has been involved with phone intimacy with the guy and agreed over the phone to have sex when she comes. There is a big difference between men and women sexually. It is factual, most men cannot control themselves when they get going. And we must tell ourselves the truth most times the man must take the initiative in sex matters when he believes the lady is flashing green light. Now it becomes very awkward when the lady was only just teasing him to know if her sex appeal is still top notch. Unfortunately, at this time the guys hormones are raging and it will require the dicipline of a ramrod straight british officer and the morals of a puritan to control him from taking the plunge! Now check it out inspite of all the laws in the US , rape cases remain. Until the law recognizes the dynamics of sex between men and women and cautions female carelessness, rape will continue to increase. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 10:10am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Antoinne: That is different |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 10:11am On Aug 09, 2015 |
dinachi: Ode! I knew it was you when I read that shit. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 10:12am On Aug 09, 2015 |
eksola01:BY YOUR COMMENT!! YOU ARE A POTENTIAL RAPIST, SO GIRLS WON'T VISIT GUYS AGAIN UNLESS SHE IS YOUR GIRLFRIEND I HAVE SO MANY FEMALE FRIENDS, AND THEM DO VISIT ME SOMETIMES AND SOME WILL EVEN STAY LATE WATCHING THERE GOD DAME FIRM, AND NO SIGN OF SEX WILL BE IN MY MIND. AND SOME EVEN THINK I AM NOT SEXX ACTIVE, THERE BY CLASSIFY ME AS IMPOTENT. WOMAN'S BRAIN ARE JUST FVCKED UP. |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 10:12am On Aug 09, 2015 |
ebuka440: Ode! Pervert! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by ibietela2(m): 10:22am On Aug 09, 2015 |
oreos: Your Father |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by naijaboiy: 10:23am On Aug 09, 2015 |
What a very very very Stúpid and senseless thread created by an illogical female who fails to be reasonable in her line of thoughts. I'm really upset I saw the thread late. Mtcheew! 1 Like |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 10:25am On Aug 09, 2015 |
oreos: go live with yourself |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by Nobody: 10:26am On Aug 09, 2015 |
A country where if a girl is raped, the first question thing you hear is "Maybe she want am","She dressed provocatively","she enjoyed it",. God which kind country be this? What manner of people are we breeding In this country ? papa go rape daughter Lecturer sef go rape students pastors go rape choristers Imam go rape small pikin wey never know know where piss dey comot for body.And these set of animals are walking free, no charges, NOTHING! And then one wonders why nigerian women are naturally aggressive? Without courtesy? How will you get the best from women who before they get to their teens, had been severally molested and raped? A child who gets poked before she gets matured can never be normal. You don't expect a sexually abused child to act like a lady, if you like carry her go the best school. The psychological effective t will remain, no thanks to a society that is bedevilled the worst justice system in the universe, no proper Rape reorientation institutions nor freedom of expression.Even inside police station for this useless country, women are raped and molested, even without CONDOM.DPO dey rape women inside office for police station. Nigerian women, you're living In a society where most of your men hardly gives shiite about you . You're living In a society where they think your"no" is "yes".You are living In a society where your justice system do not give a flying fucck if a knife was on your throat during the rape. Nigerian women if your father rape you, the society will 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by vallyboi(m): 10:26am On Aug 09, 2015 |
my dear ...wen visiting a male frnd alone in his ouz ....expect sensitive touches ...expect kisses.... Nd expect sex .......u can't giv him 1 Nd leave him without numba 2 ....he might die o ....body no b firewood ....conji no gud 4 body ....Bt remember al guys no b d xame no mean say d difference much well well |
Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by naijaboiy: 10:28am On Aug 09, 2015 |
misspicy:I believe your male relatives are inclusive. You'll just drag out baseless assertions from your asshole and drop without cross checking. Nonsense! |
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