Brugo:

No is no? This is unclear.

Anyway, you deliberately quoted me out of context. What do you hope to achieve by that?

misspicy:

Reverse psychology does not work on me man,buh I af not seen wer u debunked any fake rape story in ur comment,u only justified rape,if u forgot or u r too lazy to chck ur comment again,u typed dat,girls dat allow intimate touching and reject sex are to blame if raped,or girls that dress in a revealing manner,dats summary tho...please rape is not to be supported at all,weda fake or not until d rapist is proven innocent

Cutehector:
dats so so wicked... I condemn such.... My cousin told me she was nearly raped too... I was shocked... She confides in me... Even if she was stranded, ask for a nearby hotel and pass d night.. I wonder why she ddnt do dat...

classicB:
What do u mean by "preach"?

classicB:

You believed her cos she is your cousin. What if Twas a random street girl? You'd probably say she lied too. We need to set some things right in our society. I pray she doesn't fall victim of rape.

misspicy:

We are talking abt male friends here not sumone am in a relationship with....

Brugo:


Reverse psychology? Lol. I don't want to ridicule you dear so I'll ignore that part.

If you seduce a man by dressing scantily and engaging in fòreplay, it would be very difficult to convince others that he raped you. You are not a stripper and his house is not a strip club with the attendant rules.

Cutehector:
u r judgin me already.... I neva judged u wen u told me u were nearly raped, I understood wat u must hav went tru..and sighted my cousin as an example... Why den will u say I would probably say she lied.. Did I tell u dat u were lyn? Did I ask u waht did u even go to find in his hous? U ladies r just smth else tho... Am sorry I made a mistake in listenin to u

wordbank:

Who's talking about relationship anyway?
I'm talking about random guy u keep meeting in a public place. Abi dat one na relationship too?

classicB:
Where.do I.even start from Is it.from.numerous cases of rape that.get turned against the woman??
I remembered back.then as a.novice in 100L visiting male frnds didn't.occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.
The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, tho he later.told.me he.could have had.his way . The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go. What if one of these 3guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced.him" "she initiated the sex" "she.brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "
I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went.out innocently to pay a.visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend. This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?
This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of frnds, why won't we come with loads of frnds when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us
I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery
I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a.girl that claimed her male frnd tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes.when I was seeing comments like "did u expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys niw see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.
I don't know what it feels.like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations cos they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.
Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these.animals disguised in human clothing
This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

opeaceo:


You need to hear some, you would be tempted to give them "five alive" ( a huge slap that is), without putting their condition into consideration.

classicB:
Where.do I.even start from Is it.from.numerous cases of rape that.get turned against the woman??
I remembered back.then as a.novice in 100L visiting male frnds didn't.occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.
The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, tho he later.told.me he.could have had.his way . The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go. What if one of these 3guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced.him" "she initiated the sex" "she.brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "
I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went.out innocently to pay a.visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend. This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?
This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of frnds, why won't we come with loads of frnds when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us
I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery
I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a.girl that claimed her male frnd tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes.when I was seeing comments like "did u expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys niw see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.
I don't know what it feels.like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations cos they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.
Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these.animals disguised in human clothing
This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

classicB:

Am sorry for quoting u that way too. But that is what some guys have turned to, pointing accusing finger at the raped girl. I never said your cousin wasn't near rape either

misspicy:

Ur choice,buhvi still maintain that notin jistifies rape,even if a woman like,let her walk naked,she doesnt deserve to be raped

Cutehector:
alryt... One advice, neva live in ur past

Brugo:


Why don't you walk nakèd in protest then? Why bother with any clothes at all?

Youngpo413:
must you keep a male friend?innocent ladies my foot.

misspicy:

We nt talking abt random guy,we talking abt male friends,and yes if dats wat will reduce rape cases why not....

wordbank:

You just got the whole thing confusing cos making it explicit will consume lotta space. I hope u stay in your lane that keeps u safe

misspicy:

Yes all guys are guilty until you guys tell us how to identify a rapist...

misspicy:

Protest?...why bother with cloths? Guy u off point,

Mention me again wen u get my drift.

Brugo:
Girl dresses scantily to visit a guy who is sexually active. They get cuddly and start kissing then she says no when he makes further moves to take off her clothes. Not all guys have the will to stop when the process has been initiated.

Ladies if you don't want to get raped, stop setting yourselves up. Don't get to the point of heavy petting then pull away. You may be dealing with a guy who has little control when aroused. You can't put hot coal on your lap and hope it won't burn you.

classicB:

I.do have a boyfriend and we've been together for a long time now. He's the only guy I trust with myself

kandiikane:


Bullshyt! If your sister or mother even you were ra.pe you won't be typing such bullshyt! If she says no just when you are about to enter, get the phuck up and go have a cold shower!



Whole thread is bullshyt! The only person with the 100percent blame is the person who decides to gain access to someone's privates without permission. Absolutely no blame on the victim, it is their right to change their minds whenever they want.

Mznaett:
Op,God bless you for putting this "devilish act" an average girl faces into writing.

[b]I've been a victim several times [/b]and believe me it wasnt not funny.

The latest that just happened to me was when a course mate of mine asked me to come help him prepare something as usual,I went and after eating, I was abt leaving but he got hold of me and threw me on top of his bed. Imagine? This was a guy I took as a friend not knowing he was a monster.
After much struggling though he was stronger I managed to escape
since then,I had to set up my own policy o

Brugo:


Reverse psychology? Lol. I don't want to ridicule you dear so I'll ignore that part.

If you seduce a man by dressing scantily and engaging in fòreplay, it would be very difficult to convince others that he raped you. You are not a stripper and his house is not a strip club with the attendant rules.

DollyParton1:

no shite!!! Dude has no self control?
You must be a rapist

classicB:

Why can't I keep.a.male.frnd?