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Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by EMEKA1MILLION(m): 7:14am On Aug 12, 2015 |
ConfessionsNgr:Undisciplined parenting. If you had done your duties well as a parent, your child will know better.. Naira land can't help, take responsibilities for your neglect. |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by MzzTega(f): 7:15am On Aug 12, 2015 |
pelij18: Hmmmmmmmm. too bad. |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by MzzTega(f): 7:15am On Aug 12, 2015 |
fizzy94: Nawa oo |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Pidggin(f): 7:20am On Aug 12, 2015 |
ConfessionsNgr: It takes a lot of self-control (especially for men) to have access to porn and not use it. If he already had a smart phone before the laptop, you may be dealing with an addict, so beating him may not fully solve the problem. I am still trying to figure out why it is essential for a 14year old boy to have a laptop or smart phone even though you said it was for study. We are not that technologically savy here, kids are still being taught by teachers and given text books for added knowledge. That said, if you choose to live like a westerner, then you are sure to face a lot of the problems they deal with too. You did well by taking the laptop, but he also has a smart phone you need to take too, tell his dad about it and both of you should figure out what to do. I suggest you find something productive for him to engage in e.g. regular sporting activities, or anything productive that he likes should be encouraged to help him live a more meaningful life. 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Bolaoshun(f): 7:21am On Aug 12, 2015 |
gabazin080:Let her tell his father, since he is still alive. |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by MzzTega(f): 7:28am On Aug 12, 2015 |
Abdulleeh: Seriously |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by swaggprofessor(m): 7:32am On Aug 12, 2015 |
ConfessionsNgr:At that age he is trying to discover what been a man is all about. As u caught watching porn simply means he has also started masturbating cos the 2 evils go hand in hand. The easiest way to cub this is by u his parents to play the good cop and bad cop. As a boy would hardly share his secrets with his mum I suggest u play the bad cop by reporting him to his dad then the dad will seat him down and have a man to man talk with him that will not involve shouting or harsh caution, if ur husband plays his part effectively he will easily forgive u. but, first thing first, what the hell is an ss1 student doing with a laptop is that ur excuse of not helping him do his assignment.. dis is Nigeria my friend act like a Nigerian parent for christ sake. seize his laptop and return it only in his 100level. I hope my words can help u solve the issue at stake. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by swaggprofessor(m): 7:37am On Aug 12, 2015 |
Pidggin:well spoken, God bless you till ur 13th generation. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 7:46am On Aug 12, 2015 |
Henix:ef̱charistó̱ |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 7:50am On Aug 12, 2015 |
Sorry... NiGeria my Country... Things would surely get better.... With patience, Hardwork and perserverance...we would get better... Keep Hope, Keep Faith... Smile Nigeria >>>2039 is my Turn In Equity and Fairness |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by jamesolibng: 7:54am On Aug 12, 2015 |
please tell his dad so that two of you can join hands to restore him back.He needs discipline,admonition and help.YOU CAN DO IT,IF YOU YOURSELF OVERCAME YOUR IN YOUR YOUTHFUL DAYS.FINALLY CALL ON JESUS,HE ALONE HAS THE POWER TO SAVE.HE HAS NEVER FAILED. |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by estatelinks(m): 7:54am On Aug 12, 2015 |
MzzTega: you're the funniest person on nairaland, ban porn?? do you know how much the porn industry generates in Nigeria and the number of Nigerians who use porn daily; if you did you wouldn't say this. |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Neduzze5(m): 8:05am On Aug 12, 2015 |
Thoniameek: Thonia, I like you. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 8:06am On Aug 12, 2015 |
Bonapart:Hahahaha! Confession time, huh? |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by MrCork: 8:17am On Aug 12, 2015 |
ConfessionsNgr: ...so wot?..u dont want him to like women? 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by zinachidi(m): 8:18am On Aug 12, 2015 |
trapQ:the op said 14 yrs, not 5.. And, watching Indecency is diff from having sex... |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by jimi4us: 8:23am On Aug 12, 2015 |
Bibidear:harmful?? you're funny. he's a guy here. I started having sex at the age of 9. my neighbor she kept on touching my Pepe massaging it on her wewe. honestly speaking it felt goooood . |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by LAdepartment: 8:26am On Aug 12, 2015 |
How come d mother know dat gud sound lol? I'll implore d womn to tak d mata on her she shld just talk to d guy instaed of telling his father |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by hardbody: 8:30am On Aug 12, 2015 |
[quote author=Durent post=36819050] Thonia u're pretty [/quote How does this comment impact on the topic at hand. Meanwhile you are right. She is. |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by DJMCOTTY(m): 8:31am On Aug 12, 2015 |
ConfessionsNgr:hehehe!! You ave to reformat the guy with beta slap and beating then u reinstall him with good motherly advice.....shikena! Thank me later. |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 8:38am On Aug 12, 2015 |
MrBiggzz:I even think say na confam thing you wan talk |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Patented: 8:42am On Aug 12, 2015 |
Beating wont solve the problem. Sexual Maturity and puberty are biological developments that are inevitable and along with it comes a natural interest in sex. what he requires is counseling and sex education. IN this age and time exposure comes a lot earlier. we like to hide behind spirituality and discipline in this part of the world but the truth is that his interest in sex is natural and its starts at about that age. His biological development is inevitable and is natural. counseling and sex education is the way. beating dint work for me or my friends at this age. |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by persius555(m): 8:42am On Aug 12, 2015 |
Take the sase up with the school authority. Try to angage the PTA and organise seminars with the students where they are educated about the danger of early exposure to pornography. Please learn to live with the risk inherent in technology. Your kid will surely outgrow it, but that depends on how you chose to handle it. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by damosky12(m): 8:43am On Aug 12, 2015 |
Thoniameek: Lady, you sound brilliant... |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by emmayayodeji(m): 8:44am On Aug 12, 2015 |
idi*t na evry tin be sign of end time? fucking fanatic missbehave247: |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 8:48am On Aug 12, 2015 |
Why is an ss1 student using a laptop. Me sev wey my papa dey change from iPad to laptop then to androids, I didn't smell confam phone till I wrote my ssce and passed tokless of a laptop and android...... Na one bad Symbian phone I dey use. Now, dad says when I gain admission, I'll get a laptop. You n ur husband are at fault. Take his laptop, phone and give him Nokia torchlight. Make sure he's not bringing porn movies home to watch on TV while everyone's asleep, time him(if possible) in the bathroom. Take him to a pastor. |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by chidiandre(m): 8:51am On Aug 12, 2015 |
he's a teenager....just try and talk to him about the dangers ...don't shout or beat him cos that's the mistake parent do....talk to him about the dangers of porn on mental health I promise u he will stop |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Neyo5050: 8:54am On Aug 12, 2015 |
Bad company produced bad attitude pls let the dad know now b4 his case become that of soddom and Gomorrah. If you decide to keep it off from his dad, then you are preparing to ruins his future |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Mikollon1(m): 8:57am On Aug 12, 2015 |
Thoniameek: It is not a piece of skin dangling between his legs. It is his genitals. You should learn to advice without making derogatory statements. If it were a female caught watching porn, would you have referred to her genitals as "that borehole covered by clit and meat between her legs"? You should have respect for men and male figures! |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Bibidear(f): 8:57am On Aug 12, 2015 |
jimi4us:are u kidding me. At age 9. |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Lekan111(m): 8:58am On Aug 12, 2015 |
Tell him watching it is a sin it can further lead to fornication talk to him about the danger(hell) since you are a Christian you will further convince him if you do not tell his dad he will trust and love you let him promise he will do it no more |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by grandstar(m): 8:59am On Aug 12, 2015 |
When I was young, we used to search for porn. Now, it is porn that searches for you. The world is going from bad to worse (2 Tim 3:13) That means God's kingdom is around the corner. Our deliverance is drawing near! |
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