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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by fairygeh(f): 11:55am On Sep 01, 2015

GlorifiedTunde:
Too many kids here.

Op be very careful who you listen to.

But I'll say ..

An angry girl's mouth speaks before she thinks. It is very rare you see an angry lady who can bridle her tongue when angry - that's their only way they get back at you.

However, the truth is she has definitely seen better guys, only because she has not dated them yet. Every girl makes that erratic comparison. Those guys will only be better until she starts dating them.

Forgive her, try to forget. Be calm, you may have to be cold a little just to see her reaction after a while.

I believe she's sober already, I'll just advice you to forgive her and be vigilant

God bless you for this comment.
As in I have said worse to men o,i mean worse things ,the thing is I can't be controlled when i am angry as per words,i just talk off course, it takes a really patient man to be with me ,aswear,the moment I spill it all out I become all sober and remorseful ;Dl

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Koolking(m): 11:57am On Sep 01, 2015

4stylz:

Plans can change bro and divorce happens everyday

A girlfriend is not wife. The comparison is still a misplacement

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 12:00pm On Sep 01, 2015

fairygeh:

God bless you for this comment.
As in I have said worse to men o,i mean worse things ,the thing is I can't be controlled when i am angry as per words,i just talk off course, it takes a really patient man to be with me ,aswear,the moment I spill it all out I become all sober and remorseful ;Dl

Funny how you ladies all expect the man to be the mature and patient one...
I guess we have no choice.

Buy keep it in mind that not all men are the same. Some guys would react immediately - the extroverted; while the introverted will keep quiet and just smile - that may be dangerous.

I know most ladies are like that when angry, but try to work on it - its better than doing nothing. I'm sure your man will appreciate that. wink

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by SunnyJJ: 12:00pm On Sep 01, 2015

Hmmm bros nawa for you o! So you think those words you used in bombarding her was'nt painful right? Op this is'nt what we call justice u know.

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Shymm3x: 12:02pm On Sep 01, 2015

haul:

That's whassap ma'kneegar!

I don't do love, I don't do marriages,raise my kids then I'm gone, if I ever I've a woman, the trust is 10% no way a pussay takes more than my tithe!

Lol. The word "love" is a stale emotion for suckers. Once you love yourself - I don't see why you should be sharing love with other people, except ya blood. Our imperfection is what makes us human and if you don't want to get hurt, just allow anything that will do it to you. And women are so unpredictable and disloyal...so you have to tread carefully when you deal with them. As for trust - only a prick will trust human beings loool.

For this guy's chic to disrespect his manhood and make him feel less than a man...it is a no brainier that he should walk out on the chic and focus on himself, unless he wants to be miserable. When a chic starts telling you things like that - it shows she doesn't respect you and in no time she might start slapping the guy. You just can't let it deteriorate to that level.

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 12:08pm On Sep 01, 2015

alexistaiwo:
Had a heated argument with my girlfriend today. In the course of exchanging words she said that she is always approached by guys better than me, guys I can never compare to. she made it sound as though she is doing me a favour by dating me.

Though I love her and she loves me too, some words are relationship deal breakers. I just can't get that statement out of my head even after much apologies and crying on her part.

People actually share the real pieces of their minds in times of anger or over excitement (you must have heard the advice : "don't speak when you're angry" wink

.... Your girlfriend did that in this situation . Now that u know what she thinks,- that you're not as good as most of the guys she has encountered- it's left for you to choose between staying in such a relationship or finding someone who thinks you're the best guy in the world.

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 12:24pm On Sep 01, 2015

alexistaiwo:
Had a heated argument with my girlfriend today. In the course of exchanging words she said that she is always approached by guys better than me, guys I can never compare to. she made it sound as though she is doing me a favour by dating me.

Though I love her and she loves me too, some words are relationship deal breakers. I just can't get that statement out of my head even after much apologies and crying on her part.

Dude you don't even know how lucky you are, obviously she said that out of anger, right now am sure she's feeling bad just pretend to take it personal and not talk about it, knowing women, not talking about it will make her tensed, because women always want to talk about everything,........................................unless you are dating a psychopath, just maintain the cool stance.

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Darnheykhey: 12:35pm On Sep 01, 2015

Tychinzy:
Words spoken by girls in anger are not trully frm dia heart.

....................I tink u r ryt bt if shez d one begging and apologising for her miss deed I tink u shld gv her anoda chance............because if rily she mean it she won't cum bck 2 apologise wit tears on her face..........And by gvn her anoda chance z d only way 2 show ur true love and care

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 12:36pm On Sep 01, 2015

fairygeh:

God bless you for this comment.
As in I have said worse to men o,i mean worse things ,the thing is I can't be controlled when i am angry as per words,i just talk off course, it takes a really patient man to be with me ,aswear,the moment I spill it all out I become all sober and remorseful ;Dl

YOU DON'T REALLY KNOW MAN!

YOU SAID WORSE TO A MAN AND THAT MAN IS PATIENT!!!

YOU ARE LIVING IN A TIME BOMB AND YOU JUST DON'T KNOW IT YET.
NO MAN IS IMMUNE TO NEGATIVE OR SELF DOWNGRADING WORDS.

I BET YOU, IF YOU KEEP ON LIKE THIS, YOU WILL REGRET IT.

IT ONLY TAKES A MAN TO KNOW KNOW A MAN

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Ogaonos: 12:44pm On Sep 01, 2015

Enockia:

so he should keep quiet at every sh*t she says cos hes tryin to act matured

Enockia:

so he should keep quiet at every sh*t she says cos hes tryin to act matured

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Darnheykhey: 1:08pm On Sep 01, 2015

sonofananimal:
YOU DON'T REALLY KNOW MAN!

YOU SAID WORSE TO A MAN AND THAT MAN IS PATIENT!!!

YOU ARE LIVING IN A TIME BOMB AND YOU JUST DON'T KNOW IT YET.
NO MAN IS IMMUNE TO NEGATIVE OR SELF DOWNGRADING WORDS.

I BET YOU, IF YOU KEEP ON LIKE THIS, YOU WILL REGRET IT.

IT ONLY TAKES A MAN TO KNOW KNOW A MAN

...Nys 1 bro.............@fairygeh...try 2 start controlling ur urslf....and also pray 2 God 2 help u

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by tjdimmy(m): 1:33pm On Sep 01, 2015

Words said can be overlooked or forgotten, actions seen stick to the brain for a long time. imagine seeing her on top of a guy taking a smooth pleasurable trip up the Northern hemisphere. Tell her to watch her tongue next time, but be decisive about her punishment.

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by akyus(m): 1:35pm On Sep 01, 2015

Accept her apology but start learning how to be flexible and get lectures on how to absorb shock. Nothing great comes cheap, stay and make your relationship work.

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by erumena(m): 1:41pm On Sep 01, 2015

alexistaiwo:
Had a heated argument with my girlfriend today. In the course of exchanging words she said that she is always approached by guys better than me, guys I can never compare to. she made it sound as though she is doing me a favour by dating me.

Though I love her and she loves me too, some words are relationship deal breakers. I just can't get that statement out of my head even after much apologies and crying on her part.

My own experience wasn't just her saying that to me but I saw with my own eyes. But today, she's always thanking me for being strong thus making her choose to marry me. Her words pushed me to success. We have two lovely kids together today! Be sure she says things like that to you so as to make you stronger and not just mean words. You can then decide if she's worth fighting for!

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Appleyard(m): 1:56pm On Sep 01, 2015

mascot87:
What makes u think she loves you?
Girls deceiving guys since 17AD

Love keh! There is nothing as deceptive as the tantalizing voice and seductive smile of a woman. Love goes beyond "i love you baby".

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by paulibling(m): 2:12pm On Sep 01, 2015

an ex frog once bragged with other made guys desiring her but i replied her that they are only interested in seeing her curves and browsing her internet and as for the ones interested in marriage, once they notice her cussing tongue they will run. they have seen the curves, browsed the porn sites and ran away. i received christ in my life, upgraded to a biggest boy with kids, good job and phd in view. last i was told, she is single, desperate for hussy. advice: if a woman is in the habit of insulting and bragging wheneva she is angry pls let her go. you guy man you are not left out; repent so that devil no go punish you with a bad woman.

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by sthugo: 2:28pm On Sep 01, 2015

So many critics here that are unreasonable and sentimental..

Op you know just what you want and only you can make the choice,cos you got to be ready to live with your choices in life.

If you can bear the disrespect from a nagging lady that vomits undesirable hidden thoughts whenever she is angered is all your choice.

Cos out of the fullness of the heart the mouth speaketh.

So decide if your love for her can overshadow her reactions to matters of conflicts with you.

They say love conquers..

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Sep 01, 2015

paulibling:
an ex frog once bragged with other made guys desiring her but i replied her that they are only interested in seeing her curves and browsing her internet and as for the ones interested in marriage, once they notice her cussing tongue they will run. they have seen the curves, browsed the porn sites and ran away. i received christ in my life, upgraded to a biggest boy with kids, good job and phd in view. last i was told, she is single, desperate for hussy. advice: if a woman is in the habit of insulting and bragging wheneva she is angry pls let her go. you guy man you are not left out; repent so that devil no go punish you with a bad woman .

I LIKE YOU

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Usjimy(m): 2:43pm On Sep 01, 2015

Lessons learnt from the this:

1) Arguments abound in every relationship, but don't get it heated. You might say or hear stuff you wouldn't tolerate.

2) Find a better way to sort out differences in a more amicable way. Don't let the situation degenerate to arguments.

3) Timing matters a lot. Know when to present a case and when not to. Check the mood of your partner.

4) Always remember, we all are striving for perfection. Check the person you're getting into a relationship with. Do you complement each other?

5) Beware of third parties, and if need be for such, don't rush into implementing the proffered solution without giving it some thought.

PS:You may fall in love at first, just ensure it's a fertile ground so you can grow in it.

My opinions tho...
Tanchu cool

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by fairygeh(f): 2:46pm On Sep 01, 2015

GlorifiedTunde:

Funny how you ladies all expect the man to be the mature and patient one...
I guess we have no choice.

Buy keep it in mind that not all men are the same. Some guys would react immediately - the extroverted; while the introverted will keep quiet and just smile - that may be dangerous.

I know most ladies are like that when angry, but try to work on it - its better than doing nothing. I'm sure your man will appreciate that.

Awww,thanks so much for the advice

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by paulibling(m): 2:47pm On Sep 01, 2015

sonofananimal:

I LIKE YOU

"nwa anu ofia" i bu alobam. incase you aint ibo, i translated your name in ibo and added that you are my correct guy.

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Sep 01, 2015

paulibling:
"nwa anu ofia" i bu alobam. incase you aint ibo, i translated your name in ibo and added that you are my correct guy.

LOLZ!!

SO THEM FIT TRANSLATE MY MONIKER LIKE THAT grin

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by charlesbailey(m): 3:27pm On Sep 01, 2015

For this matter.. there are two things involved.. 1. she must have said it out of annoyance, if that's the case... warn her not to do the same again and be truthful to herself. 2. she means it bro... if this is the case.. my brother you don get full time job oo... you'll always have to please your woman and always prove you are better than the other suitors.. my advise: ask her to make a list of why she wants the relationship and why she considers you above others. If you have to impress a lady to get her.. you'll always have to do it again and again...

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by HopeAlive14(m): 4:13pm On Sep 01, 2015

alexistaiwo:
...after much apologies and crying on her part.

...then you need to forgive her, put this issue behind you fast and forge ahead with her.

Happy married life to both of you in advance!

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 4:15pm On Sep 01, 2015

jabojafa:
i wil neva agree wit u on dt. Slappin a lady becos she says smtin dt annoys u is wrong. If u hvnt startd slappin evry guy dy insults u den knw dt u r weak. If nt why nt try boxing as a form of career.

EHn come let me format your brain now. Thank God you're a guy.

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 4:17pm On Sep 01, 2015

HopeAlive14:

...then you need to forgive her, put this issue behind you fast and forge ahead with her.

Happy married life to both of you in advance!

Na scam. na 2day dem dey cry? What abt the effect of the robbish she said on the guy?
He said he can't get it out of his head. If the better ones are available let her grab them.

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by HopeAlive14(m): 4:27pm On Sep 01, 2015

banttieman:

Na scam. na 2day dem dey cry? What abt the effect of the robbish she said on the guy?
He said he can't get it out of his head. If the better ones are available let her grab them.

We say so many things to hurt people when we are angry.

To err is human. To forgive is not only divine but puts you above the offender!

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Chookym(m): 4:40pm On Sep 01, 2015

A mature man doesnt follow a lady's word, rather u listen to their heart. Most things u hear they say in anger, they dont mean it. She is only saying that to make u feal bad . Just ignore those words. Dont reply, but be calm . Thats a real man . She will definitely feal bad wen she sees those words dont move u.

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 4:41pm On Sep 01, 2015

alexistaiwo:

u are very wrong. girls free up bottled up feelings whenever they are angry

^
Accurate.
@OP, simply think about it and decide what decision to make. All the best.

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Antoinne: 4:41pm On Sep 01, 2015

owolawitola:
Shey they said what u say in anger is what u really feel. Op i think she has no respect for u. For her to say that shez not contented with u. Maybe there are things she needs that ur not givin her. Its not all about love wirh some girls

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by CzarChris(m): 4:43pm On Sep 01, 2015

7Alexander:

Wetin your fiance tell you? Gist us nah, nawa for you oo

Aproko, wetin u wan hear? tongue

Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 4:46pm On Sep 01, 2015

HopeAlive14:

We say so many things to hurt people when we are angry.

To err is human. To forgive is not only divine but puts you above the offender!

That was then.

If the guy had erred, she wouldn't have looked back my brother.

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