all4naija:
So stop following ideological movement like feminism.

BeastOfNoNation:


I will not sleep with any man to be successful. It will not be necessary. I laughed at that line above sha.

BeastOfNoNation:


I will not sleep with any man to be successful. It will not be necessary. I laughed at that line above sha.

pinceprinz:


I could be witty I know, been told that over n over no brags


But u will sha open your legs for a man to penetrate and off-load abi?

BeastOfNoNation:


I believe in the feminist ideology. You have the wrong definition of feminism

BeastOfNoNation:


If he is my husband then there's no problem there.

BeastOfNoNation:


If he is my husband then there's no problem there.

all4naija:
I have the right explanation which is more detailed representation of feminism than definition. That is perhaps the reason why you don't have good understanding of what feminism is all about, lady.

pinceprinz:


! I can't believe my eyes right here!! Did you just write husband


I mean, you do see yourself falling head over heels for a man well enough to marry him WOW!

pinceprinz:


! I can't believe my eyes right here!! Did you just write husband


I mean, you do see yourself falling head over heels for a man well enough to marry him WOW!

BeastOfNoNation:

I understand very clearly what feminism is. You can't say a moderate belief in an ideology is the same as an extreme version of an ideology. Christianity is different from fundamentalist Christianity. Islam is different from fundamentalist Islam. Every ideology ever named throughout history has an extreme. You can't discount an entire ideology because of the extremists.

all4naija:

She refuses to change the title of the thread. She is just being an aberrant lady who knows the truth about gender equality yet takes the wrong path of feminism.

BeastOfNoNation:

I understand very clearly what feminism is. You can't say a moderate belief in an ideology is the same as an extreme version of an ideology. Christianity is different from fundamentalist Christianity. Islam is different from fundamentalist Islam. Every ideology ever named throughout history has an extreme. You can't discount an entire ideology because of the extremists.

all4naija:

You are becoming philosophical about it. It is clear in our arguments that feminism doesn't only advocate for the rights of women also discriminates against men.

BeastOfNoNation:


Yes. Yes I do. You don't even know me and you're there making stupid assumptions about who I am based on your preconceptions of independent women. I would like to marry and I would also like to be successful. I would like to have a family and still make a name for myself.

pinceprinz:



Now you're beginning to make sense! That you've set your limit gets a 'welcome nod' from me . However, feminism is not like religion where Extremism is not the it at all. Extremism is totally off-point as long as religion is concerned but for feminism , you're either in or out (totally) . So, let me ask u, are u IN or OUT?

all4naija:

It doesn't look like there is equal heads-of-home in your post. HUSBAND! Hahaha...

BeastOfNoNation:


It is clear in our arguments that feminism advocates for the rights of women and does not discriminate against men

BeastOfNoNation:


Do you believe in a household that only has one successful person while the other one is a modern day servant?

all4naija:
Why is it that men are the subjects of feminism not actually equality? Men-are-this-and-men-are-that idea. In fact, the accusation is directed at men!

all4naija:

No, I don't! You argue against submissiveness and that is the notion of having a husband.

BeastOfNoNation:


I'm seriously beginning to vex with you. Are you not reading anything I write?

BeastOfNoNation:


Having a husband means being a servant?

BeastOfNoNation:


Yes. Yes I do. You don't even know me and you're there making stupid assumptions about who I am based on your preconceptions of independent women. I would like to marry and I would also like to be successful. I would like to have a family and still make a name for myself.

all4naija:
It is now about what you write not what feminism is all about. You do not understand what feminism means. That is what I am telling you. Jeez!

BeastOfNoNation:


I understand perfectly what feminism is. You're the one who won't understand simple English! : and is what I've been writing not what feminism is about?? Yes it is. You're so deaf to the truth. I told you that there are crazy people who claim to be feminists but they are MISANDRISTS. Real True Feminists believe in EQUAL rights.

BeastOfNoNation:


I am changing it to "Why Are Some Nigerian Guys So Misogynistic." Because there are Nigerian guys who are misogynistic like @pinceprinz

pinceprinz:


. So far am still regarded as being loving by mom, your opinion of me will continue to stink

pinceprinz:



Oh Swiri, how'd I know your stand if I don't ask? I mean, 'independent women' (feminist) I'd met (basically online) have that notion I'm actually a misogynist sort of whereas I am not... I'm just highly opinionated and quite anti-feminist
That you'd love to have the family and the name is nice but getting over ambitious while chasing success is my worry. Its quite impossible raising a family effectively and making the name a real big one hon, it requires meticulous planning I suppose if at all it gona work

all4naija:
Having a husband means he is the head and likely to dictate the affairs. Bwahaha..


@ princeprinz.

Say something.

BeastOfNoNation:


I have the capability of doing both so don't underestimate me. My mother always told me that I can have everything I want in life. A family and A legacy. Obviously I won't compromise either one and I will take things one step at a time. But to tell me that I can only do one for the rest of my life will be a disservice to the people I'm planning on helping in the future. I'm a born humanitarian this much is true. I will have a name that will last all of history but I will also have that family that will love me for even longer. #LevelsDonChange