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Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Poseidon000: 8:32am On Jan 07, 2016 |
cococandy:[size=13pt] First, my name is not okechukwu. can you point where I generalized? I only gave an opine devoid of sentiment and fallacy on what should or suppose to be has african(quote one african culture or ethnicity that does otherwise). Does my opine stop people lyk the Op bro from doing things contrary to our cultural and ethnic values has africans?..certainly not. Why is it so? Cos africans have been a victim of mental slavery, thus. Gave way for the inebriation of western hegemon to infest on our socio-cultural ways. It only takes a true son of MAMA AFRICA and strong mind to resist western maisma of deception and zombiefication(don't mean to insult the Op's bro). I'm not telling you to subcribe to my assertion..NOPE. I don't give a flying fvck if you do or not. I'm saying it for the benefit of my fellow men on this thread, wallowing in tragic misadvanture of civility, and quest to please a woman. [/size] 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 8:36am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Oyind17:oyin you sure say this story na true...because i no fit understand am...is it that the wife was pregnant 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 8:38am On Jan 07, 2016 |
IzonOwei:You know me na, make I ring u |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 8:40am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Oyind17:how would you know |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by slap1(m): 8:40am On Jan 07, 2016 |
I don't understand those who say it's not her business. It's her brother for goodness sake! The man is obviously in an unusual situation and you're saying it's not her business. Please try and talk to your brother. His life and well-being is your business, maybe not his marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by hahn(m): 8:40am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Olasco93: Neither are you |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by onyowo(f): 8:50am On Jan 07, 2016 |
It is totally wrong jhor....forget the era of gender equality,women are supposed to be obedient to their husbands and treat them like the head of the family they truly are, I can't belitle me husband that way at all....sending my husband petty messages like a house boy in front of visitors? Haba!!!! That's completely stupid 6 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 8:50am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Oyind17: is your brothers wife pregnant/sick or somewhat down? if yes then its allowed but if other wise just kindly maintain ur lane...................... but pray for him while maintaining your lane ooooo |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by bhibbi2644: 8:50am On Jan 07, 2016 |
[left][/left] Oyind17: Oyind17: Oyind17:. lols, my dear I understand how u feel... |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by kilonso001(m): 8:55am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Nice response ... @OP How your brother lives his life is entirely up to him. and its none of your business. boboLIL: 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by isnovic(m): 8:55am On Jan 07, 2016 |
EfemenaXY:The marriage is already wrecked. The man already "de-manned". Call him and tell him your observations perhaps he might wake up but surely start deliverance from spell prayers for him. No man is suppose to live like that in a marriage... it is unusual. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by isnovic(m): 8:57am On Jan 07, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: EfemenaXY:The marriage is already wrecked. The man already "de-manned". Call him and tell him your observations perhaps he might wake up but surely start deliverance from spell prayers for him. No man is suppose to live like that in a marriage... it is unusual. |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by doyinisaac(m): 9:02am On Jan 07, 2016 |
So many hypocrites on this thread!!!!!!!!!!they will be giving advice here on the thread yet they are guilty of the same thing in real life!!!!!!awon weyrey.... 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by fortunechy(m): 9:06am On Jan 07, 2016 |
is a pity. may be she's the bread winner/probably pay his groom price. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by andyanders: 9:08am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Oyind17: My brother, what you stated herein is wrong no matter what anybody is saying. It is wrong for your brother's wife to be sending him to be doing such a thing by asking him to go get yam and tie it for her sister is usel---ess. I do not care to say that if any man is doing this, he is under a spell. Call a spade a spade. Your brother is under a spell. |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 9:19am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Oyind17: 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by lielbree: 9:26am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Oyind17:HOW E TAKE CONCERN YOU 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Sagamite(m): 9:33am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Oyind17: E dey pain you? You are cursed! Wetin consan you? (How is it your business?) Is it your fcking household? Mind your fcking business, fuuktard. Typical African monkey. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by fruityjojo(f): 9:33am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Oyind17:She could be pregnant, just forget abt it cos u don't know what's really going on BTW two married couple. Probably dats how the love works for them one person must bend for the other not necessarily the woman all the time! |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by lielbree: 9:33am On Jan 07, 2016 |
andyanders:Are u married? Don't criticise what u don't know. My husband wakes up midnight every night to check on our five kids. He cooks, washes , sweeps and I send him on errands all the time. By the way he is handsome and RICH! He loves house work not that he is trying to pls me it's just in him based on the way he was trained. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by sulakishop(m): 9:36am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Seek spiritual help but dont let your brother or the wife know |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 9:37am On Jan 07, 2016 |
fruityjojo:I forget am before I come here, thanks |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by F22RAPTOR(m): 9:40am On Jan 07, 2016 |
There is no smoke without fire. A deviance from what should be naturally obtainable is an indication that all is not well. The lady in question may have gone diabolic to ensure full compliance to her demands without question no matter how degrading- He will think he is showing love- God has shown you this so that you can begin the process of his deliverance. You must let someone know, only a trust worthy person. Secondly, your brother may be married to a narcissist (pls google and read as much as you can abt them). That is a very serious problem, because his life will never remain the same and may require therapy if he ever gets to escape. The solution; well evil can only thrive in darkness (ignorance), so tell your family, I mean those you trust. It will begin a very long hard battle but its achievable. Thirdly, is his wife the bread winner of the family? If she is, she is simply playing her role no offence. Solution, make your bros go find work wen go give am plenty money so as to get back his confidence and assume his rightful place. Damn all narcissists, may God save all your victims from you. |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 9:41am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Sagamite:Familyland troublemaker Telling me I am cursed is out of place but I'll pass New year new life things, no fighting 4 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 9:43am On Jan 07, 2016 |
lielbree:Get lost! this one big pass you |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Sagamite(m): 9:44am On Jan 07, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: You are sexist! You are a misogynist! |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by F22RAPTOR(m): 9:46am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Shaftrod:some women will shamelessly make their husbands to do this...smh 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 9:46am On Jan 07, 2016 |
lielbree:He may be washing plate now while his wife is here bragging. Woman! if your husband is doing all that, what are you doing as a wife? I believe you are an African woman Family / Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by lielbree: 10:25pm On Jan 04 I've been married for 10years now. The first 4 were hell! My marriage is like a fine wine. It gets better with time. I can say I'm very happy I endured and stayed. My spouse also did a lot of enduring. We thank God each day for where we are and knowing it will only get better 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by shumuel(m): 9:49am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Oyind17: hmm... You ladies ehn, i just don't know how God created you all,, shouldn't you know its Love, do you even ask yourself if your SIL is pregnant or ill,,, and am sure you pray and want the same, isn't it ? Please leave their marriage alone. Now if its jazz, damn your brother must had done something really bad kikiki Lol 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by iamKeo(m): 9:54am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Maybe she paid her bride price. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by SIRTee15: 10:02am On Jan 07, 2016 |
lielbree: so you also send him on errands for your siblings abi.......... tying yams and going to the market for your sister........ and washing car for your brother........... when your cousins come around, what errand does he perform for those ones....... bloody hypocrites. just imagine....... comparing a family man caring for his own kids to another who's busy running errands for his junior ones. nonsense. 1 Like |
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