EggovinMma:


I understand you perfectly well but what I don't understand is why there should be an answer to such silly question.There are things that are supposed to be kept secret,period!I don't expect my man to tell me that he was once a blood thirsty cultist,my dear I go run leave am Na.Plenty guys who have wasted innocent lives are happily married with their secrets.So what?

EggovinMma:


I'm not justifying her randy lifestyle please.I'm only saying there are some things that need to be kept secret.Its not all questions that needs an answer.I do not see the reason for this revelations.As long as she is medically alright,she should have kept mute.

emperorchedda:
Truth be told, a guy who truly loves a girl and have plans of wifing her will be curious to know her past, especially her sexual past. Men just happen to respect women by that and there's nothing we can do to help it.

It's always advisable to know the past of your spouse so you will be aware of things she can do and things she can't. For example you married an ex cultist then suddenly a war breaks out and your husband just happens to be unaware at the moment, you'll be the one to notify him to leave the vicinity immediately thereby saving his life

Example number 2: if you are aware your wife has had sex with 10 guys or more you will always avoid taking her to places where she is likely to meet guys she might have fvcked before so she won't be tempted to do it again or reminding her of her past (like they say once an olosho always an olosho)

EggovinMma:
That babe deserves some hot resounding slaps! !!
Why reveal that? Every body get skeleton! That dude sef fit be murderer.


Silly lady! If i have a silly friend tell me this kind sorry story,i will ask her to take a silly ass out of my house immediately.Mumu!


So God Wey call Hosea three times,"Hosea!Hosea!!Hosea!!!Wake up!E be like say you don drunk again,useless man!Oya waka,go Benin bypass, pick any olosho there Wey make sense marry!"

NA MISTAKE E DO?UNA HOLY PASS GOD?

FILEBE:



I do understand but won't her past come to haunt her? na that time you go see some guys come on twitter to say they have been there when the husband post their picture on social media .

sukkot:
why you got pakistani baby on your profile though

yaqq:
wat kinda crap write up is ds? 43 men? n u still expect him 2 stay? presently he s running 200km/hr, when a key(dick) can unlock so many door(pussy) it's a master key n d shape remain dsame. but wen a door(pussy) is been open by over 43. different key(dick) then Uv got no security! my guy don run 4 hin life!

EggovinMma:

In as much as I understand your point here,they are still immature.Here,you're talking about married folks,but I'm talking about opening a bitter secret that will result to more hurt and emotional in a relationship that is promising.I don't see any reason why a man should ask such silly question.Its even better he goes after her medical records than ask such silly question.See where truth land her at 35!

abitex577:
By Aunty Julie

I’m in deep shit over relationships. I’m a 35-year-old woman and met a very handsome 43-year-old man. We’ve been dating for five months now and still haven’t slept together. My problem is that in the beginning of our relationship, he asked me how many men I’ve slept with and worried about how he would react, I lied and told him I’d slept with seven men. But after a few months, I could not live with the lie and finally decided to tell him the reason why I still haven’t slept with him yet. I told him I didn’t want to make love because I was scared that he’d lose respect and eventually leave me like all the other men. At this point he asked me again, just how many men were there, to which I replied forty-three. His reply was, “Hmm, one for each of my birthday.” And from that day on, I never heard from him again. I don’t get it , why is it that when men sleep around, they’re studs , yet when women sleep around, they’re sluts ? Why can’t women have their fun too?
Dudu, Abuja

Dear Dudu, I’ve spoken with quite a number of women asking the same question. I don’t want to pass judgment on women, nor am I saying that women shouldn’t enjoy themselves sexually. But men and women are never the same.

You expressed fear about losing respect and the way I feel as a woman is that women should be worshiped by their men. An object that has value is worshiped, respected, cherished, and shared with very few deserving people. As soon as you start sharing that object with anyone and without care, the object starts to lose value. The more people use the object, the more it depreciates and the less bargaining power it has: this is a plain psychological fact of life.

Most women don’t realize the importance men place on a woman’s promiscuity. Women think that because men don’t care about how many women they’ve slept with, they won’t care about how many men their woman has slept with. But the reality is that most men, those looking for a serious relationship and not a one-night stand do place great value on a woman’s sexual restraint.


There was a time when many women cherished their bodies much like a sacred temple where only a noble man, one who respected and loved her, had access to her body. But over time, it seems that women have failed to realize the important role their sexuality plays in finding a long-term mate.

Thanks to the women’s movement, women are so busy trying to compete with men, including in the sex department, that they fail to realize the consequences of their actions. Today, it seems that women are the ones who are collecting notches on their Prada belts by giving their bodies away too easily. But if women themselves don’t value their bodies like they used to, why should men? Some women will argue that if men have the right to sleep around, so should women. But I ask only one question: If women adamantly believe this, then why is it that when faced with the question of how many men have they slept with, most women who have slept around with truckloads of men always lie? Some women will rationalize that they must do so because men can’t handle the truth. But if this is the case, why don’t women let men decide for themselves if they can or can’t handle it? Why do women need to lie to protect men’s egos? I think women lie to protect themselves rather than men because if it’s not shame or regret that’s making you hold your tongue, then the potentially dire consequences of the truth surely are. The power lies with women…

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/02/i-lost-my-man-because-i-slept-with-so-many-men/

kelvyn7:
forty what?

emperorchedda:
You're making us run in circles. I understand you're trying to defend your female folks past life because they are mostly rough but someone has to take responsiblity, someone has to be punished for going on a fvcking spree, so others will take correction, the truth hurts but it saves life

She's facing her punishment for fvcking mercilessly. You don't know if it's that truth that will save your life (like I initially gave instances on my previous post)

Finally, we all have the right to know our partners past - accepting it is up to us. If you are/were an olosho tell me on time so I won't let my rich friends come near you. If you are/were a nymphomaniac tell me on time so I won't travel a long distance without you

Whether married or just dating, we have the inalienable right to know her past

EggovinMma:
That babe deserves some hot resounding slaps! !!
Why reveal that? Every body get skeleton! That dude sef fit be murderer.


Silly lady! If i have a silly friend tell me this kind sorry story,i will ask her to take a silly ass out of my house immediately.Mumu!


So God Wey call Hosea three times,"Hosea!Hosea!!Hosea!!!Wake up!E be like say you don drunk again,useless man!Oya waka,go Benin bypass, pick any olosho there Wey make sense marry!"

NA MISTAKE E DO?UNA HOLY PASS GOD?

itunity007:
o boi!!!!! abeg see down emmmmm berman bring 43 bottles of origin for my guy




























bar man Oya Garnished with fresh fish pepper soup








my guy i swear wit my 43rd leg u kill it

EggovinMma:
That babe deserves some hot resounding slaps! !!
Why reveal that? Every body get skeleton! That dude sef fit be murderer.


Silly lady! If i have a silly friend tell me this kind sorry story,i will ask her to take a silly ass out of my house immediately.Mumu!


So God Wey call Hosea three times,"Hosea!Hosea!!Hosea!!!Wake up!E be like say you don drunk again,useless man!Oya waka,go Benin bypass, pick any olosho there Wey make sense marry!"

NA MISTAKE E DO?UNA HOLY PASS GOD?

AlPeter:
you high for yansh? Why u go mention Benin join olosho?....lol

CertifiedFreak:
Dude has a great sense of humor, "one for every birthday" had me cracking.

*clears throat* Anywayz, Dude is plain stupid and sure as hell doesn't deserve bae. A lady who tells you a lie pertaining the number of men she's slept with definitely respects you. I blame bae though, pu.ss.y no get meter, she should have stood by her ground of seven.

Mademoiselle24:


Sis I like u so much...I dunno why! Ur funny esp with the allusion to the bible.

CaroLyner:
So she keeps count of all the men she has a thing with....I dont believe this

vivalavida:

So u dont keep count? Abi u just estimate when asked

yaqq:
wat kinda crap write up is ds? 43 men? n u still expect him 2 stay? presently he s running 200km/hr, when a key(dick) can unlock so many door(pussy) it's a master key n d shape remain dsame. but wen a door(pussy) is been open by over 43. different key(dick) then Uv got no security! my guy don run 4 hin life!

EggovinMma:
Mtchewwwwwwwwwww!!!!
Dem dey carry Virgin dey chop okro?
If you be virgin ya pocket?!!!!!!!
My aunt who married as virgin @ 29 died from HIV!!
if you are keeping your virginity because of man's respect,your head need better planking!

CaroLyner:
none of the above

ventq:

Mtsheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew
Walahi u no get sense

kelvyn7:


it's easier said than done ooo