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If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Holyfield1(m): 3:09pm On Feb 09, 2016
Your opinion please

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Mutuwa(m): 3:11pm On Feb 09, 2016
well,it depends..

one may hold back and try harder next time, or simply quit and move on.But please no one should beg for marriage.

Remember: When a woman is beautiful,but without brains,It is the private part that suffers the most.

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Cutehector(m): 3:11pm On Feb 09, 2016
Even befor she says d no sef, I don Waka comot.

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Nobody: 3:12pm On Feb 09, 2016
It does not mean it's over. It means 'let's get to know each other better'. It's only guys that are mature that will understand

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by vault(m): 3:13pm On Feb 09, 2016
as for me, intimate relationship is over.....

only if the excuse is "am not ready"..... I could give that a thought

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Emypresh(m): 3:13pm On Feb 09, 2016
Why would she say "NO" in the first place As for me, it's over oh

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by vault(m): 3:15pm On Feb 09, 2016
HateU2:
It does not mean it's over. It means 'let's get to know each other better'. It's only guys that are mature that will understand

thats something she could have said instead of a NO

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Royle2014(m): 3:15pm On Feb 09, 2016
Yes na... She didn't see me as someone worth raising a family with... I won't even give it a second shot

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Nobody: 3:15pm On Feb 09, 2016
The "No" sometimes doesn't mean she don't want to get married to you. It could be she needs time to think. Marriage is not a child's play. That ring is an everlasting handcuff.

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by iykekelvins(m): 3:16pm On Feb 09, 2016
First of all, Ask her why she said No..

If she makes it clear to u that she can't spend the rest of her life with u..My guy, Then u know its over.

Sometimes, She might not be ready for marriage.

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Emac34: 3:17pm On Feb 09, 2016
No simply means shez not interestedundecided then it over..

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by doomsdayII(m): 3:19pm On Feb 09, 2016
Na lie jhoor.
How many girls go see am come say it's over? Definately not Nigerian but certainly American.
The Nigerian world is running out of men cos 40% of them have all gone abroad for greener pastures and to take wives there too increasing the number of spinsters we're having here.
So any girl whose guy is treating her as trash but proposed to will still accept all in the name of I'm married but she already know what she's about to continue facing.
In essence, she can't say it's over. Capital lie

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by ronald4lif(m): 3:28pm On Feb 09, 2016
A lady can never say no to my proposal. Before proposing I'd have done my homework right and there's no way she can say no.

But let's assume she said no, then of course that's the end of the relationship. Why waste each other's time when there's no future together?

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by KAYD007(m): 3:30pm On Feb 09, 2016
For me it is....i take No for what it is...No..

i won't ask why, i won't say i beg na, pls na, i beg na

would just say okay and simply move on..shikena angry

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by JuicyGee(f): 3:32pm On Feb 09, 2016
Why stay a relationship, when you know you won't marry him Didn't you know he was gonna propose one day?? Some ladies know in their heart that they wont marry the guy, they just continue... Some double date, so what if the two guys propose Same questions i keep asking my cousin...

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Nobody: 4:16pm On Feb 09, 2016

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by OnankpaBa(m): 4:16pm On Feb 09, 2016
hmmm
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by qualityovenbake(m): 4:17pm On Feb 09, 2016
No time, wetin I still dey hang around 4.

To be sincere, Emotionally I will feel hurt and the relationship is over and I will move on with my life, but in the long run I will be glad that she was honest about her feeling for me.

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by JewelDiamond(f): 4:17pm On Feb 09, 2016
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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Lexusgs430: 4:17pm On Feb 09, 2016
No.
It could mean........
(1) I am not ready, yet
(2) I am just managing you,and have no plans to marry you
(3) Other suitors are out there, and I would rather wait for the best candidate
(4) That ring looks too cheap, get an expensive ring and try again
(5) I only loved your money
(6) I am bisexual and intend settling with another lady

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by kilokeys(m): 4:17pm On Feb 09, 2016
Na wa o

Why waste Time?

What made her say No.. Will not change in a thousand years..

It's either an issue of tribe, she is just passing time, or not feeling u.
E no go change
Just move on.

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by jbkomo(m): 4:18pm On Feb 09, 2016
Go back to your creator. If she is urs, with prayer, she will surely agree one day. Simple law of biz teaches continuous, surstain and deliberate effort.

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Nnemuka(f): 4:18pm On Feb 09, 2016
i have rejected a proposal before, he accepted his fate and moved on.
we still friends but not as close as before.

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Feb 09, 2016
A guy should know when the relationship has entered a matured stage where "proposing" can be performed.

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by OLUJOSHINS(m): 4:19pm On Feb 09, 2016
pending on her reason 4 saying no
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by stfrada: 4:19pm On Feb 09, 2016
Leave her
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by Olusharp(m): 4:19pm On Feb 09, 2016
i don't think she will say no when i ask her out sitting in my jet...she go dey jump shouting "Yess,Yess" ...most Nigerian ladies of today are something different from the older generation,just have this money and they are already crushing on you...

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by whiz10(m): 4:19pm On Feb 09, 2016
Nope! it means, go back to your drawing board.

Reasons for saying No, determines if left to me.
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by ifenes(m): 4:19pm On Feb 09, 2016
No! Some people don't feel the burdens of marriage.
Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by fflamingo(m): 4:19pm On Feb 09, 2016
If she worth it= try again
If punnany hasn't been involved = try again
If punnany has been involved= gerrhoutmen grin

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Re: If You Propose And She Says 'No', Is The Relationship Over? by collins190: 4:19pm On Feb 09, 2016
Yes

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