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Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Jadekitana(f): 10:56am On Mar 28, 2016
Eddygourdo:
Well some women aren't properly groomed to come normally. Some are so boring in bed and stiff, that extra attempts at pleasing her seem futile. Though a true man should make a woman come.

shocked shocked shocked properly groomed? Lol
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Jadekitana(f): 10:58am On Mar 28, 2016
tintingz:
Men are easily aroused by just dramatizing sex in their head but they are the ones that get satisfied and tired quickly after cuming.

That's why it is good to do more of pre-intimacy.

Some men go as far taking drugs to last long all in the name of satisfying their spouse.

Yea I think a proper pre-intimacy does the magic but unfortunately most guys ain't usually patient enough for that
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Rotab4life: 11:00am On Mar 28, 2016
Ladies are actually the selfish ones. You lie like a log of wood and expect the man do all the job. Even if the man goes flaccid, a singular act from you can make him become erect again but the first thing you do is wear your pants and carry your hand bag to leave

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Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Jadekitana(f): 11:00am On Mar 28, 2016
grin grin grin na really jedi. Anyway that's why I have days for such during marriage! Weekends only, mon-fri rule out lipsrsealed undecided
vizkiz:
hmmmmn...Men sometimes go through stress during the day and his babe bringing her own ish later at night night is just yet another stress. Most of them try pleasing her but you can't really cheat nature (which makes them sleep off immediately after sex most times).

About a guy cuming quicker than drops of rain I guess it is because he has too much sugar in his body system he should go for stuffs popularly known as jedi. Tell him to go find solution to that it will help him last longer and at the same time satisfy your sexual desires.

Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 11:00am On Mar 28, 2016
cruzita:
#TeamVirgin

Yea, for sure!!

You are suppose to be #TeamVirgin

Because,.....

No man would want to bleep another Man!!

Remain a Virgin joor!!

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Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Mikkystorm: 11:00am On Mar 28, 2016
Jadekitana:


Buhahaha@make I do fast comot grin how wicked of them. Wickedness in high places

Wickedness keh? It's natural. Guys don't care. Only a few!
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Eddygourdo(m): 11:01am On Mar 28, 2016
Jadekitana:


shocked shocked shocked properly groomed? Lol
yes oh. The first three men who sleep with a lady after virginity defines how her body will always respond to sex, lady who right from inception exchanged sex for money, you could put ur entire arm inside sef or pound for hours with all skills and she will be looking at u with no sign of arrival. Same applies to some rape victims, molestation victims etc their sexuality isn't in sync so why waste all effort. Rather you do ur business and get out instead of sweating unnecessarily. That Is why I like masturbatory girls or bisexuals. To make them come involves little effort thus u get to enjoy afterwards without fear of blackmail

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Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Deboxoxo(m): 11:02am On Mar 28, 2016
Jadekitana:


Go and get laid cheesy it's about time don't you think.


Lols... Nah... Even though konji dae 5t me i go dae my bed.... Virgin till wedding *smiles *

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Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by vizkiz: 11:02am On Mar 28, 2016
Jadekitana:
grin grin grin na really jedi. Anyway that's why I have days for such during marriage! Weekends only, mon-fri rule out lipsrsealed undecided

You can't keep schedules for sex can you? I don't think that is possible though. Except If you mean marathon sex.

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Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Jadekitana(f): 11:03am On Mar 28, 2016
Rotab4life:
Ladies are actually the selfish ones. You lie like a log of wood and expect the man do all the job. Even if the man goes flaccid, a singular act from you can make him become erect again but the first thing you do is wear your pants and carry your hand bag to leave

Wear pant and carry her bag ke? Is she a prost1tute? Depends on the kinda women u meet though. And sorry when a man cums, he's usually very sensitive, you can't even touch it for the mean time just like the clit! Go study these things well. Ain't about being a log of wood wink

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Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by tolugar: 11:07am On Mar 28, 2016
Jadekitana:
Hahaha let me reserve my comment, but just note that if your woman's body is shaking it's not from ecstasy,its fear and pain.

It's pure ecstasy. It's out of exhaustion after "total body quaking orgasm"
Pity if you've not been there!

I know just where to touch my woman and I make sure she is satisfied b/4 I call it a day.

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Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Jadekitana(f): 11:08am On Mar 28, 2016
In synzu's voice OVOKO shocked shocked omo you have a degree in this matter o, lemme mark your moniker and run away from you grin you are a professional
Eddygourdo:
yes oh. The first three men who sleep with a lady after virginity defines how her body will always respond to sex, lady who right from inception exchanged sex for money, you could put ur entire arm inside sef or pound for hours with all skills and she will be looking at u with no sign of arrival. Same applies to some rape victims, molestation victims etc their sexuality isn't in sync so why waste all effort. Rather you do ur business and get out instead of sweating unnecessarily. That Is why I like masturbatory girls or bisexuals. To make them come involves little effort thus u get to enjoy afterwards without fear of blackmail
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by LaurelP(m): 11:10am On Mar 28, 2016
Jadekitana:
No Satan, not today! Your type is always kicked to the curbs to wash my toilet, you ain't fit to join this discussion cos you have nothing to offer when matured minds are reasoning! Now go and ride tyre with that your smelling pant

Spending 95 percent of ur life on Romance section ranting and fuming about men is how u consider yourself a matured (gbagaun) mind? grin
Get a life dear.
Bye and have a nice day.

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Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by kinglekan: 11:10am On Mar 28, 2016
Jadekitana:
First no oga cheesy secondly I just watched a movie where a woman had to cheat cos hubby wasn't doing the right thing! She kept complaining but he wouldn't listen.


Chaiii, no oga. All of una just dey keep unnecessary cobwebs down there. grin grin.

You can't blame the hubby nau. You think its easy to control Johnny depp abi? cheesy

But on a lighter note rather than complaining, tell the man how to get the job done. Most men are old schooled, so nagging about how unsatisfied you are as a lady wouldn't probably change things.

Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Rotab4life: 11:16am On Mar 28, 2016
Jadekitana:


Wear pant and carry her bag ke? Is she a prost1tute? Depends on the kinda women u meet though. And sorry when a man cums, he's usually very sensitive, you can't even touch it for the mean time just like the clit! Go study these things well. Ain't about being a log of wood wink

Lol i mentioned the pant and bag stuff cos most ladies feel like they've killed someone after sex. They just want to disappear. Yeah but after some minutes a little touch on the rod can bring it back to life
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by tintingz(m): 11:20am On Mar 28, 2016
Jadekitana:


Yea I think a proper pre-intimacy does the magic but unfortunately most guys ain't usually patient enough for that
Yeah, they just wanna offload the stuff cheesy
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Eddygourdo(m): 11:20am On Mar 28, 2016
Jadekitana:
In synzu's voice OVOKO shocked shocked omo you have a degree in this matter o, lemme mark your moniker and run away from you grin you are a professional
na so even me see am. Run oh dear
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by joey150(m): 11:21am On Mar 28, 2016
I cum last cause the ladies love it that way!!

I can make her cum by just whispering to her ears for 5minutes and touching her for another 45 seconds.


Drops mic

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Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Nobody: 11:34am On Mar 28, 2016
Jadekitana:
I think it's totally heartless and ungentlemanly for men to always leave women hanging during love making. From research, movies, ladies gossip etc i'v come to find out that 80percent of men don't really care if a lady is satisfied or not as far as they are.

Often when a man cums/climaxes that's the end.His organ becomes flaccid immediately,most of them sleep off instantly not even cuddling the lady. Some come up with the excuse that they just did a hard job. Indeed!!!

These guys are often the ones who would want a woman to perform all the styles on them,and when they get to their peak that's the end. Is it that the male body was created that way? How come their organ becomes flaccid immediately? No matter what you do to resurrect it, it stays that way!

An average female body doesn't climax ontime except you really know the right places to touch, but these days who cares! A gentleman should always wait for his lady to cum however how sweet the whole thing is WAIT!! When she has arrived, you can then release whatever it is you have inside of you! In that way trust me she wouldn't be bored and start seeking sexual redemption elsewhere. It's not about pumping hard with all your veins threatening to pop out,its about satisfying us. undecided

Ps: no holier than thou talks here,waka pass undecided

*checks for pink g-string in pant closet* aha this would do for the day.

oya come lemme satisfy you!
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Nobody: 11:38am On Mar 28, 2016
So they are?
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Nobody: 11:40am On Mar 28, 2016
I am sha learning something
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Jadekitana(f): 11:48am On Mar 28, 2016
No be only cobwebs na forest grin some women may not want to hurt his feelings, but I do talk o, its better.
kinglekan:



Chaiii, no oga. All of una just dey keep unnecessary cobwebs down there. grin grin.

You can't blame the hubby nau. You think its easy to control Johnny depp abi? cheesy

But on a lighter note rather than complaining, tell the man how to get the job done. Most men are old schooled, so nagging about how unsatisfied you are as a lady wouldn't probably change things.

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Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Jadekitana(f): 11:52am On Mar 28, 2016
Yes o, good marathon Friday, Saturday and sunday wink
vizkiz:


You can't keep schedules for sex can you? I don't think that is possible though. Except If you mean marathon sex.
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Jadekitana(f): 11:59am On Mar 28, 2016
Those ones are probably very shy or feel guilty, hmmmmm
Rotab4life:


Lol i mentioned the pant and bag stuff cos most ladies feel like they've killed someone after sex. They just want to disappear. Yeah but after some minutes a little touch on the rod can bring it back to life
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Jadekitana(f): 12:01pm On Mar 28, 2016
vizkiz:


You can't keep schedules for sex can you? I don't think that is possible though. Except If you mean marathon sex.

Yes o, real marathon Friday, Saturday and sunday non-stop cheesy
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Nobody: 12:06pm On Mar 28, 2016
cool I guess I'll jus stay here n learn.
#TeamVirginRocks
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Burnnotice(m): 12:07pm On Mar 28, 2016
Let a gay fellow do you' I swear you'll cuum in no time.
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Jadekitana(f): 12:08pm On Mar 28, 2016
Some are selfish
Stupedinluv:
So they are?
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by chigoizie7(m): 12:12pm On Mar 28, 2016
Jadekitana:
I think it's totally heartless and ungentlemanly for men to always leave women hanging during love making. From research, movies, ladies gossip etc i'v come to find out that 80percent of men don't really care if a lady is satisfied or not as far as they are.

Often when a man cums/climaxes that's the end.His organ becomes flaccid immediately,most of them sleep off instantly not even cuddling the lady. Some come up with the excuse that they just did a hard job. Indeed!!!

These guys are often the ones who would want a woman to perform all the styles on them,and when they get to their peak that's the end. Is it that the male body was created that way? How come their organ becomes flaccid immediately? No matter what you do to resurrect it, it stays that way!

An average female body doesn't climax ontime except you really know the right places to touch, but these days who cares! A gentleman should always wait for his lady to cum however how sweet the whole thing is WAIT!! When she has arrived, you can then release whatever it is you have inside of you! In that way trust me she wouldn't be bored and start seeking sexual redemption elsewhere. It's not about pumping hard with all your veins threatening to pop out,its about satisfying us. undecided

Ps: no holier than thou talks here,waka pass undecided

*checks for pink g-string in pant closet* aha this would do for the day.



Nne, biko sex is not a tug of war. Me, once I am tired/cum, na u sabi.

As a man cums, strength no dey be say strength no dey, abi u wan make man pikin die untop the mata?

Biko, adirom ama aka with any woman, if u want to dare a woman she can go for 2hrs none stop, who go suffer am? ME. Abeg, if u no like am like that, biko break up with me Asap

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Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by kinglekan: 12:14pm On Mar 28, 2016
Jadekitana:
No be only cobwebs na forest grin some women may not want to hurt his feelings, but I do talk o, its better.


Forest shocked shocked shocked..Osanobuaaaaaaa!!! My friend wee you get a tractor and do the needful. undecided

Those wey no wan hurt the man's feelings would think of a cooler way of saying it. I mean there are a thousand ways to say something, just figure out which one would be less ego deflating. grin grin

But really keeping it locked inside would just make the lady explode. The man nor be psychic nau. Maybe in his mind he is really putting all the effort. grin

Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by Jadekitana(f): 12:16pm On Mar 28, 2016
Hahahahaha I no fit laugh oo, infact i'm speechless grin grin grin
chigoizie7:




Nne, biko sex is not a tug of war. Me, once I am tired/cum, na u sabi.

As a man cums, strength no dey be say strength no dey, abi u wan make man pikin die untop the mata?

Biko, adirom ama aka with any woman, if u want to dare a woman she can go for 2hrs none stop, who go suffer am? ME. Abeg, if u no like am like that, biko break up with me Asap
Re: Why Are Men So Selfish During Sex? by OneManLegion(m): 12:16pm On Mar 28, 2016
cruzita:
the thing tire me ooo.very selfish set of human being .only few knows how to satisfy a woman others are *make I do fast commot*

I wasn't gonna comment but; I thought you said you're a virgin?

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