KINGinVAHALA2:

It takes only a matured mind to realise that this world wouldnt have been a better place without this "evil".
Either we like it or not it will continue to exist and what is needed from us is not running away from this evil but working on how to overcome it when it shows it face.

I personally nurse this believe that anything that happens on earth is good, if not God in his infinite mercy wouldn't have allowed it to be part of we humans he created in his own image and likeness.

What you call EVIL might be bad to you, but its certainly good to some others, vis a vis

Are you a christian?

KINGinVAHALA2:

It takes only a matured mind to realise that this world wouldnt have been a better place without this "evil".
Either we like it or not it will continue to exist and what is needed from us is not running away from this evil but working on how to overcome it when it shows it face.

I personally nurse this believe that anything that happens on earth is good, if not God in his infinite mercy wouldn't have allowed it to be part of we humans he created in his own image and likeness.

What you call EVIL might be bad to you, but its certainly good to some others, vis a vis

Evil is not subjective sir!

Qualer:



...aaaaaaaaand here you are!

Your muse has been in hiding!

KINGinVAHALA2:

Replacing it would be wrong, so I'm not gonna do that.

Why? Because just like the thought that women re supposed to be found in the kitchen, so also was it thought that men would have to work their ass out before they could get a pvssy to fvck.

But the thought about men might not have changed, but certainly the tide has. And that's where and how the quote emanated.

Women re known and believe to always get diick whenever they wishes because their re lot of men that would happily offer it to them unlike the men of old. But same can also be said of the men of now.

I dont understand this pls

Creamish:


I was going to say sumthing very similar to your post till I saw your post... My thoughts exactly.

Don't let the society define you. This is the same reason why I don't characterize myself under any umbrella/organization. I live my life the way I deem fit...even if the society frowns at it. Its my headache..not theirs.

OP.. U owe no one any explanation rily. Keep an open mind..U just might be the reason why he became a better man.

.....nice one sweetie,

Speeechless3:
Evil is not subjective sir!

It exist because the world needs it, same way the world needs water and air.

If the whites hadn't treated s/a badly (evil), the world wouldn't had known a great man that once liveth, Mandella.

So I feel its worth justifiable.

Stupedinluv:

Are you a christian?

Sure!
Why asking?

firstEVA:
Op you want to be the one to teach him how to do?


To me studs are are just studs, they should be allowed to serve their purpose then move onto the next.

They are just date or boyfriend material, definitely not husband material, marry him at your own peril.

You date the stud, then marry the good guy, simple.

Unfortunately, that's how the studs also reason: date the sluts, marry the good girls.

firstEVA:
I said date, where did I mention sex? You think it's everyone that sleep with who they date When will u people have sense sef

keep deceiving yourself.

Stupedinluv:


I dont understand this pls

I meant sex was the major thing women of old used in trapping men in their generation.

But it doesn't work anymore because this same sex that was their yardstick can easily to be gotten by men of nowadays.

And that why my earlier quote stated that a woman must strive so hard to hold any man that truly love her.

You dont understand. Evil cant be subjective because we have the same moral awareness. We all know bad and good. What is good to you in a moral sense cannot be bad to me. That would result to chaos.

Except you saying evil is necessary, then i agree but its wrong to say its good cos it isnt.

KINGinVAHALA2:

It exist because the world needs it, same way the world needs water and air.

If the whites hadn't treated s/a badly (evil), the world wouldn't had known a great man that once liveth, Mandella.

So I feel its worth justifiable.

VictorRomanov:



Unfortunately, that's how the studs also reason: date the sluts, marry the good girls.

makes life balanced.

KINGinVAHALA2:

I meant sex was the major thing women of old used in trapping men in their generation.

But it doesn't work anymore because this same sex that was their yardstick can easily to be gotten by men of nowadays.

And that why my earlier quote stated that a woman must strive so hard to hold any man that truly love her.

Yes good men are going extinct and so are good women.
Hence, in the same vein, a man must strive hard to hold any woman that truly loves him.

firstEVA:
makes life balanced.

So it seems, till a good girl ends up marrying a cheating stud and vice versa.

Speeechless3:
You dont understand. Evil can be subjective because we have the same moral awareness. We all know bad and good. What is good to you in a moral sense cannot be bad to me. That would result to chaos.

Except you saying evil is necessary, then i agree but its wrong to say its good cos it isnt.

Nah, I never stated its good.
Reading through my comments on this, what you would pick out is necessary, and that's why I had to used mandella's story as an example.

KINGinVAHALA2:

Sure!

Why asking?

Because you dont sound like one.

firstEVA:
Op you want to be the one to teach him how to do?


To me studs are are just studs, they should be allowed to serve their purpose then move onto the next.

They are just date or boyfriend material, definitely not husband material, marry him at your own peril.

You date the stud, then marry the good guy, simple.

Her contribution is a sandwich short of a picnic as usual...oponu

Where you not the one that said this

I personally nurse this believe that anything that happens on earth is good, if not God in his infinite mercy wouldn't have allowed it to be part of we humans he created in his own image and likeness.

What you call EVIL might be bad to you, but its certainly good to some others, vis a vis

Maybe you should proof read or "brain read" before posting.

KINGinVAHALA2:

Nah, I never stated its good.
Reading through my comments on this, what you would pick out is necessary, and that's why I had to used mandella's story as an example.

Stupedinluv:


Because you dont sound like one.

Sorry to ask, but how does Christians sound?

I'm not good at preaching what I don't adhere to, e.g preaching against fornication when in actual sence I'm a fornicator. Its called deceit, and I don't involve myself in such.

Stupedinluv:


Yes good men are going extinct and so are good women.
Hence, in the same vein, a man must strive hard to hold any woman that truly loves him.

Nah, there re still lot of Good men and women.

Most times its basically our mindsets that makes us feel and believe some persons aren't good.

@op, i hope you haven't been searching in the wrong places? If by any chance you desire the 'tall, dark n hansome man', rich & caring. A man who has the mythical ability to treat you like snow white & all the typical young woman fantasies, just know u gon have to mow thru a long list of females to get to him. No be their fault: miles & boone, harlequin et al glory them, your fellow women throw themselves @ 'em studs. It's good you knw what you want but I really hope for ur sake you are looking in the right direction.

VictorRomanov:


So it seems, till a good girl ends up marrying a cheating stud and vice versa.

it's all balanced, you can't have two good people in a relationship, very difficult or two bad people.

Lol..its understandable why you say what you say because you are just 20 so you are still VERY young and can afford to say these things (no experience of real world yet)let's see if you still feel same way in 9yrs time and you are still single..good luck tho.

Speeechless3:
Where you not the one that said this Maybe you should proof read or "brain read" before posting.

Cambridge dictionary definition of necessary : needed
in order to achieve a particular result:

Definition of good : benefit or advantage to someone or something.

Though they re both differently pronounced but they re both kinda synonymous to another.

That simple means I could have used good where I used necessary, vis a vis.

So it would be left for you to pick any of the both words that would help you understand a sentence better.

KINGinVAHALA2:

Nah, there re still lot of Good men and women.

Most times its basically our mindsets that makes us feel and believe some persons aren't good.

You make things hard to understand for yourself

If there are many good men why should we try hard and well vice versa?

darkenedrebel:


Her contribution is a sandwich short of a picnic as usual...oponu

you have been noticed, u can crawl back to your cave in kiev

Let me just say you have ego issues because you clearly contradicted yourself

KINGinVAHALA2:

Cambridge dictionary definition of necessary : needed
in order to achieve a particular result:

Definition of good : benefit or advantage to someone or something.

Though they re both differently pronounced but they re both kinda synonymous to another.

That simple means I could have used good where I used necessary, vis a vis.

So it would be left for you to pick any of the both words that would help you understand a sentence better.

My definition of a höe is not a woman who shägs around because she has this seemly interminable desire to satiate her sëxual urges (prostitutes and Essex girls excluded)...

In my parlance, höes are girls/ladies/women who are unfaithful to their partners...I mean, why commit yourself to one and yet, still go ahead to practice bedmatics with another? It reeks of indiscipline - same applies to men/guys who cheat on their lovers...

...I believe biological taxonomists labelled us higher animals for a reason...

firstEVA:
you have been noticed, u can crawl back to your cave in kiev

Go read on citizenship by Jus Soli...

I know you were never under the tutelage of a qualified social studies teacher in your primary school, so I'm giving you a pass...olodo oshi

Stupedinluv:
At 20, i have come to realise the joy and fulfilment in living life to the fullest. Coming from a noble home, i was not raised to be a man's stooge not to talk of an animal's. My worth was defined from the day i stepped into earth and has been shapened overtime. I was taught the right and the wrong. And that moral laws condone no breaker. If a woman must be condemned and despised for a crime, a man must by all means face the same. I believed this and i knew before God and men it was the truth. I didnt just believe, it became real to me and has influenced my judgement.

However, the society has flung half of this truth and has held on to a part because of how drunk in power it has become and the advantage this fist had fetched it.

We are aware now of this evil conditioning that a woman who sleeps around is a slut and should be desired less but a man who does same a stud and should be the craving of every woman. Many men have quietly nodded in agreement and a few mouthy ones have not failed to vocalise their agreement. And women? So many to the shame of dignity and womanhood have sang along with the men. And you wonder which would sacrifice her pride to make a stud!?

Because to make more studs we need more sluts. Can any of you women come out and offer yourself to a man who would dump you for another. If you cannot hold your peace and stupidity!

A stud is a man who is sexually attractive to so many women. So they say! but i see a stud as an animal who is unable to control its sexual desires, hates monogamous relationships and (therefore) deserves to be judged and condemned.


Women who say they are attracted to studs and hate inexperienced men need not only their heads examined but their consciences and should not take offence when they are called sluts. Cos only a slut or zombie would reason this way.


A stud has nothing tangible to offer except to toy with my emotion, cause me heart breaks and render me unproductive.

For every stud out there there are ten whores rendering my gender useless and subjecting me to prove myself as a woman of pride and esteem all the time. Nothanks.

No one deters the other from taking a necessary and timely leave in a marriage or a union, he cheats you go, you cheat you equally go. Don't get us back into this vicious circle of moral I holy pass... We have had enough preachers already.

Women keep a bevy of men whom they call upon like making a choice on what fragrance to wear. By virtue of being women the choice has always been thiers to part those legs or not but not men and trust me, men would readily shove through once invited.

By the way you have been noticed! Woman of pride and esteem

At least we have a thinking lady who is not swayed by societal norms on NL. @OP don't be discouraged by the negative comments. You know what you want and your going for it, that's good. Just believe in yourself, you wouldn't want to spend your life in regret, realizing you were right the whole time. They probably want you to make their mistakes

GoodBoi1:
At least we have a thinking lady who is not swayed by societal norms on NL. @OP don't be discouraged by the negative comments. You know what you want and your going for it, that's good. Just believe in yourself, you wouldn't want to spend your life in regret, realizing you were right the whole time. They probably want you to make their mistakes

Thank you