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Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by 6pax: 4:43pm On May 24, 2016
"When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity."
Albert Einstein (1879-1955)
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by colli247(m): 4:47pm On May 24, 2016
Babe my name is hmmn just hmmmmmmmm pls I can,t remember my name again.
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by rigarmortis: 4:48pm On May 24, 2016
its not shyness nowadays, there are many things involved.

you go to work early, you close late and tired, weekend you are resting, watching match and drinking with buddies, coupled with the ecnonmic situation, where is the time?

girls who want attention have to go out of their way to give a little green light nowadays otherwise nothing for you. even the single ones at work sef are looking for attention and getting none.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by kikies(m): 4:52pm On May 24, 2016
Utchgirl:



kk naah !

Mo ti gbo !
Ahhhh u saw dat...... *covers face* now I'm shyer cool
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by atirolu(m): 5:00pm On May 24, 2016
I was a victim sometime back, the moment u have somebody in ur mind to woo but scared of her and the moment u got the courage via friends and families she hooked with another guy

I still love that girl thou (opeoluwa) but I wasn't courageous enough sad sad sad

But now I can ask remi tinubu out of I see her or linda
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by Nobody: 5:02pm On May 24, 2016
Xoxo cool true about me! cool cool cool
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by Mimimaidservice(f): 5:06pm On May 24, 2016
i like shy guys or nerds once i know he is interested in me and I LIKE HIM, i will help the process out by being extra friendly and making him comfortable....

i think its sexy (Shy guys)

it means they are not overly smart and open eyed and wont be hollering up all the heffers on the street.

but my advice to them shy dudes... try the ones in your league!

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by HARDDON: 5:07pm On May 24, 2016
SirWere:


It's a brain freeze naw........ embarassedembarassed


All the topic he planned to bring up just disappeared from his brain angryangry


grin

Help on my my signature!
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by Fynestboi: 5:09pm On May 24, 2016
2&5 Used to be my thing, but now cheesy
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by TBankxx(m): 5:11pm On May 24, 2016
7. Afraid Of Being Getting Slapped
Lol.. are u kidding me? wow! so hilarious
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by HARDDON: 5:11pm On May 24, 2016
Mimimaidservice:
i like shy guys or nerds once i know he is interested in me and I LIKE HIM, i will help the process out by being extra friendly and making him comfortable....

i think its sexy (Shy guys)

it means they are not overly smart and open eyed and wont be hollering up all the heffers on the street.

but my advice to them shy dudes... try the ones in your league!



Oh sexy heavens!

Ladies have league? shocked
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by KingZeus(m): 5:13pm On May 24, 2016
AngelAhnie:
grin grin


He kept asking me same question for like hundred times.. So he did that cox he's shy, good to know grin

Guy: Angel, what is your real name?

me: my name is Ann

Guy: Oh, Ann that's a nice name.

After few minutes of talking about how he can't cook and all that. He asked same questiongringrin

Angel what's your real name and I answered you've asked this same question for like 100 timesgringrin
Shy guys are very funnygrin







We are..

Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by menxer: 5:15pm On May 24, 2016
This OP sef, which kind 7 reasons?

Being shy is the main if not the only reason that would hinder a guy from approaching a lady.

I used to be shy approaching ladies, how did I over come it?

when attracted to a lady, I would tell myself "I am exchanging my friendship for hers," with that I was oblivious to all limiting factors.

Surprisingly it worked most of the time and when it didn't, I refused to feel rejected/dejected but that She is in a relationship already. grin

most importantly, be creative as no two ladies would fall for the same things, and it will shock you at what ladies fall for.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by ameezy(m): 5:18pm On May 24, 2016
wink any how sha i still remain BABA FOR THE GIRLS cheesy
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by missingrib(f): 5:22pm On May 24, 2016
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If you believe you will have a lot of money in your bank account.. Kindly click "SHARE" with faith.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by Fxwarrior: 5:24pm On May 24, 2016
AngelAhnie:
grin grin


He kept asking me same question for like hundred times.. So he did that cox he's shy, good to know grin

Guy: Angel, what is your real name?

me: my name is Ann

Guy: Oh, Ann that's a nice name.

After few minutes of talking about how he can't cook and all that. He asked same questiongringrin

Angel what's your real name and I answered you've asked this same question for like 100 timesgringrin
Shy guys are very funnygrin




If he's nice, you may encourage him since its not easy. Smile at him and ask him his name.Once you maintain the convocation, he'll find his voice along the way.

#TeamShyGuys
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by missingrib(f): 5:33pm On May 24, 2016
Obere4u:
But shy guys are more caring and loving.... 90% of them do not double date and they endure a lot just to make the relationship work simply because it will take another thousand year to get a new date
bros u sabi crack someone's rib..a thousand year haba..but BTW shy guys are cute

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by druxy(m): 5:53pm On May 24, 2016
mehn..that shyness na bastard o....just know why you are shy...the main thing na fear....of what?try and do it for fun...and move with people that are pros lobatan...and if you got tongue tied...tell her you don't know what to say..jokingly ni o...if she geh sense she will come along...

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by streetzdreamz(m): 5:53pm On May 24, 2016
Zceesneh:
i will continue saying hwfa grin if i don't know what to say
lols,she will get the point if she aint the hyper type and help you out with the conversation...this cracked me up,funny u.
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by Nobody: 5:54pm On May 24, 2016
There's nothing wrong with being shy, in some cases it can be a defence mechanism.

But I believe that when a shy guy really likes a woman he will find his courage and ask her out.
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by vickvilles(m): 5:54pm On May 24, 2016
AngelAhnie:
grin grin


He kept asking me same question for like hundred times.. So he did that cox he's shy, good to know grin

Guy: Angel, what is your real name?

me: my name is Ann

Guy: Oh, Ann that's a nice name.

After few minutes of talking about how he can't cook and all that. He asked same questiongringrin

Angel what's your real name and I answered you've asked this same question for like 100 timesgringrin
Shy guys are very funnygrin



lol
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by Fxwarrior: 5:54pm On May 24, 2016
Utchgirl:



kk naah !

Mo ti gbo !

Utchgirl you are a pretty lady. Am fxwarrior from Nairaland and I wish to ask you out, get to know you better as a friend. Would this Saturday be convenient for you?

Guys and babes abeg rate this verse for me. Would it work in real life assuming the girl has been seeing your face but you two are not yet talking cos I want to use it in real life.

I don't want stories that touch o. Rejection makes a shy guy shyer. Tanks!

NB: Forget the Nairaland part. Just get the drill.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by streetzdreamz(m): 5:58pm On May 24, 2016
missingrib:
bros u sabi crack someone's rib..a thousand year haba..but BTW shy guys are cute
the guy was right,takes shy guys a long time to go over a broken relationship and start all over again,and you are correct, they are always cute,and every lady believes they are nothing but players,a setback whenever they crawl outa their shell to try out another relationship.
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by xoella: 5:59pm On May 24, 2016
shy guys are adorable nd wen u get to know them, u may even end up liking them the more...
#Myownopinion.
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by Fxwarrior: 5:59pm On May 24, 2016
Adanna86:
There's nothing wrong with being shy, in some cases it can be a defence mechanism.

But I believe that when a shy guy really likes a woman he will find his courage and ask her out.

I pray o.
Finding the courage to ask a girl out for shy guys is like a stammerer speaking clearly and coherently. E no easy joor especially after first,second girl don bone am.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by Fxwarrior: 6:00pm On May 24, 2016
xoella:
shy guys are adorable nd wen u get to know them, u may even end up liking them the more...
#Myownopinion.

Xoella that's so sweet of you.
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by omonnakoda: 6:06pm On May 24, 2016
I find it hard to approach women because I am rich and I am afraid they will separate me from my wealth. So I don't.
Too many conniving biitches out there. Hell the ones in the banks,account officers and the like are just too nice,everything I say is sooooooo funny even my farts are hilarious ,its unreal.Damn!

Young men trust me,do not waste your time learning how to approach women.Spend your time learning how to approach money and getting money to listen to you after that all worldly things shall be added unto you.
Ask Aki and Pawpaw

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by DanceVille: 6:14pm On May 24, 2016
missingrib:
u sure know how to......
What dear?
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by DanceVille: 6:15pm On May 24, 2016
Lovelynature:
Gush! DanceVille just described me then


I was so shy to the point that a beautiful lady crushing on me started the talking. Since then, she gets angry whenever we don't talk.
I saw the greenlight then, yet very shy


I have changed anyway. It's all about confidence and determination even when intimidated
Lol! That's good bro.
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by noblegrex: 6:17pm On May 24, 2016
AngelAhnie:
grin grin


He kept asking me same question for like hundred times.. So he did that cox he's shy, good to know grin

Guy: Angel, what is your real name?

me: my name is Ann

Guy: Oh, Ann that's a nice name.

After few minutes of talking about how he can't cook and all that. He asked same questiongringrin

Angel what's your real name and I answered you've asked this same question for like 100 timesgringrin
Shy guys are very funnygrin



very funny to you. And that's when you're in LOVE already or you just liked the person naturally cos to some,very anoying and frustrating. They might not even answer the second question very well or they answer with their NOSE,Head and face
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by DanceVille: 6:18pm On May 24, 2016
Fynestboi:
2&5 Used to be my thing, but now cheesy
Baba Fynest! I hail you oo.
Re: 7 Reasons Why Shy Guys Find It Difficult To Approach A Lady by DanceVille: 6:20pm On May 24, 2016
menxer:
This OP sef, which kind 7 reasons?

Being shy is the main if not the only reason that would hinder a guy from approaching a lady.

I used to be shy approaching ladies, how did I over come it?

when attracted to a lady, I would tell myself "I am exchanging my friendship for hers," with that I was oblivious to all limiting factors.

Surprisingly it worked most of the time and when it didn't, I refused to feel rejected/dejected but that She is in a relationship already. grin

most importantly, be creative as no two ladies would fall for the same things, and it will shock you at what ladies fall for.
Hmm! Nice move sha.

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