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Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by oshaosha2014(m): 12:21pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
Receive sense in Jesus name. Those men you have their pix here have women at home that look up to them. This is pure insult to the lady. Why not post pix of responsible and well cultured men. No matter the level a man finds himself on the ladder of life, there's a woman there treating him like a king. fellis: 4 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by oshaosha2014(m): 12:22pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
They are husbands onto themselves. Remii: 1 Like |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Menzy86(m): 12:22pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
Africans will never fully grasp the basics or core of a concept before rushing to ridicule its entire essence. Unknown to many, the feminist movement was started by a MAN (need to look up his full name again) with advocacy for the BASIC RIGHTS of women to be respected as much as possible back then. Here in Nigeria, I have seen SEVERAL successful women that fully understand what GENDER ROLES are and have perfectly internalized its essence and are living in very happy and successful marriages. These days we just have a band of little girls who know little or nothing about respect and mutuality contesting for primary relevance in peculiar roles only when it favours them. That is why more marriages are going sour these days and more thriftless children are been born. The real women are strategists. They know men live for their ego and water it while furthering their courses unnoticed. Our parents lived like this and had successful marriages and bred intelligent (all round) children. No responsible and well bred man will want a confrontational and obviously competitive woman for a wife. Never works and thats what ALL WOMEN must understand and work on how to balance. I for certain would NEVER settle for dunce of a wife. That will translate to having dunces for children in many cases! 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by dollyjoy(f): 12:28pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
DollyParton1:Thank you miss/Mrs high self esteem, my low self esteem keeps me going and place me at peace/ harmony with my dearest. 6 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by dollyjoy(f): 12:29pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
Xano:bless you too sir |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Gerrard59(m): 12:31pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
cr7lomo: Highly fallacious. I'm as heterosexual as the word denotes, and yes, I'm a feminist; a proud one at that. 4 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by chccho(m): 12:31pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
aalangel:How did i conclude or say anything about being married or not? U should be very careful how u react/respond to topics cos it could directly or indirectly show ur stand. |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by dollyjoy(f): 12:31pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
fellis:Now this is funny. Lmaooooooooooo 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by chccho(m): 12:35pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
Gerrard59:Pls can u do me the honour of confirming this 1 Like |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by kikies(m): 12:42pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
chiwetel:Nope I embrace it I once had a gf who already had MSc n was doin her PhD in SA, I Neva for once felt inferior with my BSc n she made sure I Neva felt inferior n she also made sure I Neva did.....because she didn't stick it in my face Dats wat I'm talking about. |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by obamma: 12:42pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
dollyjoy: God bless your marriage plenty. Those who have ear let them hear. Those that choose to argue all the time will only reap fruits of argument which is not palatable. 1 Like |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by trilobite: 12:43pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
DollyParton1: Look, I know how many "I will show him" kind of wives I have encountered. Some of whom married very good men. I know there is a risk in surrendering your will for the good of the collective. That is why you need to choose carefully before settling down. Because once you have entered that lane, you no longer come first. Your husband, kids, should be the priority. You can be a feminist outside your home, but once you get home, the feminist cap gets dumped. |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by kikies(m): 12:43pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
doll912: N dats exactly wat I'm saying,maybe u jst didn't read well n didn't catch my drift |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
Shym3xx: Those are Dictionary definitions & examples. But that's okay, you can limit yourself to what you're used to. The same way your limited world has sheltered you from women Engineers, women Truck drivers and women who pick up their own bills. 4 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by chinuz(m): 12:45pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
If only nigeria accepted the same sex marriage i would so love to see the faces of feminist mothers when their daughters turn lesbian to avoid being mistreated by men. 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by oshaosha2014(m): 12:50pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
You and I know you are speaking rubbish. I know your type. How many women you find in place of authority which is traditionally occupied by a man, that still submit themselves to any man. How many of you can attain an enviable height in life and society and still respect your husband as the head and submit to his authority?. Hardly any of you, because you cant handle that level as a woman. Many of you are there old and single.. living as your own 'husband and wife.' Mind you, not all men are beasts like you postulated, many men out there adore and cherish and respect their wives because she knows her place as a helpmate and not dragging authority with her man as many of you do today. And these genuinely submissive women have more powers than many of you bimbos going about looking for powers you did not earn. Go and read about folorunsho alakija; the husband is almost nonexistent because he allowed her run all their business... was she able to achieve that by making so much noise like y'all do today? I think not. Men will naturally let go off the reins and take the back seat when they find themselves with a good woman/wife. chiwetel: 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by HaneefahRN(f): 12:57pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
Is this bororo married? I don't believe men are superior to women. In the family structure you can tell me the husband is the head of the home and above his wife. That is accepted in the family setting. We have varying but equally important and supportive functions. Don't tell me every Tom, Dick, Harry is superior to me cos he has a dic. k swinging between his thighs. Mttchew 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by nishola17(f): 1:02pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
I don't believe in the gender equality or feminism movement , God created male and female with different roles therefore we can't be equal. As a lady my bible and pastor tells me to be submissive to MY HUSBAND not to Everyman in the society . In as much as ladies aspire to be CEO, MD ,GMD and the likes your primary role in the home as a lady shouldn't be neglected cos of career and challenging the authority of your HUSBAND is totally wrong even if the lady is the bread winner. Many ladies feel when they are up there , they can challenge and compete with their husbands . It's wrong in the home That's my take on the issue . 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by harsysky(m): 1:02pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
ummeey: To answer you: 1)Yes 2) Love building food ( cos wen you respect a man, he'll love and give you attention) 3) My gal friend just prepared respect for me now 4) No, I don't. 1 Like |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by dare2differ: 1:04pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
He divorced his wife because she was abusive. HaneefahRN: 1 Like |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Olabestonic001(m): 1:05pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
chiwetel: If you dt dear, you'll be married. Wife is a role and husband is one too. The problem of those feminists is that they sought to emasculate the man just because some men are foolish and bad. I've seen bad women, but I believe women are naturally good. Most women get it wrong with their man because they go to marriage with a mindset of "partnership" and most men get it wrong because they go to marriage with a mindset of "Boss" and not leader. I daresay that most women will submit to a True Leader but are our ladies ready to be women again? Are they not seeing their hubby as rivals rather than true heads? The day a man's headship and ego is bruised, the marriage begins to nosedive. 1 Like |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Odunharry(m): 1:07pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
wiringdpt:lol.. many Nigerians, females especially are just following the bandwagon..trust me alot dont know what the movement is all about and many are hypocrites. They want equal rights yet can't do what many men do for them. 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Odunharry(m): 1:11pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
Breadmaker:A bottle of Andre and full chicken for you 1 Like |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
cococandy:My dear, you need help. Your logic on issue is always negatively skewed and dysfunctional. No need to take you seriously till you learn to have a balance perspective to life. It's pretty amazing how you create all those illusions in your mind about some traditions that impede you and of men that assume a stereotypical role that you create for them out of nothingness. One wonders why it is only the future of your daughters that you have deemed necessary to secure. What then should happen to your sons and grand sons? Your life must be really sad and I can't but pity all the men you have around and hanging in for your type. I have pleasure in informing you that your bitterness about men is needless. In case it might be the matter that you regret your natural condition, kindly note that medicine today offers you an escape route - that's why we have transgenders and we would have no hesitation to class in you in the category you belong. What do you contribute to the world and why do you want society to answer to you merely because of the presence of a breast and a slightly bloated waist line? The less of your nuisance we have in the world, the better for all us - and that includes your daughters and grand daughters! You can only just be Cococandy! No more, No less. 3 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by HaneefahRN(f): 1:13pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
dare2differ: Lolz |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Shym3xx: 1:24pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
RaggedyAnn: Lol. Now you're sounding more and more like an internet armchair feminist a la feminazi lol. Apart from the fact that usage is wrong in context of women in general, it is also wrong in the context of feminism in which you used it. I bet you don't know that there are black feminists (Pioneer black feminists) who don't agree with traditional feminism cos they believe traditional feminism doesn't cater to them culturally as women of colour and it only caters to white women from an Eurocentric perspective lol. Now, can you see the racial divide now? So why would you use race to qualify something as dysfunctional as that with so many divides? 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by ogunaofor: 1:28pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
A quick google search for those who don't know. Because i see alot of ignorance on display here Gender equality is the view that both men and women should receive equal treatment and not be discriminated against based on their gender. Gender equality is a human right. Women are entitled to live with dignity and with freedom from want and from fear. – See more at: http://www.unfpa.org/gender-equality#sthash.RZsZ5Fhn.dpuf 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Olabestonic001(m): 1:28pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
Gerrard59: Sorry, Advocacies and Activism do not give hope, they give rights. And Rights do not help much to model humanity, it helps only to fictionalise. Soon, mark it, there'll be "men's rights" groups. Interestingly, any success gotten by brigandage will always create disharmony. Feminists have got men pissed off with such folks. Feminists only created a devil to counter another devil. Men didn't treat women well in former dispensation but it seems Feminists are bent on treating and manipulating men in the present dispensation. Women dt promulgate Feminisms are always protective that their sons are not well treated by the other woman. Feminist major agenda if you look at it, is to Control Men. 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by mikolo80: 1:30pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
aalangel:yet you're commenting on his thread 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Barywhyte(m): 1:31pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
dollyjoy: Iwo Obinrin yi, it shall be well with you! Don't knw what to say to you |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by DollyParton1(f): 1:47pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
dollyjoy: If peace/harmony with your dearest is the ultimate you wish to achieve in life, then clap for yasef... you aff arrived..... 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Olabestonic001(m): 1:50pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
fellis: On the contrary, I think women who had a sour and bitter experiences with men are the ones who crave feminism. But, how do we blame such women? The heads were bad and it has affected them. Feminists deserves men's pity because a correct man will make the woman forget Gender Equality and Women's Rights. I lament daily that we rely on some dumb Advocacies to do Right. A true man will let a woman reach her full potential (under GOD). Even when we have a gender-biased Israel's society, men like Lapidoth and Miriam's hubby let their women reach their full potentials without competing with them for Centre-stage. And also, if a woman is destined for Centre-Stage, a True man will let her reach it without feeling threatened. But, we have a dearth of Correct Men in our world, hence, incorrect women abounds. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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