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Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by dauntless15(m): 12:15pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Joelchris:ive approach many girls in a gentlemanly manner and 80% of them listened to me, i dont approach you with judgement i approach you with subtlety and respect if you see an immature person with no manner of aproach you'll know the moment that person talks to you except your aren't intelligent and can't read people, the way i approach you might give you the impression that a guy is coming to woo you or tell you something intresting i wouldn't go into the advice straight i might chat with you a bit before diverting into the main purpose but i wont sound like am condemning you I'll sound like someone with your best interest at heart. |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Funkybabee(f): 12:15pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
@op I can't blame u, but know something that girls disgrace image of a real woman. our problems in this generation is our celebrities or yeyebrities they called themselves. they are the one that brings trash outside so that people can comments on their likes,it will be nice if will woman start condemn them if they wear trash and tell them to stop destroying our image. if we can join together and do that, they also we know they are worthless in front of us if they dress in immature way. that is why I love Nigeria because they are good in criticizing bad habit or dress. |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by nonjebose(m): 12:18pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Ghost01:of course it is indecent to many ladies. There was a thread on nl where the response of some ladies to a shirtless Iyanya was negative. Indecent dressing though relative, surely exist, and it elicits different reactions 1 Like |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Owliver(m): 12:20pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Funkybabee:my babe don show. hmm your comment sha hehe 1 Like |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Kakamorufu(m): 12:21pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Breadmaker:they are very sorry |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by transient123(m): 12:24pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Triczchic: And which group do you belong? The respected or disrespected? Maybe your Dp could give a judgement. |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Owliver(m): 12:32pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
like power, absolute freedom corrupts absolutely. even in churches these days you see them dressing anyhow they like and speak in tongues. last Sunday my d?ck just dey shake cos of booties wey I dey see everywhere. if you talk they will say control your eyes. how? pluck it out Abi? oloshi Christianity is a joke. I dislike Islam but am beginning to see sense in hijab. 1 Like |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Nobody: 12:34pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
The person that loves you is going to respect you and cherish you for the man or woman that you are That said it doesn't mean you should not carry yourself in a respectable fashion. Let's be truthful it's the way the World is I guess for them the only way to get noticed is to be controversial It works but for how long? Till another person does something equally as daring Let your work reflect your true self and not only will you be recognized you will be celebrated endlessly 1 Like |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by nortcentrallord(m): 12:37pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
They are what they are...hoes and Bitches @least that's what their dressing expresses them as. |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by nortcentrallord(m): 12:40pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Owliver: The fault should fall on your pastor for allowing indecent dressing in your church. Its got nothing to do with Christianity. Not even God will come down to educate anyone on that. When some Orthodox churches kick against such, our new generation people refer to them as being Judgemental and old" |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by nortcentrallord(m): 12:41pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Owliver: The fault should fall on your pastor for allowing indecent dressing in your church. Its got nothing to do with Christianity. Not even God will come down to educate anyone on that. When some Orthodox churches kick against such, our new generation people refer to them as being "Judgmental and old" this is just a "wicked generation" |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by nkemjacob2(m): 12:45pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
We call dis kind of shot advertising strategy. Who are their target audience "MEN" chop clean mouth. 1 Like |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Owliver(m): 12:49pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
nortcentrallord:I identify with Catholic, I was born free of cos but grew up a Catholic. yes in Catholic churches they now wear sexy cloths. I saw one last Sunday in coka parish with a short gown oh damn. I was like oh damn it. her booty was tweaking. who wouldn't notice that booty. even married men had a glimpse. can't she see mother Mary dress properly? even the mothers encourage them. I guess she was feeling fly. well, who are we to judge |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by waper(m): 12:50pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Humm, blue tooth sucking Breadmaker: |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Nobody: 12:51pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
It is really disheartening reading some comments here. Some folks are trying hard to justify their manner of dressing. As sentient beings, we all know what is right or wrong. There is a clear dichotomy between good and evil, between modesty and indecency. Granted some acts are open to many interpretations depending on the society and circumstances; but indecent dressing is not one of them. Immodest style of dressing is bad and evil, and IMO; any attempt to make it right is but an exercise in futility. Such efforts would always be at a dissonance with the ideals of a sane mind. The proponents of this undesirable habit have been greatly westernized and are ready to imbibe any trait once it is coming from the West. The indecent lady says to herself: " I can wear whatever I like; my manner of dressing has no effect on the people I come in contact with and the society." Hasn't such a person turned a blind eye to the concept of herd instinct in Psychology? From the concept, it is clear that humans influence each other when they interact; that the action of an individual can -- to an extent -- cause some reactions in another person with whom he/she is in contact. If, according to another well-known concept in Psychology, telepathy, humans can influence each other even when not in close proximity; then any rational mind should question the notion that what one does has no effect on people that one comes in contact with. The way you dress has a considerable effect on how you will be treated. Dress decently to be treated decently and respectfully. As humans, we are free do anything we like. We should just be mindful of the effect our action has on others in the society, since no one can live in isolation. 2 Likes |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by lilmax(m): 12:52pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
evegran:one of them 1 Like |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
There are even some churches in nigeria where dia female members dress up as in dat last pic. |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by foolinlove(f): 12:53pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Owliver: Ok well I'm vegetarian... so let's not discuss that. I know society doesn't function optimally. But we have evolved to the point where people are trying. The more people that fight for human rights the further forward we move. I don't approve of the "every person for themselves" attitude, but that's just me. Showing sympathy and empathy towards others is powerful and can change our society for the better. Or we can just go back to the dark ages, which wouldn't be that pleasant for anyone. |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by bayonino: 12:53pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
@OP you have no argument to make with any useless ladies here, you have made a very good point here, just hope that they change. Let me categorically tell you, a large percentage of ladies either celebrity or not want to dress in a thrashy way,alot of ladies have prostitution genes in their body, na only God go save us from all these Jezebels nowadays. I give no respect to all these ladies again, it hard to differentiate them from bitches. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by srrrr(m): 12:58pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
herbie27:Guy, u need some rest do. Go and sleep, then come back again. |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Owliver(m): 1:07pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
foolinlove:hmm I am happy you are coming to terms with me. and good thing you are a vegetarian. but It will never be achieved. there will always be those to exploit others. and that's the duties if the government. and with the wide spread of Islamic ideology I fear for that Disney freedom world of yours. but even if it's achievable, there would still be some who would act otherwise, not also minding the negative effect of such ideology. I call it clash of knowledge. there must be fightings and conflicts any day, any time, any year, any century. forever and ever. just fall in love and try to stay safe. |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by lilmax(m): 1:07pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
fellis:so you are the “senseful“ one? I love women like this one,you can actually have sex with their daughters even without dating them you know why? They believe its a free world Fine woman keep it up |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Olabestonic001(m): 1:07pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Breadmaker: Tell them more bro. I see that people will leave their neighbor to burn his/her house down in the name of choices not minding the fact that a foolish choice by someone will affect more than person. While I hate controlling people with a passion, I daresay that too much liberalization have a dire consequences also on the society. We must balance it to survive the horde of onslaught about to bring down our world while the liberals campaigned total foolishness in the name of "its-their-lives". |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by foolinlove(f): 1:08pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Owliver: It doesn't mean we shouldn't try. |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by jotax(m): 1:11pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Triczchic:He didn't generalize it nah, he said some! |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Tamakay(m): 1:15pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
sinaj: One decent one spotted here. At least I'm happy that they are all not the same. U r welcome dear |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by HaneefahRN(f): 1:17pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Nice write up OP. A case scenario is the mother of one that disgraced herself some days ago, if she had worn an elegant, well covering dress, her breasts will not be the talk of the World. Like it or not, the way you are dressed is the way you will be addressed. I can't see a guy in crazy all torn up jean, sagging his life out and even identify with him, I will automatically see an un serious person. You can't wear pant and bra out or a fish net or dress barely covering anything yet expect people to see you as a decent, respectable woman. You will see some people and wonder if they have parents at home. Let's not even talk about our yeyebrities who some porous brained teens and even adults take as role models. Well, like they always say, it's their life and body and they have freedom to wear whatever. It's the heart that matters, I feel more comfortable with my boobs exposed and my gown short enough to expose my VJ if I bend, don't judge me, I might be better than the lady dressed modestly. 2 Likes |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Izonpikin: 1:22pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Triczchic:Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. He said some not all... |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Owliver(m): 1:27pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
HaneefahRN:hey ISIS lady I know where you coming from. I can agree with you today but another day am against you in advance. got my eyes on you mehn |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Triczchic(f): 1:29pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Izonpikin: He modified it and added "Some". |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Triczchic(f): 1:30pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
jotax: He edited it. |
Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Izonpikin: 1:31pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
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