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Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by zcee: 12:13pm On Oct 21, 2016
All I knw be say,I go marry girl we dey simple and fresh from 21,y me go put ring for hr finger when she don reach 30 years or so,I dey crazeeeeeeeeee undecided
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by Realhommie(m): 12:13pm On Oct 21, 2016
WowSweetGuy:
24-29 dey my neck now. Plz how can I run? She is very nice but I'm not financially stable to build a family now
C'mon, you do not need to run unless you're not a good guy...


That you ain't financially stable for now doesn't mean you won't be tomorrow, all you need do is make her understand and if she really likes you she'll stay. Besides you said she's very nice, you know good girls are hard to come by these days.


So dude ain't nothing to worry about, just be honest in ur dealings.

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Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by fpeter(f): 12:14pm On Oct 21, 2016
At 18, I didn't have any worries in the world
Graduated at 23 and wasn't bothered about being serious
At 26, I felt my older ones had something wrong with them hence they weren't getting married
30...Naim i realise say i should have married the dudes from 6yrs back... cry cry cry...I started praying

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Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by Realhommie(m): 12:17pm On Oct 21, 2016
humilitypays:
You have a point but the op is correct to a large extent.

Majority of girls below 20yrs still have true love, they are not usually after money and material things. I said majority!


The worst female age ranges for any guy looking for a meaningful relationship to go for are‎:

21 - 24yrs - very materialistic, prideful and arrogant group. Girls at this age range always believe the world should bow down for them, especially the ones that are somehow physically attractive!

This is the age at which most girls make regrettable mistakes in their life.

They crush on male entertainers, actors and any man they see on TV, music video or movie a lot!

Most of them will forget moral sanity when they come across any guy into showbiz, Yahoo, etc.

Another not-so-cool female age range to avoid for serious relationship is 25 - 26.‎
I quite agree with you but would like you to elaborate on ur last statement.. Thanks
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by Nobody: 12:21pm On Oct 21, 2016
LOL! cheesy
Amacsom:
Hey! Give him your contact already!
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by Nobody: 12:21pm On Oct 21, 2016
Nope, in a relationship smiley
TheSociopath:


So what are you? Engaged?
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by WowSweetGuy(m): 12:21pm On Oct 21, 2016
Realhommie:
C'mon, you do not need to run unless you're not a good guy...


That you ain't financially stable for now doesn't mean you won't be tomorrow, all you need do is make her understand and if she really likes you she'll stay. Besides you said she's very nice, you know good girls are hard to come by these days.


So dude ain't nothing to worry about, just be honest in ur dealings.
RealHommie thanks for this advise.. Just that she is disturbing fr d next step and I'm not sure of myself again.
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by Nobody: 12:22pm On Oct 21, 2016
nubian999:


grin yes I too have these things so what is a man bringing to the table.



Deek.... grin made of flesh, muscle n blood grin
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by Realhommie(m): 12:23pm On Oct 21, 2016
fpeter:
At 18, I didn't have any worries in the world
Graduated at 23 and wasn't bothered about being serious
At 26, I felt my older ones had something wrong with them hence they weren't getting married
30...Naim i realise say i should have married the dudes from 6yrs back... cry cry cry...I started praying

Very funny...


But i hope you do not have regrets if you're still single? You should also know that to everything there's a time and season so it doesn't matter what has passed, ur time will surely come if not yet.
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by pode(m): 12:23pm On Oct 21, 2016
ChemicalReaction:
Where do I fit

You fall in the age of 40 and above
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by abbeyty(m): 12:24pm On Oct 21, 2016
NkayTiana:
True talk my dear

But what about girls like us who really doesn't care about guys

Whether money,love,or 6packs some people have crossed their mind not to care

What category do you place them

Teeeyana says so!!

i think the op is talking about real women not lesbian

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Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by TheSociopath(m): 12:27pm On Oct 21, 2016
ItsQuinn:
Nope, in a relationship smiley
Okay, cool. I hope it leads to something great
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by Nobody: 12:27pm On Oct 21, 2016
Whats wrong with jesus being someone's husband?
soberdrunk:
40 and above-----Jesus is my husband.......
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by fpeter(f): 12:29pm On Oct 21, 2016
Realhommie:
Very funny...


But i hope you do not have regrets if you're still single? You should also know that to everything there's a time and season so it doesn't matter what has passed, ur time will surely come if not yet.


Not much regrets though, i can't turn back the hands of time...i did some very stupid things that cost me serious partners. As a young lady, I felt i was pretty enough to get any man i wanted so if any man left me it was just a matter of time, I learned the hard way though but God turned up for me when I started praying to Him for Mercy cos i knew i had messed up my opportunities big time. I had a big bash at my 30th birthday and to my chagrin, my younger ones told me to 'goan' marry that they were tired of coming for my B'day parties and their friends were asking them questions...reality!

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Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by Realhommie(m): 12:30pm On Oct 21, 2016
WowSweetGuy:
RealHommie thanks for this advise.. Just that she is disturbing fr d next step and I'm not sure of myself again.
OK, i understand... Obviously she's thinking a lot about marriage now and a little desperation is beginning to set in.


Well, you can only do ur bit, it's left to her to decide whether to stay and build with you if you won't disappoint her, or leave to get married to someone else.. Possibly she's getting marriage hint from some guy somewhere and she's seriously considering.. However you should fret not, what's urs is urs, in other words "Wetin go be go be".... #Cheers
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by Nobody: 12:31pm On Oct 21, 2016
Thanks cheesy
TheSociopath:


Okay, cool. I hope it leads to something great
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by Nobody: 12:31pm On Oct 21, 2016
NkayTiana:
True talk my dear

But what about girls like us who really doesn't care about guys

Whether money,love,or 6packs some people have crossed their mind not to care

What category do you place them

Teeeyana says so!!
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by doll912(f): 12:32pm On Oct 21, 2016
So, what is the moral lesson of this post? In this recession that's when one jobless person will be posting something that doesn't translate to money. .......






Abeg Miss Genevieve Nnaji, I have a 105k dress for you...

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Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by TheSociopath(m): 12:33pm On Oct 21, 2016
ItsQuinn:
Thanks cheesy
You welcome grin
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by Realhommie(m): 12:36pm On Oct 21, 2016
fpeter:



Not much regrets though, i can't turn back the hands of time...i did some very stupid things that cost me serious partners. As a young lady, I felt i was pretty enough to get any man i wanted so if any man left me it was just a matter of time, I learned the hard way though but God turned up for me when I started praying to Him for Mercy cos i knew i had messed up my opportunities big time. I had a big bash at my 30th birthday and to my chagrin, my younger ones told me to 'goan' marry that they were tired of coming for my B'day parties and their friends were asking them questions...reality!
Hmmmmmmmmmm..


Well, the good thing about life is that everyday's a second chance and just as i earlier posited ur time will surely come regardless of what went down in ur past..


Now you've found God be rest assured he (GOD) will come through for you. All is well that ends well so cheer up...
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by bemind(f): 12:48pm On Oct 21, 2016
To the OP @Toksxxx

I guess this is a rebound from the "Cant marry a guy who earns N50,000" thread. It really hurts doesn't it? I've realized that guys who have absolutely, I mean zilch, zero chances with exceptional women in real life, always use this marriage subject to massage their overtly sensitive egos. Grading single women by age and hampering on how sad they are gives your ego a little relief, for once in your life you feel in charge. We can easily spot the weaklings because they obsess about single ladies.

Advice to striking women, please do not be perturbed by posts like this. The gentle man who posted this is a known wanke.r, by wanke.r I mean chronic masturbato.r, he is a sex addict, with a wife who literally threw him out.

Loosers like this get really pissed on sighting strong beautiful women who have re-prioritized their life goals, because it tends to remind them of their own failures and magnify their undignified lives. If this is the kind of speech you read to your self to help you sleep well at night, then carry on brother. It's sure better than suicide.

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Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by Nobody: 12:53pm On Oct 21, 2016
Na wa O! cheesy grin
bemind:
To the OP @Toksxxx

I guess this is a rebound from the "Cant marry a guy who earns N50,000" thread. It really hurts doesn't it? I've realized that guys who have absolutely, I mean zilch, zero chances with exceptional women in real life, always use this marriage subject to massage their overtly sensitive egos. Grading single women by age and hampering on how sad they are gives your ego a little relief, for once in your life you feel in charge. We can easily spot the weaklings because they obsess about single ladies.

Advice to striking women, please do not be perturbed by posts like this. The gentle man who posted this is a known wanke.r, by wanke.r I mean chronic masturbato.r, he is a sex addict, with a wife who literally threw him out.

Loosers like this get really pissed on sighting strong beautiful women who have re-prioritized their life goals, because it tends to remind them of their own/magnify their undignified lives. If this is the kind of speech you read to your self to help you sleep well at night, then carry on brother. It's sure better than suicide.
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by humilitypays(m): 12:57pm On Oct 21, 2016
Realhommie:
I quite agree with you but would like you to elaborate on ur last statement.. Thanks
‎Between the age range of 21 - 23, girls don't care...their aim in life is to have fun, party with hot and popular guys. Hang out at the best eateries, fly around in female groupie...and turn cool guys down and mess around with party-freaky guys who live carefree but kind of flamboyant life.

At this age, most ladies commit lots of abortions, have numerous one-night stands, grace the front seats of many exotic cars.

So if u are a cool-headed guy who intends to be focused and make the best out of your future, don't date girls of this age range.

But if u must date them, don't commit your whole heart to them as a precautionary measure.

Girls at this age belong to the showbiz/entertainment guys and guys who are into fast-businesses like drug peddling, internet scam, advanced fee fraud, etc.

They are also the play toys of politicians.

Now my last comment about ladies of age 24 - 26.

This is another dangerous age to go for if you want serious commitment as a guy.

At this age, their expectation from a guy they would agree to is very high!

Because of their high expectation from men, they end up gracing the unholy beds of so many unfaithful rich married men who usually disguise as single, divorced or separated to lure them into their filthy beds.

If you aren't financially okay as a guy, and don't own a car, please avoid ladies of this age range because they will make your life miserable...and in fact, most of them at this age don't even reply hello from a guy who isn't on the steering of a car because of their high expectation and greed.

Guys who own a nice looking car and apartment get these ladies between age 24 - 26yrs very easily.

If you want a lady that will support your dream as a guy and help you grow, go for ladies between 28yrs - 35yrs.

They have made so many mistakes in life and they have learned from their past mistakes and are working hard to become good women, so they respect any man that comes their way at this age, having realized the worth of a good, cool-headed man.

If you are a playboy, please don't go for ladies of this age range...because karma won't be happy with you.

If you wanna play as a guy, go for girls of 20 - 24yrs, they are ready for fun without love!‎

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Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by agrovick(m): 12:58pm On Oct 21, 2016
Mtcheeeww!
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by senibo1: 1:01pm On Oct 21, 2016
age 40 tho, they nags a lot, going from one prayer house to another grin



thank God am a man
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by humilitypays(m): 1:03pm On Oct 21, 2016
doll912:
So, what is the moral lesson of this post? In this recession that's when one jobless person will be posting something that doesn't translate to money. .......






Abeg Miss Genevieve Nnaji, I have a 105k dress for you...
Don't see his post from the negative aspect. Articles like this helps the upcoming ones to correct their mistakes and avoid ending up making same mistakes others made.

It's like an advisory article or guide for others.

I don't think he wrote it to castigate or mock single ladies but to get them awake of some of their mistakes.

I expect to see such article(s) about men too, from a lady, but shouldn't be written out of revenge, but should be well-researched to also help the single guys.

Men too make lots of mistakes when single and married, so it's not about ladies alone.‎

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Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by senibo1: 1:04pm On Oct 21, 2016
bemind:
To the OP @Toksxxx

I guess this is a rebound from the "Cant marry a guy who earns N50,000" thread. It really hurts doesn't it? I've realized that guys who have absolutely, I mean zilch, zero chances with exceptional women in real life, always use this marriage subject to massage their overtly sensitive egos. Grading single women by age and hampering on how sad they are gives your ego a little relief, for once in your life you feel in charge. We can easily spot the weaklings because they obsess about single ladies.

Advice to striking women, please do not be perturbed by posts like this. The gentle man who posted this is a known wanke.r, by wanke.r I mean chronic masturbato.r, he is a sex addict, with a wife who literally threw him out.

Loosers like this get really pissed on sighting strong beautiful women who have re-prioritized their life goals, because it tends to remind them of their own failures and magnify their undignified lives. If this is the kind of speech you read to your self to help you sleep well at night, then carry on brother. It's sure better than suicide.
how old are you? 23 to 26 I guess


know wonder, wait for 40, you'd marry the one that has only dick grin
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by JuanDeDios: 1:16pm On Oct 21, 2016
OBTSubtle:
It's as good as yours grin
I have none. I swear. embarassed
Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by Realhommie(m): 1:24pm On Oct 21, 2016
humilitypays:
‎Between the age range of 21 - 23, girls don't care...their aim in life is to have fun, party with hot and popular guys. Hang out at the best eateries, fly around in female groupie...and turn cool guys down and mess around with party-freaky guys who live carefree but kind of flamboyant life.

At this age, most ladies commit lots of abortions, have numerous one-night stands, grace the front seats of many exotic cars.

So if u are a cool-headed guy who intends to be focused and make the best out of your future, don't date girls of this age range.

But if u must date them, don't commit your whole heart to them as a precautionary measure.

Girls at this age belong to the showbiz/entertainment guys and guys who are into fast-businesses like drug peddling, internet scam, advanced fee fraud, etc.

They are also the play toys of politicians.

Now my last comment about ladies of age 24 - 26.

This is another dangerous age to go for if you want serious commitment as a guy.

At this age, their expectation from a guy they would agree to is very high!

Because of their high expectation from men, they end up gracing the unholy beds of so many unfaithful rich married men who usually disguise as single, divorced or separated to lure them into their filthy beds.

If you aren't financially okay as a guy, and don't own a car, please avoid ladies of this age range because they will make your life miserable...and in fact, most of them at this age don't even reply hello from a guy who isn't on the steering of a car because of their high expectation and greed.

Guys who own a nice looking car and apartment get these ladies between age 24 - 26yrs very easily.

If you want a lady that will support your dream as a guy and help you grow, go for ladies between 28yrs - 35yrs.

They have made so many mistakes in life and they have learned from their past mistakes and are working hard to become good women, so they respect any man that comes their way at this age, having realized the worth of a good, cool-headed man.

If you are a playboy, please don't go for ladies of this age range...because karma won't be happy with you.

If you wanna play as a guy, go for girls of 20 - 24yrs, they are ready for fun without love!‎
Kk...


The reason i actually wanted you to elaborate was coz i had an experience with a 26yr old last year, she's 27 now btw, so seeing ur last statement i just wanted to know if it correlated to what i already understand now from ladies within that age range (most)..


I know a few good ladies within the age bracket of btw 28-35, they've always been good and infact one at 30 is still a virgin. No problem with these ones... But imagine, one of my neighbors told me recently that he had sex with a 15yr old and he felt nothing, no pleasure coz her v.jay is now so slack, at 15 ooooooo.. What now becomes of that girl by the time she's 30-35,which good would she now wanna settle with? Not saying it's not possible though.



Heard of a story a couple dated a year + and no premarital sex, they got married and had sex for the first time only for the dude to call the marriage off afterwards coz of slacked pussy, he couldn't deal, Lol.... Now majority of ladies within that age range are like that after having dealings with so many men of different sizes, question here is, if you aren't married would you seriously consider one of such or you find out after marriage what would you do?

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Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by seenter84: 1:25pm On Oct 21, 2016
Make sense piece.

Some ladies won't like this.
Toks2008:
This does not apply in every case but this holds true in most cases.

[size=13pt]1.Age 18 to 23: [/size]
This set of ladies still believe in the Romeo and Juliet type of love.They don't consider money as a factor for love and when they love they do fall deep in love because they tend to be highly irrational at this stage of their lives and will not even mind eloping with you. Ironically they usually frolic with guys of very close age proximity as they are more at ease with guys of close age gaps.At this age,they still get wowed by a guy with 6packs and will gladly dump a rich dude for a man they desire. Don't ever discuss marriage with this set of ladies but they are ready to explore with you and have flings without serious commitment.

[size=13pt]2.Age 24 to 29: [/size]
At this stage, the reality of life begins to set in as many ladies in this group are either graduates of tertiary institutions or of a tech school. At this stage, they are beginning to realize that love is not enough and the harsh reality of life will make them have a rethink when they see a super hot drop dead gorgeous broke guy approach them. While this set of ladies still desire good physical attributes in a man,6packs and cuteness is no longer a must have for the guy that is ready to win their heart but the guy should show them his readiness to help them with some financial burden especially those from not so rich background.Marriage to them is something to think about without so much desperation.Guys who have nurtured romance with this set of ladies from their earlier ages stands the risk of losing them to other guys if they don't measure up to their new perspective of romance.

[size=13pt]3.Age 30 to 40:[/size]
This is the age group many ladies don't wish to be and still be unmarried. Most ladies in this age group will try to hide their desperation but deep inside, they really want a man to be their significant other. At this stage they really do not place any emphasis on money or even love but just to have a man to settle down in matrimony with. Do not go near this set if you are not ready for a purposeful affair. This set of ladies have grown in wisdom and you will hardly hear them talk about wanting a tall,cute....but at this stage, a GOD fearing man with a vision who is ready to settle down is their choice.Unlike their younger counterpart,this set of ladies are ready to build a life with a man.

[size=13pt]4.Age 41 and above:[/size]
Your guess is as good as mine.


*LOBATAN!*

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Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by holatin(m): 1:31pm On Oct 21, 2016
bemind:
To the OP @Toksxxx

I guess this is a rebound from the "Cant marry a guy who earns N50,000" thread. It really hurts doesn't it? I've realized that guys who have absolutely, I mean zilch, zero chances with exceptional women in real life, always use this marriage subject to massage their overtly sensitive egos. Grading single women by age and hampering on how sad they are gives your ego a little relief, for once in your life you feel in charge. We can easily spot the weaklings because they obsess about single ladies.

Advice to striking women, please do not be perturbed by posts like this. The gentle man who posted this is a known wanke.r, by wanke.r I mean chronic masturbato.r, he is a sex addict, with a wife who literally threw him out.

Loosers like this get really pissed on sighting strong beautiful women who have re-prioritized their life goals, because it tends to remind them of their own failures and magnify their undignified lives. If this is the kind of speech you read to your self to help you sleep well at night, then carry on brother. It's sure better than suicide.
y dnt u reply with ur real account and nt dis fake new one.
U may be right concerning who d op is but it does nt change the fact dat he is 80% right with the post.
Let go of your ego and change ur way or pray if the post speaks to you.
How old are you ?
Are you happy with ur marital stat ?

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Re: The Different Ages Of Unmarried Ladies And The Way They See Romance. by Realhommie(m): 1:33pm On Oct 21, 2016
bemind:
To the OP @Toksxxx

I guess this is a rebound from the "Cant marry a guy who earns N50,000" thread. It really hurts doesn't it? I've realized that guys who have absolutely, I mean zilch, zero chances with exceptional women in real life, always use this marriage subject to massage their overtly sensitive egos. Grading single women by age and hampering on how sad they are gives your ego a little relief, for once in your life you feel in charge. We can easily spot the weaklings because they obsess about single ladies.

Advice to striking women, please do not be perturbed by posts like this. The gentle man who posted this is a known wanke.r, by wanke.r I mean chronic masturbato.r, he is a sex addict, with a wife who literally threw him out.

Loosers like this get really pissed on sighting strong beautiful women who have re-prioritized their life goals, because it tends to remind them of their own failures and magnify their undignified lives. If this is the kind of speech you read to your self to help you sleep well at night, then carry on brother. It's sure better than suicide.
So much bitterness in ur post, over what if i may ask?

Perhaps there's something you know bout the Op that we don't coz i see ur profile says you just registered and i'm pretty sure you did for this purpose. No


Majority of persons see nothing wrong in the thread so please calm down and take tinz easy. Life is simple

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