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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Talk2Bella(f): 4:39pm On Oct 21, 2016
mhisbliss:
indeed, now i thought unicorns are extinct, aside cutehector have you asked an actual guy out? What did it culminate into, how long did it last, did you have sex?

Honey yes I have asked guys out

I have flirted with guys

I am a very sociable person most times its hard for them to turn me down, like I said it depends on how it was carried out

You need to understand someone before you go ahead and start exposing your feelings about them to them

"Matured minds"

Sometimes they understand I ain't serious and just want to flirt, there's no harm in having a good time, men love attention too you know wink and they also wanna be spoilt too it depends on how the approaching was done

Once we stop attaching much importance to sex we will stop getting hurt, you're not a virgin, you're notdeliberately celibate, you have sex with a guy and then you're feeling bad why? Enjoy it and move on and if it escalates to something strong have the best time of your life.

The writeup clearly stated how to ask Nigerian guys out not how to sleep with them

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mhisbliss(f): 4:39pm On Oct 21, 2016
Talk2Bella:


They read my post and didn't even understand because all I am seeing Is sexx sexx sexx and more sexx

I didn't say this is how to sleep with a guy or have a fling with him I meant actual dating and before you do that know the kind of person he is, if he's the kind of guy who deserves your love and all that and if he's someone you want to have a one night stand with or a lengthy fling issit not your body?
lols ok lets leave sex out of it, answer the rest of the questions because you're like the last of an extinct specie of ladies

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Nobody: 4:40pm On Oct 21, 2016
Op this your foundation sha.... grin grin grin grin

Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by KvnqPrezo(m): 4:41pm On Oct 21, 2016
It posible but don't think its right.. www.romanticpie.com
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mhisbliss(f): 4:41pm On Oct 21, 2016
Talk2Bella:


Honey yes I have asked guys out

I have flirted with guys

I am a very sociable person most times its hard for them to turn me down, like I said it depends on how it was carried out

You need to understand someone before you go ahead and start exposing your feelings about them to them

"Matured minds"

Sometimes they understand I ain't serious and just want to flirt, there's no harm in having a good time, men love attention too you know wink and they also wanna be spoilt too it depends on how the approaching was done

Once we stop attaching much importance to sex we will stop getting hurt, you're not a virgin, you're notdeliberately celibate, you have sex with a guy and then you're feeling bad why? Enjoy it and move on and if it escalates to something strong have the best time of your life.

The writeup clearly stated how to ask Nigerian guys out not how to sleep with them
you're really a wierdo
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Talk2Bella(f): 4:42pm On Oct 21, 2016
unclezuma:
Op this your foundation sha.... grin grin grin grin

Wetin I go do na cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Tajbol4splend(m): 4:43pm On Oct 21, 2016
ItsQuinn:
Lol smiley.....a lady asking a guy out

You are too crude, do u sell crude oil?

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Talk2Bella(f): 4:43pm On Oct 21, 2016
mhisbliss:
you're really a wierdo

This is not a hidden fact grin

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Nobody: 4:43pm On Oct 21, 2016
The best you can get from ladies in this part of the world is "Eye to eye contact" which is maintained for some seconds every time you see her.. They believe asking a guy out outrightly makes em look cheap.. Sometimes, they even turn your first advance down all in the name of "not-being-easy-to-get"...


All in all, I won't blame them though.. Seems our culture demands the guys to do the Starting and the Finishing...

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mazifrankmore: 4:44pm On Oct 21, 2016
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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Nobody: 4:44pm On Oct 21, 2016
ItsQuinn:
When a girl does that, he won't give her the respect she deserves and will definitely take advantage of her and that opportunity undecided....do you really want a lot of depression and sadness in your life?
nop it will surprise the guy, he will appreciate u the more
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Bishii(m): 4:44pm On Oct 21, 2016
;DFor afonja's!! take note
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Nobody: 4:45pm On Oct 21, 2016
Talk2Bella:


Wetin I go do na cheesy cheesy cheesy

E di num mma sha...ngwa bulu gawa zie!!! wink grin grin grin grin

Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mhisbliss(f): 4:45pm On Oct 21, 2016
Talk2Bella:


This is not a hidden fact grin
you own a blog i guess
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Tajbol4splend(m): 4:46pm On Oct 21, 2016
ucsparks:
I wouldn't want any girl trying that shit with me, i wouldn't take her seriously at all

Believe me I wouldn't blame ya if ya didn't, it's a natural feeling even if ya sorta liked her before she came to ya
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Fingesi(m): 4:46pm On Oct 21, 2016
This works. I fell in love twice with ladies who were bold enough to ask me out. Sincerely no love compares to when a woman desires you so much and took the bold move to ask you out. but guys miss this opportunity sometimes because "we most times fall in love with those that do not appreciate us, and end up hating those who love us"

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Yomi6(m): 4:48pm On Oct 21, 2016
Spoken like a 21st century woman.

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Talk2Bella(f): 4:48pm On Oct 21, 2016
unclezuma:


E di num mma sha...ngwa bulu gawa zie!!! wink grin grin grin grin

Dalu smiley
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Talk2Bella(f): 4:49pm On Oct 21, 2016
mhisbliss:
you own a blog i guess

Yea smiley
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Vince77(m): 4:50pm On Oct 21, 2016
There is nothing bad in asking a guy out but u kw in dis part of the world pple see alot of things wrong with it.

Alot of guys will use u cos nowadays pple pay too much attention to sex rather than love. Im not saying u wont find guys that will respect ur boldness but its hard to find such guy.

A girl have actually told me she likes me but then i jst wasnt ready for any relationship but i respect her boldness and till today she is my frnd and i have never judged her for speaking her mind.

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by chukz999(m): 4:51pm On Oct 21, 2016
ItsQuinn:
God forbid bad tin undecided
Swt Heart What Is God Forbiding
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by onwuakpachris(m): 4:51pm On Oct 21, 2016
ItsQuinn:
God forbid bad tin undecided
African girls and sheer ignorance..what's there in asking a guy u crush on out 4 god's sake...only kids play games...hide and seek..mature pple don't av time 4 DAT..they go 4 well defined relationships..relationships rnt meant 2 b parasitic nd one sided.. but symbiotic nd mutual..only foreign gals seem 2 undstnd dat simple truth..meanwhile..js grow up girl...

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Nobody: 4:51pm On Oct 21, 2016
How do you know? Are you speaking from experience? You are not the only Nigerian guy you know undecided
Zceesneh:
nop it will surprise the guy, he will appreciate u the more
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by imma2(m): 4:52pm On Oct 21, 2016
sinaj:
How many av u asked out nd how did it end up?
ask me out...I just might say yes wink grin

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Nobody: 4:52pm On Oct 21, 2016
How many litres? smiley
Tajbol4splend:


You are too crude, do u sell crude oil?
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by mhisbliss(f): 4:53pm On Oct 21, 2016
Talk2Bella:


Yea smiley
oh its your siggy, I'll be visiting, planning on setting mine up soon, who knows i might need some help
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Nobody: 4:53pm On Oct 21, 2016
Lol. smiley
onwuakpachris:
African girls and sheer ignorance..what's there in asking a guy u crush on out 4 god's sake...only kids play games...hide and seek..mature pple don't av time 4 DAT..they go 4 well defined rltnships... so grow up girl...
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Nobody: 4:54pm On Oct 21, 2016
A lady asking a guy out smiley
chukz999:
Swt Heart What Is God Forbiding
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by glossyfinger(f): 4:54pm On Oct 21, 2016
Na me asked my husband out 12years ago, he is d type of future husband I want. I am very happy I did

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Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Livefreeordieha(m): 4:55pm On Oct 21, 2016
it doesnt matter who toasts who commitment and genuine relationship is a thing of the heart..both parties must know that which they seek or desire in the supposed union..really relationship is not a do or die affair..you both need to be reasonable enough to understand that you coming from different backgrounds,different orientation..you will both learn to meet eachother always at a halfway..most relationship works with compromise..the problem is life now is too fast,and we all have lost that patience,tolerance..guess whymost times the person you tolerating or trying to use your time to make it work out its impervious to learning.and efforts seems fruitless.
ItsQuinn:
When a girl does that, he won't give her the respect she deserves and will definitely take advantage of her and that opportunity undecided....do you really want a lot of depression and sadness in your life?
Re: Ladies This Is How To Ask A Nigerian Guy Out. by Nobody: 4:56pm On Oct 21, 2016
ItsQuinn:
How do you know? Are you speaking from experience? You are not the only Nigerian guy you know undecided
am speaking for myself, and i know there are guys out there who think the same way i do

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