As you claim to love your guy, leaving him will not change him which makes it your duty to gradually change him and you can only change him from inside ( in the relationship). Firstly, quench his appetite for sex by making him engaging himself with things of the stenght and intellectual works that is if he is jobless as the case maybe.it will reduce is taste and. appetite for fleshy things. Secondly, every relationship that must lead to marriage must be lead on a solid foundation, so ask your self how you guys started and retraced your step.

God Help Us

Geraldyne:

Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my boyfriend..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.

He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.

I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.

Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks

The variables you need to consider are - :
1 - All he wants and needs from you is sex
2 - He has a very high sex drive
3 - Your sex drive is not equitable to his drive
4 - If you stop offering, he is bound to look elsewhere
5 - After all the juices are dry, and you don't satisfy his desire anymore (in juice and contours). He would be seeking another supplier
6 - Let's assume he proposes to you(which is unlikely), his sex drive not matching yours, would eventually lead to marital sexual conflicts
7 - He is simply using RPM of your engine (hopefully the engine would not knock)


Take to your heels, heal and find someone else to cherish you......

I broke up with my ex because she loved sex too much,wallahi people that know me well will tell you that I'm Duracell when it comes to sherekere but this girl turn me to tiger head,to the point I get mentally,emotionally, weak whenever she tells me she's coming over.abeg tell your BF to contact me make I lay am pass.

tnx..m out alredy

Geraldyne:
tnx..m out alredy

Gudluck 2 u!

Geraldyne:

tnx..m out alredy

out to where? no go jam worst o... U can change dat guy....sex is his weakness....u urself have ur own weakness...

Geraldyne:
m suprised ma topic made fp afta hw mani months...av left d relationship tho..nd 4 those still judgin abt d prayin tin..continue

Ain't judging girl...thing is you just broke the Niggas heart. He just got a high libido and it's just really intense when you the only one he seeing with a high level of attraction. He seems pretty idle, hence more time together for the third leg to be opinionated.

However...one of my favorite song/most played track ==>

What is this world turing into?Look at what this demon possesed lady is Opening mouth and saying........ur boyfriend....after sex,,u pray and after Prayer u sex.shame on u..U need deliverance..So sex Outside marriage is no longer a sin? And u will open mouth deceiving People that u are a born again.Which church do u attend sef.Do they preach atall against sin in d so called church u attend?.U are a disgrace to christianity

Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!

Me sef I am confused. http://sauta97..com.ng/2016/12/don-jazzy-schools-fan-on-twitter-for.html

Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!

Me sef I am confused.

Kulas:
What is this world turing into?Look at what this demon possesed lady is Opening mouth and saying........ur boyfriend....after sex,,u pray and after Prayer u sex.shame on u..U need deliverance..So sex Outside marriage is no longer a sin? And u will open mouth deceiving People that u are a born again.Which church do u attend sef.Do they preach atall against sin in d so called church u attend?.U are a disgrace to christianity

What are you doing in this thread?
In fact what are you doing in romance section?

Most of y'all commit worse sins
#Hypocrites

Mmmm. My sister it is well. Friendship with sex is a sin. My advise, both of you should first give your life to Jesus and ask God to forgive you both and stop doing it.Because what you are doing now has it rewards or wages .Then pray to God to know what to do because He knows more than the two of you. He knows and sees more than what you are seeing presently that makes you to love your boy friend even when he does not love. If the answer you get is separation, please take it sister because your life and your destiny is more than sex and your future than the present. You know little about your boy friend and about what he is going to do even if you allow him for sex 24 hours daily. But God knows everything about him. My sister why should allow somebody to destroy your life when have the opportunity to stop it. If you both continue, write my messsage down somewhere, the man will not marry you. He will dump you like a biscuit nylon or rapper. Another one, if he marries you, you both may have problems. To avert it, do the needful. It is well with you.

Its just a simple case of high sex drive, thats all this is. There are cases when it's the other way round, so my dear make him understand u don't have the kinda sex drive he has to match him up, if he truely loves u he will take it easy with you as time goes on. It's not like he does it everyday from what u have explained. So don't make it a big issue yet, just talk to him and make him understand.

willibounce1:
... Imagine una never marry and him don almost phu.ck all the nutrients wey dey ur to.to comot. If una con marry nko?

Person no de even phu.ck ashaw00 this way

Geraldyne:


so cos I bleeped...I shudnt pray??...u gonna tell me dah u dnt pray evn wen u a sinner...I want advice nt judgement

and does that make you do the same thing over and over again?? Knowing fully well you're always doing the same sin everyday with someone that all he want is to sleep with you? Are you married to him? Did he pay your bride price?? Aren't you tired of displeasing yourself all the time?? You can now see the answer to your questions.

Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!

.she is deceiving us wit english 'bleeped'.d guy bleeped yu 1,2,3,4,5 rnds...choi!

I doubt if you re gonna see my comment, but just in case you do, this is my take on this issue..
1. posting msgs on social networks for advice doesn't really do anything unless u re determined to take a step. Nd hnestly speaking nd with due respect, u dnt sound to me like u re.. Often times I have found myself in such shoes nd despite all the advice nd suggestions I get from friends on the real and on social networks, I still find myself allowing what I felt control me (I know people differs)...
2. In case am wrong in my assertions (i.e abt u not being determined), you re an adult (old enough to kno what you want) if or when you figure out what u want (on every reasonable ground nd be very sure it is wht you wnt), then compare it (in a reasonable imaginary scale) to what you are getting from ur present rltnship (compare every single aspect). If what you want out weighs what you re getting, then my dear, as hard as it might seem, you gat to let go, nd I could bet my life that u'll definitely find happiness elsewhere.. but on the other hand, if after every reasonable comparison, what you re getting out weighs what you want, then you got to stay in there nd be there for as long as it can hold.. I had to tell you this cox I want you to make the decision urself.. but just in case you see this comment nd want further clarification on any thing, you let me kno.. been in this kinda issue a whole lot nd trust me, I can find my way around and out of it... dnt let what "you think" you feel control your decision.. #IAmAlvin... be wise

#5iver...

Geraldyne:


sorry,tho d relatnship z over,he wanted 2 marry me,dah ws y I endured 4 8 months...

Wanted to??.??.??
Lol
Not really
In fact not at all

Sorry tho

iykekelvins:
Lord Jesus, five rounds? Anty, you sef you can endure ooo.

What do u want to hear again? That your bf is dating u for sex is what you don't know.

Sister end the relationship or you can keep enduring because you "Love" him.

The part of '5 rounds' got me wondering oooooo . Does this guy have a job @Op

Lexusgs430:


The variables you need to consider are - :
1 - All he wants and needs from you is sex
2 - He has a very high sex drive
3 - Your sex drive is not equitable to his drive
4 - If you stop offering, he is bound to look elsewhere
5 - After all the juices are dry, and you don't satisfy his desire anymore (in juice and contours). He would be seeking another supplier
6 - Let's assume he proposes to you(which is unlikely), his sex drive not matching yours, would eventually lead to marital sexual conflicts
7 - He is simply using RPM of your engine (hopefully the engine would not knock)


Take to your heels, heal and find someone else to cherish you......

find somebody else Who could that be now Look, OP, stick with him. Advise him to delve into polygamy

Geraldyne:


so cos I bleeped...I shudnt pray??...u gonna tell me dah u dnt pray evn wen u a sinner...I want advice nt judgement

Then let the fucckings begin or may I say,keep on fuccking.

No other advice I can give you than to say Quit the relationship and give your life to Jesus Christ. He loves more than anyone.

Please do these To avoid future hurts and regrets.

Geraldyne:


sorry,tho d relatnship z over,he wanted 2 marry me,dah ws y I endured 4 8 months...

Stop trying to explain, just let those who want to hate go ahead.

That guy will bleep u until he turns u to kekemarwa.........u better Make ur dicision quick and know where u belong.

Hi Friendship, test me with dis method n know if e really loves u. Honey I am pregnant n wait n observed his reactions. if e truly loves u or u re his sex machine, dere u Wil know.

AuroraB:
find somebody else Who could that be now Look, OP, stick with him. Advise him to delve into polygamy

So make hin turn her to sex object only? It is clear he is practicing all his blue movie stunts on her.
What do we do with experimental objects?

Geraldyne:

Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my boyfriend..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.

He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.

I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.

Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks

no use this method it works






u too can overboast ur sexual ability.





By furcking him to stupour whit inbox me.

Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!

You wicked ooo

Differentiate yourself from a prostitute before I will advise

iykekelvins:
Lord Jesus, five rounds? Anty, you sef you can endure ooo.

What do u want to hear again? That your bf is dating u for sex is what you don't know.

Sister end the relationship or you can keep enduring because you "Love" him.

5 rounds is not too much but disturbing her again in the morning, that's some serious thing.