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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by porozhniy(m): 12:18am On Feb 06, 2017
Harinholar:
Did you just type this shit Lols...To God be the Glory if u see me in person...My dear u go fear....If I say a guy is broke...Yeah ......he is broke.......
Of course you're made. What I can't seem to fathom is why you seem to encourage other ladies who read you to be financially dependent on their man. Why should a A guy's state of finance be a bother to ladies when they could be busy making their own dough like you?

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Harinholar(f): 12:21am On Feb 06, 2017
I cherish hardworking babes not because of anything na because of issues like this.....Be self dependent, don't depend on anybody to survive...BUT when you are in a relationship and you noticed the guy wont turn out to be a responsible husband or father to your unborn children my dear run for your life...None should ever be a parasite when it comes to relationship issues....I do say it if I have millions of naira in my account and I expect my fiancee to give me 100k for a particular thing which I knew it's part of his responsibility...My dear I wll collect it.... Not because of today but because of my future.....

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by morule20(m): 12:21am On Feb 06, 2017
Na ur boyfriend, no be ur husband.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Nobody: 12:22am On Feb 06, 2017
Curioussme:
Some of your comments got me seriously laughing. I appreciate the scolding. Sometimes it's good to let out our minds to be able to see clearly. Only the person facing a problem knows where the shoes pinches. Gracias

this one na complete liability

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by manuelp: 12:26am On Feb 06, 2017
Harinholar:
Did you just type this shit Lols...To God be the Glory if u see me in person...My dear u go fear....If I say a guy is broke...Yeah ......he is broke.......
we know your type...#empty barrel Lo n ma n pariwo.. Wehdone MA!

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Harinholar(f): 12:30am On Feb 06, 2017
porozhniy:
Of course you're made. What I can't seem to fathom is why you seem to encourage other ladies who read you to be financially dependent on their man. Why should a A guy's state of finance be a bother to ladies when they could be busy making their own dough like you?
I wll never encourage a lady to be lazy...of course we need to be hardworking than u..guys..yeah....cos it commands respect for us as a lady...BUT guys should not in any way hide his responsibility ONLY if his babe understand he doesn't have...You are man bro...wake up ...Your responsibility should be your responsibility even if she get money pass dangote....That's my point
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Harinholar(f): 12:31am On Feb 06, 2017
manuelp:
we know your type... Wehdone MA!
You are welcome
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Harinholar(f): 12:40am On Feb 06, 2017
Mznaett:


Ride on sis!

You're mouthed asweargrin
i dey feel you too... lolsss......Infact I love topics like diz.. I swear if I have Money pass Otedola...My fiance must do his right and when he also needs my help I wll gladly do it.....#Must of them ranting rubbish here oo....Na their gfs they feed dem ooo....##

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by porozhniy(m): 12:43am On Feb 06, 2017
Harinholar:
I cherish hardworking babes not because of anything na because of issues like this.....Be self dependent, don't depend on anybody to survive...BUT when you are in a relationship and you noticed the guy wont turn out to be a responsible husband or father to your unborn children my dear run for your life...None should ever be a parasite when it comes to relationship issues....I do say it if I have millions of naira in my account and I expect my fiancee to give me 100k for a particular thing which I knew it's part of his responsibility...My dear I wll collect it.... Not because of today but because of my future.....
So according to you, a man Is deemed responsible by the amount of cash he doles out? What If he is a potentially absentee father, alcoholic or chronic womanizer? Will his cash cover for his short comings?
Anyway, to each their own. My message is simple; having money serves as a kind of protection in our present society regardless of gender. Ladies! The sky will not fall if you spend a wee amount of your earnings on the men in your lives. There is a certain kind of happiness that comes from giving. Above all, nobody owes anybody anything, if he doesn't give, get to work & earn it yourself.

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Harinholar(f): 12:45am On Feb 06, 2017
manuelp:

we know your type...#empty barrel Lo n ma n pariwo.. Wehdone MA!
Yeah.....it's one of my best music..but I have to comment tonight and catch my fun...tenk God u are part of it. ...Thumbs up...#Lowkey#soft#
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by thehedge(f): 12:46am On Feb 06, 2017
mctowel01:

Sex is mutual idiot. Girls also want it.
jabolo:


Sex is an affirmation of a relationship between two people, something that brings them closer, and enjoyed by both.

If you even merely consider it as what goes with some monetary spend ... how do i put it? You's a Ho, my darling.
mctowel01:

Sex is mutual idiot. Girls also want it.
hehehe true? the why don't y'all wait for girls to demand sex first? maybe that way you even get to charge them for it. heediot. keep deceiving yourselves.

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by porozhniy(m): 12:47am On Feb 06, 2017
Harinholar:
I wll never encourage a lady to be lazy...of course we need to be hardworking than u..guys..yeah....cos it commands respect for us as a lady...BUT guys should not in any way hide his responsibility ONLY if his babe understand he doesn't have...You are man bro...wake up ...Your responsibility should be your responsibility even if she get money pass dangote....That's my point
What is this my phantom responsibility? It's a supposedly dating relationship remember?
While we're still at it, what's your responsibility towards this your mythical fiancé?

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by pussyAvenger: 12:49am On Feb 06, 2017
Harinholar:
I cherish hardworking babes not because of anything na because of issues like this.....Be self dependent, don't depend on anybody to survive...BUT when you are in a relationship and you noticed the guy wont turn out to be a responsible husband or father to your unborn children my dear run for your life...None should ever be a parasite when it comes to relationship issues....I do say it if I have millions of naira in my account and I expect my fiancee to give me 100k for a particular thing which I knew it's part of his responsibility...My dear I wll collect it.... Not because of today but because of my future.....
tufia.....where u even see the husband sef

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by CandiceJay(f): 12:49am On Feb 06, 2017
Responsibility kwa... Some ladies can't seize to amaze. When did paying house rents and financial stuffs become a responsibility for a "boyfriend"?? Permit me to say, no lady of substance will wait for one boyfriend to foot her bills, it's nonsense.

It's not a pride, it's a fact- no guy whatsoever, save my bestie (and dats cus we assist eachoda) , will say he has given me financial support nd i love d feel that comes with dat, it's a feeling of independence... I truly believe ladies should develop a sense of independence especially in relationships, be an asset, not a liability.

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Harinholar(f): 12:51am On Feb 06, 2017
pussyAvenger:
tufia.....where u even see the husband sef
You just they look...
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by anigbajumo(m): 12:52am On Feb 06, 2017
rosalieene:
op you should have known better by not bringing this matter to Nairaland
see as them guys are attacking you.

So??

Watin u dey expect b4,they are talking sense to her head not only her but every other dependent ladies like her...

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Harinholar(f): 12:58am On Feb 06, 2017
porozhniy:
So according to you, a man Is deemed responsible by the amount of cash he doles out? What If he is a potentially absentee father, alcoholic or chronic womanizer? Will his cash cover for his short comings?
Anyway, to each their own. My message is simple; having money serves as a kind of protection in our present society regardless of gender. Ladies! The sky will not fall if you spend a wee amount of your earnings on the men in your lives. There is a certain kind of happiness that comes from giving. Above all, nobody owes anybody anything, if he doesn't give, get to work & earn it yourself.
His cash WILL NEVER cover any of his shortcomings...But did you know that's another topic entirely...?? And I love the way you end your comment Nobody owes anybody anything..Very true..Let's get to work and earn it ourselves..#shalom#
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by friendl: 12:59am On Feb 06, 2017
Nigeria women and money

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by JerryTemi(f): 1:00am On Feb 06, 2017
My dear am a woman like you please next time don't bring your challenge to these people instead of helping you they will end up making you feel rejected.my sister don't ask him for anything again,not even airtime,be focus,work don't depend on this people call me,be contended,be wise,spend when necessary, give your landlord that little you have and if you have money buy him a better thing to show him that is not all about his money.as for you,I HATE NAJIA or what mind the way you talk,we female flocks deserve respect from you guys must you insult us before you talk? must we insult the parents before we give correction or insult?uhmmm you guys are something elseoooo.well I thank God some of you have sisters so go on.babe find way and make it right,
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by InvertedHammer: 1:19am On Feb 06, 2017
Give money to a lady.
Give tithe to a pastor.
PH in MMM.


...all of dem na money lost.

Curioussme...why not turn into a full-time runs girl?

You fit the profile already.

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by cr7lomo: 1:20am On Feb 06, 2017
amiablesystems:


Go Bleep youself. We're from d same home town, i spoke to her as a sister.. you fool

Ur response speaks alot about u

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by flywheelz(m): 1:21am On Feb 06, 2017
Listen to yourself pls tell me when dating relationship became a soft ground for financial bail out get a life madam you need epp

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Alvinnado(m): 1:22am On Feb 06, 2017
noooooooo he's ur ATM machine abi,no go find work do.

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by cr7lomo: 1:23am On Feb 06, 2017
amiablesystems:


Go Bleep youself. We're from d same home town, i spoke to her as a sister.. you fool

Try to b logical and not subjective when making comments

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Mznaett: 1:25am On Feb 06, 2017
Harinholar:
i dey feel you too... lolsss......Infact I love topics like diz.. I swear if I have Money pass Otedola...My fiance must do his right and when he also needs my help I wll gladly do it.....#Must of them ranting rubbish here oo....Na their gfs they feed dem ooo....##

As for me? It's been a long while I left naija guys to their fate of abusing women...
Without mincing words those guys sprewing rubbish here and there are sex starved teenagers who can't afford to take care of themselves not to talk about their ladies..

Once again,preach on sis!
Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by cr7lomo: 1:28am On Feb 06, 2017
amiablesystems:


Too many ppl are stuck in their youth, haven't mad e a dime so when responsilibities comes they whine the way many of the senseless fools here are yarning.. When this guys demand sex, they dnt say yu're not my wife yaet, they just ask for it like its their entitlement... why have a bf if one's life can't be improved cause its a key indicator of wat lies ahead.counselled many people before they got married, they thot i wasjoking 3-5years the line see married women begging me for advice about how to manage the mess they got themselves into.. I repeat ladies if yu have broke guys who always shy from responsilibities flee.. giving a gf 50k additional to get an apt shouldnt be a big deal.. afterall when she gets the house. he will go there to sleep with her over and over.. grin

Be reasonable

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by islandmoon: 1:32am On Feb 06, 2017
is he your father? dont you have brothers? if you dump him, who will bear the loss?

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by fexyrich(m): 1:35am On Feb 06, 2017
Curioussme:
if I'm not dating it would be much better not the one someone is dating and it's like am not. Cos there's nothing to show for it. Obviously, I can't brag about such a man
u see ur life ...now I know u are a complete hypocrite...last time u were telling us how u starved ur guy of sex for 4 years of ur relationship.I was thinking you are responsible but now I know DAT a lady being a virgin does not prove that she is really responsible..cos looking at your comments here u sound like a very irresponsible lady..u expect ur guy to pay ur rent Is he ur father?? Until u both are married u have no right to demand such from him ,cos what's d guarantee that after doing all these things for u,u won't dump him tomorrow like so many ungrateful ladies do..u seem to be a very materialistic lady frm ur comments.u are not giving him sex till he has married u..don't also expect him to carry ur responsibility until u are both married as well...

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by ladyF(f): 1:44am On Feb 06, 2017
amiablesystems:


I disagree with you. Your comment is a personal one from a selfish perspective. why use your life to mirror hers and judge her by your standards. [s]Yes i know you do bitcoins and make more money than most guys and you are booless[/s] but your judgement is wrong and apalling. People aren't lazy because they are broke or dont have enough and its a source of pride to responsible men to take care of ladies, you would reach this bus stop this year when boo comes dont worry. Please lets always de-personalize ourselves from issues while we hand people counsel

cry cry cry @bolded.

Ermmm.. You chose to judge me too based on your own assumptions. Contrary to what you think, I don't even make money from this bitcoin ish o, the profit is almost negligible. grin

Someone here cannot afford to pay her own rent, and she forces her boyfriend to cough out money because...? Is he living in the house with her? How will she pay the following year's rent if he breaks up with her before it is due? I laugh!!! grin

My point is, if a guy chooses to foot your bills, it's NOT because he's obligated to do so, it's out of his own free will.

tolutweety:


Your bills i have been paying nko?
The house rent,and the weekly dues ... what do you call that ?
For example, my boo Tolutweety has really blessed me with a lot without me having to ask. kiss kiss kiss That's out of true love, not because I was holding his shirt and threatening him to gimme money for stuff. grin

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by Thecassanova: 1:51am On Feb 06, 2017
MMMscam:



"Boyfriend" is not an IDP camp... bloody thief undecided

Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by tonero4urch(m): 2:00am On Feb 06, 2017
bibijay123:



When you are dating someone its either because it will take you to the bank, altar or just to have fun. She has been with him for four years and he has never tried to help her out not even with her rent!.\ What sort of husband would he make? they are supposed to have each other's back and i don't see him having hers. angry
Did you see her having his?

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Dodges Responsibilities by TheeDetective: 2:06am On Feb 06, 2017
You are part of those who give women a bad name. How many times as well have you supported him when he needed cash? Go get a job and cater for your own major expenses yourself and don’t be a leech as he’s not your husband yet.

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