Aderola15:
Make ah book space first

Modified...

Just finished my garri, veli veli sweet I tell you.

Now let me kwantinu from where Lawlahdey stopped, beht I don't like talking sef. Let me just go straight to the point, *Don't let me catch you*.

kimbra:
She's the one lying to herself. My Dad was never promiscuous and I know his likes are out there.

Yeah right.

kimbra:
She's the one lying to herself. My Dad was never promiscuous and I know his likes are out there.

My lil sis would say the same and even place a bet on it. But I know better


Don't be too quick to conclude dear.

So you should endure a cheating husband until he gives you an STD? Is that your point.
Cheating is a shameless act in marriage and should be confronted no matter the outcome.

Pls this write up belongs here. Yes I said so that's where it belongs!

I've seen faithful men, you're trying to say, as a woman makes her marital vow, she should have it in mind her husband will cheat? This is dumb! Dumb, dumb, dumb.

If you're going into marriage with this mentality, you'll get paranoid and start checking his phone, I mean basically stalking him. And that will lead to instability in marriage.

You're the type that says all men are the same, stop moving with the same clique. YOU'RE WHAT YOU ATTRACT. So if your boyfriends cheat, go check yourself.

Lest I forget, your gibberish is here.

OP is a realist.

Bumbae1:

Kikiki wetin she do una

Do me?

Nothing na... We both in this together fah.

You don't cheat, thank God. You do, make I no find out biko.

Lawlahdey:
You only assume that i have been through numerous heartbreaks but i haven't suffered heartbreak in the real sense of it.

For you to assume that most marriages failed because of unfaithfulness is funny and laughable.

All of the people you mention all have celebrities marriage, there are people that live their quite lives and remain faithful with their partners.

The lady is right to some extent.

Show me a Man who is committed and faithful and I will show you a Man who has gained control over Temptations, Sexual urges, Lust, Greediness and Indiscipline.

The question is:

Have all men been able to achieve this? No

Are all men weak ? Hell No!


We should encourage men to be faithful, we should help/ chastise them to remain committed to a lady. We shouldn't accept what is not right because we think there is nothing we can do about it.


You shouldn't encourage what is not good because you are afraid to fight it. If you do it will come back to bite you

kimbra:
She's the one lying to herself. My Dad was never promiscuous and I know his likes are out there.

when u say "@ the bolded" in front of him before a shrine or on judgement day, he'll be like......

People using this medium to throw suble shades are dumb, I mean DUMB
90% of men cheat? Well, everybody is entitled to their opinion

Aderola15:

Do me?

Nothing na... We both in this together fah.

You don't cheat, thank God. You do, make I no find out biko.

U heard from smellymouth Hope his ok o

Zarzar holla

Dextology:


For you to assume that most marriages failed because of unfaithfulness is funny and laughable.

All of the people you mention all have celebrities marriage, there are people that live their quite lives and remain faithful with their partners.

Was your dad unfaithful to your mum? Please be sincere

Your last question was unnecessary Sir.

Dextology:


For you to assume that most marriages failed because of unfaithfulness is funny and laughable.

All of the people you mention all have celebrities marriage, there are people that live their quite lives and remain faithful with their partners.

Was your dad unfaithful to your mum? Please be sincere

See question

I didn't say most marriages fail because of unfaithfulness... I only said most marriage that failed cuz of unfaithfulness failed because the woman couldn't endure.

yorhmienerd:
People using this medium to throw suble shades are dumb, I mean DUMB

90% of men cheat? Well, everybody is entitled to their opinion

You don't cheat?

REIIGN:


My lil sis would say the same and even place a bet on it. But I know better


Don't be too quick to conclude dear.

That's your dad. I know mine.

vedah:
Pls this write up belongs here. Yes I said so that's where it belongs!

I've seen faithful men, you're trying to say, as a woman makes her marital vow, she should have it in mind her husband will cheat? This is dumb! Dumb, dumb, dumb.

If you're going into marriage with this mentality, you'll get paranoid and start checking his phone, I mean basically stalking him. And that will lead to instability in marriage.

You're the type that says all men are the same, stop moving with the same clique. YOU'RE WHAT YOU ATTRACT. So if your boyfriends cheat, go check yourself.

Lest I forget, your gibberish is here.

Well.. drop this trash where you dropped that one too.

Aderola15:

Your last question was unnecessary Sir.

I am sorry, ma'am. The post have been been modified

Dextology:


For you to assume that most marriages failed because of unfaithfulness is funny and laughable.

All of the people you mention all have celebrities marriage, there are people that live their quite lives and remain faithful with their partners.

Was your dad unfaithful to your mum? Please be sincere

BARTENDER!!!

Serve me comfam chill red label.


For this thread na enjoyment go kill am ooo...*in runtown's voice *

REIIGN:


My lil sis would say the same and even place a bet on it. But I know better


Don't be too quick to conclude dear.

Bless your heart.

Bumbae1:

U heard from smellymouth Hope his ok o

Zarzar holla

Egbon is fine but not coming back jawe

Aderola15:

Egbon is fine but not coming back jawe

I don call am tire think his got new line
I miss his meme and his happy vibe .. anyway if he contacts u tell him to reach out

Lawlahdey:
I decided to write this article as a result of the argument that erupted from my comment on the Tonto dike's failed marriage brouhaha thread.
Before I actually write on the topic gangan, Allow me to quickly share a real life story with you.

There is a grandpa. A rich grandpa, happily married to a beautiful woman with 7 very successful kids.
The wife of this grandpa is a very strict and prayerful woman who believes that being strict and prayerful helps you keep other women away from your husband. She has been successful and victorious so far. They have never had a cheating scandal in 50 years of their marriage(or,so she thinks).
Recently, the grandpa called his first son(prolly because he knows he is close to his grave) and narrated the story of how he got another woman pregnant and the woman gave birth to the child with an oath that she won't ever bring the child to disrupt his marital home.He has actually been feeding and financing thd child without the knowledge of any member of his family. He said he told his son so that they could know that they have a sibling out there somewhere and bring him home after his death. He also asked the son to promise not to tell his mother or any of his siblings the secret.
So, Faithful Grandpa with a perfect marriage(In people's mind)actually has a son ouside marriage and his wife of over 50 years of marriage doesn't know. She thinks that she was successful in her quest for a hundred percent faithful man. She is the type that throws jab at other women with problems in their marriages and tell them to come to her and ask her how she did it, how her prayers, strictness and everything weren't in vain afterall.
She still hasn't found out, right. I wonder what her reaction will be the day she finally finds out that her 'faithful' husband has not been faithful afterall.

Now to the koko oro..
It pains me when i see my fellow women bragging about how they cannot stay with a man that is not contented with staying faithful to only them for the rest of his life. They say they will leave the man, that there are plenty more men still out there in the world... "No time to check time".. LOL.
You think that every 'perfect' marriage that you see, that you envy, that you hope for has been able to stand gidigba without sacrifices??
You think that because Joke Silva and Olu Jacobs do not come out to wash their dirty linen in public, they haven't had their own shares of marriage trouble??
See, It takes a very very very patient and enduring woman to stay in any marriage.
You can't stay with a man that won't cheat at all?? Then, walk the fvck outta the relationship and don't ever go about saying "All men should be able to stay faithful to one woman for the rest of their life".
You think tonto dike didn't think churchhill would remain faithful to only her for the rest of his life because he loves her?
You think Tiwa Savage didn't think that Teebillz would remain faithful to her forever? What with all her money and the banging body and everything? Does edible catering have more money than Tiwa? Or a hotter body? What did edible catering have that tiwa doesn't?? Why wasn't tiwa able to keep Tee down, even with everything?
Even Beyonce suffered her own share of unfaithfulness from JayZ.. And you are here forming, "I can't stay with a man that isn't hundred percent faithful"?? , "I can't ever share my man"??
Fine. You can't. Then leave! Leave and go from one man to another in the quest for your model man.
If a man loves you, He will prolly cheat in the hope or fear that you don't find out but don' t ever believe there is a hundred percent faithful man, specially moulded for you somewhere.. Because you are miss perfect too ahbi?

I know some of you will come here to say that you are praying for the perfect men and God will answer it.
Well.. Reality check:90% of those with failed marriages also scouted and prayed for the perfect man. You ain't better than them.
STOP LYING TO YOURSELVES.

And for those of you men that will come here to say that they can't cheat on their woman, I don't even have anything to say to you. Just keep telling that to those who would believe.
Maybe some 10% of you(tryna be generous with the figure) can be faithful, but you all know nature, you can't stay faithful to one hole.

Explains why a man that has one curvy, beautiful babe at home will see another curvy babe on the streets and his dick will still rise.

PS: Ladies, don't hope for a totally faithful man, just pray for one that doesn't throw it in your face.

Cc: Lalasticlala

I don't know why i feel the op is right.

kimbra:
That's your dad. I know mine.

Well, who am I to tell you otherwise?

longpenis:





BARTENDER!!!

Serve me comfam chill red label.


For this thread na enjoyment go kill am ooo...*in runtown's voice *

No be me de serve o, no lefulefu de serve red label and popcorn

Lawlahdey:
Bless your heart.

Amen oooooo

Lawlahdey:
See question

I didn't say most marriages fail because of unfaithfulness... I only said most marriage that failed cuz of unfaithfulness failed because the woman couldn't endure.

Okay

Bumbae1:

U heard from smellymouth Hope his ok o

Zarzar holla

I'd rather not lol. Me & the OP already had a disagreement on another thread, so I'd rather lay low. Don't want her to think I'm stalking her

jay-z has never cheated on beyonce since their marriage.+

Bumbae1:

I don call am tire think his got new line
I miss his meme and his happy vibe .. anyway if he contacts u tell him to reach out

You try sef, you get hin no.

Cc: Lawlahdey

ZarZar:


I'd rather not lol. Me & the OP already had a disagreement on another thread, so I'd rather lay low. Don't want her to think I'm stalking her

O ok , no worries dear