Hopefully, his d.ck game is d best on d market

JeffreyJamez:


What do you expect from people who are just dating to bear the tag "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" with no realostic goals in the relationship.

You are absolutely right.
They forget to look beyond the physical.

"The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver."! Please OP, where did you get this notion from? This is what is killing our ladies these days. By making this statement, it shows that men are just nothing more than ATM to ladies. This is why most men are domineering and authoritative in marriages because they are made to look like nothing apart from ATM machines.

Nairaland guys will always find faults in such posts.... *Moving on

gazlyn:
D lady should also reciprocate his love.buy him gifts and subsequently take him out.it's not a big deal if you can afford it

The controller of the heavens and earth bless and protect you. You shall be fruitful and be a blessing to ur man

ElDadd:


See who is talking about poverty, expecting your boyfriend to be sending you 100-100 Naira MTN card..
Broke bastardd.
People are building empires with their boyfriends, opening joint accounts,
If you don't know Beyoncé bought her husband a jet!
Tell me what Jay-Z won't do for that woman.
You're here saying a woman should be dependent on a man.

Even my grandma sold pap, while my grandpa worked with the government. Marriage is not a paid job hoe.. Marriage is team work.

Broke olosho kobo-kobo

you guys keep mentioning beyonce, beyonce and Jay-Z relatonship is a buainess, contractual with Romance, you think somone like her will take the kind of billshit Nigeria girls take from broke fools like you? Goan sleep broke ass nigga

itsmeurLady:
Nairaland guys will always find faults in such posts.... *Moving on

don't mind them, frustrated broke silly things. Most of them are looking for women to feed them. They have no shame.

meanwhile get a beautiful handmade bag for the love of your life..

Xtopher123:


I'll rather have an "Indecent" But Hardworking Lady feed me than Have your Sorry Zealous "Over Decent" Self as a Wife waste my Money on Frivolities just because you want to be spent on... #IDIAT

you are shameless for a man, your parents will not be proud of you, man lookig for woman to feed him. Lazy broke was nigga

Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.

Small wisdom is all you need to the promise land..

lereinter:


op u lack moral training

they tell u truth u dey write pained much

yu better go do ashawo so u can be receiving from guys

shut up

niceair:


Small wisdom is all you need to the promise land..

Giving to a girl you love and loves you back is normal and should happen on the platform of care and love but its pretty stupid to think only guys should do the giving as thought by most 9ja girls who are more or less bunch of liabilities. What a lame and outdated mentality.

Hahahahahaha,my dear,dnt expect everyone to buy ur idea,her interest on u is temperal so while it last,she need a ride to take her to and fro,but if her interest in u is permanent,she will encourage u to complet the payment.

Well said. I've been preaching same thing.

RuggedArab:


What they have to offer is only sex....... Boring sex and nothing more!

Alot of them go about opening their dirty legs to every Tom & D!ck because the dude can buy them 60% of what they want. If the guy dumps their lazy silly A$$ they complain all men are the same. Yes, we will dump you and you will cry and look for the next n!gga that will continue to drill the stinking hole.

Sometimes I wonder if there are still moral values. Most of You all make yourself so cheap that you no longer have value in the eyes of a man.

I will say this and I repeat it loudly...... 96% of Nigerian women are very lazy! Out there in the western world women work tirelessly for their money. This Nigerian mentality factor is really an issue.

Most women here need to change their mindset and orientation.

It is not wise to give a guy your money but you want the guy to give you his money and take care of you? Not even wife, girlfriend! With this mindset your foundation is faulty and every reasonable man will always flee (not run because run is even good) from you.

CHANGE THIS MINDSET!

Dominicah:
you guys keep mentioning beyonce, beyonce and Jay-Z relatonship is a buainess, contractual with Romance, you think somone like her will take the kind of billshit Nigeria girls take from broke fools like you? Goan sleep broke ass nigga

Oya how much for your punaní?
I will pay you well o. *evil laugh*
Send you card sef, shebi 100naira card.

But I won't marry you.

cruchenuti:


You are the first lady actually saying this my entire life Lmao. I'm scared oh. I'm trying hard to beleive you.

Don't spend on you ke ? Aye mi !

I told a girl I was toasting that I just payed 20% for a plot of land. That i will be paying gradualy. Her next question was when am I buying a Car ? Fear catch me.

ok dear,dnt xpect her to buy ur idea,her mission in ur life is temperal so she would like u to have a car and take her to and fro but if its permanent,she will encourage u to complete the payment.

uk10:
if u have a problem with what i said ,say it rather than highlight i particular sentence,give ur opinions,abi are u the type that does not want to help their man,besideswhat i meant by small busines is that if u have some skills like sewing etc ilu can always help out and what i meant by blogging is that if ur good socially or u a techy kind of girl u can start up a blog just to help him,pls next time give ur opinions instead of pictures

wait o ..no vex, I thought you meant she sets up a small business for him or help him start a blog.
I for fear! I guess you meant, if she's jobless too, she can start a small business FOR HERSELF or a blog, to support herself so she wouldn't need to ask him for financial helps..
right?
if so, thumb up!
but if you meant, she set up a small business for him then my picture was appropriate.. even worse if she helps him start a blog, then that dude must be either lame, blind or outrightly crazy.

Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.

plz are you sure you are alright wen you are writin this? I doubt it..

Hmmmm.. What a thread!!

OP, in as much as you tried make sense, your write-up became flawed when you said that ladies are only meant to be at the receiving end.. This notion is very wrong and will only put women in trouble

I just hope you don't take this notion into your marriage

quivah:
oh oh I SAID IT!!!
still observing

I am not understanding

Ladies should study or learn good hand work to earn a living too instead of all this ''sex slave mentality''. Your man will give you but you shdn't base all ur burden or latest designs on him. There should be reciprocity of gifts/presents in friendship, courtship and marriage. If all you want in a relationship is only the guy giving and you not wanting to give him even if he is broke sometimes, why won't he want to have his main goal also to be treating you anyhow on the bed? Initiating and practising new skills on you will be his mind too.

Abeg, even God created Eve as a helper for Adam. Can't you just learn lessons from the ''oyinbos''?

Kondomatic:
I am not understanding

.
no worry, I'm just trying to connect some dots.
I don't back down easily

kimbra:
If you do my fiancé will dismiss it.
Have a nice day.

You too .

kimbra:
If you do my fiancé will dismiss it.
Have a nice day.

Duly noted. You too.

Safiaa:
I agree with you 90%. But what you need to understand is that most students in western countries have the opportunity to work part time. The economy is set up for people 16+ to earn their own income. Nigeria unfortunately is not set up that way, and i'm not trying to blame it on anything, but you need to be logical. Nigeria is far below the standard of western countries. So its doesn't make sense comparing the two. We're in two different leagues completly. Do you understand?

Hey, Im not comparing the civilization or economy but the mentality of the women. If you carry out sampled opinion you would found out that most Nigerian women are VERY (note the Very)lazy to work. If you enter some offices too they will heap work for you.

Let me not talk about students now (I have seen people who work and go to school at the same time but mostly guys) but the graduates. Some of the women graduates don't use their certificates and I keep asking what's the whole essence of going to school if I can't utilize the knowledge gained to put food on my table. They might even get low paying jobs and refuse to work because they know they can easily get some stuffs from guys and all but a guy will manage just to make sure he has little change in his pocket and that's laziness from them. What happens to building it ground up huh?

They go as far as saying "make I do marry better rich guy so that my husband can take care of me" and that's the end of working or looking for something to do. Our economy and environment can not be an excuse. Die hard ladies still make it here.

I still repeat, 96% of Nigerian women areally VERY lazy!..... kudos to the very few women out there hustling lIke a real G. I respect you!

Have a nice day.[/quote] Duly noted. You too.

quivah:
. no worry, I'm just trying to connect some dots. I don't back down easily

This is me

There is no value. Please dump him and find a rich man