Dominicah:
The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities

mctowel01:

Bro, I ve learnt sometime that an argument with some girls here is purely degrading. Different levels of intelligence. Many of them still think like kids.

kimbra:
This is the more reason why some men will keep treating some ladies as trash 'cause they don't know how much of values they could be, only if they put time to work things out than this dependent mentality.

Thanks for the compliment.

sunnyt1:

Hello planet earth, i present to you a lady whose parents and root should be very proud of, who has shaken off the lamentable societal relationship scripting, who has gained an absolute freedom from gender inequality shackle.


I dnt knw her frm anywhere, dnt knw wat she looks like but i hereby recommend her to any man who intends to have a successful marriage, she possesses all the necessary mental indices to be supportive and guarantee a peaceful home.

perfecti:
I get where the op is coming from. I once went out with a guy for seven months who was broke because he was owed up to seven months salary. i noticed that when he eventually got paid, he disappeared for some time only to show up empty. When he disappeared the second time after he got paid the second trench, i kicked his stingy ass to the curb. See him begging and all sorts, i was done. I am a working class lady and i pay my bills. the last thing on my mind is to have a stingy man in my life. I learnt that he was naturally stingy, so it is not the case of me being a gold digger because i work hard for the money i spend. I only wanted to be sure that he was responsible enough to take care of me in the future.

Dominicah:
why should she contribute when she wasn't the one that asked him out?

cruchenuti:


Buh let's be honest sha. Relationship is not meant for broke guys. The earlier we guys realise this. The better.

kimbra:
Lol, funny thread. Women are not made to be dependent on men. The world has evolved and I expect some minds to do same. We're not in the era where women were not allowed to sort for their livelihood but in an era where you command respect by life achievement irrespective of your gender. I don't support women waiting on men for every need no matter what the op calls it. If they give you make you take but if them no give you no make am a big deal. The only person that should take full responsibility of your welfare is either your father when you're single or husband when you're married but don't be a burden to the people around you.

I don't know why I find asking a big deal. Even to my mum, I rather sort things my way.

Bumbae1:


No Na only she God make like that eve EVE worked in the farm growing crops doing something !!! Exactly going into relationship with that mind is just stup!d .. they shud keep slaying shioor ..
lol make i just excuse myself from here before i ki person

Dominicah:
it's a woman's nature to be dependent.

Xtopher123:


At this Point I'm free to say youre daft..

Now i understand why Men take women for granted in the society.. Because of foolishness like this

RuggedArab:


What they have to offer is only sex....... Boring sex and nothing more!

Alot of them go about opening their dirty legs to every Tom & D!ck because the dude can buy them 60% of what they want. If the guy dumps their lazy silly A$$ they complain all men are the same. Yes, we will dump you and you will cry and look for the next n!gga that will continue to drill the stinking hole.

Sometimes I wonder if there are still moral values. Most of You all make yourself so cheap that you no longer have value in the eyes of a man.

I will say this and I repeat it loudly...... 96% of Nigerian women are very lazy! Out there in the western world women work tirelessly for their money. This Nigerian mentality factor is really an issue.

Most women here need to change their mindset and orientation.

It is not wise to give a guy your money but you want the guy to give you his money and take care of you? Not even wife, girlfriend! With this mindset your foundation is faulty and every reasonable man will always flee (not run because run is even good) from you.

CHANGE THIS MINDSET!

Safiaa:
Yeah i know, It is well lol. We will all make it in the end. Amin.

Acetyl:
I don't think any man can allow his wife become the breadwinner of the family cos the moment you allow that disrespect comes in.But to some ladies any man that cannot buy them Iphone 6s is broke, even if the guy can buy infinix note 3

mixter:

I refuse to let go . You've caught my attention. I need to get to know you . These are the kind of female friends one should have. Last time I checked, iron sharpens iron. Even though, you are married, at least we can still be friends.
Hopefully, you don't mind if I send you a PM.

mixter:

Interesting comments . I'm glad that some ladies seem not to agree with her.

Dominicah:
can you shut up?

jrusky:
Please what did you mean by stingy? was forced to speak a little on this issue because as a person I don't speak on issues like this because many things are attached to it.

With the current trend our girls or lady has gone in Nigeria some time it's good for a guy to be reserve in his spending for a girl or lady because their is no guarantee if he spend all his cash on girl or lady she won't still dump him because Nigeria babe are has placed their dignity on *AUCTION* market the highest bidder take her home mind you I said *sometime* its good for a guy to reserve his cash if the girl or the lady want to stay she can and if not door is wide open because to please Nigeria girls or ladies hhhmmm......... if not careful you might become kidnapper or ritualist simply to please them.

This is why I need to know your definition of stingy first.

Titugirl:
Boyfriend that cannot give, that one na boyfriend?

Kondomatic:
tallesty.

tobianthony:


Hmmm...then I ask ...how does the broke guy learn how to treat a woman in a relationship when he has money then ?

How does he learn to be emotionally intelligent towards his partner ?

How does he get experience to keep a relationship when he gets money ?

Acetyl:
I don't think any man can allow his wife become the breadwinner of the family cos the moment you allow that disrespect comes in.But to some ladies any man that cannot buy them Iphone 6s is broke, even if the guy can buy infinix note 3

uk10:
it will be better if the girl starts up something to support the man since she knows that he is broke,i don't really like the idea that the girl just extracts money from the broke guy without doing something to help him at least maybe a small business,or some blogging stuff

Safiaa:
I agree with you 90%. But what you need to understand is that most students in western countries have the opportunity to work part time. The economy is set up for people 16+ to earn their own income. Nigeria unfortunately is not set up that way, and i'm not trying to blame it on anything, but you need to be logical. Nigeria is far below the standard of western countries. So its doesn't make sense comparing the two. We're in two different leagues completly. Do you understand?

Dominicah:
some men like to be dependent on women, always asking from her, those are the ones I warn ladies against.

Dominicah:
broke guys are a pain in the arse, it's a suffering and smiling relationship.

perfecti:



Who is this by the way?
please swerve!!!

Safiaa:
Yeah. Have you been affected by this in your personal life though?

Xtopher123:


Seriously I've got no time arguing with Low lives like you seeking Money from every Tom, Dick and Harry that comes your Way..

If you're bold enough as you think you're, make your own money and do the asking out.. Wise Up lady, no man in this generation would want to keep a liability as a Side Chick not to talk of a Girlfriend or even a Wife.. #Spits

If youre as cheap as ive pegged you then quote me again!!