Very funny question, more like asking [b] why do u prefer tear rubber cars to nigerian used [/b]cars

Hyerin:


She lied because she was scared. She still told him the truth at the end but despite that, he left her and the main reason was because she wasn't a virgin. Not because she lied. Like y'all lie all the time but make a mountain out of a molehill when a woman does. I think that was very insensitive of him & all he was after was that clean cut.

do u want to tell me the guy has not date any girl apart from virgin mayb u keep lying to him and dry him up all in the name of virgin & allowing conji to hook him for long my sis is that not buhardrilism...?

GreenMavro:
i want to know so i can help your ministry

Your help wouldn't be useful

jorion:


That was my biggest mistake in school, getting educated without knowing how girls behave. Battling with one who had no boyfriend to being a runs girl, who was disvirgined by her current boyfriend to being disvirgined by at least 6 other guys. I can not manage in my marriage and be unhappy o. I want a morally good girl and there's no better way of proving that than being a virgin. no be good boy like me one runs girl go come use shine

Interesting!!
If you don't change your perspective..
You're gonna get involved with a whole lot of trouble more than you can imagine or could bargain more
I'm just being honest

Huee:

Your help wouldn't be useful

says who?

GreenMavro:
says who?

Just shut down...

Huee:

Just shut down...

i no be laptop wey dem dy shut down...i want to get down

It is an ownership thing.

Hyerin:
I'm just curious but I watched a movie were a guy broke up with his girlfriend after he found out she wasn't a virgin (cos initially she lied she was but later told him the truth). Not only in movies do these things happen, but also in reality. Why?

Men want virgins but they themselves aren't virgins. Going to mess up and shxt like that but when females do it. Oh no. She is a slut/LovePeddler etc. Gender inequality much? Not to be a "third wave feminist" or "neo-radical feminist" but this is how I feel. So much is expected of a lady but little is expected of a man. I mean, why?

The world is changing everyday. Stereotypes are being broken. If you expect women to be pure & chaste before marriage then why can't you? (referring to men)

P.S. if you can't be civil or polite. Get off this thread. Don't be a nuisance.

that is how one girl lie to me she was a virgin 3yrs back, n came to me for sex when she was on her period to deceive me....thank God I saw her pad when she was putting off her paint..... that is how she would have deceive me.

that day was the end of the relationship

divicode:


Sorry Babe, you must have disvirgined by a mechanic

Sorry dude. But you're just so idiotic to make assumptions, a disgusting one at that. Perverted retard.

Who will prefer a used car to a brand new car for the same amount.

IbnIslam:
Zzz

If you wan sleep, log off from Nairaland and go and sleep. Nobody forced you or invited you here anyways.

Huee:

Interesting!!
If you don't change your perspective..
You're gonna get involved with a whole lot of trouble more than you can imagine or could bargain more
I'm just being honest

which trouble? explain. How does wanting to marry a girl whose Congo have not been shined and polished put me in trouble

Xda59:



A sharp man can easily tell between a fresh pussy and one that has been in active commercial service. The type retired oloshos take to church when looking for husbands they want to fool.

Nice one. People like pocohantas need to see this and change their ways. No man will marry these women with oveused pu$$13$.

Fadman4real:


So d state of d vagina is the main reason he should marry her? Being a virgin authomatically means she is a good wife and would never cheat on you?

She does not have to be a virgin but as long as her vagina has not piled up a lot of millage or being in active commercial service; You know what I mean.

jorion:


which trouble? explain. How does wanting to marry a girl whose Congo have not been shined and polished put me in trouble

I'm reffering to the part where you think that every lady who isn't a virgin is a hoe

mileage ko, mileage ni. Jew men like myself don't know anything about puccy mileage o. I spent most of my life thinking about certificate and money. Can't begin to form sharp man for a girl who's been in the game for 10+ years, I go lose. I'd rather play it safe and go for the gold standard of all puccies. the unwrapped one

Huee:

I'm reffering to the part where you think that every lady who isn't a virgin is a hoe

As a warri boy concerned, 9/10 girls on the street sleep around for money. As a futoite, 9.2/10 out of every Owerri girl sleep around for money. You can't blame me if I begin to have the belief that if you Congo have been polished once, then it has been polished atleast 100 times. But if I can't find one in Nigeria, then my marriage would mean a Canadian, American or European international passport. just as Nigerian girls no dey dull, me no dey dull sef. Like my mentor, Mikel Obi

pocohantas:
She lied, why did she lie?
Was she planning to download hymen from Playstore?

Next time, she should say the truth.

For a change, let's forget what men think or say. You as a babe, are you satisfied with having several sexual partners? If you're satisfied, then fu<ck what they think and keep fu<king. The thing no get meter sef, na you go use your hand set the mileage

....but if you're overly bothered about what they think,then the answer you seek lies within you.

Not every man likes virgins though.

You mean people prefer Tokunbo or Nigerian used car to a Brand new Car. You must be kidding, who no like new Engine?

jorion:


As a warri boy concerned, 9/10 girls on the street sleep around for money. As a futoite, 9.2/10 out of every Owerri girl sleep around for money. You can't blame me if I begin to have the belief that if you Congo have been polished once, then it has been polished atleast 100 times. But if I can't find one in Nigeria, then my marriage would mean a Canadian, American or European international passport. just as Nigerian girls no dey dull, me no dey dull sef. Like my mentor, Mikel Obi

Guy!!
Carry go
Do as you please

Hyerin:
I'm just curious but I watched a movie were a guy broke up with his girlfriend after he found out she wasn't a virgin (cos initially she lied she was but later told him the truth). Not only in movies do these things happen, but also in reality. Why?

Men want virgins but they themselves aren't virgins. Going to mess up and shxt like that but when females do it. Oh no. She is a slut/LovePeddler etc. Gender inequality much? Not to be a "third wave feminist" or "neo-radical feminist" but this is how I feel. So much is expected of a lady but little is expected of a man. I mean, why?

The world is changing everyday. Stereotypes are being broken. If you expect women to be pure & chaste before marriage then why can't you? (referring to men)

P.S. if you can't be civil or polite. Get off this thread. Don't be a nuisance.

1. STDs
2. STDs
3. STDs
4. STDs
5. STDs
6...

Huee:
Damn!! .. I'm so deep

na wa oh!hope u are tight too

guyXander:


1. STDs
2. STDs
3. STDs
4. STDs
5. STDs
6...

So women that have pre-marital sex get STDs and men who do the same, dont?

Bigotry & misogyny is oozing from your comment.

How about getting married to a virgin and later the virgin discovered the man is a "1-Minute man"?

That is the case of a lady i know who was a virgin and after getting married, discovered the man is 10/100 in bed.

Now she is depressed.

Just so

Hyerin:


I understand your pov. But why are you facing me bruh? it's a general issue. You don't have to use me as an example to lay emphasis. My post is an exposé of societal norms using a scene from a movie to buttress my point. And no. I don't have any sexual partners nor do I intend on getting any. I found your reply decent but quite malicious. Don't act bitçhy.

No, I am not the type to judge. Sorry you misunderstood me...
The "you" was referring to any reader, not necessarily you.

It's the world we live in, whichever makes you happy, but every should be done in moderacy. My views on premarital sex isn't hinged on religion or societal dogma, just personal choice.

IFNOTGOD:


WHAT u ladies fail to undastand is dat the dick does not get wide like d pussy, with different drilling tools going in n out of the female part makes it wider hence men crave for virgins, u can never tell if a man is a virgin or not but u can tell if a lady is on ur very first penetration(not closing d legs), met a girl who told me she was 19 n den discovered she was 17, d hole down there was dem wide n i asked wen did u start she said 15, my dear early sex makes a lady age faster n d female body becomes weak over time due to sex with different partner but in d case of a man its different, d organ of d man may grow in size n he becomes more experienced whereas dat of d lady goes wider n wider such dat any man who eventaully marries her will have problem satisfying her.

lets start wit u can u tell me dat ur private is still same as it use to b, if u have ever slept wit diff men?(no offence n no insult) these days we have cases of women saying my husband can no longer satisfy me, my gf of 2 yrs told me one day my dick is small(mind u dis is someone dat use to cry wenever we have sex n i wud asked her if its too large, she said no, its ok) but den i was taken aback to believe she has tasted a bigger one n i asked her do u want it enlarge she shouted no dont even dare its my perfect size.

ladies d truth is d more men u sleep wit d more ur pussy gets enlarged n less satisfaction u derive as time goes on cos u will keep needing a bigger size to cover up d space.use vaginal cream or tighetening its only for one round by d second its goes back to been d borehole it is

Spot on brother! You said it all.

Fadman4real:


It is only unserious men that see virginity as an important decision to make when choosing a life partner. There is no where in d bible that says a man must marry a virgin.

For the lady to lie is enuf for d guy to dump her but for d guy dumping her cause she is not a virgin means the dude is not matured enough for marriage. To me I believe virginity is between you and God has nothing to do with your husband. It is your body you are keeping yourself for God not for any man.

complete rubbish.

MENTORCH:
Who will prefer a used car to a brand new car for the same amount.

Cliché response. So unoriginal. Try again

Hmm after reading much comments here, i think majority of guys need a virgin to marry. but i think they are saying it because of thier present condition or status or maybe they are not exposed or quite good they are small small boys in the varsity who always thinks life is all about exaggeration, maybe with time they will grow up, it will be hard you see a real man making jes or talking about a virgin as they've seen things in life that doesn't make virginity count. OK let me ask you guys, (not all this small boys wey full nairaland) can you date or love a girl without sex, what if you loved and are dating her nd at the long journey something happens which will separate the two of you, does it make the girl a slut or loosed ? Again the good girl moved on and fall in love or hook up with another guy nd the guy asked about her virginity status nd the girl replied well and at this time they loved each other and brk up again, this time it's the guys fault. This is how life goes and nothing proves a girls life with virgin or non virgin. When you see a girl u love, nothing will stop you from making her urs. What matters is the love. Only small and amateur boys dreams a virgin is way of getting good wife. U can't tell me you will love a girl well without sex (if your gf doesn't allow you it means you don't worth it nd she's keeping it for a real niggur) and things may turn out that you can't marry her tmoa, so it doesn't make her a slut. So a matured mind and man has nothing to do with virgin or non virgin.

You talk like a child. If you regret ever being a Virgin, there are lots of kitten out there. What stupid destiny is lost through sex. Since you've not been having sex, is your destiny better than those who have had?

Be deceiving yourself, which experience are you gaining, is it job experience or what. Sex is extremely over rated and that is the reason why a lot of youths have sold dier destinies on the alter of sex.

There is no sin that would not go unpunished. [/quote]

Hyerin:


Cliché response. So unoriginal. Try again

Lol Ok