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Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by Folabimi(m): 11:20am On Jun 22, 2017
To the guys, have you ever refuse a sex invitation from a lady? If yes, why?

My first experience was with my younger sister friend, I really dont like the girl cos she's wayward so turning her down wasnt difficult but this recent one is my neighbour whom I also admired but can't date due to religious differences, yesterday we were talking abt our feelings (she expressed her love 4me few days ago) and she just asked if I will have sex with her. Took a lot of self control 4me to politely say no to her.
Now the problem is we see each other evryday and its going to be awkward trying to remain as friends after this

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by Nobody: 11:22am On Jun 22, 2017
grin maybe u don't take alcohol that's y, but for the guys that takes alcohol even if she no tell u will understand what she means

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by Alphamale2017(m): 11:25am On Jun 22, 2017
many times. I swear
Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by pocohantas(f): 11:27am On Jun 22, 2017
Nigerian guy?
Okay... grin

That'll be 3 out of 10. So many of them think with their prick, that's why some girls use sex to control and even extort them. It takes a lot of maturity and self control to turn down sex, something that's lacking in lots of guys these days.

When you see the few that have achieved that level of maturity, you can't just help but respect them. Their coordination generally and in a relationship is wonderful!

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by Nobody: 11:28am On Jun 22, 2017
A man will get to a stage in life where he will have to turn down so many offers.


Matured men will understand this.

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by vanida6: 11:29am On Jun 22, 2017
funny question

man reject sex.......op u dey lie

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by AmoryBlacq: 11:30am On Jun 22, 2017
Alot!

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by richfriendsng: 11:32am On Jun 22, 2017
yes, when I discovered she is a virgin, I don't want to toil with blood, atleast not yet

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by QueenSuccubus(f): 11:35am On Jun 22, 2017
Alphamale2017:
many times. I swear


Uuumm..i no believe u.

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by jamalnation(m): 11:36am On Jun 22, 2017
can a dog say no to a bone

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by Charlieubochi: 11:37am On Jun 22, 2017
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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by Kondomatic(m): 11:42am On Jun 22, 2017
pocohantas:
Nigerian guy?
Okay... grin
The mistake you make sometimes is thinking that you know a lot about guys when it's obvious that you don't.

Now listen, no matter how beautiful or hot a woman is, there's a guy that will never Bleep her and there's likely to be another guy that is tired of fvcking her.


No matter what she does, this guy that will never fvck her will never fvck her.

Please note that a guy who's even considering asking you out can still turn you down if you give him yourself just like that.

It is just the way we are wired and you're not expected to understand it.

pocohantas:

That'll be 3 out of 10. So many of them think with their prick
This here tells me that you mix more with college kids. Those guys are always Hot and you can't blame them. That's just natural.

Start meeting and mixing up with responsible adults(its actually an advice)


pocohantas:

that's why some girls use sex to control and even extort them.
I find it funny when I read or hear that girls use sex to extort guy.

I am not saying that it does not happen at all, it does because fools exist but what females don't know is that most guys love to pay for sex.

The woman may think she's extorting him but that's not how we see it. For us, the money we pay for sex is an atonement for our future sins. We use it to wash our emotions and conscience clean when it's time to dump her.

Nothing will change our mind because she was duly paid for her services.

pocohantas:

It takes a lot of maturity and self control to turn down sex, something that's lacking in lots of guys these days.
It is also takes maturity and self control to subdue the urge to offer yourself to a guy so even if he falls, it means they lack the same maturity and self control.
pocohantas:

When you see the few that have achieved that level of maturity, you can't just help but respect them. Their coordination generally and in a relationship is wonderful!
You're right but they're not few.


Change your circle.

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by Homeboiy: 11:47am On Jun 22, 2017
Me reject sex offer

I cannot because I don't meangle with ugly chicks
Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by analryder: 11:53am On Jun 22, 2017
YES! Genuinely, it all depends on very few factors and not as complicated as that of a woman, these are the girl, mood, situation at home and work etc! On a good day put everything in place 98% of guys will accept it.

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by Alphamale2017(m): 11:55am On Jun 22, 2017
QueenSuccubus:


Uuumm..i no believe u.
lol I am serious
Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by Oluwapresley(m): 12:03pm On Jun 22, 2017
yes. depends on the lady in question! both in personality and in appearance.. if u got severe body odour and or severe stretch marks, I will reject the offer.. gwan give it to ur daddy.. buye
Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by ibkayee(f): 12:09pm On Jun 22, 2017
Same people that resort to mounting goats turn down sex ke shocked


Lol I'm joking sha grin

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by pocohantas(f): 12:12pm On Jun 22, 2017
ibkayee:
Same people that resort to mounting goats turn down sex ke shocked


Lol I'm joking sha grin
No mind them, except say them just no like the girl or the environment and factors no add up.
The ones that can actually subdue that urge, let's start by asking how many of them can date without sex? LOL! grin

Now they're trying to teach me the difference between boys and men, but when we tell them to stop dating 'girls' they won't hear. Naso them dey pack us put for the same category...

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by ShawttySoFyne(f): 12:19pm On Jun 22, 2017
pocohantas:

No mind them, except say them just no like the girl or the environment and factors no add up.
The ones that can actually subdue that urge, let's start by asking how many of them can date without sex? LOL! grin
You should realise that some guys aren't just mindless Bleep-bots and actually have standards

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by ibkayee(f): 12:20pm On Jun 22, 2017
pocohantas:

No mind them, except say them just no like the girl or the environment and factors no add up.
The ones that can actually subdue that urge, let's start by asking how many of them can date without sex? LOL! grin
LOL! grin

When even new borns aren't exempt you know what you're dealing with lipsrsealed

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by Jaynom(m): 12:21pm On Jun 22, 2017
I turn down any girl that has the tendency to be clingy. Some girls won't just give you space after you've had sex.

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by pocohantas(f): 12:22pm On Jun 22, 2017
ShawttySoFyne:
You should realise that some guys aren't just mindless Bleep-bots and actually have standards
You should realise we're saying the same thing.

ibkayee:

LOL! grin
When even new borns aren't exempt you know what you're dealing with lipsrsealed
No na, e never bad like that.
Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by ikp120(m): 12:26pm On Jun 22, 2017
Sure. I refused one of my babes' request for sex last month.

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by Nobody: 12:27pm On Jun 22, 2017
If girls could reject sex offers then some guys could do same. It all depends on individuals and their values.

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by ibkayee(f): 12:28pm On Jun 22, 2017
pocohantas:

You should realise we're saying the same thing.


No na, e never bad like that.
We can only pray my sister. Lol when you meet a good one, they're great though
Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by Martin0(m): 12:31pm On Jun 22, 2017
Mehn very hard decision to decide on,but for my own case sha,though she offered but God con make me see my period..

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by pocohantas(f): 12:31pm On Jun 22, 2017
ibkayee:

We can only pray my sister. Lol when you meet a good one, they're great though
You can say that again.

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by Vado(m): 12:38pm On Jun 22, 2017
Hell yeah i refused such sometimes ago but shorty adopted reverse psych saying the boy was impotent. So the necessary had to be done to clear her doubts once & for all.

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by Nobody: 12:49pm On Jun 22, 2017
It happen, dont think all men are d same
vanida6:
funny question

man reject sex.......op u dey lie
Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by 2dice01: 12:56pm On Jun 22, 2017
if recession blow you like Anthony Joshua to toast bae sef go hard person not to talk of make papa junior Hard
Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by pocohantas(f): 12:59pm On Jun 22, 2017
Kondomatic:
The mistake you make sometimes is thinking that you know a lot about guys when it's obvious that you don't. Start meeting and mixing up with responsible adults(its actually an advice) Change your circle.

Heya, same way you think you know so much about women:

Guy, it is difficult to see women differently because majority of them intentionally portray themselves the way we see them.

Female, even though it's a favored gender is the most wicked among the two. Generally, people love to exert some control over others but it's too much when a woman is involved.

Women are either gay or bisexual. If you doubt me, get your straight friends in a room and make them drunk then sit back and enjoy the show.

Women don't mind being co-babymamas when money is there.

You see, most times I don't bother reading your epistle or replying them, because you only cry when it involves your gender. Don't bother typing another epistle till you change your own circle and start meeting responsible adults. Just an advice too.

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Re: Guys, Have U Ever Refuse A Sex Offer? by Nobody: 1:02pm On Jun 22, 2017
A couple of times, I am too selective I dey like smash super pretty girls or classy girls so I can smile and feel good about it.

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