Munner:
I'm abt sliding into a girl's DM on Instagram. Any advice on how I should flow?

When ya about to slide. make sure the surface ya sliding on is lubricated, lest friction burns thy nyash..

Seriously.. just apply all u learnt on this thread.. They're more than enough to keep you through..

HARDDON:



BALL'S PRINCIPLE 30:

Don't Dip Your Pen Into The Company's Ink. ( I would always advise)


BALL'S PRINCIPLE 41:


The thing with s3x chemistry is; it can't be hidden. It is like the crab - the more you try to cover up it's offensive fangs, the more it pushes it out.


Don't let s3x becloud your thinking cap. If you make the mistake of sleeping with her, soon, you wouldn't be able to punish her when she errs, you wouldnt be able to assign her difficult tasks and the annoying ones would mos def take advantage of it and try to lord it ova her peers because she is bedding boss.

The crew would soon start to mumble and start disrespecting you. Insubordination wud become order of the day

Office wud begin to suffer the effects. The ripple effect ain't worth it.

To be forewarned is to be fore what?

Cc: Jeromegwer
Pls i beg u in the name of anything that is dear to u...follow the emboldened advise in blue...
If u value d growth of the company, yourself & dignity...Do not sleep with that lady, no matter the sexual urge....u must control it for your own good...Once u sleep with her, things will crumble...I would even advise u to maintain a somewhat distant relationship with her...don't be too close to her bro...

Harddon i really appreciate u for the advise in blue colour....
How i wish d first man Adam was like u....The world would have been a better place...

So, I'm back again. I was in this fwb(friends with benefit) relationship with a girl who is my junior colleague and also lodge mate. After couple of misunderstandings, and what I can't even explain, we started dating. Truth is, Yea I love her. And she loves me too, she has shown that and also said that. Although, we don't really say it much. We always hang out after school since we re in d same lodge.
But recently, she had this girl that is squatting with her(she normally stays alone), so this girl has made it kinda hard for us to ever do the do(we can't do it in my room,I have a roomie).
So, recently, we hardly hang out or talk again. We normally talk during d evenings, when I'm back from lectures. But, somehow she has been withdrawn. She hangs with one guy like dt, that normally comes to visit one of ma neighbors. So they talk and all dt. Sometimes, till 10 at night before the guy goes..
This started since like Thursday or so. I saw em yesterday and they were talking sha, the door was not locked, so I knew they weren't doing anything. But I still called her and asked her, and she was like nothing is going on, they re just talking and that she even knows his ex.
The guy is cute sha, and recently when he sees me, he normally calls me and wants to shake me or something. But, my babe is sapiosexual, thats kinda why we re good. We re both attracted to intelligence. But this guy is an airhead sort of, with dreads, all this guys with Snapchat ish.
I just think maybe its a phase, and it will pass when they finally run out of things to talk of. But I'm still worried sha, because I'm not the jealous type, but this is testing me.
What do I do next??
Xavier blue
Magikalz
Davidthegeek
Harddon

I want to share two experiences I had Today.

The First,
I have been in the house for about two hours after I returned back from my village. It was about 16:50hrs so I decided to go and get some stuffs from the market. After walking some few miles, I came in concurrent position with a certain girl who seems to be going my direction. She was looking at me momentarily however, I looked at her the first time we met from the bend and never looked at her face again. The only reason to this is that I have never kept a discussion with a girl I don't know more than asking of her name and number. For me not to look so desperate, I let her go with saying a word. All the while we walked side by side, I was just thinking of what to say.

The Second.
This happened at about 19:36 hrs, this evening.
I stood at a friends front side of the house because we were about to go for a normal Sunday outing. While standing, this tall girl with good backside, nice pawpaw but not too good pineapple face was coming to the next compound to fetch water. As I stood there, I noticed that she wanted to pass through the tar road but decided to pass through where I stood squeezing herself to pass because there was a table at my front, used by the newspapers vendor. When she passed, I did not move an inch and did not greet her either but she mumble a greeting which I did not answer. I then stepped few steps backward knowing that when she returns with water on her head, she might want to spill them on me. I was still waiting on my friend when she returned with water on her head and roared at me "Why you no stand there again cross your leg. Even when u c person dey come, u no shift." I kept quite and laughed knowing that the girl has been displaying some shekele ku for me. Also, I thought to myself that it was because I never answered her greetings nor greeted her when she passed.
After turning the water, she was going for another round, I was still standing and she told me never to be annoyed o as she was laughing, I still kept quiet. She said she was joking and left.
After a long thought, I realized I should have told her why was she complaining even as she tried to step on my leg. It takes me quite a long time to reason a good response for a woman, I don't really know why.
Though she is taller than I, about 6.8", I have been crushing on her but never summoned the courage to go after her for the fear of what to say. And I believe she likes me somehow.
Am I right to have kept quite, should I start discussing with the girl and which interested topics should I begin with. Thanks

fayded:
So, I'm back again. I was in this fwb(friends with benefit) relationship with a girl who is my junior colleague and also lodge mate. After couple of misunderstandings, and what I can't even explain, we started dating. Truth is, Yea I love her. And she loves me too, she has shown that and also said that. Although, we don't really say it much. We always hang out after school since we re in d same lodge.
But recently, she had this girl that is squatting with her(she normally stays alone), so this girl has made it kinda hard for us to ever do the do(we can't do it in my room,I have a roomie).
So, recently, we hardly hang out or talk again. We normally talk during d evenings, when I'm back from lectures. But, somehow she has been withdrawn. She hangs with one guy like dt, that normally comes to visit one of ma neighbors. So they talk and all dt. Sometimes, till 10 at night before the guy goes..
This started since like Thursday or so. I saw em yesterday and they were talking sha, the door was not locked, so I knew they weren't doing anything. But I still called her and asked her, and she was like nothing is going on, they re just talking and that she even knows his ex.
The guy is cute sha, and recently when he sees me, he normally calls me and wants to shake me or something. But, my babe is sapiosexual, thats kinda why we re good. We re both attracted to intelligence. But this guy is an airhead sort of, with dreads, all this guys with Snapchat ish.
I just think maybe its a phase, and it will pass when they finally run out of things to talk of. But I'm still worried sha, because I'm not the jealous type, but this is testing me.
What do I do next??
Xavier blue
Mag ikalz
David thegeek
Hard don

Thought this was just ffb?
Or are you in love with her, she knows it and she decided to play a SENDLESS card on you to get you jealous?

Why dont you turn the tables arround and start hanging out with another hotter lady and rob it on her face?

invite any of your female course mate home and start spending time together while you ignore her entirely?

HARDDON:


Thought this was just ffb?
Or are you in love with her, she knows it and she decided to play a SENDLESS card on you to get you jealous?

Why dont you turn the tables arround and start hanging out with another hotter lady and rob it on her face?

invite any of your female course mate home and start spending time together while you ignore her entirely?

Okay, thanks. Would try that

deafeyez:
I want to share two experiences I had Today.

The First,
I have been in the house for about two hours after I returned back from my village. It was about 16:50hrs so I decided to go and get some stuffs from the market. After walking some few miles, I came in concurrent position with a certain girl who seems to be going my direction. She was looking at me momentarily however, I looked at her the first time we met from the bend and never looked at her face again. The only reason to this is that I have never kept a discussion with a girl I don't know more than asking of her name and number. For me not to look so desperate, I let her go with saying a word. All the while we walked side by side, I was just thinking of what to say.

The Second.
This happened at about 19:36 hrs, this evening.
I stood at a friends front side of the house because we were about to go for a normal Sunday outing. While standing, this tall girl with good backside, nice pawpaw but not too good pineapple face was coming to the next compound to fetch water. As I stood there, I noticed that she wanted to pass through the tar road but decided to pass through where I stood squeezing herself to pass because there was a table at my front, used by the newspapers vendor. When she passed, I did not move an inch and did not greet her either but she mumble a greeting which I did not answer. I then stepped few steps backward knowing that when she returns with water on her head, she might want to spill them on me. I was still waiting on my friend when she returned with water on her head and roared at me "Why you no stand there again cross your leg. Even when u c person dey come, u no shift." I kept quite and laughed knowing that the girl has been displaying some shekele ku for me. Also, I thought to myself that it was because I never answered her greetings nor greeted her when she passed.
After turning the water, she was going for another round, I was still standing and she told me never to be annoyed o as she was laughing, I still kept quiet. She said she was joking and left.
After a long thought, I realized I should have told her why was she complaining even as she tried to step on my leg. It takes me quite a long time to reason a good response for a woman, I don't really know why.
Though she is taller than I, about 6.8", I have been crushing on her but never summoned the courage to go after her for the fear of what to say. And I believe she likes me somehow.
Am I right to have kept quite, should I start discussing with the girl and which interested topics should I begin with. Thanks

lemme guess u av nt read this thread from the beginning.jst read from page 1-10 ur answer lies therein..btw taking long b4 thinking of a response when talking with a girl..dulls d convo and the girl will see as u as a boring guy...learn hw to be quick witted..

dunno why am still finding chatting and calling difficult..

Hw do u operate on this kind of girl who nw used sense 1b against u, that is that girl who sense nugget 1 b don't have effect as on

brandon180:
dunno why am still finding chatting and calling difficult..

Loling...

With the new ones or em' regulars

But, either way. First try and balance your inner self, as u would agree with me that it's where what we know and what we are lies in. And hey, dnt get this twisted, it's your ability to have said enough life and mind lifting words to yourself ( these includes the drills and nuggets you find here and outside the drills here) mastermind them by saying it to yourself often and see how lifted your inner self would be.

Virtually all the chatting and calling routine is as a result of what u have in your ebbing mind and fine cerebrum. Besides u can't give what u don't have shey

Kick start with these and as they say the rest would be history!...

brandon180:
dunno why am still finding chatting and calling difficult..

1. Read lots of comic books, watch comedy, night of a thousand laugh, listen to gordons' comedy series, read my replies to convos, expect a chat/ call series on our blog.

2. Spice the above with your blends

3. Avoid dull ladies that contribute lil or nothing to convos with monosyllables.

4. Improve your vocabs with good reads. Watch BBC Learn English on Youtube to improve your pronunciation.

5. thank me later by asking for my account details

HARDDON:


1. Read lots of comic books, watch comedy, night of a thousand laugh, listen to gordons' comedy series, read my replies to convos, you can ask those that have gone through our whatsapp group for humour pdfs we sent them or wait till we launch our blog.

2. Spice the above with your blends

3. Avoid dull ladies that contribute lil or nothing to convos with monosyllables.

4. Improve your vocabs with good reads. Watch BBC Learn English on Youtube to improve your pronunciation.

5. thank me later by asking for my account details

Can u pls send d pdf to my mail

Goldcoen:
Pls can u ensure ladies don't see dis otherwise is a waste

mail me.

deafeyez:
I want to share two experiences I had Today.

The First,
I have been in the house for about two hours after I returned back from my village. It was about 16:50hrs so I decided to go and get some stuffs from the market. After walking some few miles, I came in concurrent position with a certain girl who seems to be going my direction. She was looking at me momentarily however, I looked at her the first time we met from the bend and never looked at her face again. The only reason to this is that I have never kept a discussion with a girl I don't know more than asking of her name and number. For me not to look so desperate, I let her go with saying a word. All the while we walked side by side, I was just thinking of what to say.

The Second.
This happened at about 19:36 hrs, this evening.
I stood at a friends front side of the house because we were about to go for a normal Sunday outing. While standing, this tall girl with good backside, nice pawpaw but not too good pineapple face was coming to the next compound to fetch water. As I stood there, I noticed that she wanted to pass through the tar road but decided to pass through where I stood squeezing herself to pass because there was a table at my front, used by the newspapers vendor. When she passed, I did not move an inch and did not greet her either but she mumble a greeting which I did not answer. I then stepped few steps backward knowing that when she returns with water on her head, she might want to spill them on me. I was still waiting on my friend when she returned with water on her head and roared at me "Why you no stand there again cross your leg. Even when u c person dey come, u no shift." I kept quite and laughed knowing that the girl has been displaying some shekele ku for me. Also, I thought to myself that it was because I never answered her greetings nor greeted her when she passed.
After turning the water, she was going for another round, I was still standing and she told me never to be annoyed o as she was laughing, I still kept quiet. She said she was joking and left.
After a long thought, I realized I should have told her why was she complaining even as she tried to step on my leg. It takes me quite a long time to reason a good response for a woman, I don't really know why.
Though she is taller than I, about 6.8", I have been crushing on her but never summoned the courage to go after her for the fear of what to say. And I believe she likes me somehow.
Am I right to have kept quite, should I start discussing with the girl and which interested topics should I begin with. Thanks

you already have the sendless character every guy should have.. So what you need next is to be witty.. Being on your feet.. Do you think ya a funny guy? do people laugh when they are around you?
Make a girl laugh and ya half way gone.
like the first situation.. if I was in your shoes.. this would have been my response..
1:
me: My friend.. don't tell me ya that shy..
She.. *anything she says..*
me: we are walking side by side and you are too shy to hi..
she: laughs
me: Anyway.. I like the way you walk..
she: thanks..
me: it kinda look like the way my granny walks sha.. just that your own u out shakara..
She: laughs or says anything.
me: it fits you.. you know psychology says girls with good walking steps can dance.. how true is that?

Lead it anyway you fucking wants.. Bringing in the psychology shits means you've demonstrated value. she will think ya the smart type. that you read alot..

Another way to have open up the first scenario

me: you sef.. you can walk fast o..* even if she didn't walk fast*
she: *what ever.*
me: I will sign you up for the next Olympics.. who knows you fit go take last.. atleats u Don go oyinbo..

Thing is starting as if you've known them already.. and saying it with a funny face or deamanour..

The 2nd scenario.

me: why would I shift when you're busy seducing somebody's child
she: *what ever"

Genarate convo.. follow her to where she's fetching water.. Then when you back to your former location, you bring out your phone and say..

"you know what you're fun.. what should we do to continue this interesting convo?" She will surely say she can give you her number.. you give her and she punch it in.. then you smile and say..
"I don't know if it was nice meeting you or not.. am still deciding" talk am jokingly o.

It kinda simple.. you just need to work on your confidence a little..

And yeah.. I got those from this thread, maybe if you go through it you will be good too..
Harddon go address you..

HARDDON:


1. Read lots of comic books, watch comedy, night of a thousand laugh, listen to gordons' comedy series, read my replies to convos, expect a chat/ call series on our blog.

2. Spice the above with your blends

3. Avoid dull ladies that contribute lil or nothing to convos with monosyllables.

4. Improve your vocabs with good reads. Watch BBC Learn English on Youtube to improve your pronunciation.

5. thank me later by asking for my account details

hi....I sent you an email still haven't gotten reply

nice work u doing here....I sent you an email yet to get a reply

XavierBlue:
you already have the sendless character every guy should have.. So what you need next is to be witty.. Being on your feet.. Do you think ya a funny guy? do people laugh when they are around you?
Make a girl laugh and ya half way gone.
like the first situation.. if I was in your shoes.. this would have been my response..
1:
me: My friend.. don't tell me ya that shy..
She.. *anything she says..*
me: we are walking side by side and you are too shy to hi..
she: laughs
me: Anyway.. I like the way you walk..
she: thanks..
me: it kinda look like the way my granny walks sha.. just that your own u out shakara..
She: laughs or says anything.
me: it fits you.. you know psychology says girls with good walking steps can dance.. how true is that?

Lead it anyway you fucking wants.. Bringing in the psychology shits means you've demonstrated value. she will think ya the smart type. that you read alot..

Another way to have open up the first scenario

me: you sef.. you can walk fast o..* even if she didn't walk fast*
she: *what ever.*
me: I will sign you up for the next Olympics.. who knows you fit go take last.. atleats u Don go oyinbo..

Thing is starting as if you've known them already.. and saying it with a funny face or deamanour..

The 2nd scenario.

me: why would I shift when you're busy seducing somebody's child
she: *what ever"

Genarate convo.. follow her to where she's fetching water.. Then when you back to your former location, you bring out your phone and say..

"you know what you're fun.. what should we do to continue this interesting convo?" She will surely say she can give you her number.. you give her and she punch it in.. then you smile and say..
"I don't know if it was nice meeting you or not.. am still deciding" talk am jokingly o.

It kinda simple.. you just need to work on your confidence a little..

And yeah.. I got those from this thread, maybe if you go through it you will be good too..
Harddon go address you..

You have really given me great tips. I have gone up to page 6 due to my schedule and low internet coverage. However, I have not been comfortable in my skin while talking to ladies. Maybe, I too reason sex matter but even when I try not to think of that, I still not feel comfortable with them and to be present in the moment. I don't seem to know why. Even those that I have bleep, I still talk to them with a shaking voice which have made me lost 3 mature ladies. Although, my first still want me but insist we must be communicating but am still finding it difficult to initiate and maintain the conversation. I am a guy girls naturally loves but fear of the convo keeps me away from them.
I think, learning how to be comfortable around ladies would help me a lot.

deafeyez:


You have really given me great tips. I have gone up to page 6 due to my schedule and low internet coverage. However, I have not been comfortable in my skin while talking to ladies. Maybe, I too reason sex matter but even when I try not to think of that, I still not feel comfortable with them and to be present in the moment. I don't seem to know why. Even those that I have bleep, I still talk to them with a shaking voice which have made me lost 3 mature ladies. Although, my first still want me but insist we must be communicating but am still finding it difficult to initiate and maintain the conversation. I am a guy girls naturally loves but fear of the convo keeps me away from them.
I think, learning how to be comfortable around ladies would help me a lot.

When you meet girls, don't go with the sex idea.. As harddon says, make friends before you mate.. See them as friends.. or your fellow guy.. When you talk to your fellow guys you ain't nervous right? Then see them as your guys.. Or anything that will push away the fear.. Read books that will improve you.. Check out your erroneous zone, bY Dwayne..

See.. sometimes just go out and talk to girls for the whole day, like. just compliment them and walk on.. the first day will be funny but you won't be that nervous again around em ladies if you do it for a week.. dont think of what to say.. What ever comes into your head. just say.. anything..
Practice makes perfect bro

XavierBlue:
When you meet girls, don't go with the sex idea.. As harddon says, make friends before you mate.. See them as friends.. or your fellow guy.. When you talk to your fellow guys you ain't nervous right? Then see them as your guys.. Or anything that will push away the fear.. Read books that will improve you.. Check out your erroneous zone, bY Dwayne..

See.. sometimes just go out and talk to girls for the whole day, like. just compliment them and walk on.. the first day will be funny but you won't be that nervous again around em ladies if you do it for a week.. dont think of what to say.. What ever comes into your head. just say.. anything..
Practice makes perfect bro

I don't feel nervous when I talk to boys however, I don't have male friends either because they don't connect with me. The only people that come close to me comes because they need favour. This conversation of a thing is for both boys and girls. I have thought to myself wether going out could help but am not been able to.
Maybe something is not just ok with me.

I will read the book you recommend and try as much as possible to take my mind out of sex.

deafeyez:


I don't feel nervous when I talk to boys however, I don't have male friends either because they don't connect with me. The only people that come close to me comes because they need favour. This conversation of a thing is for both boys and girls. I have thought to myself wether going out could help but am not been able to.
Maybe something is not just ok with me.

I will read the book you recommend and try as much as possible to take my mind out of sex.

mail me.. I may send some

I am very happy for the help I have gotten from this thread. However, I am still going through this thread from the very first page hoping to learn new ideas.

But I need urgent tips on this.
There is this woman I do play wit roughly sometimes in my place of work. She is a mother of two but no husband. She is good somehow but has some characters I detest.
She called me few days ago to bring something for her around 8pm and man I was like something gonna happen today.
8:45pm I was at her gate. The house a self-contained with veranda protector. I knocked and she came out tying only rapper, wow. I gave her what she asked and I requested to see her sister who came visiting. The girl refused and said except I have money to marry her. I told her that is no case but let me c who am marrying first so she came and ran back in.
Though I didn't see her well but she is about 6" a little taller than me.
The next day at work, I told the woman that I want her sister and me to be close n I also requested her number. She laughed and asked me to come to her house.
Yesterday, I went to her house, I met she and her sister and almost messed things up as I was nervous and never knew what to say. The woman played well knowing that that I am fuckinup. She told d girl that I came for her. Before now, the conversation was just btn d woman and I. After some moments, d woman pinched me, to talk to d girl, she left and the girl and I began talking about education. After some few minutes, we walked out together to charge her phone and later, I took her on a stroll. We did not talk any thing relevant since I had nothing to say. I later bought her gizzard while I took Hero. She refused taking any drink except water. I returned her and told her I would see her today and invite her to church. She did not give an affirm no or yes but that she would go to market with her sister.
I told her I would ask her sister for her to come.
I did not collect nor ask of her number but she will be going back tomorrow or next and not coming back anytime soon.
Should I invite her to my house and initiate 6 or should I leave her for now. I told her I have a daughter but it's a lie.
What do u think.

Hmmm

deafeyez:
I am very happy for the help I have gotten from this thread. However, I am still going through this thread from the very first page hoping to learn new ideas.

But I need urgent tips on this.
There is this woman I do play wit roughly sometimes in my place of work. She is a mother of two but no husband. She is good somehow but has some characters I detest.
She called me few days ago to bring something for her around 8pm and man I was like something gonna happen today.
8:45pm I was at her gate. The house a self-contained with veranda protector. I knocked and she came out tying only rapper, wow. I gave her what she asked and I requested to see her sister who came visiting. The girl refused and said except I have money to marry her. I told her that is no case but let me c who am marrying first so she came and ran back in.
Though I didn't see her well but she is about 6" a little taller than me.
The next day at work, I told the woman that I want her sister and me to be close n I also requested her number. She laughed and asked me to come to her house.
Yesterday, I went to her house, I met she and her sister and almost messed things up as I was nervous and never knew what to say. The woman played well knowing that that I am fuckinup. She told d girl that I came for her. Before now, the conversation was just btn d woman and I. After some moments, d woman pinched me, to talk to d girl, she left and the girl and I began talking about education. After some few minutes, we walked out together to charge her phone and later, I took her on a stroll. We did not talk any thing relevant since I had nothing to say. I later bought her gizzard while I took Hero. She refused taking any drink except water. I returned her and told her I would see her today and invite her to church. She did not give an affirm no or yes but that she would go to market with her sister.
I told her I would ask her sister for her to come.
I did not collect nor ask of her number but she will be going back tomorrow or next and not coming back anytime soon.
Should I invite her to my house and initiate 6 or should I leave her for now. I told her I have a daughter but it's a lie.
What do u think.

She didn't give u a firm answer because she noticed u were scared of her & u couldn't express yourself & feelings properly...
Bro your major problem now is u need to first of all believe & have confidence in yourself before anything...You sound too fearful & indicisive.
Why did u have to lie that u have a daughter?
You fear women & that is one of the problem...I strongly believe u are a virgin...because u seems to place too much value on sex.
You need to start from learning how to be yourself, how to relate with people, both boys & girls before talking about relationship. Join a group in your church & take up active roles, so u can get to relate with people often...Your self esteem is very low currently, not that u don't know what to say, but u are scared of saying it, because of fear...Just join a group in your church & start from there. I m surprised u mentioned u are working & still act this way...quite strange...

Rubbiish:

She didn't give u a firm answer because she noticed u were scared of her & u couldn't express yourself & feelings properly...
Bro your major problem now is u need to first of all believe & have confidence in yourself before anything...You sound too fearful & indicisive.
Why did u have to lie that u have a daughter?
You fear women & that is one of the problem...I strongly believe u are a virgin...because u seems to place too much value on sex.
You need to start from learning how to be yourself, how to relate with people, both boys & girls before talking about relationship. Join a group in your church & take up active roles, so u can get to relate with people often...Your self esteem is very low currently, not that u don't know what to say, but u are scared of saying it, because of fear...Just join a group in your church & start from there. I m surprised u mentioned u are working & still act this way...quite strange...

Not a virgin either. I have bleep some women and most of them if I show you, you would doubt me. I guess they are always beclouded by love, likeness or something. But then after I bleep two to three times everything just dies and mostly I don't always call before I always fear what to say and or if they call, I will refuse to pick because I don't keep the conversation flowing. I will try actively participating in church activities. Although I have a church member am crushing on but ever since I became active I have not taken her any serious.

I LOVE THIS (though the guy fumbled at the beginning)

Guys TAKE A CUE

She gave a guy her number at the mall, three weeks now the guy has not called her and she's worried.

Amaterasu:
I LOVE THIS (though the guy fumbled at the beginning)

Guys TAKE A CUE

She gave a guy her number at the mall, three weeks now the guy has not called her and she's worried.

I disagree. The guy didn't fumble. He's just acting funny to get the girl.

XavierBlue:
mail me.. I may send some

Can I pm you for some also?
Thanks!

tintedniggz:
Can I pm you for some also? Thanks!

do

HARDDON:


Swave7 b4 I analyse your write-up, kindly keenly reflect on all the emphasized and tell me who really has the ish here. You or her.

Oga Don, it can't just be me na. I've done my part, my own issue is if she wasn't interested in doing anything with me she should've just said no outrightly. I don't like it when women play mind games, give vague responses & dance around things. Simple yes or no would suffice o.

Rubbiish:

Sir without wishing to sound obnoxious....What is the summary of this post?

Honestly bro u care soooo much about this girl that u may have forgotten the reason why u were at the training centre.
Is she the only girl there? Are there no other ladies?
U have asked her twice to go on a date with u & she has refused...Go the with the little respect left & roll with other girls, so u can get your mind off her...U are so much engrossed with this lady & it is bad for u...Find another girl & forget about her...

Uhh no I actually have trouble connecting emotionally so I don't really care cos there are other girls there. She only happened to pique my interest after some unusual occurrences. We only went out two evenings to get rice & shawarma & back to evening class, that's it. NO actual date. Both occasions where we got those meals I made her pay for her stuff.

Please can anybody recommend good novels to me?
Thanks