I write this with so much guilt that has consumed me. I am not at peace and I feel so choked up not knowing what to do.

I slept with someone else,another man on my honeymoon!..yes,I know,I had just committed adultery in a marriage that has yet to even kick off and I feel terrible and I feel like dying. Moreso,I know I can never forgive myself. My Husband will never forgive me. That is the ultimate sin. I know I could never forgive him if it was me.

But I didnt plan on sleeping with anyone during my honeymoon. My husband is partly the cause of this problem!

When he planned our honeymoon to SA,he actually planned it to coincide with a business retreat his company had planned for. So he wanted to use one stone to kill two birds. When we arrived at the resort,he quickly went into the retreat.So most of the time during the day,he would be attending a retreat. We tried to make most of the time during the night. I tried to have a good time too. But on the third day,their retreat took a different turn. My husband and his chairman had to travel to new York for a business meeting that came up unexpectedly. So the retreat was put on hold.

I had to wait in the resort while my husband traveled to New York. The first day,I was so bummed. The resort is filled with so many nice places and interesting people. I would go to the pool and meet some really good looking people all making out. I was jealous I was alone. Some men hit on me but I avoided them. Night time was the worst,I was Hot as hell. Gosh,I didnt bring my vibrator. I didnt think I would need it anymore now that I was married. By the third night after my husband traveled,I decided to hit the bar. I met a couple of people and I began to mingle. I drank quite a lot too.Being s.x starved and drunk is a very bad idea. All I know was I was having a good time and I finally ended up with a man I hardly knew in my bedroom. The s.xual tension was just too much. I just dont know how I did it but I did. I was with another man and had an amazing s.x.

The next morning,the man had left. Here I was feeling like the most stupid woman on earth. I kept to myself all day,crying and asking God to forgive me. I just didnt know what happened to me. I cursed my hubby for bringing me to this romantic place with so many distractions only for him to abandon me. When my husband came back on the fifth day,I tried to put all that happened behind me and focus on him. I pounced on him and made mad love to him. He was excited too. Maybe he thought that I missed him so much thats why I was so into it. Yes,I missed him like crazy but I also wanted to bury myself inside him perhaps,as a way to block the images of what I had done in his absence.

While chatting over dinner at the resort restaurant, I was trying to have fun with hubby when a group of his colleagues came by. Among them was the man I slept with nights ago. He was introduced as Greg,their company’s South African Director. I froze!…He also recognized me and was in shock. We both managed our shock well. But I couldn’t eat anymore.. I excused myself and went to our room. I cried and cried so much. When my hubby came in,he asked me what happened. He noticed that my face was swollen and knew I was crying. He asked again,alarmed. I just told him I wanted to go home. He didnt know what was wrong but he said ok. I tried to find Greg before leaving. I called his room no and begged him not to tell my hubby He said he was cool as long as I was.

We leave the resort the day after tomorrow. I have had a very bad experience. I dont know what the future holds but I beg the future,i beg God to never reveal what happened in SA n my honeymoon. I could never live if it happened to be revealed. I know I would commit suicide. I knew I will. But what if I tell my hubby like after sometime,do you think he could ever forgive me? Say,maybe like in a year’s time?

Jozi,

Ghana

http://livelystones.com.ng/i-was-with-another-man-on-my-honeymoon-its-my-husbands-fault/

This is seriously serious.....

What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas

Forgive yourself, but sin no more.

Just 3 days and u decided to receive a strange d,ck? U knw what? Ure a sophisticated ashawo

XhosaNostra:
What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas

Forgive yourself, but sin no more.

See them

It's better you reveal the secrets to him now and seek for forgiveness, (though it might cause an alarm).

XhosaNostra:
What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas

Forgive yourself, but sin no more.

Lol, she seems to have loose panties.....I suggest she not leave her premises from now on without hubby that will help her not to sin no more lol. She is a danger to herself but I understand her , it's hard out there lol.

XhosaNostra:
What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas

Forgive yourself, but sin no more.

So today u now agree that what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas?

Mzansian:




Lol, she seems to have loose panties.....I suggest she not leave her premises from now on without hubby that will help her not to sin no more lol. She is a danger to herself but I understand her , it's hard out there lol.

I agree with ur point totally. I fear such women.

Am i still considering marriage?










Hell of Shitholes everywhere!

this is serious o...u v sinned against God and your husband...seek for forgiveness. this is y we need to learn how to control our sexual urge.

Grayjoy:
So today u now agree that what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas?

Only when it involves other people I don't want the poor girl to lose her man over a "mistake". She's remorseful as it is.

If he cheats on her in the future, at least they'll be on equal grounds

krissconnect:

See them

Mzansian:




Lol, she seems to have loose panties.....I suggest she not leave her premises from now on without hubby that will help her not to sin no more lol. She is a danger to herself but I understand her , it's hard out there lol.

She was suffering from buyer's remorse, I'm sure lol. Other people become more attractive when you're in a relationship

Haba !!

You want the to cheat on her to make the sin equal?

Two wrongs no good nah .

XhosaNostra:


Only when it involves other people I don't want the poor girl to lose her man over a "mistake". She's remorseful as it is.

If he cheats on her in the future, at least they'll be on equal grounds

liquidlove2018:
Haba !!

You want the to cheat on her to make the sin equal?

Two wrongs no good nah .

She already cheated. I'm not saying she should cheat again. All I'm saying is, if the husband cheats on her in the future, that'll be the equalizer

XhosaNostra:


Only when it involves other people I don't want the poor girl to lose her man over a "mistake". She's remorseful as it is.

If he cheats on her in the future, at least they'll be on equal grounds

in ur own situation it won't remain in Vegas ryt?
Do u thnk guys who cheat are not remorseful?

All this kind story self 4 this cold afternoon

XhosaNostra:


She already cheated. I'm not saying she should cheat again. All I'm saying is, if the husband cheats on her in the future, that'll be the equalizer

you dey bring football tecnique here abi!!

Some believe some truths are better not revealed
But from experience it's the lies and secrets that hurts the most
Cos peradventure the hubby eventually finds out.... The marriage is as good as dead
There's a probability he might never find out though

Yet another lively stones romantic drama..... Lol


Well, I will just say this. The lady is seeking the easy cop-out by shifting blame to her man. What happens to the Vows you shared just days or weeks ago at the altar before your honeymoon? What happens to the "I love you with all my heart, soul and won't give myself to anyone else but you" talk?

Ofcos I know she told him all that just as he told her too...
What also happened to "'till death do us part"?

Honestly, there is no excuse. The lady knew what she was getting herself into. She knew her man was a busy man and even agreed to their honeymoon plans being done alongside the husband's business retreat. No excuses at all. She is just a loose woman who can open her V for just any dick whenever she feels hot...

It is really sad. She even uses vibrators. Well that says a whole lot more. She is a lover of sex and being married and having done this once now on her f**king honeymoon won't stop her from doing it again when the husband travels yet again in the near future for another retreat.

She is just what she is... A loose b**CH. I feel for good men having this kind of women for wives.

Grayjoy:
in ur own situation it won't remain in Vegas ryt?
Do u thnk guys who cheat are not remorseful?

Look, I judge other people's problems differently. Perhaps it's due to the fact that I'm not emotionally involved in the situation & I actually wanna see other people happy. When I'm involved, however, the rules of engagement change. I want everything out in the open. But the trick is, I will never get over it, remorse or not.

Btw, I will never be in a situation like that because I'm not like that. I don't have sex on a whim. I particularly don't do one night stands & other meaningless encounters. It can never be me!

Just a couple of days & she couldn't keep her panties.. Such a loose b1tch! What happens in future when he travels for weeks on business She will probably be fvcking the gateman or driver or her ex or any available pipe The guy just marry olosho put for house

wow wonders sha never end..
abeg just do the needful and tell your hubby or your conscience wont let you rest

XhosaNostra:
What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas

Forgive yourself, but sin no more.

Something tells me you are a born cheater have seen your comment twice encouraging shit weldone ma

Yeah... They do become more attractive even when most of them are actually not when we look deeper.... And after the apple is bitten via sleeping with that "more attractive" person, most or all of them realise that there is really no f**king difference... All that the lure offered was to taste something different... And then it is discovered that the difference is so boring and not there at all. Don't mind the amazing sex talk... If it were so amazing it would not be killing her on the inside of her naa. It will vitalise her body and keep her mind fresh and free of guilt.

It always end bad in all and such a one is never happy with himself or herself.

Cheating is a silent killer..... Never tolerate a cheat. True love will never cheat. Her love for her man is not as deep as she thinks it is. She only feels bad because her conscience flogs her deeply and in every man and woman there is just something in us that tells us that "This is wrong". You must not even be a Christian or a Muslim. It is just there.

XhosaNostra:


She was suffering from buyer's remorse, I'm sure lol. Other people become more attractive when you're in a relationship

dearie sin is nt something you hide..or else you will choke yourself to death ok..if u dont open up to your husband,even in the next hundred yearz you will never forget that incident untill you open up to him nt minding the consequencies..then your heart will be relieved

XhosaNostra:


Look, I judge other people's problems differently. Perhaps it's due to the fact that I'm not emotionally involved in the situation & I actually wanna see other people happy. When I'm involved, however, the rules of engagement change. I want everything out in the open. But the trick is, I will never get over it, remorse or not.

Btw, I will never be in a situation like that because I'm not like that. I don't have sex on a whim. I particularly don't do one night stands & other meaningless encounters. It can never be me!

I like ur sincerity here, thought u said "what happened in Vegas should remain in Vegas" because this time the lady is the cheat. Also U better learn how to get over cheating now for ur own good.

anuoluwapo884:


Something tells me you are a born cheater have seen your comment twice encouraging shit weldone ma

Far from it, but OK.

Grayjoy:
I agree with ur point totally. I fear such women.

Lol, but unfortunately her hubby can't be her bodyguard forever . She should get her act together asap. Loose undies aren't won by women only though .

TheSuperNerd:
Yeah... They do become more attractive even when most of them are actually not when we look deeper.... And after the apple is bitten via sleeping with that "more attractive" person, most or all of them realise that there is really no f**king difference... All that the lure offered was to taste something different... And then it is discovered that the difference is so boring and not there at all. Don't mind the amazing sex talk... If it were so amazing it would not be killing her on the inside of her naa. It will vitalise her body and keep her mind fresh and free of guilt.

It always end bad in all and such a one is never happy with himself or herself.

Cheating is a silent killer..... Never tolerate a cheat. True love will never cheat. Her love for her man is not as deep as she thinks it is. She only feels bad because her conscience flogs her deeply and in every man and woman there is just something in us that tells us that "This is wrong". You must not even be a Christian or a Muslim. It is just there.

True. You're 100% correct.

overonty:
Some believe some truths are better not revealed
But from experience it's the lies and secrets that hurts the most
Cos peradventure the hubby eventually finds out.... The marriage is as good as dead
There's a probability he might never find out though

did u read where she said d man she slept with is d director of d hubby's company in SA? So tell me how d hubby won't find, someday, somehow, somewhere, he must find out, nothing is hidden under the sun.