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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by babajeje123(m): 11:31am On Mar 31, 2018
Flowers95:
Don’t worry, it’s not a problem now because you’re both still in young. In 5-10 years let’s see if you’re saying the same thing.
I totally disagree with you. My wife is some months older and we have been married for 6 years. It has never been an issue that she is older. Numerically she might be, but I'm the head, the alpha and omega of my home. I really don't know why people are some much concerned about outlook. Let me leave you with the word of a wise king 'Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised'.

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Flowers95: 11:34am On Mar 31, 2018
babajeje123:

I totally disagree with you. My wife is some months older and we have been married for 6 years. It has never been an issue that she is older. Numerically she might be, but I'm the head, the alpha and omega of my home. I really don't know why people are some much concerned about outlook. Let me leave you with the word of a wise king 'Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised'.
How old are you? If I may ask...

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by babajeje123(m): 11:59am On Mar 31, 2018
Flowers95:
How old are you? If I may ask...
In the journey of love and marriage, age is just a number. It has nothing to contribute. I was wondering why you want to know my age.

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:16pm On Mar 31, 2018
CsRockefeller:


I'm cool, just enjoying d weekend, I'm camillus by the way, what's urs?

I'm Victoria. It's pleasing to know you.

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Flowers95: 12:17pm On Mar 31, 2018
babajeje123:

In the journey of love and marriage, age is just a number. It has nothing to contribute. I was wondering why you want to know my age.
I can assume you’re not up to 40

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by CsRockefeller(m): 1:17pm On Mar 31, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


I'm Victoria. It's pleasing to know you.

Lol.....Queen Victoria "its pleasing to know you" you just spoke Queen's English, are you a Queen? Or are you from the Queen's land?

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:38pm On Mar 31, 2018
CsRockefeller:


Lol.....Queen Victoria "its pleasing to know you" you just spoke Queen's English, are you a Queen? Or are you from the Queen's land?

Lol. Perhaps I made a blunder, please make it otherwise. No one is an island. Just do the needful, thanks!

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:40pm On Mar 31, 2018
Ire2:

. Good morning to you as well
And really you should try writing, It seems you are able to express yourself more when you are more of in an emotional state like anger or happiness, just like you were when you wrote that cheesy

Come I wee teach you and lecture you on how to express yourself well but your fee is $60 grin


Lol!
C'mon. What are friends for?
You know what? I ain't learning. I'll put myself to the task. Do you write as well?
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Supreme01: 2:50pm On Mar 31, 2018
I was almost disapointed.But thank God for some guys that posses some good sense here.
Now let access it like this:
*How will you feel if you were in her shoe,for some one to treat you that way at the expense of age. Why didn't you consider this at first?
*...to marry a younger lady and have no PEACE?.Age shldnt b d major concern.
*My brother i've seen a woman that born 5 but she still look so young and fresh. i lie not. Pls it's all about packaging. Av money u'll package her wel.if she's loyal.

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by babajeje123(m): 3:13pm On Mar 31, 2018
Flowers95:
I can assume you’re not up to 40
Whether 40, 20 or 90, age has no impact in marriage. Maturity, trust, selflessness and love are some of the building blocks of a happy marriage.

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by babajeje123(m): 3:28pm On Mar 31, 2018
pander1234:
please i need your sincere advice on this
my current girlfriend i have dated for over 2 years now we have agree to take it further (marriage) but my concern is that she is the same age as me and infact her birthday comes before mine. so i want to know if marrying someone that has same age with you is bad or not

please no insult just your sincere advice
Let me share a bit of my love life with you. I didn't know my wife's age when I proposed to her. But she knew! After a lot of dragging forth and back, she asked for how I would feel if if I knew she was older and I told her age irrelevant in marriage. And yes it is. We got married and we've had slot of misunderstanding and none of them was as a serious of age difference.
You need to ask yourself this pertinent question, do I want to spend the rest of my life with this lady? Your sincere answer should tell you what you should do.
And please, forget those who saying your wife will be older than your friends' wives bla bla bla. Only a fool compares their spouse with someone else's.

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by khalazi: 3:31pm On Mar 31, 2018
Woman wey Get Money pass you worse pass woman wey senior u. It is easier for a more financially bouyant woman to disrespect you than an older woman.
Na money be baba guy. 2-5 Years difference no bad. Just make sure you de ontop things. I don see one woman wey senior her husband with 5years but she de worship the man like king. While some wey senior their wives with 7years no de rest.
If you be Man, You be Man.

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Flowers95: 3:46pm On Mar 31, 2018
babajeje123:

Whether 40, 20 or 90, age has no impact in marriage. Maturity, trust, selflessness and love are some of the building blocks of a happy marriage.
Okay good luck sir. When you’re 40 come back to his post.
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Mar 31, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:



Lol!
C'mon. What are friends for?
You know what? I ain't learning. I'll put myself to the task. Do you write as well?

What are friends for? it's now I understand why they said don't do business with family and friends they will destroy the business with steady awoof, you will hear lines like "you nor know me again?" "abeg sell am for me like this I be your friend o" evils! cry

So Just now you have friendzoned me already. You don't have fear and respect for Oba ire? undecided well I Thank God it's almost easter, I died in the friendzone yesterday like jesus died on the cross and shall resurrect with him out of your friendzone tomorrow cool

No I don't write, I'm usually very busy with other real life activities so I don't have the time to write but if you write I would be happy to read your write ups during my leisure time cheesy should relief stress grin

And Your Profile picture though, that cartoon expression on your face is so funny, you look mischievous there, up to something! cheesy
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by babajeje123(m): 4:16pm On Mar 31, 2018
Flowers95:
Okay good luck sir. When you’re 40 come back to his post.
If I tell you I'm above that nko?

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Flowers95: 4:22pm On Mar 31, 2018
babajeje123:

If I tell you I'm above that nko?
I doubt.
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by CsRockefeller(m): 5:28pm On Mar 31, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. Perhaps I made a blunder, please make it otherwise. No one is an island. Just do the needful, thanks!

No my dear, i didn't say you are wrong, i just love d way you used the word, very Behind, only classy people do such.

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by boiz2men(m): 10:22pm On Mar 31, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


After reading this balderdash you penned down, I couldn't but help to shake my head in disaffirmation. You're a total DISGRACE to Man. You simply portray no sense of emulation. What's these?
Advising someone to go get a trashy 'self acclaimed' Camry car to woo and impress ladies?
Argh! You nauseate me!
You're just a total show-off. Men like you seem to be bland and drab concerning the happenings of the society. You simply have nothing to show forth. If 'Women' are useless and cheap as mentioned, I suppose your mother must have been dealt with sexually countless times with a vast number of men. Little wonder, the stupidity lingers on. I implore you to see and respect women. We are not all that it seems. I'm not here to preach, nor do I comment on threads, but this? No, I will not pass. I hope you'll be sent to the purgatory to be cleansed off your obnoxious and stench-filled aura. It's highly contagious!
Having said these, I come to conclude that you're a bad example to other men.
Mind your comments!


Be honest, if two men called you at the same time. One standing by his muscle and the other just alighting from a keke..


All things being equal.. They wore same clothes,perfume and are identical twins


Who would you respond to?


Also, what informed your choice in responding to either of them?




Don't get it twisted. Its an innocent question. I think that guy might have had an ugly experience with women. Hence his commments...

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by iamvictorino(m): 10:52pm On Mar 31, 2018
Chubhie:
You're probably tried of her and looking for validation to jump ship or you're afraid of life long commitment.
.

My sentiment exactly.
Broda, its either u man up or keep running. To me, once Understanding is thr, noting shd be making u freak out. Gudluck
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by iamvictorino(m): 10:53pm On Mar 31, 2018
babajeje123:

I totally disagree with you. My wife is some months older and we have been married for 6 years. It has never been an issue that she is older. Numerically she might be, but I'm the head, the alpha and omega of my home. I really don't know why people are some much concerned about outlook. Let me leave you with the word of a wise king 'Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised'.

God bless you. Gud talk

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by iamvictorino(m): 10:56pm On Mar 31, 2018
babajeje123:

In the journey of love and marriage, age is just a number. It has nothing to contribute. I was wondering why you want to know my age.

So if you are certain age doesn't have anything to do wit it, Y r u now looking 4 wat is nt missing? Are u just playing game then or looking 4 Validation. SMH
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by 2morogobeta(f): 11:36pm On Mar 31, 2018
YOU WILL ALL DIE TONIGHT Bleep YOU NIGGERS
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by suremanpatriot: 11:40pm On Mar 31, 2018
Age is an edge in marriage expressed with strong sentiment at a time of dispute
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by NairaMaster1(m): 11:40pm On Mar 31, 2018
Go and marry ancient of days nau!

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Reeberry11: 11:42pm On Mar 31, 2018
2morogobeta:
YOU WILL ALL DIE TONIGHT Bleep YOU NIGGERS
Who fūck you wey no give you money this night?

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by AZeD1(m): 11:44pm On Mar 31, 2018
If you are asking this question, then you are not ready for marriage.

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Papoose269(m): 11:45pm On Mar 31, 2018
Shugarlord213:
My brother forget woman and do your own best. If you can’t cope walk out simple. Marriage benefits this h.oes anyways. Your hustle and sweat goes for her comfort. Personally to me only ass-lickers get married.

Motherless babies home day for me to adopt fine baby. if I wan nacck woman, my car day attract a lot of ladies both in church, streets, restaurants etc


My story....

I abstained from women for 4 months and hustled... ordinary Camry muscle way I day drive I don fvck pass 19 girls since this year start. If I see say the girl na brokeazz, i just drive my camry 2.2

Nigerian girls are h.oes and guys if you no get car girl go day use you do anyhow. Forget sex for couple of months, save your money and fvck her and her friends all year

I can count about 6 girls way I fuvk them and their mama coded. I just hate poosie and ass- lickers. Listen to me, if you are still on leggediz benz, we way get car go fuvk your gf and her mama and we don’t care about how you feel since you have decided to think with your di.k

Once I naacck a babe, I no even day allow her shower. I take her to the busstop, squeeze #500 for her hand... most times as soon as she steps out of my car I just zoom off with out any Goodbye or whatever.

I have over 40 ladies single and married on my WhatsApp. Over 76 unread messages... I hope your babe no day among, if she is I don’t care how you feel I go nacck am...

I got no respect whatsoever for any female human being way day bend down pisssss

Except you be Virgin I don’t mind settling down with you, and please Don’t start whining about virgins with bad character, for a lady to abstain from s.xx till her beloved guy married her is a sign she can definitely stick to you, i cherish loyalty over everything else
Bros you no get joy oh
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Dheartless: 11:45pm On Mar 31, 2018
oga you know the truth, otherwise you won't ask the question.
yes, it does.

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by thundafire: 11:55pm On Mar 31, 2018
As far as dey woman never reach menopause and dey man can fire well but both of dem are highly fertile then I got no problems
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by MissRaine69(f): 11:55pm On Mar 31, 2018
Of all the things to worry about her birthday coming before yours is a source of woe to you?
If that’s the case please don’t get married. How can you be sidelined by something that does not define character?
Has she given you any reason to doubt her sincerity?
Are you compatabile ? That is what’s important in a relationship. A couple being on the same page, having similar goals and aspirations. Would she be the sort of person to stand by you when your fortunes are down?
And those mofo’s going on about women aging faster than men. These are the same potbellied individuals who look nothing like their pictures 5 years ago!

The bottom line is what’s important to you right now?
Of marrying a younger woman is more important then uoibare indeed still immature. Let the lady go, you are not worthy of her. But if she fits the brief don’t be fickle and focus on things that really matter.

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by MissRaine69(f): 11:56pm On Mar 31, 2018
AZeD1:
If you are asking this question, then you are not ready for marriage.
Word.

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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Dheartless: 11:56pm On Mar 31, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


After reading this balderdash you penned down, I couldn't but help to shake my head in disaffirmation. You're a total DISGRACE to Man. You simply portray no sense of emulation. What's these?
Advising someone to go get a trashy 'self acclaimed' Camry car to woo and impress ladies?
Argh! You nauseate me!
You're just a total show-off. Men like you seem to be bland and drab concerning the happenings of the society. You simply have nothing to show forth. If 'Women' are useless and cheap as mentioned, I suppose your mother must have been dealt with sexually countless times with a vast number of men. Little wonder, the stupidity lingers on. I implore you to see and respect women. We are not all that it seems. I'm not here to preach, nor do I comment on threads, but this? No, I will not pass. I hope you'll be sent to the purgatory to be cleansed off your obnoxious and stench-filled aura. It's highly contagious!
Having said these, I come to conclude that you're a bad example to other men.
Mind your comments!
grin
no vex too much ...otherwise nairaland will kill you ...

see, nairaland changed me to a bias human being when it concerns gender..the only thing is I try as much as possible to remain good offline but ruthless and bias as possible online.

it's not just from the guy but you need to see your fellow women comment sentimentally on gender/sex/relationship issues, then you will understand what I mean if you're really sincere about being unsentimental.

he's just being as revengeful as he can online...don't blame him...everyone has a pitiable/painful side to their story.

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