UyaiIncomparabl:


Good morning Sir.

Lol!
Really? I never knew I write so well. Anyway, Thanks for the compliment. And No, I haven't considered Poetry. I'll write, someday. I have lots of lines and ideas in my head, but I lack the ability to put down in written words.

How're you doing?

Hi, can we talk on WhatsApp? I'm a self made writer and poet, and I particularly don't think you lack the ability like you might have misjudged yourself. It's something you can do, like breathing—like walking. Like you just wrote the above piece. But you know, it's fine to conclude you lack the ability to put those ideas and lines down; it's what on a general basis gifted people always do: underestimate themselves.


Zero eight one six four four eight five one one zero. Chat me up whenever you are convinced you are one of the rarely gifted poets and writers this generation needs.

Newboss:
You obviously are out of touch with reality!

You better learn how to keep yourself company... Women no send o. Look around and you will see it!

Those teenage fantasy of yours na big load of trash! You will only wake up when you finally get married amd see that you didn't actually marry a robot, but a human being as "terrible and complicated" as a human being!

I hope you don't get used and dumped like trash at the end of the day

Seems you didn't see the word need there.

There are times you urgently need a loyal human being around you, maybe in time of sickness. You think those girl friends would have time for you?

pander1234:
please i need your sincere advice on this
my current girlfriend i have dated for over 2 years now we have agree to take it further (marriage) but my concern is that she is the same age as me and infact her birthday comes before mine. so i want to know if marrying someone that has same age with you is bad or not

please no insult just your sincere advice

How many husbands are older than their wives yet the marriage ended in divorce? If you can predict the ratio, then you have your answer that age is inconsequential. You left weightier issues to attend to things people who are only after the natural looks at.

As per ageing...when will Kokumo not die...even if you marry someone 5 years younger, she will still age and fade later on. Perhaps you should ask certain men why after marrying a younger beautiful woman still go ahead to cheat, abandon and look for fresh 'meat.' Then you should know the problem isn't age/fading. I don't normally comment on a thread like this, but I just want to challenge your judgment (how you view life) because you still need the wisdom of God, not the stereotypical way of viewing things people hold and yet hasn't produced better marriages so far. WHat would a wise man do? Will he go for her because he will have peace of mind with her and full of virtues or because she doesn't age faster?

Shugarlord213:
My brother forget woman and do your own best. If you can’t cope walk out simple. Marriage benefits this h.oes anyways. Your hustle and sweat goes for her comfort. Personally to me only ass-lickers get married.

Motherless babies home day for me to adopt fine baby. if I wan nacck woman, my car day attract a lot of ladies both in church, streets, restaurants etc


My story....

I abstained from women for 4 months and hustled... ordinary Camry muscle way I day drive I don fvck pass 19 girls since this year start. If I see say the girl na brokeazz, i just drive my camry 2.2

Nigerian girls are h.oes and guys if you no get car girl go day use you do anyhow. Forget sex for couple of months, save your money and fvck her and her friends all year

I can count about 6 girls way I fuvk them and their mama coded. I just hate poosie and ass- lickers. Listen to me, if you are still on leggediz benz, we way get car go fuvk your gf and her mama and we don’t care about how you feel since you have decided to think with your di.k

Once I naacck a babe, I no even day allow her shower. I take her to the busstop, squeeze #500 for her hand... most times as soon as she steps out of my car I just zoom off with out any Goodbye or whatever.

I have over 40 ladies single and married on my WhatsApp. Over 76 unread messages... I hope your babe no day among, if she is I don’t care how you feel I go nacck am...

I got no respect whatsoever for any female human being way day bend down pisssss

Except you be Virgin I don’t mind settling down with you, and please Don’t start whining about virgins with bad character, for a lady to abstain from s.xx till her beloved guy married her is a sign she can definitely stick to you, i cherish loyalty over everything else

look at idiot talking about loyalty, from all indications u are still a very big fool at ur stupid age. Yeye d smell

selfemployed:


Seems you didn't see the word need there.

There are times you urgently need a loyal human being around you, maybe in time of sickness. You think those girl friends would have time for you?

That's not true!
That's why I said you need to learn how to live by yourself! That woman you call your wife is a human being, not a robot! She is not your mobile phone that you can press anytime! She can resist every move you make! She has absolute control over your life! She can give you high blood pressure! No human being needs that!

The girlfriends change every single year... Once you have a life, you can have more than enough girls falling over each other for you. I don't abuse women, so don't even think about it. You need a woman for company, just give her a call! They will even be checking on you from time to time!

Just have a life of your own, and you will be just fine! That's how life is meant to be lived!

Both men and women deserve freedom, not a cage called "marriage"!

Shugarlord213:
My brother forget woman and do your own best. If you can’t cope walk out simple. Marriage benefits this h.oes anyways. Your hustle and sweat goes for her comfort. Personally to me only ass-lickers get married.

Motherless babies home day for me to adopt fine baby. if I wan nacck woman, my car day attract a lot of ladies both in church, streets, restaurants etc


My story....

I abstained from women for 4 months and hustled... ordinary Camry muscle way I day drive I don fvck pass 19 girls since this year start. If I see say the girl na brokeazz, i just drive my camry 2.2

Nigerian girls are h.oes and guys if you no get car girl go day use you do anyhow. Forget sex for couple of months, save your money and fvck her and her friends all year

I can count about 6 girls way I fuvk them and their mama coded. I just hate poosie and ass- lickers. Listen to me, if you are still on leggediz benz, we way get car go fuvk your gf and her mama and we don’t care about how you feel since you have decided to think with your di.k

Once I naacck a babe, I no even day allow her shower. I take her to the busstop, squeeze #500 for her hand... most times as soon as she steps out of my car I just zoom off with out any Goodbye or whatever.

I have over 40 ladies single and married on my WhatsApp. Over 76 unread messages... I hope your babe no day among, if she is I don’t care how you feel I go nacck am...

I got no respect whatsoever for any female human being way day bend down pisssss

Except you be Virgin I don’t mind settling down with you, and please Don’t start whining about virgins with bad character, for a lady to abstain from s.xx till her beloved guy married her is a sign she can definitely stick to you, i cherish loyalty over everything else

i dont think you were like this at the time you were in the university. i think you finished the university a virgin. and i also think you were betrayed in love

Shugarlord213:
My brother forget woman and do your own best. If you can’t cope walk out simple. Marriage benefits this h.oes anyways. Your hustle and sweat goes for her comfort. Personally to me only ass-lickers get married.

Motherless babies home day for me to adopt fine baby. if I wan nacck woman, my car day attract a lot of ladies both in church, streets, restaurants etc


My story....

I abstained from women for 4 months and hustled... ordinary Camry muscle way I day drive I don fvck pass 19 girls since this year start. If I see say the girl na brokeazz, i just drive my camry 2.2

Nigerian girls are h.oes and guys if you no get car girl go day use you do anyhow. Forget sex for couple of months, save your money and fvck her and her friends all year

I can count about 6 girls way I fuvk them and their mama coded. I just hate poosie and ass- lickers. Listen to me, if you are still on leggediz benz, we way get car go fuvk your gf and her mama and we don’t care about how you feel since you have decided to think with your di.k

Once I naacck a babe, I no even day allow her shower. I take her to the busstop, squeeze #500 for her hand... most times as soon as she steps out of my car I just zoom off with out any Goodbye or whatever.

I have over 40 ladies single and married on my WhatsApp. Over 76 unread messages... I hope your babe no day among, if she is I don’t care how you feel I go nacck am...

I got no respect whatsoever for any female human being way day bend down pisssss

Except you be Virgin I don’t mind settling down with you, and please Don’t start whining about virgins with bad character, for a lady to abstain from s.xx till her beloved guy married her is a sign she can definitely stick to you, i cherish loyalty over everything else

I can only advice you to get a life...
That's all u need at the moment

@op, if you love her and think she'll make a good wife go ahead. or else there is some other reason you don't want to marry her. I don't think age is a serious issue here since you are both the same age. the way women age depends on their genes. some age faster. some with or without cosmetic/ nutritional maintenance look good as they age. I know two cousins with older wives. one about 2 yrs difference, the other roughly the same age. they are doing just fine. the women are still looking good after 8 years and some kids. it depends on understanding and love. most people here giving advice are not even married.

UyaiIncomparabl:


After reading this balderdash you penned down, I couldn't but help to shake my head in disaffirmation. You're a total DISGRACE to Man. You simply portray no sense of emulation. What's these?
Advising someone to go get a trashy 'self acclaimed' Camry car to woo and impress ladies?
Argh! You nauseate me!
You're just a total show-off. Men like you seem to be bland and drab concerning the happenings of the society. You simply have nothing to show forth. If 'Women' are useless and cheap as mentioned, I suppose your mother must have been dealt with sexually countless times with a vast number of men. Little wonder, the stupidity lingers on. I implore you to see and respect women. We are not all that it seems. I'm not here to preach, nor do I comment on threads, but this? No, I will not pass. I hope you'll be sent to the purgatory to be cleansed off your obnoxious and stench-filled aura. It's highly contagious!
Having said these, I come to conclude that you're a bad example to other men.
Mind your comments!

i rise

CsRockefeller:


Lol.....Queen Victoria "its pleasing to know you" you just spoke Queen's English, are you a Queen? Or are you from the Queen's land?

mtchww. Mumu line.

Oga so its now that you are ready to take decision abi,why did you start dating her in the first place when you weren't sure you will end up with her. after she has given you 2 years of her life its now you are seeking for advice, the stuff that you saw in her that kept you guys together for 2 years should also kept you guys in marriage,and for those saying the lady will get older than the guy and start looking like the guys mom plz Not in all cases there are some ladies 50 years of age with children and grandchildren and dey still look sweet 16 African ladies once dey get married and give birth to 2 children they don't take good care of themselves and it not good.

TheWalkingMind:
Hi, can we talk on WhatsApp? I'm a self made writer and poet, and I particularly don't think you lack the ability like you might have misjudged yourself. It's something you can do, like breathing—like walking. Like you just wrote the above piece. But you know, it's fine to conclude you lack the ability to put those ideas and lines down; it's what on a general basis gifted people always do: underestimate themselves.


Zero eight one six four four eight five one one zero. Chat me up whenever you are convinced you are one of the rarely gifted poets and writers this generation needs.

Thank you so much for re-affirming. I've dropped a message on Whatsapp. Kindly reply at your leisure time.

mikolo80:
so e de pain una

No!
I was only pained by the way he judged 'Women'. We aren't some piece of trash. He should learn to accord us some respect. He is too vulgar.

Dheartless:


no vex too much ...otherwise nairaland will kill you ...

see, nairaland changed me to a bias human being when it concerns gender..the only thing is I try as much as possible to remain good offline but ruthless and bias as possible online.

it's not just from the guy but you need to see your fellow women comment sentimentally on gender/sex/relationship issues, then you will understand what I mean if you're really sincere about being unsentimental.

he's just being as revengeful as he can online...don't blame him...everyone has a pitiable/painful side to their story.

Whatever pitiable story he had to tell should have been kept to himself. We don't need his indecent choices of words. He is too vulgar, and I detest such people. I'm not one to foolishly comment on every dumb threads, I just couldn't let that pass. I needed to give him a share of my madness.

mtngloetiartel:
mtchww. Mumu line.

Lol!
Haters everywhere!

boiz2men:



Be honest, if two men called you at the same time. One standing by his muscle and the other just alighting from a keke..


All things being equal.. They wore same clothes,perfume and are identical twins


Who would you respond to?


Also, what informed your choice in responding to either of them?




Don't get it twisted. Its an innocent question. I think that guy might have had an ugly experience with women. Hence his commments...

UyaiIncomparabl apparently hasn't seen this question

boiz2men:



Be honest, if two men called you at the same time. One standing by his muscle and the other just alighting from a keke..


All things being equal.. They wore same clothes,perfume and are identical twins


Who would you respond to?


Also, what informed your choice in responding to either of them?




Don't get it twisted. Its an innocent question. I think that guy might have had an ugly experience with women. Hence his commments...

What's my business with their self-acclaimed cars?
I don't see that piece of trash as an achievement. It's a total liability. Only gullible girls fall/and will continue to fall for such. I'm not a saint, neither am I trying to paint myself so perfect. The bottom line is- NO ONE really cares.

CsRockefeller:


No my dear, i didn't say you are wrong, i just love d way you used the word, very Behind, only classy people do such.

Hmm. You're gonna make me blush!

UyaiIncomparabl:



What's my business with their self-acclaimed cars?
I don't see that piece of trash as an achievement. It's a total liability. Only gullible girls fall/and will continue to fall for such. I'm not a saint, neither am I trying to paint myself so perfect. The bottom line is- NO ONE really cares.

Way to dodge a simple question

Ire2:


What are friends for? it's now I understand why they said don't do business with family and friends they will destroy the business with steady awoof, you will hear lines like "you nor know me again?" "abeg sell am for me like this I be your friend o" evils!

So Just now you have friendzoned me already. You don't have fear and respect for Oba ire? well I Thank God it's almost easter, I died in the friendzone yesterday like jesus died on the cross and shall resurrect with him out of your friendzone tomorrow

No I don't write, I'm usually very busy with other real life activities so I don't have the time to write but if you write I would be happy to read your write ups during my leisure time should relief stress

And Your Profile picture though, that cartoon expression on your face is so funny, you look mischievous there, up to something!

Nay nay nay nay!

C'mon bro! That was just a cheap talk. Of course, I know you've got its might, and you can put me through.
Well, yea, you do other real life activities?
That is same here! I just can't readily grab a piece of sheet and start mincing words together, that's tasky for me.

Errm, to your comment on my profile picture?
Well, I ain't mischievous, neither is that a mischievous pose. That's called a 'Cunny pose'.

Goodnight Sir.

CuteMadridista:


Way to dodge a simple question

Like seriously?
Don't you sleep?

No But I prefer marrying a girl that I senior sha

who are the 'us'
respect is earned not given
if you are not a cheap desperate woman say so
but from guys perspective no car no poosie
car plenty poosie
what do you want them to now think
from empirical evidence

UyaiIncomparabl:


No!
I was only pained by the way he judged 'Women'. We aren't some piece of trash. He should learn to accord us some respect. He is too vulgar.

CuteMadridista:


UyaiIncomparabl apparently hasn't seen this question

I have. The question contains no meaningful content, thus will relay no answer to it.

I'm off!

mikolo80:
who are the 'us'
respect is earned not given

I copy.

Please anything between 1-5yrs difference is no big deal. What matters most is friendship and love.

Memories12411:
[s]No one will tell you that it matters because there's nothing to hold on to in terms of religion and traditions. But let me be sincere with you "it matters". Women get older earlier than men because of the nature of their bodies. After some years into the marriage you will begin to see people giving her unnecessary respect thinking she's your elder sister or mum. How will you feel?. When your friends marry younger women your wife will not be comfortable with the relationship because she will be the older one and inferiority complex will set in. Like wise when you you are with her friends and their husbands you will be treated like a small boy because you are the same boy her friends know. Again, your family will be telling her to her face that you married an old woman. Finally, the two of you at home. Will she respect you when she knows she is older? I'm not saying it doesn't or it can't happen but if you can stand what comes out of it you can go ahead. I stand to be corrected.[/s]

Your level of INSECURITY COMPLEX is really something else!

In fact, your level of INSECURITY COMPLEX is really out of this world!

You sound as someone who seeks approval from people around you before you can do even the slightest things.

Anyway sha, I thank God everyone is not like you.

Tufiakwa!

Olekwa!

[b][/b] I Don't Want To Accept It Is Wrong Getting Married To A Woman Who Is One's Age. The Problem With Most Women Is That When they Are Married, They Want To "Dress And Behave Like Married Women". Am Not Talking About Provocativeness But Dress Smart And Do Things With Panache.

Apart Frm Menopause, I Don't Think It Has Been Proved Scientifically That Women Get Older Faster Than Men. Our Culture And Tradition Are Responsible For Some Of These Things/discriminations. In Some Places Of Work, Once U R Pregnant, U R Off.

Some Women, It Is Religion. Why Can't A Woman Put On Trousers And Shorts? She Sits At Home Most Times Because She Is Cut Off Frm Doing Some Things , Perhaps, Apart Frm Work.

Some Men Are The Cause. They Want Full Time House Wives; Someone Who Will Baby Sit For Them.It Is Pathetic That In The 21st Century, Some Young Men Are So Possessive, Jealous And Selfish That They Restrict And Cage Their Wives At Home. Yet, Some Will Come Out To Say They Get Old Quickly. A Man Living A Sedentary And Boring Life, and stress filled life will get very old over night.

If u get married to someone that will love and respect you, treat her well. Allow her to dress well and smart but not provocative. The two of you should help each other to live a stress free life. Eat good food; balanced diet and live healthily. Your wife will not get old faster than u. And who says a girl that gets married as virgin cannot become promiscuous? I laugh in Swahili.

Poverty and illiteracy are also causative agents of non- attractiveness of women. When I talk about illiteracy, I mean uncivilised mentality. Broadly speaking, we have many educated illiterates.

I think we can change this perception...

Go'head marry your bride, Homie!

Your wife will age faster than you only if u no get money.

twosquare:
How many husbands are older than their wives yet the marriage ended in divorce? If you can predict the ratio, then you have your answer that age is inconsequential. You left weightier issues to attend to things people who are only after the natural looks at.

As per ageing...when will Kokumo not die...even if you marry someone 5 years younger, she will still age and fade later on. Perhaps you should ask certain men why after marrying a younger beautiful woman still go ahead to cheat, abandon and look for fresh 'meat.' Then you should know the problem isn't age/fading. I don't normally comment on a thread like this, but I just want to challenge your judgment (how you view life) because you still need the wisdom of God, not the stereotypical way of viewing things people hold and yet hasn't produced better marriages so far. WHat would a wise man do? Will he go for her because he will have peace of mind with her and full of virtues or because she doesn't age faster?

After reading your comments, am force to check your profile because you just said exactly what's in my mind. God bless you. Is just left for the op to apply wisdom and may God help him in doing so.

I do not think it will matter in this your case. Suppose you just meet and she is at desperation stage when she can hide her attitudes, i would have suggest you take your time. You guys are of the same age, she can not hide her character. I do not dispute older ladies base on they gets older early, but because many of them hide their real characters just to get married and later changed during marriage. Take your time to reason over it, think of her attitudes so far. Once she is natural attitudinally, and not at despirate stage, you are good to go.