1. No wife materials
Common among some men is the reservation that there is scarcity of ‘wife-materials’ in Nigeria.

2. They get sex freely without marriage than in time past
Realizing now that they can get sex more easily than in times past, when ‘virginity’ for women was a pass value to marriage, some men now feel lot of women today have lost it when it comes to keeping themselves whole.

So in marriage, you don't get sex freely baa? Another trash as I expected

3. Nigeria weddings are expensive
In a country where a man is expected to marry a woman in three different kinds of wedding- Religious, Traditional and Court, the cost of marriage no doubt is something men find very intimidating. Presently the average Nigeria wedding cost something like N700,000 and the it goes upward from that to more unimaginable cost.

4. In search of a ‘working class’
Today, most Nigerian men are in search of a wife capable of sharing financial responsibilities with them. Gone are the days when men marry ‘full-house-wives’, the increasing cost of living has tilted most men in favor of ladies who have a means of livelihood and willing to share with their man, the burden of building a home.

Well,this reason makes a little sense

5. Unrealistic Expectations from In-laws
Some parents have set certain standards for anyone who will marry their child, either way be it that such expectations are from the groom parent’s or bride, the regulations sometimes affect relationships

Give an example of an unrealistic expectation or for ever

6. Trust issues
Most times, people fear to get committed into a relationship because of trust issues. Some men have been bruised in their past relationships and therefore they don’t want to put themselves out there.

You are talking about marriage. This means they must be in a relationship already. So how is the issue of trust here again.? Mtcheew

Good morning dear

highpriestess:
some of them are lazy bunch of retards.
stay away from them,better to be single than to marry a hell fire.

izzou:

This is the most deluded statement I've heard from a lady
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Thegeneralqueen:
Nigerian men are becoming lazy, just check out years past when they're being known to work hard and cater for their families ....but these days they don't want to work hard like their fathers did they're always after what the lady will contribute to the family forgetting that they're the head of the family and it's their duties to satisfy the needs of their wives .....bunch of lazy yahoo yahoo goat

izzou:


So in marriage, you don't get sex freely baa? Another trash as I expected

izzou:

So gatemen, drivers, and people that work in the same biscuit factory with you don't have husbands and wives baa? Did they spend as much as 700k? Keep living in delusion

izzou:

Give an example of an unrealistic expectation or for ever

izzou:

You are talking about marriage. This means they must be in a relationship already. So how is the issue of trust here again.? Mtcheew

highpriestess:
some of them are lazy bunch of retards.
stay away from them,better to be single than to marry a hell fire.

Thegeneralqueen:
They want to eat their cake and have it

izzou:




This is the most deluded statement I've heard from a lady


So in marriage, you don't get sex freely baa? Another trash as I expected


[s]So gatemen, drivers, and people that work in the same biscuit factory with you don't have husbands and wives baa? Did they spend as much as 700k? Keep living in delusion[[/s]/b]


[b]Well,this reason makes a little sense


Give an example of an unrealistic expectation or for ever


You are talking about marriage. This means they must be in a relationship already. So how is the issue of trust here again.? Mtcheew



Good morning dear

Thegeneralqueen:
I tell you I'm always honest when it comes to relationships better be single than date a broke guy...




Girl where have you been dea.drat thought because you do buy him pop corn he has the right to talk to me the way he likes dude got more than what he bargained for yesterday

eezeribe:

This is actually more applicable to women...

TheUpsetGirl1:


you must be stupid, you changed your gender from female to male to say trash.
you don't know me in person, how did you know I'm working in a buiscuit factory? please don't get me angry this morning

TheUpsetGirl1:


you must be stupid, you changed your gender from female to male to say trash.
you don't know me in person, how did you know I'm working in a buiscuit factory? please don't get me angry this morning

You sound so angry this morning. Are you just coming back from your night shift?

The internet never forgets. Remember how you came here to tell us of how you work in a biscuit factory? It's not my business sha. At least you qualify for the so called "Working class"

Anyway, back to your thread. You haven't countered my points yet. Abi is that not your reason for creating this thread? To engage us in a discussion?

Now leave biscuit wahala and let's discuss

UDUJ:


My dear you told us yourself

Or you've forgotten

eezeribe:

Maybe she has forgotten...

Thegeneralqueen:
Nah do compare yourself with a woman go work hard

highpriestess:

goodmorning darl.
project in progress sis.

what did he do this time.
seems I will start buying koboko for him.

eezeribe:
OK

Thegeneralqueen:
Nigerian men are becoming lazy, just check out years past when they're being known to work hard and cater for their families.....but these days they don't want to work hard like their fathers did they're always after what the lady will contribute to the family forgetting that they're the head of the family and it's their duties to satisfy the needs of their wives.....bunch of lazy yahoo yahoo goat

highpriestess:
some of them are lazy bunch of retards.
stay away from them,better to be single than to marry a hell fire.

UDUJ:


hahahahahaha I tell you bro.

She doesn't know Nairaland never forgets

Thegeneralqueen:
I tell you I'm always honest when it comes to relationships better be single than date a broke guy...




Girl where have you been deadrat thought because you do buy him pop corn he has the right to talk to me the way he likes dude got more than what he bargained for yesterday

eezeribe:

Why would you change an argument from general to personal,there is difference between logic and emotion.

TheUpsetGirl1:

you mean Nigerian guys?

TheUpsetGirl1:

Nigerian guys are tired of the "head of the home" title..
father lawd...

Thegeneralqueen:
Now leave this thread and go make yourself useful