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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 8:03pm On Jun 13, 2018
Humchi:
What the op wrote and inciting the ladies to do is one of the reasons why ladies will remain unmarried, forming hard to get is one of the things that turns me off in a lady...

People like me, who is interested in a lady and when it happens that i am trying to get her and she is like ignoring me, i would forget her because i can't force myself on you...

Have it in mind that i may not even have the idea that you are forming but i'm likely going to take it as you are not interested in me and i can't love who i will force to love me...


Secondly, i respect women who have the boldness to express their feeling towards me..
I would even treat her like a queen..

After all i have said, my point is you should know that not all men are the same..

Some will take you as cheap, while some won't..

Op you are in company with flirts..

It is simple...
99.9% of the ladies who're married didn't woo their men, they got wooed. In that case, your assertion is wrong.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by luminouz(m): 8:04pm On Jun 13, 2018
Lol...
I actually cherish bravery in humans...a girl who could be bold to ask me out obviously knows what she wants and I like such women. What the OP said about some men taking them for granted doesn't apply to me. If there is one thing I know about myself,my looks do not freak me,my intelligence does!!!

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by N0favors: 8:05pm On Jun 13, 2018
kimbraa:
99.9% of the ladies who're married didn't woo their men, they got wooed. In that case, your assertion is wrong.
Can you please supply me link to this data/statistics?

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 8:05pm On Jun 13, 2018
Preshy561:

grin

I tell you,they will so belittle your presence and still go for the ones that actually like.
and when being reminded of their acts,they will ring it to your hearing that you actually did the chasing ,and not the other way round.cheesy
women have suffered sha.....
imagine one saying its boldness... smh

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jun 13, 2018
GrammarNazi1:

...a piece of advice...
"Just an advice" was right. Are you sure you're ok?

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 8:06pm On Jun 13, 2018
N0favors:
Can you please supply me link to this data/statistics?
The statistic is looking at you.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Humchi(m): 8:07pm On Jun 13, 2018
Preshy561:

stop advertising yourself ntori olurun.undecided

if that is all you could come up with, sorry i don't waste time on bitches like you..

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 8:07pm On Jun 13, 2018
Lalas247:
women have suffered sha..... imagine one saying its boldness... smh
lool,for the ladies that are misinformed though.grin

I have finally bought the idea of bearded gangs.cheesy

#teambeardedgangs.smiley

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 8:07pm On Jun 13, 2018
luminouz:
Lol...
I actually cherish bravery in humans...a girl who could be bold to ask me out obviously knows what she wants and I like such women. What the OP said about some men taking them for granted doesn't apply to me. If there is one thing I know about myself,my looks doesn't freak me,my intelligence does!!!
but no one sees intelligence though till you get to know the person
physical appearance matters also...
you must be one if the rare ones sha...

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by austyn0(m): 8:07pm On Jun 13, 2018
Humchi:
What the op wrote and inciting the ladies to do is one of the reasons why ladies will remain unmarried, forming hard to get is one of the things that turns me off in a lady...

People like me, who is interested in a lady and when it happens that i am trying to get her and she is like ignoring me, i would forget her because i can't force myself on you...

Have it in mind that i may not even have the idea that you are forming but i'm likely going to take it as you are not interested in me and i can't love who i will force to love me...



Secondly, i respect women who have the boldness to express their feeling towards me..
I would even treat her like a queen..

After all i have said, my point is you should know that not all men are the same..

Some will take you as cheap, while some won't..

Op you are in company with flirts..

It is simple...

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 8:08pm On Jun 13, 2018
Humchi:


if that is all you could come up with, sorry i don't waste time on bitches like you..
try harder next time.cheesy
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 8:08pm On Jun 13, 2018
Preshy561:

lool,for the ladies that are misinformed though.grin


I have finally bought the idea of bearded gangs.cheesy


#teambeardedgangs.smiley
welcome to the gang ... grin

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jun 13, 2018
kimbraa:
Ladies, woo a guy at your peril. The disadvantages outweighs the advantages. Don't be fooled with 'I would cherish a lady that wooed me". It's all a lie. Men love chasing, not the other way round.

You woo a guy ,you may get dumped

A guy woo you ,you may get dumped.

It's the same thing girl.. whether you do the wooing or not you'll still get dumped so you better change your mentality.

This is a civilized world.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Humchi(m): 8:09pm On Jun 13, 2018
kimbraa:
99.9% of the ladies who're married didn't woo their men, they got wooed. In that case, your assertion is wrong.

helo, how were you able to come up with those stats??

Were you there when they were wooed??

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 8:10pm On Jun 13, 2018
Lalas247:
welcome to the gang ... grin
smileysmiley

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by luminouz(m): 8:10pm On Jun 13, 2018
Lalas247:

but no one sees intelligence though till you get to know the person
physical appearance matters also...
you must be one if the rare ones sha...
Lol..I guess I'm.... Being called a fine boy irritates me...being 1st in anything I do is my thing!!!

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by N0favors: 8:12pm On Jun 13, 2018
kimbraa:
The statistic is looking at you.
Una sabi pull out ghost statistics ehn grin

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 8:14pm On Jun 13, 2018
luminouz:

Lol..I guess I'm.... Being called a fine boy irritates me...being 1st in anything I do is my thing!!!
are you single .... just asking
cause your mindset different to some ...
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 8:14pm On Jun 13, 2018
imitateMe:
[s]No matter how classy the girl is, she'd look cheap and worthless to him.
The more you try to seduce a man, the more worthless and disgusting you'll seem to him.
[/s]
However, playing hard to get doesn't raise your standards - it only postpones your 'heartbreak day'.
If you know you know!

Young man please!
The fact that in your village or local vicinity where you reside in men don't value women who approach them for relationship it doesn't call for a "flabagastical intoxicated " generalization.

This is the 21st century. Only idiotic and hypertoxic men think the way you just said.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lonestar124: 8:15pm On Jun 13, 2018
Baseless conception against nice Nigeria men.

I just like how you write in generalization.. Continue.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jun 13, 2018
kimbraa:
99.9% of the ladies who're married didn't woo their men, they got wooed. In that case, your assertion is wrong.

99%..really?
can we see the reference link, please?

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by GrammarNazi1(m): 8:17pm On Jun 13, 2018
kimbraa:
"Just an advice" was right. Are you sure you're ok?
Wrong. You need to take your drugs. Your grammar is appalling.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 8:19pm On Jun 13, 2018
Times have changed, okay?

If you're still waiting for the Mr. Right to come and propose to you even though there's a man you find interesting you might be at the losing side in the end.

The man you're currently dating may not propose to you.. proposal doesn't even mean marriage in many cases.


You better get up and do that proposing yourself before you hit 40.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by luminouz(m): 8:22pm On Jun 13, 2018
Lalas247:

are you single .... just asking
cause your mindset different to some ...
Yes.. I'm

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by N0favors: 8:26pm On Jun 13, 2018
How can anyone take relationship advice from this op who can't even define 'life'? Smh.

Romanceland is such a joke. Maybe that's why it's my favourite section. Here to unwind

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by zealkane(m): 8:27pm On Jun 13, 2018
That why una go forever remain fucking single for life

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jun 13, 2018
Elder001:


You woo a guy ,you may get dumped

A guy woo you ,you may get dumped.

It's the same thing girl.. whether you do the wooing or not you'll still get dumped so you better change your mentality.

This is a civilized world.
Shut up! What is civility about wooing a man? So getting dumped was all your brain could make up? Men don't love being wooed, and that's a fact 'cause a lady who wooed a man doesn't leave much to the imagination. Would you rather hunt as a man or be hunted? It boast a man's ego to go all the way out for what he wants, and not have things delivered to him on a platter of Gold.

Ladies, go read why men love bìtches by Sherry Argov, men spoke on this subject and sampling on a majority opinion was taken. Some said they won't value a lady that wooed them. The thought was; "If she wooed me, then she could woo another man, and they don't like perceived threat to their relationship".

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by anochuko01(m): 8:31pm On Jun 13, 2018
y'all are just confused entities.
why wallow in jealousy and pain when there's a guy you really like.....especially when you see girls around him.

I'll be glad if a girl asks me out.....my type though. I'll be saved of the stress if chasing some unserious elements.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by youcanmakeit: 8:32pm On Jun 13, 2018
kimbraa:
Ladies, woo a guy at your peril. The disadvantages outweighs the advantages. Don't be fooled with 'I would cherish a lady that wooed me". It's all a lie. Men love chasing, not the other way round.

Because there are probably some men currently chasing you right now, that doesn't mean they are loving it..

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Saff(f): 8:34pm On Jun 13, 2018
GrammarNazi1:

...a piece of advice...
sharrraappp grin

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Kimcutie: 8:44pm On Jun 13, 2018
Well to me, as an Aries, I love chasing things not things chasing me.

My personal opinion.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 8:47pm On Jun 13, 2018
GrammarNazi1:

Wrong. You need to take your drugs. Your grammar is appalling.
Was it not from the same Google I got this one? Seems you don't know that English is very dynamic. You need drugs the most. Read the last post.
Thomas Tompion
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I'd say not, Si Son.


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thanks a lot ~~
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Thomas Tompion
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The gas board might send you an advice that they were going to cut off the gas for two hours in the middle of some day in the following month.
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SI SON
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Thomas Tompion said: ↑
If a friend sent you a message, then he may well have given you a piece of advice.

The gas board might send you an advice that they were going to cut off the gas for two hours in the middle of some day in the following month.
Good!! From now on I will use "a piece of advice" and "an advice" carefully because I fully understood.
Mar 12, 2014 #5

entangledbank
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You can also say 'some advice' for 'a piece of advice'.
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SI SON
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thank you for answering my question ~~~
Mar 12, 2014 #7
Thomas Tompion
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The verb to advise has at least two different meanings. Here are the two entries in the WR dictionary:

1. to offer advice (to a person or persons); counsel: he advised the king, to advise caution, he advised her to leave

2. (transitive) sometimes followed by of: formal to inform or notify

A piece of advice, or some advice, relates to meaning 1. - to give counsel.

An advice relates to meaning 2. - to inform or notify, formally.
Mar 12, 2014 #8

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