elantraceey:
Lol..... If the victim was a lady in the exact same scenario, I'm very sure the ladies response will be very different. I'm in no support of any form of rape, Just highlighting the double standard that exists in this part of the world. If there wasn't an formal agreement to have sex, whether it is homosexual or heterosexual, NO means NO.

MobileGees:


And you think what you said made any sense?


what on Earth will justify you getting konji towards a fellow man?.


infact you, the two homos and any other other homos out there are all mad

Klinee:
For your mind you ladies are making a joke? Nonsense mumu joke! Making this barbaric act a laughable something is more devilish!

Bahddo:
See ladies having a field day being sarcastic sha

In the end, it's not like most people hate the crime itself, they just hate that their 'kind' are especially vulnerable.

I'm never going to get pissed again when I hear a lady got (or nearly got) raped, unless I know her personally.

1StopRudeness:


So u can say this as a lady..??

Later, u feminist will come and say sleeping at a guy's house, even naked, after u have chop is money is not consent for sex....if I say thunder will fire u now...u will say this guy is too harsh...

cityofindustry:
Did you really say this or you just being sarcastic?

Have you travelled outside Nigeria and made friends with whites and black to come to this conclusion?

Or you came to this conclusion based on what you read in books or the internet ?

DonPiiko:
I almost got molested for no fault of mine, we have too many people with warped sexuality, he only bought me pepper soup once we met at a joint.

Saviour22:
them better pass u I understand now go ply wit ur toys child

Bahddo:
'every gender', but not everyone.

An example... Some ladies assault men (strangers) physically on the streets and go scot free (passers-by would say 'leave am, na woman'), but if a man tries assaulting a lady, fellow men around would beat him up and women would insult him.

Ladies are just generally less sympathetic when it's a man on the receiving end, while many men would sympathize with and help female victims. It's starting to feel like gender wars and not hatred for crime.

Daeylar:


"We need to hear the other side of the story"

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These women are not playing

freeze001:


Oh! It's barbaric now? But when a lady is on the receiving end it becomes a man's world and she's the offender for being female abi? Well guess what, the gay is also a man. It's his world too!

Klinee:
mumu! get out of here!

MarieSucre:


Rape against women is barbaric but you guys on nairaland always laugh about it. I hope you'll learn to be sympathetic now that you see the tables can turn.

ClassRep001:
There's fucking nothing wrong with being a gay.

You choose to dig pussy and he choose the anal hole?

What the Bleep is your fucking business with what he chooses to do with his bleeping life?

Nigerians are the most gullible and hypocritical set of people on planet earth.

MarieSucre:



Guys are generally less sympathetic uncle. Should I quote all the threads of women crying rape ever posted on nairaland and all the comments of the guys who shut them down versus that of women who shut men down, so that you'll know the real statistics of hatred.

Thank God you said in your comment that it is fellow men that will beat up you men when you assault women. So you accept you're each others enemy. How exactly is that now the fault of women?

Klinee:
There is nothing sympathetic here, we are talking about gayism rape here, it indescribable, this inhuman.
We should be reasonable before we comment.

MarieSucre:


It's called sarcasm uncle. They're not laughing they're trying to turn the words around so men can also feel what we will feel when we talk about rape and you guys try to make it our fault. Follow the message and change your ways.

Bahddo:
Yes some foolish women do blame the victim, but you also have women who are genuinely upset about it. It's difficult to see a man get upset about crime committed against a woman, especially when the perpetrator is male. They would look for ways to rationalize, like 'the wife MUST HAVE BEEN MANNERLESS, CREATING ON HIM that made the husband beat her/murder her'. The same persons would say 'a woman must never raise her voice against a man NO MATTER WHAT'.

Nonsense and hypocrisy. Pretending to be upset that people get raped, when you are actually just upset that men get raped and it could have been you.

Bahddo:
you see 'sarcastic' in my post and you are still trying to inform me that it is sarcasm? Captain Obvious much?

MarieSucre:


While you play with your toy(mobile phone) that they invented.

lefulefu:
Abegii.. The guy dat almost got raped is probably gay as well . A fellow dude offered to take u out and suggested u spend a night with him and alarm bells no ring for ur head. Any guy who claims he's straight but he's having a suspicious close relationship/friendship with a gay is a suspected homo as well.

Saviour22:
there is no country like Nigerian Nigerian is the greatest country in the world agure with ur spirit.

P. S what I wrote means am not leaving Nigerian for any country

MarieSucre:


Fixed.

Doesn't my comment look like something you see regularly from guys on nairaland. I hope you look up the definition of hypocrisy after this.

Saviour22:
do not quote me to show such pure foolishness

Bahddo:
I see it from foolish members of either gender. It's also a rarity to see women condemn en-masse crime in which a woman isn't the victim. You can try to pretend this isn't the case. It's just like the double standard we talked about the last time, about calling women 'beaches'.

The majority of guys condemning the near-rape experience on this thread are doing it because it has homosexual undertones. Straight guys mostly hate the thought of a guy making advances at another guy.

The point is, men who aren't sympathetic when a man rapes a woman also aren't sympathetic when a woman rapes a man (they mock the men). That is consistent behavior ('unhypocritical', although shitty).

You can't say the same about you ladies. You cry victimization when it's a woman, and then make sarcastic jokes about it when its a man on the receiving end.

pocohantas:
It is not like I am supporting rape, in fact I hate rapists...but these slaykings have it coming.

Take them out and they'll drink almost one crate of beer on your head. They'll still follow you to your house and wear just boxers, displaying all their manhood. Yet, they expect nothing?

Is he your father? Or your brother?
Don't you know it is blood running through his veins?

If you don't want your butt drilled, stay in your house!
I know menists will come and talk nonsense here.