Amarabae:
fine o ND urs

Amarabae:
but you don't have vagina,
Which boyfriend are you talking about

Jamariwolff:
I'm monogamous dear. Don't be a hypocrite and claim you've never done anything sexual. Trash

Jamariwolff:
the one you couldn't use to keep your cheating hòrny piece of trash you call a husband. Keep claiming saint all over nairaland

IamAirforce1:

Your papa

IamAirforce1:
Linda Ikeji preached more than what you've put out here but at the end of the day, she swallowed her words .

God has made men above you feminists and sympathisers , and theirs nothing anyone can do about It.

Babyforever:
Never you in your life disrespect me this way again

Amarabae:
your gf Don put to bed?

Amarabae:
you sound like someone I know. Can't figure out now

IamAirforce1:

Taaarh, Comot for here
Look at this one

Babyforever:
See this short boy ooo nah me you dey follow talk

austyn0:
SELF-WORTH,, nice one....You made good points until you involved "husband material".....

Who does the marrying?? Do you know who a man is and his responsibilities as a husband or husband-to-be? Don't bring men down to that level....

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Amarabae:
dont bring men to that level!
But women are good to be in that level?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Whoever that has eyes, let her read and assimilate. This is very intelligent. I commend this, Amarabae.

Several months ago, I was in a relationship with whom I presumed 'Loved' me so much not to loose me. I loved him too. It was an abusive and intolerable relationship. I didn't want to loose him, thereby I did everything in Love's book to keep this guy. Not that We had plans of settling down soon, but I was ready to do whatever he bidded. At a time, I used to visit his parents' home to say 'Hello'. I always did this and His mother abused this use. She'll always want to send me errands like her slave. I patiently adhered to this torture for sometime until I couldn't tolerate further. Her first Son and his Fiancée visited. I happened to be around on that day.
What actually infuriated and perplexed me was that she asked me to go to the kitchen and boil rice for the 'Fiancée'. What nonsense!
I had an appointment. I was vexed, and my ignorant boyfriend couldn't explain to her about this development. I was surprised i was polite all through the fracas ensuing. I wasn't my normal self anymore. I was raging. I told her sternly and firmly that I wouldn't be able to do what she asked. She felt slighted. Oh, so the girl doesn't have hands to boil rice for herself, right?
I politely excused myself.
Thereafter, my boyfriend called and told me that I had a negative attitude. Oh really? Is that how 'A Wife Material' is being known in your village? He told me to come and apologize to his mum on my knees. I cursed and ended the phone thereon. He never called. I never called. He took my desperation for stupidity. I learnt the hard way.

To the ladies, never allow a man treat you like trash. You all are phenomenal. If he doesn't accept you for being a lady with poise, excuse yourself. A better relationship awaits. I'm not discouraging that you shouldn't help when the need arises or when you find yourself in the midst of a gathering like that, but then, NEVER over-do it. Washing their clothes will not earn you a 'ring'. It's not bad to be principled too. Know your worth.
I'm happy I took that decision. I've never been more happier. If he is meant for you, no force can tear you apart, and vice-versa.

Jamariwolff:
Does this make any sense?
Aunty mind your business and your marriage.

Whatever way I decide to treat my bf is none of your business madam. How successful is your marriage sef?

Yes, i will cook and open my legs wide. Go hug the nearest transformer. Old menopaused hypocrite

Bushyhair:
someone said men 're everywhere......u never see anything yet

IamAirforce1:

Don't call a full grown man, capable of impregnating you a "small boy"
That's disrespectful.

Babyforever:
Pregnant who who dash you liver

IamAirforce1:
Lol

Babyforever:
I'm still trying to figure out where you got the nerves to talk back at me

IamAirforce1:


You talk like Generalqueen

Babyforever:
Abeg no join me with that girl nah trouble maker she be biko nna

MhisTahrah:
Sincerely I don't think it's bad to go to your in-laws place and do those things you mentioned. So long your partner reciprocates.

UyaiIncomparabl:


And what if he doesn't?

IamAirforce1:

Then stop talking like her

Jamariwolff:
the one you couldn't use to keep your cheating hòrny piece of trash you call a husband. Keep claiming saint all over nairaland

Amarabae:
you sound like someone I know. Can't figure out now

MhisTahrah:
Your cup of tea.