marvin906:
Am scared of marriage.. especially with the plan of adopting am even more scared

ireneidiva:

I now see where your problem is from. Well, some of us have mothers and out mothers didn't just cook and give birth to us. I'm sure I wont just cook and give birth So don't generalize.

lilmax:
why is the op acting like a dick?

IamPlato:
Marriage Is A Beautiful Thing... I Already Have A Vision For My Extra Ordinary Type of Wedding... One Like No Other, will Be Happening At Mid Night Of The New Year in A Beautiful Private Elite Party... More Like A Gift For The Woman Who Fought Beside Me Through The Times



But You Know What? These Days I Am Beginnin To Change My Mind because women Only Want You Rich First.

IamPlato:
Marriage Is A Beautiful Thing... I Already Have A Vision For My Extra Ordinary Type of Wedding... One Like No Other, will Be Happening At Mid Night Of The New Year in A Beautiful Private Elite Party... More Like A Gift For The Woman Who Fought Beside Me Through The Times



But You Know What? These Days I Am Beginnin To Change My Mind because women Only Want You Rich First.

alexola20:
You get sense.
I am married and everytime I think what is that thing apart from the children this disrespectful woman is bringing to my life.
House chores,I do better.
Caring for everyone in the family I do much better.
Financially, thank God I'm the only one doing that.
On top everything I still get disrespected.
Man,never get married at all.
And never be too kind to any woman.They are all ungrateful being.
From mother,to sisters,to wife and mother in-law they are all ungrateful asshats.
Women f uck them and let them go.They have nothing to offer and then they winsh u join.

SheCool:
I don’t wanna have kids out of wedlock

I also don’t want my kids to have daddy issues

Yes! If I marry a man it means to me that I’ve found the right man cause I was dating him enough to marry him. You can just speak for yourself in this scenario that you not the type to get married.

MissRaine69:

I have a very good man, I just don’t want to get married. Why is it such a difficult concept to fathom?

skukimania:


Don't worry. By the time you meet the woman that will arrest your heart, you will change this ringing tone of yours.
OK, bye.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I don't think I'll marry. Nigerian men are seriously write-offs!

princfred:
Lol why would any reasonable country do that?

ImaIma1:



True that! Marriage is a beautiful thing especially when you marry the perfect person for you.

You should totally do the midnight idea. It sounds cool. Mine was a dinner on a Sunday evening.

Not all women are money conscious

ceeroh:


As my personality isn't for everyone, so is my response. Go fvck yourself Mr. maturity.

NB: Lemme reply you because you're the OP. I wouldn't wanna get married because asides giving birth and cooking, the lady would virtually have nothing more to offer. So why the stress? Any fertile female can give birth, even mad women give birth .
I might even end up adopting Children and continue with my life.

For those tearing me apart, this is it:
Don't get me wrong. I know my view sounds somehow. But if you look carefully, that's what most women do these days. Even those that work don't wanna share responsibilities with their husbands... Is that not the same as just cooking and giving birth?
As for the women in my family, that's a topic for another day, I wasn't raised by one. Not a broken home, but passed away when I was very young. Pops didn't remarry, and I never really felt her absence, maybe because I don't know what it feels like to have one. There's no house chore too big for me to handle, I grew up doing all those, perfectly. So I ask myself, what do I need a woman for? Asides giving birth and cooking, most of them have nothing more to offer. That's the truth. Some are even dirty and very disorganized, I can't stand a dirty environment. Never! But if you're gonna be offering something else asides what I listed above, then let me see. But how many of them have tangible things to offer?
And as for companionship, fvck it! I'm a hardcore introvert.

nairalee:



Do you want me to analyze this your comment? Or let's just smile over it and wish each other Goodluck in our pursuit of happyness?

InansBobo:
1. So I can fulfil the scriptures
2. So my village people don't say I am a Ritualist (possess blood money)
3. So my village people don't say I'm having issues
4. Joy of fatherhood and husbandhood
5. My opinion, my life, my business

Daeylar:


Where?
In this modern age where many women work and share the cost of rent, food, clothing? This age where men keep screaming that they can't marry liabilities and they want independent women who work and have their own money? Or is it another time?
How many men foot all the bills in the home?




Let me remind you of some benefits to the man

-1)A live in maid for free. (after all. "I'm Male. Head of house. It's a woman's job to build and take care of her home. )
-2)Live in cook. For free. (Hot meals set and ready at all meal times. Woman's job.)
-3)Live in all time baby sitter for free. (It's a woman's job to care for the kids. )
-4)Live in housekeeper for free.( Once again woman's job)
-5) And after all that, Someone to split the rent and someone to split payment of bills with. (This is when they remember that it is modern times. Something you're conveniently ignoring.)

-6) For extremely lazy yet wicked and entitled men.
It gives them another person's salary that they can sequestrate and they feel entitled to, A salary they didn't earn.

Since we want to show bias.
You really tried it with your post.

KevinDein:
Some people really don't wanna get married, their decision should be respected.

However can't help but think that some folks on here screaming marriage sucks are people that are downright unpleasant with genuinely nasty attitude and can't seem to find anyone willing put up with them.

It's not that they DON'T want to marry. It's just that they CAN'T get anyone to marry them.

I don't do self deceit.

Esdb3:
Can't get married because it is morally wrong and selfish to have kids. You and your wife are the ones who wants a baby. Does the baby want you?

Elliot2:
I don't understand why anyone would think marriage is meaningless. It is like saying whatever relationship u r in is meaningless. It is irrational to think and say so. It thus means you don't trust yourself and do not trust ur partner,and also for that which you feel and share. Marriage is the boldest statement one makes in a relationship. It is that simple. If you are naive about what a marriage statement means,then stay single.

alexola20:
You get sense.
I am married and everytime I think what is that thing apart from the children this disrespectful woman is bringing to my life.
House chores,I do better.
Caring for everyone in the family I do much better.
Financially, thank God I'm the only one doing that.
On top everything I still get disrespected.
Man,never get married at all.
And never be too kind to any woman.They are all ungrateful being.
From mother,to sisters, to wife and mother in-law they are all ungrateful asshats.
Women f uck them and let them go.They have nothing to offer and then they winsh u join.

IamPlato:
Marriage Is A Beautiful Thing... I Already Have A Vision For My Extra Ordinary Type of Wedding... One Like No Other, will Be Happening At Mid Night Of The New Year in A Beautiful Private Elite Party... More Like A Gift For The Woman Who Fought Beside Me Through The Times



But You Know What? These Days I Am Beginnin To Change My Mind because women Only Want You Rich First.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
u were from a background of disrespectful vipers you still went ahead to marry a disrespectful viper join! u nor try atall, instead of you to marry a woman with a good heart.

DavidEsq:
Awon omo Jeffrey Dahmer

alexola20:

How would you know?
It took decades to see my own mother true colour.
In fact my wife is stupid but with my evaluation still much better than my mother.
But also brainwashed by her own mother.
Man has no say.

ceeroh:


As my personality isn't for everyone, so is my response. Go fvck yourself Mr. maturity.

NB: Lemme reply you because you're the OP. I wouldn't wanna get married because asides giving birth and cooking, the lady would virtually have nothing more to offer. So why the stress? Any fertile female can give birth, even mad women give birth .
I might even end up adopting Children and continue with my life.

For those tearing me apart, this is it:
Don't get me wrong. I know my view sounds somehow. But if you look carefully, that's what most women do these days. Even those that work don't wanna share responsibilities with their husbands... Is that not the same as just cooking and giving birth?
As for the women in my family, that's a topic for another day, I wasn't raised by one. Not a broken home, but passed away when I was very young. Pops didn't remarry, and I never really felt her absence, maybe because I don't know what it feels like to have one. There's no house chore too big for me to handle, I grew up doing all those, perfectly. So I ask myself, what do I need a woman for? Asides giving birth and cooking, most of them have nothing more to offer. That's the truth. Some are even dirty and very disorganized, I can't stand a dirty environment. Never! But if you're gonna be offering something else asides what I listed above, then let me see. But how many of them have tangible things to offer?
And as for companionship, fvck it! I'm a hardcore introvert.