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Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 1:00pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO: Leave him be... Yes you have been with him for 5 years but didn't know if his loner cravings... That means you were his go-to when he needed lone times from his family... And you didn't know because he didn't tell you. Since you're hearing this from his mom, believe it. What I'm about to say now may be painful to you.... But he may now need lone tkme away from you too... For now... He will still come around, we always do. Now the painful part.. He may be with someone else, or some others... Depending on his loner cravings at the moment. I'm saying this with emphasis on the word "may". I crave solitude too, and that's usually when I hoe around or I'm absorbed with meeting a goal. Don't be surprised if you find out he actually applied for the transfer, in order to get away from you and his family. People like us don't allow a lot of people into our family life. And since you've been with him for 5 years and he has allowed you into his family, that means you mean a lot to him. Don't worry he will still come back to you, question is when, or how long? Stop disturbing him for now. Cos that's how he will be seeing your calls and messages...ie disturbance. Don't cut his mom off... She's not the reason why her sin is acting like that. Even if you're going to end up going your separate ways, keep being friends with his mom. We solitude cravers, we feel choked up easily, and when we don't regularly "recharge", we end up doing things that will potentially harm our relationships. I know this, cos I've been there, done that, bought the T-shirt. And we can just go blank, no message, no emotions, no reasons, no conversations, no nothing. But most times, it's not permanently. I've grown with my family for close to 30 years, and they're just discovering about my solitude cravings. So you discovering at year 5 is not bad at all. 2 Likes |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Analysiscorner: 1:02pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO: |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Analysiscorner: 1:05pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Sorry. Look to Jesus, he will never let you down. 2 Likes |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nnamebuka: 1:05pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
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Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 1:08pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO: Two things are involved, he has seen an Asaba girl or he truly wants to be left alone. If he have seen an Asaba girl, hmmm, they are very submissive and caring just like many men wants it. If he wants to be left alone, its probably understandable. Five years isn't five days. He probably needs to breath and he is enjoying the fresh air right now. Babe, if you want closure or to find out what your man is up to, carry your bag go Asaba and stop disturbing yourself and doing nothing. Asaba holds all the answers to your question. 2 Likes |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 1:11pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Gaspardd:Hahaha chief of women lottery take am easy na |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by CosmicJames(m): 1:11pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
truthsayer009:I beg go ahead. Shoot ur shot sharperly sharperly. No time Which rest? Afterall the relationship ended about 3yrs ago. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by LolaO(f): 1:12pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
thowbie7ven: Caleb uni, imota Thank you |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by thowbie7ven(m): 1:14pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO: I know you later went to Caleb Uni that was after you finished from Laspotech... |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Shugargal(f): 1:15pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO:Umm! they're up to something, Just be calm about the situation incase if it turns out bad later, it won't affect you too much. and please is he a cancerian? as his zodiac sign |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Emaprince: 1:18pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
franchasng:So Ladies should rather listen to you, who is advicing them to keep many boyfriends, hence turning themselves to oloshos. Between your advice and the the man you quoted, who is better? Men should stay away from promiscous woman like you who goes about looking for good women to deceive into living waywardly in the name of having many men to chose as fall back when a relationship goes south. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 1:28pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Emaprince:Don't mind her she never know where she dey go at all talk more of to enter motor |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by iamdapsyj(m): 1:30pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO: @op what that guy said up there is actually true to some extent. I am in one of such relationship and seriously weighing my decision right now. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Emaprince: 1:30pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO:You havent seen him for upto 2yrs, and you still call that a relationship? Excuse me...Are you saying you have been celibate for two yrs?..No sex with another man? Stop lieing to yourself. Distance is usually a disaster in a relationship. Lets not pretend. 3 Likes |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by LolaO(f): 1:31pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
iamdapsyj: It’s true, but doesn’t apply to me. 1 Like |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by LolaO(f): 1:31pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Emaprince: Okay sir. 1 Like |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Emaprince: 1:33pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
LolaO:You are guilty of something. Stop looking for pity from people ..and making the guy look like the devil. You women loves playing the victim all the time even when you are busy committing atrocities secretly. 2 Likes |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 1:35pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
pocohantas: Lol "hello, I miss you. Have you eaten?" is actually a good way to care for a lady the answer may just result to him sending you a plate of amala. Legend says If a guy never asks you if you have eaten, He doesn't love you. Also, most relationships that span 4 - 5, 6 - 8 years have all been from school, so when I saw 5 yrs. I scrolled to the comments & I knew I would find out they dated from school. 1 Like |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 1:37pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
lefulefu: She can still ask him of the new address, if she was really interested or keep asking, He would definitely know she is keeping track. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 1:39pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
franchasng: One day, one day, we shall get to see this Giant bumbum you have been talking of. Perhaps you can just trade it for an MSC degree just like Naira Marley says. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Chibyko(m): 1:39pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Let me continue from where he stopped. I will give my best�� LolaO: |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by okewumi: 1:42pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Sometimes it is not just only call or messages men value. We value visit. Madam VISIT him in Asaba. South-south terrain is very different from Lagos and sometimes if he sees you once in a while, it reduce stress. During your annual leave visit him. No place is very far to the person we love. I have work in those environment and my wife travelled down sometimes to visit me. My hearth is always full with joy. At no more concoction rice during her visit. Sometimes l share my experience on work and her advice even helps. My wife can explain a lot of things related to my work when you mention to her as a result of our interaction during her visit. If you stay in Lagos and a youth Corper hook him, you are on your own. Men are not Robot. They are very funny and different creature. They can behave like Bingo , when you start throwing food to a dog, you become is friend. If a Corper friend started cooking, caring accompany him, he forget home |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by makydebbie(f): 1:45pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
pocohantas: Sis, lol I don't know how to start explaining to you. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by LolaO(f): 1:47pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Emaprince: Typical. 3 Likes |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by pocohantas(f): 1:56pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
makydebbie: Then "What are you wearing now?" Always Hot. Useless boys, when them no kuku get work- na their prick dey on overdrive. 2 Likes |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 1:58pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
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Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by sharone21(f): 2:01pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
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Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Samcent: 2:05pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
thowbie7ven:Guy, you be monitoring spirit? Take am easy... 3 Likes |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by fireback: 2:10pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
greatnaija01:which kind JAMB question be this naa? |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by lequama10: 2:11pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Hey, ur relationship is just going through the test of distance, have been there. My advice give him time to come around don't ever conclude on anything until you hear him say his mind and what actually went wrong. Just prepare your mind to hear what you ain't prepared for, either he comes around or maybe He just got what he has been waiting on for long. And If that's it, it happens, and please try talk to someone close to you.. sorry not everytime we win.. |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Nobody: 2:13pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
fxx2:he wants to chop free meat.. ..wetin concern am in comprehending the story |
Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by makydebbie(f): 2:13pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
pocohantas:"Send me a picture of what you're wearing" Their prick dey work on their behalf. 1 Like |
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