I don't understand. The cheating dey give you head ache, joint ache because we all know say pañadol no too cost.
Just buy am and move on with life.

You and your gal no get sense. In 2019 a gal still shows off her guy and sends her friend to stay with her bf lol

You should apologize and admit you made a mistake. Obviously it's giving you problems, not to mention what it must have caused her. She might not accept your apology, but it's all you can do.

Your fiancee is not sharp. Who asks her girlfriend to sleep in her husband/fiance's house alone, without her Even when you are around, these single girls are not smiling!!!

donbachi:
Sounded very arrogant.

Very very. Idiota. Stupid gato.

Ahmed0336:
Hehehe tell her and loose her.

Keep her but make sure you stylishly make her quit her friendship with her end time friend

Hope her friend does not have evidence of what happened? As to the size and nature of your dick better find story tell her o. E.g I was sleeping with just boxers and your friend just walked in e.g before she ll use the size of your dick to blackmail you

Don't chat with her on social media even if you must keep it cordial.

I am in no way supporting your act but somethings are better left unsaid

lie kill u. Lol. But the best way to keep her is never to blow d gaff or else

funmisticqueen:
She didn't seduce you,, you allowed yourself to be seduced. You couldn't stay faithful for her? Guess she isn't as close to your heart as you thought. And it was more than once. Guess you didn't really know yourself

Really, why will a girl ask her friend to live with her BF in a one room flat.... Hanty, the young man was forced into a corner .... The blame is not totally his

AdeeT:


I've betrayed her trust, I have really hurt her, I wish that I could undo all I've done. But it's too late, and I'm reek of guilt, it's all over me.

I just cheated on a beautiful lady that has stayed with me through thick and thin for years, a wonderful soul that anyone would dream to have. Cheating might be a common thing, but the moment you cheat on a pure soul, an innocent woman that gives you all, WITH HER BEST FRIEND, then it's beyond cheating.

I am charming, good looking working class guy, guys and girls easily comment how good looking I am, my fiancee is so proud of me, and my achievements that she easily shows me off at the slightest opportunity. She attended the same Uni with her friend, and ever since then, they've been a very good friend. They even served at the same place(worked out), to show you how close they her.

Now my fiancee works in the southern Nigeria, we planned to seal things up next year, and live together here in Abuja. Her friend came for a job interview here, and my woman advised that she rather stay with me for the period instead of her spending a lot on hotel accommodations since I live alone in a bedroom flat. I obliged, and she came down here, little did I know that things would get messy. Long story cut short, I fell in to her seduction the second night of her staying after some series of events. We ended up having sex couples of time before she left. I feel terrible now, though she felt nothing, I can't even flow well with my woman on phone again, guilt is all over me. I don't know how I will stand her whenever we meet. Of all girls in the world, she's the least anyone would want to cheat on.

I'm thinking of telling her. Mind you guys, I'm not a weakling, I've never been one. Before I met her some 3 years back, I was on the other end of life. She changed a lot for good for me, and helped stop many bad things, as well as starting several good ones. I don't know what her reaction would be after telling her. Her friend still communicates with her as if nothing happened.

I'm in pain guys. A serious one. I need advices.

Oga, just keep mute and hope her friend does not spill the snail and cassava to her.....

If she eventually does, at that point you confess........

Once trust is dead, most relationships are dead........

May this be that secret you take to your grave.........


NB : On a sidenote, give me that friends number. I have something to tell her............

Officialgarri:
From all one could read here is someone who is scared that the news will get to his fiance first.

If perhaps the girl whom he had sex with was a random girl with no connection to the fiance, I don't think he would be scared

you've said it all bro! he's not taking responsibility for his dishonesty, he's only disturbed because he did it closed to his woman side


looking good and charming, I don't know why that should reduce common sense

Well.....a very matured and intelligent lady once told me that there is no word like "Cheating" in the dating/relationship dictionary because there was no oath or vows taken, it's only a game of words.

Hence, nothing bounds you guys together except mere promises and the hope of a "happy ending".

If you ask me, I choose to believe her though

Guy if you ask me, I'll advice you tell her everything (not using "confess" like u are one criminal) if you are going to marry her coz if u don't and u eventually end up with her, that secret will hunt u since I'll be seeing her all the days of ur life. From my observation, you're only feeling bad out of pity for her and not love!

momove4real25:
lie kill u. Lol. But the best way to keep her is never to blow d gaff or else

Lie kee us

You have not sinned against Man(or woman) but against God. If u can find Mercy from God Ur good to go. She has no business that

AdeeT:


How please? But then sorry if I was.

Go back and read your write up. Arrogance written all over. You might not be but the story portrays you in such a light.

The spirit led me to tell you she has also cheated/is cheating on you in her location, so she planned this with her friend so that you guys would be even, and even if you find out about her own cheating, she would tell you it happened after she found out you cheated with her friend... too much sense will not kee me sha

Treat that keloid the natural way today contact me on zero 8 zero six two five one 1 six 1 0 for your permanent natural solution

AdeeT:


I've betrayed her trust, I have really hurt her, I wish that I could undo all I've done. But it's too late, and I'm reek of guilt, it's all over me.

I just cheated on a beautiful lady that has stayed with me through thick and thin for years, a wonderful soul that anyone would dream to have. Cheating might be a common thing, but the moment you cheat on a pure soul, an innocent woman that gives you all, WITH HER BEST FRIEND, then it's beyond cheating.

I am charming, good looking working class guy, guys and girls easily comment how good looking I am, my fiancee is so proud of me, and my achievements that she easily shows me off at the slightest opportunity. She attended the same Uni with her friend, and ever since then, they've been a very good friend. They even served at the same place(worked out), to show you how close they her.

Now my fiancee works in the southern Nigeria, we planned to seal things up next year, and live together here in Abuja. Her friend came for a job interview here, and my woman advised that she rather stay with me for the period instead of her spending a lot on hotel accommodations since I live alone in a bedroom flat. I obliged, and she came down here, little did I know that things would get messy. Long story cut short, I fell in to her seduction the second night of her staying after some series of events. We ended up having sex couples of time before she left. I feel terrible now, though she felt nothing, I can't even flow well with my woman on phone again, guilt is all over me. I don't know how I will stand her whenever we meet. Of all girls in the world, she's the least anyone would want to cheat on.

I'm thinking of telling her. Mind you guys, I'm not a weakling, I've never been one. Before I met her some 3 years back, I was on the other end of life. She changed a lot for good for me, and helped stop many bad things, as well as starting several good ones. I don't know what her reaction would be after telling her. Her friend still communicates with her as if nothing happened.

I'm in pain guys. A serious one. I need advices.

tayebest:
You should have declined the offer of her staying with you.


Konji na bastard las las

I wonder, the two of them are foolish. The girl suggested nonesense and the guy acted nonesense

Rubbish and ingredients

Your woman is foolish. Some selflessness is foolishness. In this age and time, a woman would force her date to stay with her best friend while she's away. She's top calm and that's not good in some ways

Please, confess your sin and be free. Her friend is not a good friend. Let her stay away from the cheap friend if not.

1. She my might use it to black mail you later

2. That kind of cheap friend might want to visit again and she can take over her man.

3. That cheap friend can black mail her to you to enable her come in.

4. Once your sin is confess, she can not use it against you any more.

Etc.

I feel your babe tested you and you fell like tuber of yam. cos no sane person will send a friend to live with lover. But nevertheless deed is done, move on and forgive yourself. Don't make the stupid mistake of telling her except she knows and she confronts you. Don't spoil something beautiful already.

All I can say is that you are a stupid guy.. You enjoyed it. Every bit of it and the lady in question didn't seduce you. U wanted it all this while. Mind you ur angel might also be cheating on you. I don't see y any reasonable and educated lady will allow two unlike poles stay together

Op tell her the truth, chai I feel for you oo, marriage is not easy as we're deceive to see it

kowema:
He said he Fell into her seduction!.
So now we should blame her?.

Oga man up and take responsibility for your shit!.

You didn't feel guilty all the while you guys had several rendezvous, it's when she left back to base that your guilt resumed work, Nonsense!!!!.

When she started the Art of seduction as you claimed, why didn't you tell your girlfriend?, Na when you don belleful nai your guilt trigger.

Abi you are feeling like a this cus the girl isn't the one feeling horrible, if she was, you would have been spreading ur shoulder, feeling like conqueror, would have gone back to ur babe and then typical she will forgive you and the other person becomes the villain.

Please go and confess to your loving girlfriend and I hope she dumps ur cheating ass. Seduced you indeed!

I swear, the guy no get point. "Fell into her seduction?"

Just hear monkey talk. I can assure you na this guy go don make the first move sef.

One thing real ni66ers do is take responsibility for their actions and not pass the blame onto some other.

Most of us reason with our dikcs

AdeeT:


I've betrayed her trust, I have really hurt her, I wish that I could undo all I've done. But it's too late, and I'm reek of guilt, it's all over me.

I just cheated on a beautiful lady that has stayed with me through thick and thin for years, a wonderful soul that anyone would dream to have. Cheating might be a common thing, but the moment you cheat on a pure soul, an innocent woman that gives you all, WITH HER BEST FRIEND, then it's beyond cheating.

I am charming, good looking working class guy, guys and girls easily comment how good looking I am, my fiancee is so proud of me, and my achievements that she easily shows me off at the slightest opportunity. She attended the same Uni with her friend, and ever since then, they've been a very good friend. They even served at the same place(worked out), to show you how close they her.

Now my fiancee works in the southern Nigeria, we planned to seal things up next year, and live together here in Abuja. Her friend came for a job interview here, and my woman advised that she rather stay with me for the period instead of her spending a lot on hotel accommodations since I live alone in a bedroom flat. I obliged, and she came down here, little did I know that things would get messy. Long story cut short, I fell in to her seduction the second night of her staying after some series of events. We ended up having sex couples of time before she left. I feel terrible now, though she felt nothing, I can't even flow well with my woman on phone again, guilt is all over me. I don't know how I will stand her whenever we meet. Of all girls in the world, she's the least anyone would want to cheat on.

I'm thinking of telling her. Mind you guys, I'm not a weakling, I've never been one. Before I met her some 3 years back, I was on the other end of life. She changed a lot for good for me, and helped stop many bad things, as well as starting several good ones. I don't know what her reaction would be after telling her. Her friend still communicates with her as if nothing happened.

I'm in pain guys. A serious one. I need advices.

....

I don't know why Adult still make this kind of mistake no matter how close your friend is to you never let them get too close to your Bf, Gf or spouse. Some family members can straff your babe given the slightest opportunity talk less of a friend.
I've never betrayed Any of my friend before with their partner. It's not like I don't get the invitation but I avoid being too close with them even if they call me I don't save their no or chat them up on social media. even they chat be up tell me friend about. When it comes to feelings no body is 100% strong the least you can do is avoid it.

If your GF weren't Naive she wouldn't have allowed a grown up woman sleep in the same house with her fiance. And if you'd avoided sleeping in the same house with your woman's friend all this would have been avoided.

My advice to you is to speak with your GF. Keeping such secrets is not good bedrock for marriage.

Ahmed0336:


Lie kee us

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Bloody beta male. Swegbe.

You bleeped another woman (as any reasonable, red blooded man should), and so what? Have you dumped your fiancée? So what's the whole foolish long talk for?

I swear guys like this na dem dey empower these yeye fake feminists.

I wee not confess my mind...

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Why cheat In the first place she would really be mad at you but instead of keeping a secret it’s best you tell her and let her decide her actions if she loves you she would forgive you but her friend is very useless that one no be friend but if she finds out herself she would definitely leave you so it best you tell her

How are you sure your fiancee doesn't know?

Ordinary two days and you fell? Not even once but several times and you now guilty and sorry?

Nawaooo. God protect us from backstabbing friends sha