;Dabeg continue sleeping on the floor

ElonEmpire:
I met this girl online, we happen to come from same LGA, We got talking and later became friends.

Months later she complained about having accommodation Issue. Now, me am hardly around because of the nature of my job so I felt is OK letting her go stay there at least to keep my apartment warm and clean.

Though this is not the first time am doing that,
For over 5 years now it has been people staying in my house because in a year I don't even sleep more than 2 months in my house.

The last person that stayed there was also a lady the few times I go home during her stay we are OK, more like brother and sister. In fact neighbors actually thought we were.

Now come this new girl I don't know her before, infact she has spent like 6 months in my house before I went back.

During those times she was catching feelings for
me weda she is serious about it or not I don't know but I told her point blank that I'm into a serious relationship and she should maintain her boundary when ever I come back.

Months later i travelled and see her in person..
To say that she is beautiful is understatement, she is definition of beauty. She is irresistable.

I have traveled couple of time after the first time and each of this time I try so hard to maintain my dignity, self respect and not to misbehave.
We sleep on same bed, though i have decide to be sleeping on the floor or another room. She changes in my presence.

I'm seriously going crazy right now about this girl..
Infact I see my self getting Jealous about the guy she is seeing recently.

I don't know how to hand the situation, I can't afford to misbehave because, 1st she call me brother.

2ndly considering the circumstance that brought her to my house I can't afford to misbehave because am this one person who don't like taking advantage of women.

And lastly I can't cheat on my girl.
But I can't ask her to leave because for now she have no where to go.

Please how do I handle the situation?!

Quit daydreaming and wake up with your fake story. What you are doin is called mental masturbation.

How come she is staying in your house and seeing another man.. Why can't she pack and move in with her guy??

Thegeneralqueen:
You should try using your evil potato maybe it can work

Bad sister

Munzy14:
E be like na Mr nice guys get Front page this evening...


OP is confused... Your roomie /deputy girl friend in disguise they flash u... lol.

Chai I imagine say na me cohabit with a female, Next day my girlfriend will be in that house... To show her say woman pass woman...

I'm sure his girlfriend doesn't know about it, if it were me I would just scatter everywhere, what nonsense

roxey:
Fake story

LMAO

ElonEmpire:
I met this girl online, we happen to come from same LGA, We got talking and later became friends.

Months later she complained about having accommodation Issue. Now, me am hardly around because of the nature of my job so I felt is OK letting her go stay there at least to keep my apartment warm and clean.

Though this is not the first time am doing that,
For over 5 years now it has been people staying in my house because in a year I don't even sleep more than 2 months in my house.

The last person that stayed there was also a lady the few times I go home during her stay we are OK, more like brother and sister. In fact neighbors actually thought we were.

Now come this new girl I don't know her before, infact she has spent like 6 months in my house before I went back.

During those times she was catching feelings for
me weda she is serious about it or not I don't know but I told her point blank that I'm into a serious relationship and she should maintain her boundary when ever I come back.

Months later i travelled and see her in person..
To say that she is beautiful is understatement, she is definition of beauty. She is irresistable.

I have traveled couple of time after the first time and each of this time I try so hard to maintain my dignity, self respect and not to misbehave.
We sleep on same bed, though i have decide to be sleeping on the floor or another room. She changes in my presence.

I'm seriously going crazy right now about this girl..
Infact I see my self getting Jealous about the guy she is seeing recently.

I don't know how to hand the situation, I can't afford to misbehave because, 1st she call me brother.

2ndly considering the circumstance that brought her to my house I can't afford to misbehave because am this one person who don't like taking advantage of women.

And lastly I can't cheat on my girl.
But I can't ask her to leave because for now she have no where to go.

Please how do I handle the situation?!

No. Based on your story, you are in lust with her not love.

CapitalHYC:
How come she is staying in your house and seeing another man.. Why can't she pack and move in with her guy??

.Because she is staying in his house they must date. Na wa for you sef.

Scanfrost:
;Dabeg continue sleeping on the floor

Hehehehe
Abeg no kee me. He is lucky say na naija. For oyibo land when cold fire am for that ground when him dey. He wont know when he will send her to another room or the sitting room

You can't overcome temptation when you still have the object of that temptation in your hands

roxey:
Fake story

You are in the spirit.

Registered December 2, posted twice only

midnighter:


I'm sure his girlfriend doesn't know about it, if it were me I would just scatter everywhere, what nonsense

... you go cause trouble.

I don't think any modern day girl friend will tolerate that..Especially when ur man is sexually active. .

You even told her you have another person.

You should open a motherless Ladies home for homeless girls. Mr Helper..

Thegeneralqueen:
You should try using your evil potato maybe it can work

Hello young woman, how much dem dey sell evil potato? E resemble normal potato, shebi pharmacy go dey sell am, E resemble better chop chop.

englishmart:
A male having a female bestie is like someone having a chicken as a pet. You know the rest

Quote of the century.

Ok, you have another room? I didn’t know. But you chose to sleep on the same bed with her or sometimes on the floor in that same room. But sometimes you go to the other room to sleep. Well, just return to that bed you both share and finish what you started!
Your local government area will not complain.

ElonEmpire:
I met this girl online, we happen to come from same LGA, We got talking and later became friends.

Months later she complained about having accommodation Issue. Now, me am hardly around because of the nature of my job so I felt is OK letting her go stay there at least to keep my apartment warm and clean.

Though this is not the first time am doing that,
For over 5 years now it has been people staying in my house because in a year I don't even sleep more than 2 months in my house.

The last person that stayed there was also a lady the few times I go home during her stay we are OK, more like brother and sister. In fact neighbors actually thought we were.

Now come this new girl I don't know her before, infact she has spent like 6 months in my house before I went back.

During those times she was catching feelings for
me weda she is serious about it or not I don't know but I told her point blank that I'm into a serious relationship and she should maintain her boundary when ever I come back.

Months later i travelled and see her in person..
To say that she is beautiful is understatement, she is definition of beauty. She is irresistable.

I have traveled couple of time after the first time and each of this time I try so hard to maintain my dignity, self respect and not to misbehave.
We sleep on same bed, though i have decide to be sleeping on the floor or another room. She changes in my presence.

I'm seriously going crazy right now about this girl..
Infact I see my self getting Jealous about the guy she is seeing recently.

I don't know how to hand the situation, I can't afford to misbehave because, 1st she call me brother.

2ndly considering the circumstance that brought her to my house I can't afford to misbehave because am this one person who don't like taking advantage of women.

And lastly I can't cheat on my girl.
But I can't ask her to leave because for now she have no where to go.

Please how do I handle the situation?!

Munzy14:

... you go cause trouble.

I don't think any modern day girl friend will tolerate that..Especially when ur man is sexually active. .

Very ridiculous notion, people just formulate problems for themselves

Na so you go carry every woman wey dey your lga Hian! Na wetin dem dey use lga dey do?

Don't bother to handle the situation just handle her some few times and relapse back to brother and sister again

Echoes in the dark ,what a pitty

ElonEmpire:
I met this girl online, we happen to come from same LGA, We got talking and later became friends.

Months later she complained about having accommodation Issue. Now, me am hardly around because of the nature of my job so I felt is OK letting her go stay there at least to keep my apartment warm and clean.

Though this is not the first time am doing that,
For over 5 years now it has been people staying in my house because in a year I don't even sleep more than 2 months in my house.

The last person that stayed there was also a lady the few times I go home during her stay we are OK, more like brother and sister. In fact neighbors actually thought we were.

Now come this new girl I don't know her before, infact she has spent like 6 months in my house before I went back.

During those times she was catching feelings for
me weda she is serious about it or not I don't know but I told her point blank that I'm into a serious relationship and she should maintain her boundary when ever I come back.

Months later i travelled and see her in person..
To say that she is beautiful is understatement, she is definition of beauty. She is irresistable.

I have traveled couple of time after the first time and each of this time I try so hard to maintain my dignity, self respect and not to misbehave.
We sleep on same bed, though i have decide to be sleeping on the floor or another room. She changes in my presence.

I'm seriously going crazy right now about this girl..
Infact I see my self getting Jealous about the guy she is seeing recently.

I don't know how to hand the situation, I can't afford to misbehave because, 1st she call me brother.

2ndly considering the circumstance that brought her to my house I can't afford to misbehave because am this one person who don't like taking advantage of women.

And lastly I can't cheat on my girl.
But I can't ask her to leave because for now she have no where to go.

Please how do I handle the situation?!

you are into a serious relationship and cohabiting
with another girl. friend , you are playing with fire.

Where is your girlfriend?

If its true, you know what to do, u are just be indecisive.

Bro wise up for once.
Before i bounce on you let me ask you this:

1:Do you love your girlfriend?
2:Have you felt mad for your girlfriend before?
3:Do you see yourself wanting to have sex with the accomodate lady?
4:Do you often have erection when you see the accomodate lady unclothedness?
5:What's your point trying to misbehave.

If you can answer question 3-5 correctly, then you don't love the accomodate's lady but you went lust for the beauty and her body.

Thegeneralqueen:
Since you have a honest paying job that can sustain the both of you and you can meet up to her needs as the saying goes better soup nah money kill am cause she's actually beautiful all I can say now is that you should marry her.......marry her bro she's your GOD sent wife......You'll leave to regret it when she slips off your finger for another man.....Just make sure you work hard to meet up to her needs and that of your future children when they eventually comes......You don't value what you have until you've lose it


TAKE MY ADVICE IT'S THE BEST SO FAR

Did you read the part where he said he has a serious relationship already hence he once warned her to maintain her boundary.

The situation with OP right now is he is the one catching feelings for her and the whole thing is complex given that:
1. He has his own serious relationship
2. He has seen the babe change severally in his presence and she seems irresistible has she is beautiful by his own admittance and probably has a banging body too.
3. He would have been getting green lights from the babe but he already warned here to keep her boundary hence the lady calls him brother.
4. As a result of this prevailing condition he has to maintain his integrity and keep his sanity also as he would not want to take undue advantage of her.
5. Left to the OP if he has the opportunity to chop kpomo he would definitely chop it as long as the lady does not feel taken advantage of.

What I will say is this, guy you must not do the do. Keep your head up high. Keep your integrity. Don’t be moved by the flesh you see her dangle at you. Guess what, she is dangling it purposely. You don’t need to be trapped by it, trust me if you try it once it might hook you ooh, the next you will here is “I missed my period”. And of course that will wreak havoc on your precious serious relationship with your fiancé . Is this what you want ?

Nobody is above lust and temptation but the situation is totally salvageable..throw in some rules, step out if she is about to dress up... she is the guest.. get her a bed to sleep on the floor since u hardly around. And your woman should be aware of this tempting guest you don camp for the past 6 month

Thegeneralqueen:
Since you have a honest paying job that can sustain the both of you and you can meet up to her needs as the saying goes better soup nah money kill am cause she's actually beautiful all I can say now is that you should marry her.......marry her bro she's your GOD sent wife......You'll leave to regret it when she slips off your finger for another man.....Just make sure you work hard to meet up to her needs and that of your future children when they eventually comes......You don't value what you have until you've lose it


TAKE MY ADVICE IT'S THE BEST SO FAR

Spot on

DoubleEngine007:
Mr nice guy... It usually doesn't end well.. Be careful ,cuz a word is enough bro..

It will end in tears

Wow

Hope say she never dey use love charm on your. Na type dem dey like marry oooh so that they can have time to be sleeping around. Just becareful. Tell her straight up that you are no longer comfortable with her around.

roxey:
Fake story

Fake story na understatement!
Dis virtual mata not get head & nor get tail.
D person try wey cook dis wayo wayo okro soup come use better garri arrange am

Who keeps a chicken for a pet?
If it's no Christmas today, it will be Easter tomorrow. Question is, how long can you look the other way?

roxey:
Fake story

Real tales by moonlight ���