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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by tope3x(m): 1:13pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
which ladies won't give coochie if you haven't spent on her...don't be deci3v3d...alot of ladies give coochies to guys even when he hasn't given them a penny,hoping that after the sex,the guy will start giving money and they later loose Gina2019: 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by EternalBeing: 1:14pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Sex is sweetest when done within loving marriage. You'll then look into each others eyes with so much passion and appreciation, knowing that you unselfishly love each other enough not to destroy each other but helped each other become truly better stronger Beings, not weaklings crippled by Lust that abound. Be Diamonds in a World full of stones. He doesn't know the real reason why he should wait, most don't know actually. "Where purpose is not known, abuse is inevitable" If you know your worth and take him to Church where holiness is preached and practiced, he'll grow spiritually, wait till marriage and forever appreciate you as his true Queen. Give him Koinonia messages like the ones below: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXQaXmGR7ZA 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by stanisbaratheon: 1:15pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Please forgive me for saying this. Maybe you've been having sex with another fellow and he just found out through your chats or someone told him. That is some real hypocrisy shiit right there. Again, I may be wrong Please forgive me. 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 1:15pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Lyydia:Kiss and cuddle... I don't think that is necessary too!!! I am sure he is masturbating!! And you are Cuccumbating!!! Stop kisses and cuddle today... And he will take the next step with you!!! 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by hisexcellency34: 1:15pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
All those saying no sex before marriage na dem corrupt pass 5 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by sodiamond: 1:15pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Lyydia:I don't believe in no sex before marriage. If you are sure he's serious with you then go for the necessary test and allow him |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Babara1994(m): 1:15pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Gina2019:Girls give cookie without receiving money. You're just stingy 2 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by VirginSearcher(m): 1:15pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Carlmax(m): 1:17pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Lyydia: You haven't answered the most important question everybody is asking, " Are You A Virgin?" If yes, then your stand is totally understandable, if no, it's still understandable, but then it depends on how much.... In fact, i nor even get advice, suit yourself but ensure your next relationship starts 3 months before your wedding date, cos you it would be wicked to keep a grown ass Man waiting 1 full year or more for sex. #my2Cents. 4 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Trump2020: 1:17pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Lyydia:you girls are something else. It is easier for a man to walk out of a woman he hasn't have sex with than someone he loves and has sex with especially if the woman is damn good in bed and character. You can't keep a man by denying him sex, he stays because he wants to stay not because of the no sex bulkshitt. 16 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by 8stargeneral: 1:18pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
which kin nonsense cuddle and kissing be dat.... u better give dat guy something |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Moniya4Real(m): 1:19pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
[quote author=Innobee99 post=85696339]Kiss and cuddle kee u there Lwkmd o! 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Malcolm123: 1:19pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Jozzy4: Any agreement wey no get legal practitioner backing na invalid for naija ......mouth fit change anytym...lol |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Carlmax(m): 1:20pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
eni4real: This advise is very Valid too! @ OP, listen. |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by ProdigalSaviour: 1:20pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
See all these stuff na scam...know of this..don't give any man sex cos you don't want him to leave and don't deny him sex cos you want him to stay...wisdom is profitable to direct, use your head... 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by driand(m): 1:24pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
pryme:oil dey your head... |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by NOETHNICITY(m): 1:25pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Gina2019:So for you, money has to follow before a man can have ur 'cookkie'? Awon olosho!!!!!! 6 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Toks2008(m): 1:25pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Lyydia: If you must do no sex before marriage then the courtship must be as brief as possible else una go fall. 2 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Jozzy4: 1:27pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
IamCookie:Then in that case, he should have left the relationship, instead of forcing his terms that's contrary to what he signed 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Nat404: 1:27pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Lyydia:That's scam. Stop deceiving yourself. |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Edemoski(m): 1:28pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Just like others have said, he's a healthy man, but if you don't want to engage in sex before marriage I think you should stop any sexual arousing acts like the kissing, cuddling and others. |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by mctfopt: 1:30pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
A305: Never knew someone can smoothly make a car sales pitch while giving out relationship advice www.nairaland.com/attachments/10867592_leocheersrespectmeme1_jpegcd7be45ac2dbc3143a6e6d12f9abed6c |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 1:30pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
What's the point?!Some guys sef...How can u know how sweet a soup is if u never taste it...Pls allow Him check out the package because If the Bearings don chop and the Shock absorber no good again that guy won't be so impressed oo! 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by valo25: 1:30pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Gina2019: See how low ur mentality is.... So in ur mind relationship holds if u shield it from sex..? Grow up kid. Sex means totally nothing to love... It only spices up relationship 8 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Munirboss(m): 1:31pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
This guy dey vex o themaestro08: 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
IamCookie:Am a Nigerian man and I believe in no premarital sex so young lady stop devaluing us abeg 3 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Saintmary(f): 1:32pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Lyydia:My dear, majority of guys are dating girls for sex, don't you read Nairaland topics? You better face front and don't allow anyone to pressure you into s3x unless that is what you want. There are many fishes in the ocean. Heads up: Males can sense desperation. Giddy up and build your life to make your dreams come true. 3 Likes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by makydebbie(f): 1:32pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Gina2019: Lol, thank you for reading my mind and telling the op as it is. No sugar coating. 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Lyydia: He'll blackmail you emotionally and most likely sleep with you eventually. This no sex thing is only practicable in long distance relatioships. If you don't want sex yet then don't cuddle/smooch. Best wishes |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Khalidase83(m): 1:33pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
As if "it" will finish if she gives it to him. Besides, no be say the thing nah brand new self. |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by IJOBA2: 1:33pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Lyydia:ARE YOU A VIRGIN LETS START FROM THERE |
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by peculiar32(f): 1:34pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
my dear, there is more to a relationship than sex. if a man truly loves you he would not be bothered about whether you have sex or not. I was once in a relationship where everything was just sex. we only spend time having sex and doing nothing else. I wasn't dating, I was only having sex and I wasn't even asking money from him. he didn't take me out, we didn't spend time together outside his bedroom. it is not about being a Virgin or not. most relationships that are all about sex doesn't last. you guys might eventually get bored and tired of eachother. if he want sex, he should follow due process and do the right thing 5 Likes |
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