Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

There must be something you're hiding...
Nonvirgin girls who gives this condition usually hide something like ;

Loose pùssy

Smelly pùssy


Damaged wombs

Chronic pains during sex etc


Ant tee! What are you hiding?

Another towtow wahala thread

BODY NO BE FIRE WOOD

You guys do want to have sex but you cuddle,kiss
Can am hungry Man smell food without Eating

When he finally get down with you and discovered you are not a virgin, he will hate you with passion.


Telling your boyfriend to get out of your house is not good enough

I stopped reading at the point you said ,"I don't ask for money also", as if he has an obligation to give you money even if you were having sex with him.

Typical problem with our Ladies, if you have sex with him it means he must cater for all your needs.

Las Las, Someone who loves to would stay sex or no sex...

Tell him to put a ring on it.

If you are not a virgin please let him do small biko

pryme:


And how do you know the guy will leave after having sex?
It doesn't matter if the guy has sex or not, what matters is if the guy has good intentions.
And no sane man will want to end up with a woman that uses sex as a bargaining chip, its a complete turn off.

The guy could agree to the no sex thing but he is having it elsewhere, now since he is not "disturbing" for it, does this makes him a good guy?
You guys dont have any strategy that can decipher a man, even if there is this is not one of them.
The only thing is you should pray you come across a good man, but then again you will push him away with your "strategy".

Besides how do women loose by having sex in a relationship? Or you leave everything to chance and hope you guys are sexually compatible?

When you start a relationship you either go all the way or you dont bother at all.

Much love!!!

Faysuze:
You have two options, have sex with him or call it off. You want different things. Find someone that does not want sex like you do.

where would she find such person. Btw some girls think that a guy dump them after having sex, not knowing na their character that drive a husband away talk more of a boyfriend.

pryme:


No you did not,
Its obvious he now wants sex and you don't.
Call off the relationship.
If you still want the relationship be prepared to have sex with him.

No need to complicate things.
It is what it is.

You get husband for her? I hope you know that women have "best before date", it becomes increasingly difficult for women to find husband's (not to talk of child bearing difficulties) after her early 30's.

There are many mid age ladies running from church to church looking for miracle husband and miracle of Sarah.

Lemme guess.... There's one sharp guy somewhere you're constantly giving this 'precious' cookie.

This unfortunate guy is a dependent man you're keeping for marriage. And the cookie-collector is likely not 'husband material'

Me i go kiss and cuddle u,na u go hold me tight dey shout Bleep me baby [color=#990000][/color]

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

Lemme guess.... There's one sharp guy somewhere you're constantly giving this 'precious' cookie. grin

This unfortunate guy is a dependent man you're keeping for marriage. And the cookie-collector is likely not 'husband material'

Lyydia:

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

U might decide not to av sex even if u are no longer a virgin. There is nothing bad with that. I respect other people decision and i can accept dat as a boyfriend but in ur case, u should not av even try to cuddle him not to talk of kiss. D guy isn't at fault. U can't be playing dat kind of rough play with me and u expect me not to go further wen am not impotent.

Before I 4get, Naija babes if its until u ask for things u can allow him penetrate u, den u are not different from olosho.

Gina2019:
Lol...A lady will never give you her cookie as long as she's not collecting money from you. She has alot to lose if she tries it.

You want the guy to have the cookie then leave her afterwards? She's a wise girl if you ask me...Now the real intention of the guy is now showing.

Eeeehhhhhh
Is DAT so

SpyAC:
Y giving him such conditions, are u a virgin, if not, give it to him, if he love u truly, he will marry u, but why cuddle and kiss when u hv agreed no sex bf marriage, abi ur body nah wood? If no sex, stop the kiss and the nonsense cuddles

Abeg go to the nearest shop and collect 1 Ciroc for my head. D poster dey madt.

Gina2019:
No you didn't. He was only playing along all this while to try to get the cookie.

If you give him the cookie, he will dump your ass.

Oshey
I hail u

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

Auntie, You already had sex with him

Gina2019:
Cuz I've there before.

oh sorry... But you know guys are not usually the same as they named to

vincentjk:


Can't believe you're a woman, you actually reason like a man

How does a man reason? You see correct and sensible response but instead of acknowledging it, you ascribe to gender, or are women banned from good reasoning?
A stupid woman like Lydia will forever remain silly but the one you quoted, sense kii her dia! Thumps up to her thou.

Gina2019:
Lol...A lady will never give you her cookie as long as she's not collecting money from you. She has alot to lose if she tries it.

You want the guy to have the cookie then leave her afterwards? She's a wise girl if you ask me...Now the real intention of the guy is now showing.

You get oil 4 head deary

Viciheaka:

Am a Nigerian man and I believe in no premarital sex so young lady stop devaluing us abeg

Smiles.

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

Penetration is not only wat sex is about, penetration is the conclusion.

If you say no sex before marriage then there should not be anything sexual between both of you, it will lead to frustration with you both and a time is coming you will have the sex atlast.

What you won't eat, you dont smell

So no romance

Also what is the basis of your decision is it born out of religion?, Christianity (Fear of God) or a personal moral decision?

First what makes no sex before marriage work and easier is

1. You both are born again Christians and Have the fear of God ingrained in you, this give you both an individual and collective understanding of the dangers and hazards of engaging in premarital sex.

And so you both consciously avoid it and any other thing that might lead to it.

Conclusion: accept Christ as your lord and personal savior if you have not

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

una the hear this one something that God give u free of charge for ur life partner and you are giving him condition if the guy see another gal with good pay job come dey give an e go leave u and married the gal,by the time u clock 40yrs ur eyes go open .

Lyydia:


Hmmmm, major reason y m scared!

Now that he didn't get your pussy, where is he?

spiritedtete:


Your opinion is very valid... but learn to reply without insult.. behave like you are civilised in public ... even when you are not, it will go along way in fostering harmony.

Sorry about that .

Women who say "No sex before marriage" are the ones that have no single idea how a man's brain is wired.

It is not weda you give us your "thing" or not that determines if we marry you or not.

Gina2019:
Lol...A lady will never give you her cookie as long as she's not collecting money from you. She has alot to lose if she tries it.

You want the guy to have the cookie then leave her afterwards? She's a wise girl if you ask me...Now the real intention of the guy is now showing.

Spot on, agree with this 100%

It doesn't even matter if she earns more, money isn't the problem, the mentality is "i can't be giving you my puss.y for nothing". You have to take responsibility & be a Man.

Thats why no-sex relationship is the best.

Women feel they loose something everytime they have sex.

Gina2019:
No you didn't. He was only playing along all this while to try to get the cookie.

If you give him the cookie, he will dump your ass.

Please since when did pussy become cookies? Its a foolish man that will allow a woman use pussy rationing to goad him into marriage.

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

I really do not understand why people give that condition. How do you marry someone without having sex with them? I’m just asking though, because it sounds strange to me.