IamCookie:


You are the ignorant one sir/ma. She(op) gave an account of what transpired and thereby asked a question bothering her, and you expected everyone on this thread to give 'your kind of advice or response? If she is so sure and confident of the promise she made to herself , then why bothered and feeling regret of her actions? Smh

Very perceptive,
thats why the Op opened this thread because there are hints of regrets.

why would they even agree on such decision in d first place cos i knw dy r nt virgins....



who else thinks sex is overrated

ILoveLight:
Most of the comments here shows that this generation has totally lost it.

Please, where have we thrown our morality to? So if a person has been involved in sex before, she doesn't have the right to request for a no-sex relationship, really? Can't she make a turn? she doesn't have room for repentance? So she should continue having sex cos she was once involved in it. What happen to "can we continue in sin and ask grace to abound?".

Guys, it's not your right to be given sex, if you want it as a right then marry her. Cos both the christian faith and islamic faith advocates no sex before marriage.


Now consider this instance. She had sex with guy A after a while the relationship packed up, she moved to guy B, then guy C etc if she keeps having sex with them all, what will be her body count before she's married? You guys would still be the same set of people to criticize her on her body count. Now she came to her senses and decided to stop having sex after guy A or B and you guys still criticize her for that.


So because a lady is no longer a virgin, she should become a slave to your lust.

God's command on sex before marriage is clear. Let us return back to God.



And to the girls/ladies be wise. Haba !

Very sensible.

In guy's minds she should open legs because she is in a relationship. She should abandon strategy. So that all the boys in town can use and dump her.

ILoveLight:


Just like the prospective husband has banged alot of females too.

And you don't need Christ abi?

You are the one preaching the will of God to us as if you believe in the Bible.
Atleast,I'm not like u hypocrites who make out strict purity requirements yet ur heads,mouths and eyes are filled with ungodly stuffs.

larryking540:


My brother why will you say that ,don't you know they are giving themselves advice ,,,

But some guys still mumu Sha oooo,,,no sex b4 marriage hmmmmm


I remember planning such a package with a girl that was circumcised ,,bro I say make I use my mental state and physical strength fuvk this girl ,bro e just be like say I just day use my finger rub balloon ,,no senseation and Sense of feeling from her ,
. since then I don't even advise even my enemy's to take such a NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE WITH A LADY or else na market way u kw fit buy finish u go carry go hux o

Abi na

Pedrotina11:

Shut up..fornication is a sin...sin monger like u.

Olobe.. na ur type these hoes they trick na.. shebi u righteous gan..

Please is there no way these kids can be eradicated from this platform?
What nonsense is this?
Young girl how old are you?

Pataricatering:
A woman has a right to deny anybody she wants to deny sex at any goddamn time ! That’s why majority of u are rapists - entitlements to women’s bodies will kill you .

She doesn't want sex but she likes cuddle and all the kissing lol

Why not desist from any kind of intimacy until they're legally married? If she's a virgin then the wait is worth it

Sometime ago, a girl i dated made "no sex" the motto of our relationship but needs deep kiss and cuddling. I dumped her sorry ass the following week

After you don learn your lesson's from your past, you now want to suffer the young man. OK, add BJ to the kissing and cuddling it will make it fun or give him some ana too.

ArticleBeast:

If he releases on her head or chest, she will get pregnant is that it? Una no go kee person for naija

Oga go and get your facts right, if he releases on a lady's P. P, she can get pregnant especially when she's ovulating, a man can rub his rod against a woman's thing without penetration...
BTW I'm talking from experience oooooo.. hmmmm

If the thought that you overreacted crossed your mind, then you most likely must have overreacted. And no sex before marriage is bleeped up. Nobody knows a formula for dating. You could have sex and get dumped, you could have sex and get married. You could abstain and he cheats, you could abstain and have terrible experiences as regards sex after marriage. There’s no formula. If you like the guy enough you can knack him. Relationships involve risks. Needless you are aware the guy took a risk of being rejected when he approached you...there’s no safe ground.

Gina2019:
Lol...A lady will never give you her cookie as long as she's not collecting money from you. She has alot to lose if she tries it.

You want the guy to have the cookie then leave her afterwards? She's a wise girl if you ask me...Now the real intention of the guy is now showing.

lol....u tink evry grl z olosho lyk u ni?...wic kind mentality z dat sef �

Can u just imagine the way black people reason..No s*x before marriage was dead a long time ago even those love birds in the titanic could not hold themselves when it get to a stage.
Tell me, which one is more painful in opening those precious legs now and he dump u or dumping u after u guys have settle down.
ahh omo, I trust my 'Italian' babes sha...na that same day

UnknownQueen:


Oga go and get your facts right, if he releases on a lady's P. P, she can get pregnant especially when she's ovulating, a man can rub his rod against a woman's thing without penetration...
BTW I'm talking from experience oooooo.. hmmmm

Now you have said it clearly. Your former statement was vague.

tobicool:


U are mean!

How will u kiss and cuddle me everyday without any further movement?





Wickedness at it's peak

bestabigaelever:

I'm in Hell
I hope I can conquer like u did

If you're willing to walk with me, I'll take you there... to the conqueror land.

Dnt give it 2him dear he is after ur body ,if he love u he will wait

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

Offpoint:
Are you a virgin, is he a virgin?

Sex is like a good wine, those who have never taste of it would not have the urges to want to drink it. even if they do have the urge to drink, it won't be as strong as those who have tasted and drank the wine before.

Only virgins can keep to 'no sex before marriage' agreement, anything outside that is just 2 adults fooling themselves.

my problem is sex sweet but belle be my fear because I dey hear if u wear condoms girl fit get belle is it true

Lyydia:


Hmmmm, major reason y m scared!

Do you run from your fears or you fight it...
By embracing it , nigga wants sex dont give him , if he wont stay don't let him Bleep off


But why would you even agree to no sex at all when you're not a virgin like i dont get ,do you girls think sex can hold a man the only people who havr right to no sex men would gladly honour are virgins ...if this your stance turns out bad your next relationship dont bother puting no sex deal" biko
Everything about no sex before marriage is wrong whrn the Lady is not a virgin

This thread only points us to one direction and one direction alone- that sex is the best thing of value a woman can offer a man. Outside that, there is definitely little in the armory of the average woman when it comes to keeping a man.

Op, you never jam. If I was that your guy, I would immediately de-escalate everything emotional between us immediately, though in a subtle way. For example, I will start addressing you as "My sister", "My friend"....even my "my nigga" . In essence, I will "sister-zone" you. And whether you remind me that you are more than a friend to me or not is not my business. All I know in my mind is that I can never accept you as a lover. You go see platonic relationship wey go make you doubt my potency as a man. Even light kiss, you no go see, let alone cuddling and making out.

All that guy needs is a little self-control, and he will make you doubt yourself and power of attraction. Even your self-esteem sef. You are a very silly girl, working with an outdated strategy, which makes you more silly to me.

Lyydia:


Hmmmm, major reason y m scared!

when will he not dump your ass

dey there make pant dey wear you

iammolise:


So if so, then what's the difference between her and OLOSHO

But WHY should sex be commercilize these days, but why goddess of love ( Aphrodite) ?

You are asking me what's the difference btw her and olosho? Did she ask the guy for money??

Lol

Sex befor Marriage....hmmm let me think.....I will talk later

IamCookie:


You may be wrong, Gina2019. Sometimes , flexibility does it! It's a good thing she's not a liability and she also acknowledged LOVE between them. You dated for 6months ,cuddling and kissing sometimes, due to your own personal reasons. What about his own personal reasons? He was so reasonable as to allow u get along for good 6months and decided to give his own personal reason a thought , and then u became furious. You are selfish , Lyydia.

One would have thought your reason could be Virginity issue but Nope. Everyone wants emotional security..I only imagine the thoughts running through the guys mind to make him make the move again.

Well, I gave it to my guy very well ...and now he is my MAN. Your decision is your decision, though.

some ladies still believe ( no sex ) is a tool to measure a serious relationship, I pity dem.

Nice contribution.

charleskl:
lol....u tink evry grl z olosho lyk u ni?...wic kind mentality z dat sef �

What's this one saying? OLOSHO in what sense??

Two ppl agreed to a decision from the onset. Now, one is trying to break the agreement. Who does that?

pocohantas:
You didn't overreact. Stand your ground. Have they married all the ones they fcked? Sex or lack of it guarantees nothing.

But if you choose not to have sex in relationships. Don't be blackmailed into doing otherwise by same people that will call you borehole pussy.

They tell you that if you are not a virgin, you have no right to be celibate. Somehow they still ask of bodycount.

Men know some women are not very pro-casual sex. What do they do? They mask their intentions with relationships and marriage talk.

99.13167% do not care about you- always remember that. So, at every point, do what is best for you.

one of the few reasonable comments
thumbs up
you said my mind exactly

rosalieene:

one of the few reasonable comments
thumbs up
you said my mind exactly

SalomonKane:

what

WIZGUY69:


Now that he didn't get your pussy, where is he?

Hahahahaha. Guy you no well atall

rosalieene:

what

so you won't have sex with me if I ask?