Amotolongbo:

Dear Tacha,

A man is a man and will never become a perfect woman even after trans...
A woman is a woman and can never become a perfect man.

If i am in your shoes, I will prefer to work so hard on myself to become a perfect woman to complement an inperfect or perfect man (anyone I’m fortunate to marry) to build a perfect home and raise perfect children

Nice one
I pray you meet a decent man

CapitalBank:
Well, she was beginning to feel distant and somehow felt too important. The same girl that was once worried that I was withdrawn..., We didn't talk for most of December and so I messaged her a few days a new year and wished her Happy New Year. she never replied to the SMS.

I had to buzz her on whatsapp 4 hours later to make sure she is fine considering we hadn't talked for almost a month... the weyrey come reply say she see my sms and wished me happy new year ... when someone is feeling too important, the signs were there. Prior to that I had been getting the signal.

I was tired of her subtle attitude and boldly told her that I have gotten her message and it is time for me to move on. I even told her to delete my numbers from here phone... she begin tell me calm down blah blah..

2 days ago she buzzed me to ask how I am doing... I didn't reply her on time but did when I could. after replying and responded. I had to delete the chat afterwards cos I didn't want anything to remind me of her again. A girl that stopped initiating convos or chats 8 months ago suddenly buzzing because you complained and stopped initiating chat is not worth it. Let's not talk about the subtle and indirect insult she threw around October.

It is well. There are more ladies out there willing to have me... and I have moved on.

you're wise bro

Stargurl20:
Every single one who commented has commented well, and I've learnt a lot. Thanks. However, men should pls, develop forgiving spirit. Some women have casual sex with no string and does not mean u mean less to her.
Forgiving is Divine

Aunty u still don't get it do y'all??
Men! Follow this advice at your own peril

Karlifate:


No, I strongly disagree.

Everyone should not get burnt before they realize that fire is hot.

you missed his point

Dliquidmetal:
I get that,I'm glad you put the forgive in quote lol.
What about guys that genuinely forgave? To me na dem plenty pass o,after investing alot(sunk cost)and building fantasies in their heads it would be very difficult to move on. You see what this girls is saying up there? She doesn't want to keep her eggs in a basket but if the guy has the same mentality they would start gaslighting him for the same things they are guilty of,she wants to guard her heart but they man isn't allowed to guard his? Solipsism! And selfishness.

lol personally I'm tempted to respect the op for being honest about her nature, all women do it and if she sees it as the best way to protect her heart then it is cool my problem is with the guy who invests his money/time/commitment to pay bills nd provide entertainment in hopes that she'll love him and remain remain faithful untill marriage aunty will carry same kpekus nd give a nigga who doesn't invest shiit all in the name of "flings" or putting eggs in multiple baskets
So now who loses in all of these?? Simple life hard

Stargurl20:

I'm not that kind of person. When I finally decide to be with one( that's if he has given me assurance by wedding), I will remain loyal and faithful until death do us apart

In other words he should trust you even though you haven't given him a reason to lmao

Stargurl20:


Like I said, me not putting my eggs in a basket is to somewhat save my self from being heart broken and at the same time have nothing to call my own. If one of the men has now marry me, I do not see the point in keeping others

now isn't that what they all say?? Lmao
If only we didn't see them going back to recieve ex nigga dicc once in a while lol
And yes I'm talking from experience

Dliquidmetal:
They are more common than yout think bros,they are weak men and that abounds this days. They might act tough outdoor but indoor they are pussies,they can not let go,they can not set boundaries,they aren't assertive,they are pseudo-masculine.

not just weak men bro solid Real niggas will "forgive" only to relegate you to sidexhick/fvckbuddy position last last na only you go use your leg run

Yohans:
According to a British Psychotherapist, Philip Hodson, men often find it more difficult to forgive a cheating partner, because it affects their masculinity, and to them, it might signal the end of the relationship.

Hodson, who is also a Fellow of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, said, “Men can forgive themselves for their indiscretions, but they find it much harder to forgive their partners for the same. For a betrayed woman, an affair by the man is an offence against her dignity, but for a betrayed man, a woman’s infidelity is an offence against his manhood. It goes right to the core of his identity.”

Factual

Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

ok but if I find out we're more than one in basket how can I trust that you'll change in marriage hmm??
Women who say this are the ones that refuse to work with a man to work or fix their relationship when trouble arises they just leave since they already have options
Lol wahala for who still deh take woman matter serious

MufasaLion:
That dude is definitely catching cruise. Nothing of such happened.

even if it's a fake story it's still definitely an eye opener for any man who plans on trusting to that extent

SmartPolician:


Keep quiet; many simps do worse things. It's not about gender but people being who they are.

Growing up, one guy was asking my elder sister out. The guy told her to my hearing that he wouldn't mind drinking her urine every morning as long as she accepts to date him.

I was totally shocked when I heard that and my sister had a good laugh. Imagine the nonsense coming out of the mouth of an idiot who calls himself a man.

Jesu

engrzico:
My candid advice to you and your brother is to go ahead with that divorce, he fails to do sohe will regret in the future. Never threaten a woman with divorce, cos women never forget someone that put them through so much pain. She will definitely get her revenge and the moment she gets her hands on an evidence she won't look back when she initiates her divorce proceedings.

facts if you u hurt a woman go ahead and cut her off completely women always find a way to revenge

olabrinks:
Hmmm all I need is one night with this man just one night.

Lmao I trust you na

Decryptor:
Chai! Women!!

I heard of a man who discovered that the girl he thought was his daughter was not his biological daughter. Na him the man kukuma begin knack the girl and when his wife caught him and wanted to raise alarm, guy man showed his wife the test result, the woman just

Jesu..
LMAO

Ezemarcel:
Filling station (UK)
Fueling station(us)
Gas station (Ghana)
Milking station(Uganda)
Fooling station (naija)

I weak for this one

pussyphilia:
Op, no smoke without fire. You must have done something to offend your wife. She is reacting to a deep rooted anger you must have caused her before.

Solution: wake her up in the midnight, go on your knees and apologize for any wrong you might have caused her that is making her to react like that. Promise her never to offend her again. Also, double your hustle and make more money so you can meet her financial needs and make her happy always.

Thank me later....

WTF LMAO

ChiomaCa:
I'm honest with my story. And I have never for once deny him of sexual intimacy. Infact, most time I make move, almost all the time. I swear to God Almighty. I'm feeling as if I'm ugly and not good looking enough

if this is true I suggest u leave him
On the other hand u can help him overcome his addiction but he has to be willing to work on it

Bizman305:





The real question is... Why do you want to meet him up when he doesn't feel the same way? Why do you think towards sex immediately while he is concerned about your marital status. Aunty, you got your priority all wrong.
Just two seconds... You are already comparing him to your current husband sexually while the young man is just being respectful.
I hope for your husband's sake, that you aren't missing your ex badly.
You want to meet up yet you claim your husband's satisfys you.
Women!!! Who una kill no dey bleed.

I'm glad someone else read between the lines women really think their sleek lol

freshkpomo:

I know one lady,she slept with just one guy... But this Lady just begin old .. that one guy was more than 50 guys.. he was preeking this lady non stop everyday... As she dey go return from work she must branch collect, and on weekends when she nor dey go work, na two times... One before choir practice, one after choir practice... No where this nigga not fork this babe, him House, hotel, uncompleted building, Bush, primary school class after school hour,him guy House.... This lady told me things and I just pity her Future husband... To make matter worse,the guy na horse and better womb shifter that she self nor fit do without am... She fit even cry if the guy not give her..

Guess what? This guy was playing the girl and she knew he he was once married but did not care because the guy also promised her marriage.. this guy was the best liar on Earth but this babe not care o, the preek too sweet to leave. Wahala now be say, she nor dey gree wet for the new guy they are planning marriage together, she just try to pretend for the to massage his ego so he won't understand that she is not feeling it.. I wonder how long the both of them will cooe with this after marriage. Dry tow two = Painful sex.. tomorrow my guy will come on nairaland to cry that his wife is not giving him sex, my guy nor know say one bad Kogi guy don dry up all the oil and knock the engine ... So ladies, this is an advice, nor let anybody use marriage damage your tow tow oooo..... Just like this girl, her one body count and sex story pass some girls when get 50 own

omo Lmao

Sandralight:
I have zero body count, I am ashamed of myself

lol you really shouldn't it's a good thing

Oga getat, this is not something a man should be doing... Go nd focus on your hustle brother

Thermodynamics:
I wonder what men see in these type of slim skim girls, nothing attractive here.

you missing out bro infact this one too thick sef LMAO

NovesaTillie:
You married a slay queen like me and you want her to be a full wife Material

You don't have many options now than to make do with the content in the package you came home with.

I like how you've accepted yourself for who you are lmao

The grass ain't greener on the other side, my 2 cents

Icandream:



What's classy about Destiny Etiko and Daniella Okeke? Is it the fact that they don't poo? Is it that their pussy hole is made of gold? Or does it mean that Reno that was born with a silver spoon and brought up in the US has never come across any girl that can be qualified as being classy?

my brother the thing tire me some ppl go just open mouth talk nonsense

DimIsaac10:
Saved my name with next victim and claimed it was a sexy name.

LMAO

Open a business for me, buy me gifts and take Kia of me nd we got a deal

But we all know the opposite will happen

That nose ring gave her away