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Is losing interest in women a problem?

There's nothing wrong in loving someone. Whether the love is returned or not. Actually that's one of the truest and purest of love - The type that stays even if it's not returned. The type that is put into words and actions.

At least in an ideal world. Unfortunately nothing is ideal in Naija and the world at large anymore. That is why Nice Guys are hated and ridiculed, while Bad Boys and hailed as heroes and role models

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Please read careful and learn.

20% of social media users and shoppers have been scammed at one point or the other, either large bucks or small money and It's quite painful.

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1. Screenshot all previous chats across all messaging app (IG and WhatsApp or FB).

2. Write out the Full name and account number of the page or person.

3. Go to the last notification your bank sent you after you made the payment (via mobile app or text) copy out the "TRANSACTION ID NUMBER".

4. Go to any branch of the scam artist's bank (the bank the scammer uses), ask to see the CUSTOMER SERVICE in charge of FRAUD.

5. If you can, print out all those chats with the scammer, and submit it.

While you are there, send an email to SCAMMER'S BANK and copy CBN FRAUD DESK (anticorruptionunit@cbn.gov.ng) this will ginger the bank to take it up fast.

What should you expect from this? The culprit/suspects account will be PLACED ON HOLD. His BVN will be blocked permanently. No account will ever be opened neither will he be able to transact banking business in that name until he clears himself with the bank.

Meaning he/she cannot transfer or withdraw until they visit the bank, and when they do, the bank will contact the police and the suspect when proven guilty will sign a waiver allowing the bank to refund your money.

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Prechgold1180:
Simp don we car

Watch your 'tongue'!

Only guys are allowed to determine, qualify and use that word on a fellow guy.

And for your information, that word is actually used indirectly in a degrading, inferior reference to women.

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grim33:
If you can. Please just let go and move on with your life.

Nonsense.

Chadwick had always been a widely recognised and celebrated actor before his sad demise.

It's true sha

ledaman:
Can you marry such a lady?

No, I won't.

But I'm not him. It's his choice and decision to make and live with.

ledaman:
Am sure you can do such irresponsible Lady two kids with two different men!

I don't understand you

Olatara:
This is enough reason to birthing like a rabbit.
Can you imagine for different men

No it's not. My point is there's hardly any innocent ones left. Men and women.

I'm tired too

Your choice. If it's a situation you can live with.

Even most of the childless ones have had series of sex and abortions in the past.

sageb:
Echoes of hard times.

Do you have the book?

Vyolet:
I thought the woman should be a prize for a man, I mean three different men can ask a woman's hand in marriage with three of them competing with every resource, money, looks, prospects, family background and many others. The woman is the one to choose so how is the man suddenly a PRIZE?

They actually chose you by approaching you. You only have the choice to accept or refuse their proposal.

You also have the option to choose too and let the man accept or refuse. Have you seen the way girls chase after wealthy men and pray he picks them as a partner or wife.

The point is that men have more options in choice of a partner than women. Whatever the case, I don't believe in the prize mentality.

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Una greedy oh.

Hallelujah.

Alexaonfleek:
This isn't a thread to judge,assistant Jesus!!!
She regrets her actions,and has resolved never to do it again
He who is without sin should throw the first stone

No, it's a pity party thread, Where all those who can relate gather to console one of their kind.

goldbim:
I don't want to sound rude but I think you need to take a chill pill..she's not finding it easy right now,don't add to her wound ,please..what she needs is soothing words for now..let's not add to whatever she's going through,please..thanks!!!

I'm not adding to anything. She's an adult not a kid. Speak to her like an adult that she is not like a baby. This wasn't a mistake!

Two adults having sex should know that sex results in pregnancy and be prepared on what to do about the possible pregnancy. That is what I would do. Instead of whining after, putting up a victim mindset expecting consolation for their clear-eyed actions.

Don't encourage or sympathize with irresponsibility.

When you people engage in this sex of a thing and are enjoying it doesn't it cross your mind that a pregnancy could result from it and prepare your minds on what to do about it?

Is it that many of you don't know that raw sex actually results in pregnancy?

Why then do you regret when faced with the result and consequences of the act you willfully partook in, fully aware of all guaranteed outcomes - the pregnancy, the abortion, the baby, the stigma etc.?

Sis, This wasn't a mistake!

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Fellow Kaduna corper. Representing from 2012/13 Batch B.

I camped at Chikun LGA camp. Discipline is very high there honestly.

One time we were all in the parade ground listening to an address by the NYSC state coordinator and some top officials. We became very restless and impatient to leave because of an impending heavy downpour. Immediately they ended the address we hurriedly left the grounds, disregarding all protocols which requires top officials to depart first while we maintain parade formations.

When the rain started pouring heavily and we were all chilling in our hostels, soldier stated going round barking and chasing corpers out into the heavy rain. We were all forced to kneel under the rain thoroughly drenched and shivering. (Miraculously I escaped this)

Another time, some stubborn corpers ignored the lights-out bugle alarm and continued gallivanting in the mami markets until soldiers were forced to storm the market chasing corpers Into their hostel while some corpers ran into the bushes to hide.

The next day on parade ground, after the normal morning routines, all male corpers were separated aside and made to do frog jump round the field until our knees became so sore and painful that we couldnt even stand anymore. Come and see men weeping, wailing and begging for mercy. Some guys fainted and were carried off. We all couldn't walk properly many days after that. And of course, we always made sure to never misbehave again

I think we should respect people's entertainment preferences. Everyone has something they like and dislike. The fact that you don't like it doesn't mean it's stupid or that people who watch them are stupid.

Even sports and championship games that is the rave with many guys doesnt interest me because I find nothing beneficial in them despite all the frenzy and almost religious followership it commands worldwide. Some guys even argue and fight ( and kill ) themselves over it. If anything should be called stupid this should be it. But then I never question championship games fanatics. It's what they love and that's OK.

SweetCunt97:
A very Big NO cos she Generalized which is quite d fallacy.

You don't sleep?

sacajawea:
If you follow my drift, I am talking of Financial Security, not riches per say.
I am not financially free yet and I may never be.
Those owning big houses do they have two heads?

We all want the comfortable life too. They don't have two heads. They were probably just fortunate to be in the right place for some opportunities. Or they tried something that just exploded unexpectedly.

learn to live with what you have while working for something better. You never know where your fortune will come from.

You don't need to be rich

So girls should be sleeping with rich men instead? Be trading sex for money and possible marriage? Good, guys are already using that against you.

Rich men are the biggest philanderers, because they know they have what you girls are desperate for and you will go to any length to get it.

There is really nothing different between you and the young girl then.

You girls are really destroying yourselves more and more with twisted advice like this.