Caracta:

I give up! I'm beginning to think you are a spambot afterall. First, i need you to point out the part that gave you the impression that i generalized.

Then, i need you to go back to my first post on this thread where i told you i am not here to judge you because some of us have probably done worse things. Then you come back an offer an apology for making such stup!d deductions.

Can't you read simple sentences? Huh?

Caracta: Moreover, you have no RIGHT to his money. Stop making it sound like he is owing you. What are you selling biko?

mizzocho.cinco:
how many favours have u rewarded your boyfriend with sex?
He gives pampers, later one you give him the best sex ever!
He buys you flowers and takes you for a nice dinner dat, next day you will go to his house with sexy lingirie and you give him a show?
He tells you you sexy when you dance or when you have that brown weave on... You feel flattered and next thing, you hit it in the bedroom


just because u do it differently, does that mean you should also give yourself a brain?

iropelebe:
If he has the money and it won't affect him he can pay your house rent there's no big deal in that. Just stay true to him and be faithful.
Men do more for women they cherish,they go as far as buying lands,cars and houses.
You can find a time he is in a good mood then ask him for anything,if he cna afford it,he will do for you,if he loves you he will do anything for you. Don't mind all these broke boys writing rubbish,don't mind the girls calling you names as well,they are unlucky girls and they are used to meeting broke boys.

freecocoa: Let's not misunderstand ourselves my love, I never for once said its okay to leech off one's bf, what I'm saying is that partners ask each other for help(monetary\otherwise)so people should quit acting like the OP committed a crime against humanity.

She may have presented her case in the wrong way but then her mentality is one many girls have so people should chill with the name calling, daz all.

mizzocho.cinco:
so long you are aware that the definition of judging includes "to form an opnion of" and "to declare after consideration". You might also have to consult a dictionary before you make your feeble decuctions

mizzocho.cinco:
You still have your girlfriends asking you to do them favours after they cook, clean or spend a good time with you, i believe the same label you are stamping on me is the exact same label you should be stamping on your girlfriend

Men want a woman who can prove themselves worthy before they take her to the alter, a good cook and someone who can make him have a great time in bed, a good and hygienic wife and mother. why can't i have a man prove that he is a good provider before accepting to walk down the aisle for?

Does this mean women have to accept whatever comes their way, whereas women have to be put through some tests before they are considered to be wife material?
Food for thought

Caracta:

No, i won't go down that road with you. I refuse to. I wonder why you even opened the thread because it seems you have it all figured out. You can only be advised, we can't force our opinions down your throat. Your life, your choice honey.

All the best. By the way, you need to read the story of a certain "bed guy" here on NL. We are proud to have you as the "bed girl". What a perfect love story

mizzocho.cinco:
you are still going to continue to claim that you are not here to judge?

Idowuogbo:
To hell with presentation .Sweerie, dat mentality is WRONG! Come on!!! U don't have sex with ur bf and expect him to pay for it do you? U don't have sex with your bf for favours do u? I agree partners do ask each for help, but! When gals like the op start spreading their legs in return for money,dats ashewoism to the power of infinity.

Nimakor:

[b]Who knows what scared off the former 'occupants' [/b]Hehehe.

Nwaa were weight!

freecocoa: I agree with you that sex for favors is a wrong mentality, all I'm saying is that y'all make it seem like what the OP is asking for is unheard of, her only wrong here is thinking he owes her that cos she sleeps with him.

Caracta:

Lol...you don't even know the story yet. Wait o...is it what i am thinking?

Anyway, i say again, "You have no RIGHT whatsoever to his money". If he wants to give you, fine. No qualms. Now, that is my judgement! Happy now?

Arsenate: SMh. and the girl is really serious. really thought it was a joke naija gals are a lose cause.

Men talk about morals when a woman asks them for money but they never do when it comes to sex

Acidosis: ..but Op, are you writting some projects or what?

Seems you're trying to get people's opinion.. questionnaire thingz

mizzocho.cinco:
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now and since men play the role of a provider when is the right time to ask him for rent money, or should i move in with him to save him the trouble?

freecocoa: And all of you saying he owes her nothing must be joking because he owes her many things, like care, love etc, just like she owes him too.

Abeg how do you show someone you claim to care about care? Take it or leave it, one way or another, you spend money to keep your relationship alive, even if its just on calls, I honestly see nothing wrong asking a partner to help with rent if he can afford it and you can't at the moment.

lorretta u:

It's so funny when trying to insult somebody,you end up insulting yourself.
Epic.

mizzocho.cinco:
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now and since men play the role of a provider when is the right time to ask him for rent money, or should i move in with him to save him the trouble?

12 inches!:
Sometimes when I go out to bars alone to maybe eat and have a drink and probably eat, then I see "men" dishing out money and ordering this and that for their gfs just to make them happy. To me it's just dumb because most Naija girls are just not worth it. The average Nigerian girls attitude is a dependent one. You will hear some girls say they cook, they sex, they clean. How many Nigerian girls do that. How many of them even know how to cook. It's always one eatery or the other. Lazy things. With all your make up long nails and brazillian hair a man will always recognize a hoe when he sees one and you my friend the Op have a hoe mentality. No point arguing cos the hoe mentality is not easy to change. And that is perhaps why there is no real love in Nigeria. Love to most Nigerian girls means paying their rent and buying them the latest phone. I was once taken for a ride once. The girl kept demanding and I kept doing. Then she asked for rent and then i thot, Why should I be paying ur rent?
And from that day that was how the relationship gradually went downhill. Everybody should better go and work because money is not easy to make. Lazy asses. You'll seldom hear white girls asking for such. No free lunch abeg

freecocoa: And all of you saying he owes her nothing must be joking because he owes her many things, like care, love etc, just like she owes him too.

Abeg how do you show someone you claim to care about care? Take it or leave it, one way or another, you spend money to keep your relationship alive, even if its just on calls, I honestly see nothing wrong asking a partner to help with rent if he can afford it and you can't at the moment.

mizzocho.cinco:
im glad like you said, you can only advise and you cannot shove it down my throat. Now that you have advised and i did not put your advice into consideration, can you stop shoving it down my throat?

Sunbellar:

Are you willing to sell too?

freecocoa: And all of you saying he owes her nothing must be joking because he owes her many things, like care, love etc, just like she owes him too.

Abeg how do you show someone you claim to care about care? Take it or leave it, one way or another, you spend money to keep your relationship alive, even if its just on calls, I honestly see nothing wrong asking a partner to help with rent if he can afford it and you can't at the moment.

12 inches!:
Sometimes when I go out to bars alone to maybe eat and have a drink and probably eat, then I see "men" dishing out money and ordering this and that for their gfs just to make them happy. To me it's just dumb because most Naija girls are just not worth it. The average Nigerian girls attitude is a dependent one. You will hear some girls say they cook, they sex, they clean. How many Nigerian girls do that. How many of them even know how to cook. It's always one eatery or the other. Lazy things. With all your make up long nails and brazillian hair a man will always recognize a hoe when he sees one and you my friend the Op have a hoe mentality. No point arguing cos the hoe mentality is not easy to change. And that is perhaps why there is no real love in Nigeria. Love to most Nigerian girls means paying their rent and buying them the latest phone. I was once taken for a ride once. The girl kept demanding and I kept doing. Then she asked for rent and then i thot, Why should I be paying ur rent?
And from that day that was how the relationship gradually went downhill. Everybody should better go and work because money is not easy to make. Lazy asses. You'll seldom hear white girls asking for such. No free lunch abeg