fresh_dude: You've been living in a bubble. Why do you think men believe they can have 'any' woman when they have money? How many posts have you seen on nairaland saying "face money-making and women will come when you're successful?" How many girls on here will date a broke guy, hard working or not?
If a guy's financial standing is a determining factor for a girl dating or even looking at a guy, then she's a ho, aka prostitute.
You're quoting love like women know what love is, how many women will date, talk less of marry a man with financial deficiency!
I don't support LovePeddler-mongering but, really, who are we to begrudge anybody their opinion? If people feel all/most women are prostitute, considering the definition of a prostitute, perhaps, women should accept their rightful labels or change their ways.
Btw, I don't think you're of questionable behaviour just naïve.

ronalmagic10: Most men are incontinent. They can put their manhood in any hole under a shirt. It doesn't matter whether the person is an ashaw0 or a friend's sister, mother or a random woman or even a close relation. It's despicable and utterly shameful.

Honestly, I have visited a brothel on two occasions solely out of curiosity and I couldn't even bare to see the kind of men that visit there. How do you enjoy sex with someone who doesn't even care about you. No pre-intimacy, no romance, no kissing etc. Just phockin for as long as you can until you cum. Some people in sexuality section were condemning girls for not accepting cum on their faces. Are they pornstars? Must you act on what you watch in porn videoss and degrade women? Have you no mother or sisters?

Well, everyone with a different view of life so I can't fault anyone.

adorable29:


Yeah.. all asides your mum and sisters! I believe you jare! The females in your family must be really proud of you.

fresh_dude: You've been living in a bubble. Why do you think men believe they can have 'any' woman when they have money? How many posts have you seen on nairaland saying "face money-making and women will come when you're successful?" How many girls on here will date a broke guy, hard working or not?
If a guy's financial standing is a determining factor for a girl dating or even looking at a guy, then she's a ho, aka prostitute.
You're quoting love like women know what love is, how many women will date, talk less of marry a man with financial deficiency!
I don't support LovePeddler-mongering but, really, who are we to begrudge anybody their opinion? If people feel all/most women are prostitute, considering the definition of a prostitute, perhaps, women should accept their rightful labels or change their ways.
Btw, I don't think you're of questionable behaviour just naïve.

pweetixandy: if every gurl is a prostitute,u might aswell start screwing ur sister cos she is one too..right?

ronalmagic10: Most men are incontinent. They can put their manhood in any hole under a shirt. It doesn't matter whether the person is an ashaw0 or a friend's sister, mother or a random woman or even a close relation. It's despicable and utterly shameful.

Honestly, I have visited a brothel on two occasions solely out of curiosity and I couldn't even bare to see the kind of men that visit there. How do you enjoy sex with someone who doesn't even care about you. No pre-intimacy, no romance, no kissing etc. Just phockin for as long as you can until you cum. Some people in sexuality section were condemning girls for not accepting cum on their faces. Are they pornstars? Must you act on what you watch in porn videoss and degrade women? Have you no mother or sisters?

Well, everyone with a different view of life so I can't fault anyone.

Dr2great: never in ur miserable life u ever quote me again.,am i ur mate? Am not in the league of u brats who insult urselves here. Why drag my mum into this? Ur father is a mad man.,foolish girl. Ur toto nor dey sweet again,ur toto too wide,mini ashawo

lorretta u: Really?
So a lady who expects you to be financially upstanding in a marriage/relationship is the same as one who stands by the roadside or lives in a brothel and sleeps with any john or joseph that comes calling?
Don't ladies need to make money too? Men are even being choosy in brides. No body wants a dependent woman. Does that mean all men are gigolos?
Do you need anybody to tell you that the world has changed and everything is monetized. With or without a girlfriend you need to make money to survive on ur own first of all.
So if a lady says she doesn't want to be with a man who's lazy or and can't provide for a family is the same thing as being a prostitute?

Tell me how that works. Yea

Alikaxon: you've said it all. With ur points, Its clear that the op is a prostit.ute herself. Since she was looking 4 a rich guy to finance her dis xmas, she wants money 4rm men, prostitu.tes wants money 4rm men too. What's d difference between her and them in this context. And other girls aswell. This is why rich guys don't respect girls, they know that they re there because of d money(and the silly girls will start crying of lack of love and attention 4rm the men) Isn't it glaring that the op is silly and daf.t? She doesn't know how to think and cogitate all these things. I pity girls, alot of them lack knowledge about us, that's why they behave the way they do.

CFCfan: No need to trade insults, please. The poster that said all girls are hookers, needs to apologize. That was a degrading remark

sweetguy10: I can bet my whatever that the OP's punny is wider than the grand canal of china. Many a time that I've get down with the so called ' decent' girls and even my mom will cry at how huge her punny is. OP pls take a picture of ur puna lets see how 'tight' it is. I know that place smell worse than the deep freezer of a fish depot that's bereft of electricity for a week

Alikaxon: Thank u very much for ur advice. I'll take it. Do have a nice day at work or are u a business tycoon like me?

Dr2great: never in ur miserable life u ever quote me again.,am i ur mate? Am not in the league of u brats who insult urselves here. Why drag my mum into this? Ur father is a mad man.,foolish girl. Ur toto nor dey sweet again,ur toto too wide,mini ashawo

pweetixandy: And d ''Mumu of d year" award goes tooooo *drumroll pls* sweetguy10!!!

ronalmagic10: @ Alikason Guy, I have been following your posts on this thread and I noticed something. You can't differentiate between a prostitute and a girlfriend. The obvious reason is because you had or have a girlfriend who behaves like a prostitute by demanding money for sex but don't make the mistake of generalizing. It's not true at all.

A prostitute collect money and give sex in return without caring for you and your future and life while your girlfriend support you, love you, care for you, share in your dreams and help you become a better person.

As the man, it is natural for you to pay the bills when you go out together. Being that you love and care for her, it is commendable to show your love for her by getting her gifts or something worthwhile on her birthday, Valentine day, Christmas period or whenever you can. It's is not a bad thing to support her financially so that she can look good or to further her education and dreams, if you can.

However, it's wrong to demand sex or any form of intimacy from her. Trust me, sex should be an act of love and reproduction. Forcing her is equivalent to raping her. Be civil

The problem arises when materialistic girls offer sex in exchange for money. Thus, making guys think girls are prostitutes. There's a thin line between gold-digging girls and prostitutes so shine your eyes properly and use your brain

francababy:

from our behaviour it is clear that you dad met ur mum in obalende. and your mum is not even sure which one is ur father

fresh_dude: What you have done is deliberately misquote me and told me I am wrong on something I never said. Show me someone I said ladies should date/marry lazy men.
That aside, you have only gone on to lend credence to my argument. By all means, go after a financially capable man but don't blame the man for having a certain opinion of you especially when he knows you wouldn't be together if he was poor.
And then you say the world is monetised and that I should get with the times, maybe you should also get with the times and accept that guys generally think that women are prostitutes and that might include you. Or you can stop postulating straw man arguments and deal with the facts.
And then, we aren't talking about makinfg money to survive or not, we're talking about, according to you, monetisation of relationships.

Dr2great: mini ashawo,go and die. Una toto nor dey sweet again

hotwax:

May be thats you. There is nothing wrong with prostitutes. They are not different from your girlfriend who have you, a guy on his street, a guy in his office, a guy that buys her credit, a guy she chats with on facebook. Count it how many are they ?

Swiftlee: I had to read these comments and shake my head at what human beings are writing! It is a pity how people some even wanting to be parents are shamefully displaying their folly in the public!! I am sure this is not how your parent lived irresponsible lives! The most amazing part is guys coming up here to call ladies names...with a heavy heart i confirm your conciences dead! I wont blame much cos some came from reckless homes...calling all women/ladies prostitutes and wayward is what i can never accept, because i have lived all my life with women/ladies who are not! Dont ever in your life generalize on women!! If you hate me or my post cos of the truth! Please, Just Go and Die, infact kill yourself!

lorretta u: I don't intend to go on a back and forth arguement with you.
My stand remains
1: I cannot be with a lazy unproductive man.
2: that doesn't make me a prostitute
3: personally I'm not lazy and unproductive I don't see why I should settle for less
4:I still maintain that a prostitute is a woman who has sexzual relations with random men for financial gain. That in no way makes your girlfriend a prostitute for expecting you to be financially responsible. Unless of course she's into random men then we can agree that she's a wh*re
5: this generation of men are becoming fast unproductive, lazy and mediocre hence they are always on the defensive when a lady doesn't want to be with them because of that.
Yea call her a prostitute because she'd rather be with a more aspiring man than you.
6:it doesn't change the fact that we know what prostitution is and we know those who engage in it.
7:if you are truthful to yourself,you'll accept that these men calling all women prostitutes are only trying to make themselves feel good. To try and make it look like going to a brothel to sleep with who*re who has already slept with 5 men that same day is the same thing as having a steady girlfriend who wants you to be financially responsible

Keep decieving yourselves.
I'll believe y'all when you buy a ring go to a brothel and propose to a girl who just finished servicing 4 diff clients.
Abi we are all the same.

When you've done that and married her,then come and tell me again how all women are prostitutes including your wife. I'll believe you then