₦airaland Forum

Pardubice:
Demonic culture...initiating people in marine kingdom.
Jesus is the only way!!!

Who are you calling demonic?

Don't let me evoke sopona to deal with you

Samantha124:
He proposed during sex, but I didn't take him seriously because I thought it was the sex talking until he brought out the ring to me later on...

😳

Well, why do you still have her number?

Jakumo:
Junk food is turning generations of Americans and Europeans into hippopotamuses while Africa boasts of the sexiest and fittest black women in existence. A full 80% of black American women aged 20 to 25 are hideously overweight, while 80% of Nigerian women in that same 20 to 25-year-old age group are so freaking sexy, toned, and fit that it is downright illegal what they can do to a man's heart.

You are absolutely right that the only fat ones among Nigeria's young women are those from rich families raised on junk food, while the vast majority of Nigerian women in their twenties who eat natural healthy food are just amazing to look at.

Yes it mainly a mainly western diet that messes black people up. Heart disease is the biggest killer of black people. But when american black ppl are fit, they look very good.

So i disagree with the OP, the most attractive of our people aren't in Africa. Over here, you can tell an african newbie by just looking at them

emmyN:
Views can change. One may not be attracted to polygamy today but would be tomorrow. What would you do about that?

You still need to tell your wife about the update.

Nothing. Now go and avoid women. Or date another man.

Enugupikin:
This issue of obesity is another thing too. It is very rare to see an obese young gal in Nigeria but most of this breed here are already looking forty while in their middle twenties because of the diet or something. Obesity doesn't fit black people at all

It's the Western diet.

Back in Nigeria, I've noticed it's only the ajebutter kids that are fat.

Biglittlelois:
You will never see single fathers/widowers take care of their kids alone, it's either they push the kids to relatives or quickly marry another woman who will most likely maltreat them, that's why I will forever praise single mothers, they do what no man have the balls to do.

Exactly women aren't comfortable parting ways with their children like men are

And they wonder why fathers days is less popular.

The kids gravitate to who was there for them the most.

They tell each other all the time not to marry a single mother, but this single father is expecting a woman to take him as he is.

dlawsamesq:
I appreciate everyone that aired their view about my post and I think I need to set somethings straight.

1. I am the the type of guy that sleeps around and I will not want to start that now because I lost my lovely wife so the need to take another wife.

2. When I said business is not rosy, I don't mean I am broke, I can take care of my family without blinking, I guess you all know what it means to care for a child that will take nothing less than 13 tins of baby food in a month. I just need her to be sensitive to her own need.

3. I didn't ship my children to anywhere, we are right under the same roof and I cater for all their need.

My conclusion is to leave woman for now. Thank you

I thought you said family is taking care of your baby?

cococandy:
You already know he’s being disingenuous. That’s why I decided to reignite my ignore button on him. He never makes sense anyway

😂

He knew what he was doing.

scribble:
Nobody generally wants a wrinkled punany. Even women don't love ugly. But the kinda way women manage ugly men with money is a sight to behold

Just look at ned nwoko and Regina Daniel or okoya and sade....then since u like this your Mrs. Me too brand of feminism, show us one old married/single woman in Nigeriia that a young man has agreed to bed in holy matrimony

Nonsense and ingredients...when trannys full naija and una no even see the few olosho politicians and daddy's again

Maybe then una go finally get sense. We will see if it's feminists or bible that is lying. Rubbish generation

Most men in Nigeria do not have money. There are not enough rich men to go around. Yet there are still weddings every Saturday.

I'm sure you know an ugly poor man that is married.

GetMeRight:
May be, I wouldn't know that for sure.
But what I was saying is that men in their late 30s stand better chances of finding ladies of great spec than ladies in their late 30s finding men with that kind of spec.

Now, why do you think that is?

GetMeRight:
Your question is logical but we all know who is more likely to find that spec between men and women in their late 30s. It is something that you can't fight.

Are you saying there are more women that are in shape than the men?

KanwuliaExtra:
Why is that Africans exude natural beauty and handsomeness only OUTSIDE AFRICA?

Lol. Because the best looking Africans don't live on the continent.

kayperry:
Yes, example Bobrisky

Bobrisky is not a heterosexual man, you know that.

Jewessgratitud3:
What else would it be than to have slept with them and it's only dumb ladies that fall prey to their evil traps.

Yeah before you remind me that I'm not a married man yes, I know I'm not but let me help a married man I once encountered share his experience.

It happens that he comes around a bar near my sister's school and always saw me whenever I went to chill with my sister watching over her pupils doing after school hours. So he always plays with the kids and bought them goodies a few times. I didn't know I was his target. He later asked me out but deep down I suspected he was a married guy.

Long story short. We exchanged numbers and started talking over the phone. I inquired about his marital status and he said he was married but he wants to make me his smally. That I look like and Indian girl that's why he likes and wants to keep me for himself. I just laughed within me. This one thought I was a small girl. So I planned to eat his money and dump him.

He invited me out with his friends to go and chop ugba and okporoko at Army barracks Senior officers mess. Omoh.. you can't enter there if you don't have a pass. In fact we had to stop by at the one senior Ogas office before going there. That was my first time of eating ugba. He kept ordering for more and more plates and me I was just chewing away until my cheek bones began to hurt lol.. same with drinks but I told him I don't take alcohol and he was so happy and was boasting to his friends that "this my smally doesn't drink" and that he's so lucky to have me.

When uncle wanted to start pressing my hand ( the guy is very fat and hefty) I told him I want to go home that my aunt will be looking for me. ( For where, me that was already in my mid to late 30s living alone.
I got home that day and saved his number as "don't pick".. he called and called I never picked and for that period, I stopped going to my sister's school. He'll go there and be peeping inside the school but can not ask my sister about me. Shame on such married men.

See eh.. nothing dey for married man apart from the fact that they'll spend on you, they don't look appealing like the a single guy. They'll try o but they can't be like single guys that still have six packs, smooth skin and snatched waist.

Exactly. Some women dey try. Oloshos dey try.

Most of these married men are out of shape and overweight

GetMeRight:
Laughing. Married men don't look appealing. May be that's because they're now struggling less to make money. But some married men are still fit due to the kind of work they do or they're working out.
Even if you married a single man today, his "six packs, smooth skin and snatched waist" will eventually change.
But on a serious note, you're in your late 30s and still looking for a single man with "six packs, smooth skin snatched waist". Seriously?

Don't men in their late 30s want a woman with snatched waist and smooth skin?

Why do married men cheat again?

Take note, not only you men are visual!

spiritedtete:
I have been married for 12 going to 13 years now... and I married a feminist she is popular internationally too... and I am not a kid. And she is a great woman. But there is a reality and there is the real reality. When you see beyond your nose you will laugh at how you have been following the matrix of the world. Besides no one can stop me from taking another wife if I want to without divorcing anyone (I say this with confidence)... but it is a personal choice to be with one woman. However men of this age have been played by feminism agenda. And they continue to get played... with the acceptance of LGBTQ and child sex endorsement. In the name of freedom. But polygamy is prohibited.

Long story. Did you tell your wife you're into polygamy?

spiritedtete:
To be honest one man one woman is a big lie.... know this and know reality. If you find yourself sticking to woman big kudos to you. But note that this is not a norm.

Ride on.

As long as you tell your wife you're polygamous from the get go, that would be nice.

Sleekfingers:
I can't be eating rice everyday. I like varieties.

No p. As long as you tell your wife your intentions.

Lol came back with a mixed race baby.

She thought she struck gold just because he's white.

Divesting gone wrong.

This one is looking for a docile doormat.

Shy people are the worst people the mess around with.

They're waiting for their moment. Go ahead👍🏽

Selling all your properties just to get a degree in the UK?

DodadaKoKigbe:
Which Sahel? How many of these Nigerian mooslems have EVER witnessed a sandstorm in Nigeria?

Lol. Part of Nigeria is in the sahel.

DodadaKoKigbe:
The dress he is wearing is the culture of people who live in the dessert of the MiddleEast. The purpose is to protect their eyes and face from dust during dust storm. Someone should ask these stupid mooslems which desert in Nigeria they live at?

Lol the sahel mimics the climate of the middle east, that's why their attires are similar.

Jellof.

BlackAdam65:
you don't know the history of the black race because if you do you would want the black to be the only race of people in the world the same way u do

We wuz kangz and sheit.

DenreleDave:
I know you agree with me.

You are fully convinced.... I don't know why Klass99 is taking long to understand

I don't. I just don't feel like arguing. You seem to be trolling.

DenreleDave:
A man doesn't cheat bcox his wife isn't attractive.. He cheats bcox the ladies out there pressure him too much to cheat

Lol.

DenreleDave:
Men cheat because single ladies are jealous of married ones.. Hence, they want to take their husband and some succeed

You guys need to make your mind up.

Do you cheat because a woman seduced you or because your wife isn't attractive anymore or because you're polygamous in nature?

beardedboy:
"Most people"

- source: Trust me bro.

Are you from a polygamy home? What's your experience?

DenreleDave:
Are you insinuating that all married men cheats on their wives?

Because it seem you have retired to that Fate that hour husband won't be faithful to you because of what some nuisance say on nairaland and what some men does

I'd say 70% of nigerian men are knee deep into adultery. The news of Davido, Banky and Yul's infidelity didn't surprise me. I didn't condemn them for cheating.

My own be say, they should stop claiming polygamy after they're caught cheating. Polygamy isn't done behind your wife's back.

Marrying a beautiful woman or even more than one woman won't change anything.