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Helpfromabove1:
Daddy freeze or pocket freeze or what is that your name again just say you are broke and no money to help and stop this style of attaching it to dry fast as a reason why you can't help

Just tell the guy that you too need help because you are broke and we will understand because Nigeria too is broke and heavy indebted

BluntTheApostle:
These people don't understand what it means to be Christians.

They don't know that Christianity is a model for good neighborliness.

I was a pastor at the time I was in constant confrontation with a noisy church right in front of my house. My landlord always found it hard to believe that a pastor would have a problem with vigils. I told him I didn't have a problem with vigils, but with people who had no empathy.

In the church I pastored, I personally invested in sound proof pads, because I understood that being good neighbors is one of the characteristics of a good Christian. Did Christ Himself not ask us to love our neighbors as ourselves?

But these misinformed Christians don't care about their neighbors. They think that gathering in the name of God exempts them from the admonition to have consideration for others. They will tell you that they are worshipping their God. But what is worship without considerations for the neighbors?

ValCon888:
Have respect for the dead abeg.

damosky12:
Lol. This is all stereotypical bro.

You exalt this "system" ish. There are tons of people with expired visas earning and living in these countries.

People aren't stranded just because of paper works. Thousands of Africa are in UK and USA unable to erk out a living despite working multiple jobs. Even a reasonable percent of their own people too are in poverty.

This is not to say Nigeria is better. But this exaltation of some infallible "system" is a façade. It's not as rosy as it's depicted. It's not even rosy.

NTAChannel5:
That's exactly what I mean. I was told it's less painful and safer albeit more expensive. My fear is due to the size and it's her first time.

DoingBetter:
Someone very dear to me had her clitoral hood removed as a baby. All of them in their family. Including the mom. It was done when they were all babies. It was a tradition in Enugu state because they believed it made a girl unpromiscuous. The joke is that she's married and struggles with libido and orgasms. She's married to a man with high libido too. lol. Luckily, she's proactive and have been vocal about learning in-depth about the female anatomy and how to enjoy sexual pleasure. Last I heard, she's making good progress with clitoral orgasms now and she's learning about the gspot.

Freddonance:
I can see you don't trust the doctor. How is a doctor who knows the clinical details of your wife wrong when he advised you come with her to the hospital? Or were you expecting him to tell you how to treat your wife's diarrhea at home?

Do you know what diarrhea can do to a normal individual not to talk of your wife Who is having an abnormal(twin) pregnancy?

Pls don't misquote me with the term "abnormal pregnancy".
It's just that multiple pregnancy is not a normal pregnancy & needs proper monitoring.

seunny4lif:
I tell you
Someone will need a surgery to fix broken bones but instead of going to hospital to fix it, the person will be brought to church and hoping on miracles to happen.

It’s Nigeria thing

seunny4lif:

Can’t blame them sha because it’s due to bad Rep of our medical professionals

Mercychen:
Why C-Section?

My Mom had us through natural birth.

seunny4lif:
C-Section
Most people I know in Europe, did C-Section.
If you want to give birth here, they will ask you from day one, which one you want?
Normal or C-Section.
Even if you choose Normal, they will have already prepared C-Section for the person in case.

NTAChannel5:
He's a private doc, one that would never answer a simple question over the phone. You'll need to come to the hospital, fill a form and lay your complaint. Two times my wife had diarrhea and we had to come to the hospital and do a blood test. And on those two occasions he recommended ORS. I've asked him and all he keeps saying is 'When we see', meaning I have to come and see him face-to-face again.

I'm not saying C -Section babies are not normal o. I'm just worried about safety of all concerned. You will agree with me that women of nowadays are not as strong as our mothers, they want everything easy. I want it easy too, I love my wife more than I love myself.

As for the twins, I didn't expect it either. I didn't want her to do a scan but after seeing the size of her stomach I had to. And trust me, even though I'm glad to be a 'Papa Ejima' I'm equally worried about the cost. Already, the hospital has told us to buy another round of the very things we bought before for one baby.

Amanee:
Is that why you're deliberately using past tense for people who are still alive?

Shokoloko:
Very wrong of Rosy.

For those who will quote me, I used this verse because both Olakunke, Tonto and Rosy go to church. They all profess to be Christian. The snip below is only for people who profess to be Christians.

phenase:
But there are some people that their immune system is antidote to HIV. No matter what , they can never get it.

slimanyd:
And have u do well to inform those 2 flings of ladies u had sex with to go for text aswell ? U no show love at all. Did you how many more of people they will have transmitted the virus too? U did the worst thing by not curbing the spread at the earliest time or saving those 2 girls u had sex with to also start taking there drugs or go for test ASAP.

AnanseK:
In the North they marry 12 year old girls. In the South the just Fvck them.
I wonder who are the pedophiles .

Deadmonkey:
Now, nobody will pour hatred on Christianity for this man's Wahala. They will only blame the man and not his religion.

If this is were to be someone from Kano, they will forget about the man and blame his religiou, Islam.

Baawaa:
It
Case closed

Datboredberry:
The redpill ish started in the West...

Megabig:
Devastated, worried and I lost weight in just 4 days because I was thinking. Nearly ended my life because I didn’t understand how that happened. I only had sex three times in my life at that time. Once in SS1 with condom and twice the pervious year(first year in school). I felt so stupid, like how can I be positive, how will my life transcend from there and I came from a poor family, the shame it will bring to my family and stuffs. It was a painful experience. I was planning to travel to onitcha from my school in two weeks before I decided to attend that confession in that Catholic parish because I needed someone to talk to, I knew the priest is the only person that can listen because they sit on the other side and just listen to peoples voice and not see who is speaking so it was a nice idea for me to go speak to him. His initial approach saved me. When I said I was positive, the said and so what? Is that all? Wait after confession. It’s nothing to worry about and that’s it. I think that point changed certain things about the way I was thinking about it

kponkedenge:
Just curious, I thought someone who's positive would be denied entry to US after your medicals shows you're positive.

Megabig:
Can happen but when they gradually get ill and still not know, they of course reduces the immune system and they can go down too. The best thing is to know and take charge of it. That’s why people should avoid being infected in the first place, if infected, the person should better know and take charge of his or her life

babzo:
People don't seem to realize the number of possible besides sex that cause HIV.

Before the 90s and even till late 90s, hospitals share syringes for patients. It was 90s, they started boiling them before re use.

But how is one sure, the nurse probably boiled the syringe.

Also barbing saloons that used same clipper for many people without properly cleaning.

Deicide:
So are your parents still in the dark about your HIV status?