sassysure: The person wey give am belle don leave am to hang. Most ladies that travel to these countries are in a prostitution ring. They will tell you they are doing housemaids jobs. It's a very big lie. Somebody promised to help her out and maybe proclaimed love but abandoned her when she got belle and with belle no or few customers.
As her husband died 2018, she no join market women and start selling with little or no capital.
HuntSon: How can you feed something you don't have? Make it make sense!
Keep on pleasing these heteros let em control your mind to do what they want you to be. I've gotten to this stage before so I'm not bothered about your lame defenses.
I just hope when you come to realization with yourself, you wouldn't have done something you can't forgive yourself for.
That's what I'm saying. He was never gay to begin with.
I am a 22 year old and i identify as exclusively heterosexual and live actively heterosexual sex life but recently i have begun to find other women attractive and notice them. I dont get hot or anything, i just notice the attractive face, the body, i look a little bit longer than usual, have dilated pupils. Even on my instagram, i notice the women more BUT I DONT GET HOT. I have never considered myself homosexual except some girl crushes in secondary school.
Could this mean i could be not straight since i find these women attractive and want to glance longer?
Durentt: I lived an active homosexual life for 6 years age 14 - 20 (pornography, fantasy of relationship with same sex, masturbation thinking of same sex, and 1 sex experience with the same sex, 1 sex experience with the opposite sex). All these while suppressing my heterosexual aspects.
I thought i was born gay due To my childhood effeminacy (see the thread on my profile).
But then i decided To make lifestyle changes and stop watching those porn videos for weeks now and I started To imagine myself with the opposite sex. Together WITH PMO (porn,masturbation, orgasm) program support.
I am not totally free of homosexuality urges but it is going away, i believe with time i would be free.
Just like the op is wondering, If i can see a woman and admire her face or body even a little and look at her longer, then why can i have an active romantique and sexual relationship with her? Some people are more inclined To act on homosexuality but it is definitely a choice even To these people.
I am not religious or whatever but i believe what made me gay was liking the idea of that lifestyle and gay pornography.
One more thing: people who love the homosexual lifestyle, see nothing wrong in it are susceptible To act on it.
Deicide: is Nigeria an advanced country? Please use your head b4 talking rubbish, I made my point based on how Nigeria is now or how else Do you want them to get evidence?
Haha it takes people time to speak out because of shame and stigma? But suddenly that shame goes away when the person they are accusing becomes successful? Or the shame goes away when there is a trend like this? What happened to that shame and stigma now that's she is speaking up?
Did you watch the documentary?
Are ALL the ppl that have been accused of rape popular and successful?
You think they don't still feel shame and stigma while still reporting?
Deicide: yes! to educate the ladies on what to do after they have been raped and not wait after 10 years or whatever to speak out or after the person is successful. Also educate them that they should shut the f up if they don't have evidence.
Go figure out how they do it in advanced countries. You're talking from ignorance
Watch this documentary and see how this elderly pedophile was convicted for abusing a child over 30 years ago!!
Another man was convicted for abuse over 3 years ago!
And I hope you learn why it takes ppl time to speak out, because of the shame and stigma