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Happytravels:
My husband is extremely caring and loving. He tries his best for me. And I try my best for him. I am a white lady and he is Nigerian. I take care of him and he always talks so fondly of me to all his friends and everyone around him. They tell me he truly loves me like crazy and that he would do anything for me.


But today I saw a side I never did see before. I found some casual flirting online from his side.on his phone. I became mad and angry. I I put his phone down forcefully. But thank God it did not break. I then shut myself in the bathroom with my husband's phone to look at it more .. he broke the door to get in. Because I would not let him in. He yelled at me alot and was very angry. He then threw the phone at my face and really hurt my nose... But after some time he cried and begged that I please stay. That he truly loves me and is shocked that he would ever hurt me. That he has never hurt a woman before in his life .. he begged and held me tightly so I could not leave and would not stop saying he loves me and that it was not his character at all. I have been with this man 2 years online and 5 months in person. We married so I could stay here with him and gain residency and help him. One day raise a family. He was very shocked and hurt by hurting me. I and I felt bad with my attitude that provoked him to such extreme. Never in my life expected this from such a gentle man who is so loving towards me and kind.


Should I forgive him and forget about all this and apologize? Or should I leave?

You have natural hair, you are fit, feminine friendly. You are also co-operative and submissive.

What could have gone wrong? WW & BM are a match made in heaven.

tishbite43:
The autopsy is the problem of LASG and NPF
Call them out
If you want a thorough investigation into Mohbad's death, you should support this DNA thing
Except, of course, if there are things I don't understand

Tell me, how will a DNA test determine how he died?

tishbite43:
Does it matter?
Wetin concern autopsy and DNA test?
The lab people will just get the samples they need.
It is too easy
The son, Mohbad's father and maybe his mother will all be tested for comprehensive results

Why are they not releasing the autopsy results? Why have you all jumped to DNA instead of being concerned with what killed him to begin with? Yall are wild.

tishbite43:
DNA samples would be gotten from his corpse
That's not rocket science

The same corpse that they are yet to release the autopsy results for? Okay.

Nasty girl, I'm not surprised.

Since when did you become ugly?

Antiislaam:
For those of you asking for AntiChristian, the boy is no more

?

Stop lying. They engage in pre-marital sex, they just know how to cover their tracks.

Every other day this same topic on hausa girls

@AntiChristian will marry them all.

immortalcrown:
Hmmm!

Did any of your parents live that kind of youthful life? If no, I suggest a DNA test first but your mother might not like the idea.

😂

Rokiat:
That is luxury to people? Interesting very tacky and cheap looking Interior to me.

The only thing I like there is the barack rouge 540 and Yara perfume.

It's luxury for Nigeria lol

DevilsEqual:
Agnostic god? Albert Einstein say same too
Is that a real entity too?

Well, I don't know how anyone would feel o,used to see it on twitter where some women keep asking people to prey to their pretty feet,that it could grant people's heart desire and ive seen people bowing down and praying to women's feet.... that's why i tried it out


I printed out your feet pic and I bow to them,
making my requests at 5am every morning and 9pm every night

I got my long term desire in three weeks

I've gotten what to worship and I hope it's allowed

Well

banks:
But it's the death that brought up DNA na. It will only point to the direction of the suspect. Not only verydarkman says it, Ahmed Isah (Ordinary President) of Brekete family too said it. If you claim that you love your husband and you want to know what killed him, and you are told that doing DNA will point to the direction of the killer, won't you willingly and quickly do it?

DNA will not determine who killed him, an autopsy will ! What are you on about?

What does it taste like? It looks like something I would eat

DevilsEqual:
Anyway, I've come to share a testimony o

Been praying to your feet pic every morning and night since three weeks now(I recently switched to doing that and to see what happens), while making my request for a promotion assessment at my job known to your feet


Was confirmed on 15th, yesterday 😭😭😭


I could drop a screenshot of the document if u doubt me

I'm glad I've seen what to worship

Thanks a lot to your feet(The feet pic u uploaded first, around first week of March, was the very pix that did the miracle me)for granting my heart desire of 4months

Well what can I say? I guess my agnostic god answers prayers 🤣

Congrats

But how will your brothers take this? Praying to a woman's feet ?

Beremx:
don't mind that one. He should ask his mom for DNA first. He's hurt because I mentioned his mother. The werey opened a thread to call me out and he shamelessly deleted it when he got no response.

Ndi ara

🤣

Abi o. Where was the offense there? You asked a simple question. If they are getting offended, they should now understand how Wunmi is feeling.

All this for corn?

Corn was introduced by the Portuguese to Africa through the columbian exchange. Even scotch bonnet was brought by the Portuguese.

Orlu13:
oga just go abeg...simple English comprehension u can't comprehend...I was thinking I was talking to a reasonable person self

Simply say you can't answer. Bunch of hypocrites.

Pecoleee345:
Anyway since is clear you want to be mischievous and drag nonsense this will be my last response to you

My question isn't an insult and only a fool will be trigger by what I asked.
My Mum respect her mother so she can never disrespect another person mother.

I didn't ask her to do DNA test neither did I ask mobad wife to do DNA...... if your own Mother will go about insulting people Mother cos they asked a stranger to do DNA test that you and her business.

Finally your client you are advocating for have been ban if it really pain you can unban her so she can speak for herself.....

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Your mother isn't like that ofcourse. We know!

Isn't Mohbads wife somebody's mother?

Orlu13:
smh...every little thing u guys will call someone's mother and yet u will say nairaland is misogynistic... no concise counter statement , u guys jst dive into yo mama name calling

I don't have time fr dat...personally if my dad ask my mom to do it reasons best known to him, I will reinforce it and tell her to do it as well...becos it's my right to know if my dad is really my dad and if I'm not in d wrong family...

sentiments aside, u aren't only doing d man a favor but also the children becos they ought to know...u women can support anything blindly just becos it's ur gender

I'm sure u watch investigative movies and even in real life cases in saner climes, u see when DNA tests are done in issues like this..but no issues, keep pretending and supporting ur gender blindly

I said nothing negative about your mother, I asked a simple question. Or are you indirectly implying asking your mother to do a DNA test is misogynistic?

What would be your mother's reaction if YOU asked her to do the test?

When Mohbad was alive none of you shouted about DNA, you only followed suit when VDM brought it up. Why is nobody rightfully asking about the autopsy results any longer? Why are widows never innocent when their husbands die?

Orlu13:
I knew dat women had fish brain on a normal but I didn't know urs would degenerate like this...u women don't reason at all or maybe u guys try to dodge things

u guys always complain dat men cheat every time but once DNA is mentioned, u ladies will start sweating and talking incoherently..

so many of u watch investigative movies and sci-fi but don't learn anything from there...

men should be careful of ur kind of woman

Yen yen yen. Pls answer the question. What will YOUR mothers reaction be?

Pecoleee345:
What kind of dumb question is this.

Cos I don't know what you trying to justify.

The post is about mobad wife......she went on bringing people mum into all the people she was quoting and I asked her why is she seeing DNA test as an attack?? She replied **ask your mum*** isn't that stupidity??

Is she the one asked to do DNA test

She is right. YOUR MOTHER will not act any differently to Mohbad's wife.

Why is nobody rightfully asking about the autopsy results? Why have the changed the narrative and made his wife the centre of attention?
Why are widows never innocent in Nigeria?

You people have even started on Junior Pope's wife !

Pecoleee345:
Maybe you need to get your glass on and read slowly.


Did I ask her to do any DNA test Well is easy to know those raised badly sha.

Spin the narrative to suit you......am glad the mods have done the needful.

I asked, if YOUR was told to do a DNA test what would be her reaction?

Pecoleee345:
My question was.......why do you see DNA test as an attack?

She replying to me ***ask your mum** is highly foolish and stupid of her.

If you telling me that isn't an insult then your mum is worthless to you.

She is correct though. If your dad asks YOUR mother for a DNA test, won't she see it as an attack?

toujurs:
Eye service, go and do DNA. And shame those who are asking for it..

Nigerian women, don't you all have shame, that it has gotten to this level, that men can't trust, the child you gave birth to, belong to him.

This is a disgrace..and so low of Nigerian women. You all can do better.

I get so pissed when i read, too many news on paternity fraud.

Why is it that you DNA people didn't say all this when he was alive? Why after his death?

When a man dies Why do people always change the narrative and make their wives out to be the problem? Why are widows not allowed to grieve in peace in Nigeria?

MADAM, you can't cheat nature.

You're lucky the punch wasn't fatal

papyjaypaul:
You are the one fueling the idea. Even if they had the thought, you can do well not suggesting it. It's not everything we have in mind we say outside but welcome to the internet where people post as it comes to their minds, just because THEY CAN

Tell that to this colleague of Junior pope. JP was ready to spill the beans on the intricacies of his marraige but unfortunately died the very next day.

How convenient!

Im sorry, when people don't pay their tent, what do they expect to happen?

And graduated since '05? And still basking in past glory?

VinnyBaba:
SHUT UP.

Nobody has brought anything like this.

You are the one Bringing such Nonsense Ideas.

You didn't see this or you want to be unfortunate?

https://www.nairaland.com/8061512/sad-moments-jnr-popes-children#129440441

hammer567:
Too much Nollywood is affecting her brain or she is just a tribal biggot.

How can u know another man culture more than your own?

It's funny how I never mentioned tribe but you want to make it about yourselves. Does the shoe fit ? By they I meant Nigerians as is being done to Mohbad's wife right now.

Look at the I tweet posted above

saphiere:
We Igbos are not like that o.

Dey play. Look at this tweet:

I'm watching.

They're going to rope Jnr popes wife into his death and end up asking for a DNA test. They are somehow, going to make it her fault.