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Nonexisting1:
But you said a priest will never snitch. You are contradicting yourself now.

Okay they snitch

Nonexisting1:
You are naive. Priests abroad are steadily used by security agencies. I agree this is fake because his crime is not worth snitching on. Go and confess to a priest in UK that you're on interpol list of wanted persons and see if you won't get caught right there in the church.

That is different. Being an illegal immigrant is sort off on the civil side.

Smitaro100:
Ok. But what makes you think it's fake?

As said before, a priest will never snitch.

Smitaro100:
What I meant was that; maybe d man confessed to the priest thinking he is going to use his influence as a priest to help him get an asylum.

No, story is fake

Only the right man deserves this.

Smitaro100:
If it truly happened, how is it even funny to her? 🙄 although I blame d man tho.. guess he was thinking after confessing he will be granted asylum, such a pity.

Priests don't grant asylum and a priest will never do this.

Omoawoke:
This is a case of a woman who was raised and sponsored abroad by her husband, paid everything and taking care of her. He didn’t hit her, he was provoked to act…. Most times it’s even the men that suffer the emotional abuse until a man begin to go crazy….
She knows she did the guy dirty, because I know she doesn’t sleep well at night without being tortured by guilt. Well she was pushed by her useless friends and now she’s all to herself suffering depression quietly.

Lol, you know until this happens to someone very close to you, maybe your loving dear brother… that’s when you will feel the pain.
I know no amount of argument can convince you otherwise. Experience they say is the best teacher. You may still have sons as children someday. You will learn. Mark this down.

Yeyn yen yen..

Fortunately, nothing fails like curses.

Omoawoke:
Let me use my uncles case as an example.
This is a man that we know him as mister Gentle. The call him fridge. You know why, because if you put water in his mouth, you go meet am there. He’s that calm.
Do you think we are referring to Lagos agberos and street yahoo boys. These men that suffer this fate are mostly the calm ones, the ones who want to build and raise a good family.
In Nigeria, his newly married wife was the “our wife” type. She does the cooking, homely, respectful and all. Now when baba moved to US, he arranged for her to come. The first few months was okay, and gradually she began to derail. That’s why I said you only see imported Nigerian girls doing that, they get intoxicated by the system. We are not whites, we are Africans and it’s African for a woman to do cooking, kitchen stuffs, be submissive and everyone is fine. The Asians are even more controlling and when their wives arrive, they continue.
But the Nigerian babe began to form, no please go and do your cooking, no body is tied to the kitchen. From small small nagging to little quarrels. Then later she began to dress American standard wearing revealing clothes. Uncle go dey tell am, you can’t wear that outside, she will say, this is America, you think you are in Nigeria? I have my rights and can wear anything I want.
Babe stopped doing kitchen stuffs, she will tell the husband to go cook if he’s hungry, and any small thing. Next na this is America, you think you are in Nigeria?
The day the problem started, she dressed up the American way as usual and was going out, no food to eat at home. Uncle could not take it and locked the door and said she’s not going anywhere, she started raising alarm, she dialed 911 and told them that her husband has imprisoned her at home and she’s suffering emotional and psychological trauma. Well the evidence was there, she was locked in, they saw the way the man was so angry and shouting at her.
That was the beginning of his downfall.
And other similar stuffs happened after that again and before you know it, he was sent homeless and began to live in one room in a cheap area.
Hope you get it, there are no 100% good men, we agree and at the same time, there are no 100% good women. And your gender from Nigeria are notorious for doing this. The worse thing is that he lost his job because of the whole issue.


But karma is a bitch, the lady is still in the US and she’s afraid of returning to Nigeria because people are waiting for her. She lost someone close to her some months ago, she did not still show up.
She knows what’s coming for her if she enters Naija, she is practically imprisoned in her own world

you cannot hold someone against their will like they're a child !

You guys only remember africaness when it suits you, it's not african to take up your husbands surname after, but I don't see you guys complaining. Abeg.

Xerxes007:
Entitled pieces of shite

Hey dusty

Beverlyjean:
U are really far behind ...u really have alot to learn

Okunrin. Is that all you can say

Roger3D:
Or rather she's got something to hide

Nathaniel Bassey had something to hide too? Neither of them will give you that satisfaction. You can keep speculating, they won't give you the response you want.

Beverlyjean:
Certainly, men will be more in prison because physical violence tends to send u to prison than repute damage .... women are usually treated with soft hands for commiting same crime that men commit ... a woman will easily claim self defense for murder compared to a man ... there are lots of other indices that make men more incarcerated than women in prisons, not just physical abuse...

What the hell is repute damage?

Since you believe women are treated with 'soft hands' shouldn't that give you( yes you, I know you're not a woman) more of an incentive to stay out of crime? It is men's testosterone that predisposes men to violent tendencies. That's just nature. It's not always a bad thing, it's helped them conquer their society

Well violence is physical abuse and it's relevant to what we're discussing. Other indices are not relevant.

Beverlyjean:
I agree with u ...women are more violent than men, but when men react , they claim victim... according to Dr Jordan Peterson ( a renowned psychologist in Harvard) men tend to deal with anger through physical violence because men are built that way , and women also deal with anger , but through destruction of reputation and emotional damage towards another , and women tend to become physically violent when they are physically more dominating that the other person. This is why women tend to be physically violent towards kids . And he also said women tend to loose control easily, due to their emotions because we are emotional beings .

No. Women are not more violent than men. Check prison statistics.

I wonder why these kind of topics only make FP on a Sunday? Even though I'm not a Christian, it's just not fair.

You wouldn't see a Muslim topic like this on FP.

iLegendd:
If she's good in bed, she's wayward. Who taught her? Jumping around taught her.

A man needs a woman with a tight vjay (like my Asian ex) that can give his Johnson a good grip and must be vibrant. He'll teach her how to be good in bed. I taught her the rest.

So, every sensible man will go for good cook with a tight vjayjay. He'll teach her sex at home. Instead of being good in bed, but can't cook and you spend money sending her to a catering school where she'll still end up sleeping with ALL the male caterers and her boss.

Oh, for women, they'll prefer the opposite of what I wrote. A man who's great in bed, but average in kitchen. If he's good at both, fine, but the bedroom game is more important to her.

A hungry man is a malnourished angry lion.

Case closed.

Waffle.

So why is she your ex if that's a priority for you.

Why are they called victims for seeking revenge? Do you say the same thing to men that were victims of paternity fraud?

Most Nigerians believe in violence to solve problems. I think it's hypocrital for these women to complain about being beaten by their husbands when they do the same thing to their kids or house girls.

Infact..make everybody just gerrout

amdoyin82:
Good question question... Thought of it too

There is this thing called ferries.

Roger3D:
She ought to do the DNA if she's got nothing to hide

No. She doesn't want to allow herself be controlled by those bullies. She doesn't want to give them that satisfaction.

babyoy:
I like VDM for many reasons:
1) He is bold
2) He does not give up easily.
3) Yes, he had a past, and he has admitted that what he did then was not ok.

We should learn to stand for the truth. If we all mind our business and don't speak out, then we should not complain when our future generations, start getting confused on what is right and what is wrong.

Once gay, always gay.

There is nothing like " I was gay in the past"

This very dark man is a hypocrite.

noble2faith:
I should be the one asking you to explain the comment you attached to my quote.

Someone said Indian couples do not divorce like Nigerian counterparts. I said Indian couples would never try such because of the several deities they worship there.

Pls explain how their religion plays a part.

As far as I know, Indian women are scared of being alone.

Jman06:
I never implied that doing domestic chores makes one a slave, but from response to the post, you seemed to justify the woman's attitude of disrespecting her husband on the ground that he might not have got a job. So, I was wondering if it's now okay for the partner who works and makes the money to disrespect the other who's not working.

Well you said the husband is being turned to a domestic slave just because he is cooking Egusi soup. If he is not working, isn't it right that he helps around the house? Some of you act like it's blasphemy for a man to do anything domestic.
No I don't think it's right for him to be disrespected, but when a man isn't working and the woman is, neither of them are in their element and neither of them are happy.

If they say Mary Slessor stopped the killing of twins, then I fully believe it. Africans demonise/spiritualized things they don't understand.

If you read extra-biblical books, you'd see that Adam wasn't even the first man either.

Jman06:
So, what you're saying is that any partner who doesn't have a should be treated with no respect and made to become a domestic slave No gender being exempted?

Answer o, because the double standard you ladies apply these days when it comes to relationship with men is nauseating to state it mildly.

According to some Nigerian men, they can act as they wish(including cheating) because they provide and pay all the bills. Based on that logic, when they lose their job do they still have those privileges?

And are you indirectly saying women that do these things are domestic slaves

If a man doesn't have a job, shouldn't he help around the house or what kind of arrogance is that?

ComeToJesus:
So, in your estimation, women only behave that way when yhe man doesn't have a job..

What a viewpoint..

The guy earns more than her..

Yes. I don't believe that. You said she stays for two weeks and cooks just once. Where does she go after those two weeks?

newnigeriannew:
I had a similar experience in London too with an Ijebu wife.

Wasn't she ijebu when you married her?

ComeToJesus:
No marry any woman wey no know God o, as in intimate knowledge of God. I don't mean regular sisters you see in church, but a virtuos woman who sees the man as her crown and knows that the husband is her master and her lord.

My cousin dey hear am also...the wife can stay for two weeks and make food only once. Na. The guy dey enter kitchen dey blend egusi steady, and after preparing the food, he'll go and call her to come and eat. She'll be pressing her phones and video calling her kith and kin in Nigeria.


If the guy goes out without her permission, that day, he has priced trouble. Dude told me he regrets taking her abroad. I mean, she has the final say in every matter. Who does that?

Does he have a job? I'm sure he doesn't doesn't! No woman would treat a man that is protecting and providing like this.

If she can work, why can't he?!

Mubiola360:
if I should offer you a candy wrapped and unwrapped and was asked to choose one, which would you go for and why?

Women are not candy.

chatinent:
But who drove humankind out of paradise Eden? Samson or Delilah?

Grow up. Samson and Delilah didn't exist.

bullabong:
It all depends on a mans level of self care and not geographical position. Don't forget that the Caribbean islands are all holiday destinations which hosts millions of rich visitors yearly and a gigolo has to look good to make a good catch.

You sound like a hater lol, they look good period.